Farm Boys: Lives of Gay Men from the Rural Midwest

Farm Boys: Lives of Gay Men from the Rural Midwest

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Homosexuality is often seen as a purely urban experience, far removed from rural and small town life. Farm Boys undermines that cliche by telling the stories of more than three dozen gay men, ranging in age from 24 to 84, who grew up in farm families in the Midwest. Whether painful, funny, or matter-of-fact, these plain-spoken accounts will move and educate any reader, gay...more
Paperback, 360 pages
Published March 15th 1998 by University of Wisconsin Press (first published 1996)
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David
Well, at least I'm back to reading, perhaps. Ang Lee had his 'Brokeback Mountain' leads read this before filming. I can certainly see why. For someone like myself - transplanted from the east coast - 'FB' is an illuminating read. The reasons for not coming out in the midwest do differ in some unexpected ways. But it's not surprising at all that all of these guys grew up in an environment in which homosexuality simply was not mentioned - or, if it was, it was thought of as that which dare not spe...more
Heidi Cullinan
I read this book as research for a story I wanted to write, and it completely changed not just the book I was researching but my perception of Midwestern gay men in general. I think this book also single-handedly turned me from a gay rights empathizer to a full-blown LGBT advocate. The pain revealed by the men in this book, all true stories, broke my heart and got me off my chair and into the One Iowa volunteer corps.

Most fascinating (and hopeful) is how vivid the progression through the genera...more
ILANA
True stories from gay boys growing up on farms. Painfully true. My sister had to read it for a class and hated it. I picked it up because, really, gay cowboys could never be bad. I was shocked by the honesty and shamelessness of these stories. It's refreshing.
Katy
I picked this up because my cousin and his partner were one of the stories told in it...ended up reading the whole thing! A really interesting exploration of what it was like for real-life gay men growing up in rural areas, from the 1930s all the way up through the 1980s. Glad to see how much more accepting of themselves they became as the book progressed chronologically. Fascinating!
Arlie
Just call me Connie. (Sanders) I'm in the youngest of the three cohorts by decade.

And yes, Ang Lee gave Jake Gyllenhaal and Heath Ledger a copy of this book to read at the recommendation of Annie Proulx!

From IMDB: "Director Ang Lee gave Heath Ledger and Jake Gyllenhaal copies of the book, "Farm Boys: Lives of Gay Men from the Rural Midwest", by Will Fellows, a book that had been mentioned by both Annie Proulx and Diana Ossana as an excellent reference source, to help them understand their char...more
Peter
Good, but somewhat monotonous after awhile. Interesting insights into the rural culture and men transitioning (often) to city life. I have a lot of farm relatives so this gave me food for thought.
Tjlerkin
excellent
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