Boundaries with Teens: When to Say Yes, How to Say No

Boundaries with Teens: When to Say Yes, How to Say No

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Helping Your Teen Be Responsible and ResponsiveThe teen years can be challenging and even scary for parents and those involved with youth. Attitudes and behaviors of the adolescent can be unhealthy for him and for the family. However, good boundaries are the bedrock of not only better relationships, but also maturity, safety, and growth---especially for teens and their par...more
Hardcover, 284 pages
Published February 1st 2006 by Zondervan Publishing Company (first published January 20th 2006)
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Andrea
As a teacher in the public schools, I see more and more how parents are fearful of being parents to their young, emerging teens. This book is most helpful.. you can select the topic of the chapter that is urgent at a specific time and receive wise counsel on handling those challenging situations with your teens. Whether it's driving, money, homework or a variety of other topics, they are discussed with kindness and practical suggestions on how and why to set boundaries. A word to parents of teen...more
Sandy V
Loved it -"Your teen needs your help to become a person whose word means something for then he will be happier & his relationships will be healthier as well" "Provide your child/teen with as many experiences involving love, grace, safety, stucture & correction as you can. The involved parent can truly make a positive difference."
Cindi P.
Aug 19, 2012 Cindi P. is currently reading it
Reading now...looking for some hints on how to work with junior high kids in a way that will help them develop their own healthy boundaries heading into adulthood. What a concept! Seems like a worthy attempt to give them tools to make sense of their lives. I hope this book helps equip me.
Dani
I didn't realize that the book had a lot of biblical scripture. It was a nice surprise! :) Either way, I feel that even taking out the biblical references, this book is applicable to all parents.
Alicia
This was a very helpful parenting book! If I'd read this 4 years ago, I would have set it aside and said it was just common sense that any parent knows. But now that my twins are nearly 17 and want complete freedom, this book was perfect for our situation. It helps answer the question, "Where should I loosen the reigns and in what areas should I stand firm?"
Stephanie Broyhill
Awesome book for parents. I used this book in foster parent training. Great read for every parent.
Marissa Joyce
easily the best parenting book I have ever read... and I went to counseling school- so I read a LOT!
Alison
I thought this book was extremely helpful in understanding the teenager stage and how to survive it.
Kathy
I'm a therapist and this is my very favorite parenting book. I recommend it all the time.
Rose
Maybe it gets a little redundant, but has some wisdom to share.
Antiniqua Bradby
started but haven't finished. Good book so far
Kamuran
Bu gune kadar okudugum en yararli kisisel gelisim kitaplarindan biri..Sinirlari o kadar guzel anlatmis ki kendinizi daha iyi hissediyorsunuz..
Antiniqua
I loved that book. Taught me alot
Pam Howell
Highly recommend this book. Practical
Julie
Nov 01, 2012 Julie added it
Very, very helpful.
Susan
Great advice for public school parents of teens with a supportive, dedicated church, good schools with dedicated teachers, caring counselors, and - at least- a middle class income. For all those who don't have that framework...well, there are a still a few decent tips worth digging out.
Kathryn
Overall good book, great to read and reread for perspective. I just walked away from it overwhelmed. There is so much I want to do to keep a strong relationship with my teen now and my other boys when they get to be teens.
Heather KS
It was ok, but the advice was pretty wishy washy. It is a good supplement to other parenting books, but alone I didn't think it would work for me.
Suzanne Cano
I found this book particularly helpful!
Glomom2000
This is an excellent self-help book for anyone trying to raise teen-agers.
Karla
Good for parents, nice advice for getting to know us kids.
Anne Sleeman
Excellent book. Good, practical recommendations.
Haydee
Helped me be a stronger mom.
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Sep 01, 2008 Lisa marked it as to-read
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