Just Checking: Scenes From the Life of an Obsessive-Compulsive

Just Checking: Scenes From the Life of an Obsessive-Compulsive

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We all worry. We all have moments of unfounded dread (Is someone behind that door?), or little phobias (roaches) or superstitions (step on a crack) that we indulge. Just Checking is an autobiographical account of what it is like to live with a full-blown case of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), which, at its height, finds author Emily Colas nervous that she will contra...more
Paperback, 165 pages
Published June 1st 1999 by Washington Square Press
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Stephanie
Apr 28, 2012 Stephanie rated it 1 of 5 stars Recommends it for: No one
Recommended to Stephanie by: Random Purchase
I picked up this book at a Goodwill, so I didn't spend much money on it. I am so glad! It is described as "laugh-out-loud hilarious". It also seemed interesting. OCD has always fascinated me, and I've been hooked on memoirs where people overcome obstacles in their lives. I wanted to like this book. There were a few things that kept me from enjoying it.

*Possible Spoilers*

I enjoyed the first quarter of the book. After that, it felt to me that Colas had a lot of people in her life that enabled her....more
Nenia Campbell
I don't think there was anything "heartbreaking" about this story. I actually found the author to be pretty repulsive. It's pretty clear that her mother had OCD, and that her parents' separation likely resulted from her mother's odd whims--a grim foreshadowing of her own future relationship problems.

Not that I'm insensitive. As a Psychology major, I've been well-instructed in the devastating impacts that all mental disorders can have on every day life. OCD, in particular, can have a huge impact,...more
Harkinna
Erica, my sister, tells me that she thinks I have an anxiety problem. What does that mean? I worry too much.

Personally I think I have got a pretty good handle on things. There are two categories: things you can control and things you can’t. If it falls into the former, I worry, if not, I don’t. Easy. But a lot of things fall into that first category. What can I control? I don’t really know.

My aunt thinks I worry about Grammy too much. Erica has given me that lecture too.

I am reading Just Checkin...more
Anne
'Just Checking' is a series of vignettes that are honest, startling, at times very funny yet also deeply emotional. Emily relates her journey through life, from incidents during childhood, to the present day - along her journey she has been accompanied by the symptoms of Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. These symptoms and this disorder have shaped Emily's whole life and her personality.
It is apparant from the writing that Emily is an intelligent woman, she realises that her thoughts and actions ar...more
Iliana Medrano
This book is basically life through the eyes of a women suffering from OCD from little things like washing the dishes to checking everything to see if there is blood on it. Emily Colas takes you through the ups and downs of her life while also dealing with her disorder.

One thing I really liked was the descriptions. It was literally like everything that went through her mind, EVERY single thought and I loved that because it gave you so much more perspective on how it must feel to have OCD

Somethi...more
Elizabeth
I read this heartbreaking true story, about the author who suffers from OCD, in one sitting! She gives us hints of how she became who she is and also offers us a glimpse at the people in her life who provided a net for her. Particularly, there was a heroin addicted friend. The parallels between the 2 were interesting. I like to count and sort to soothe myself. But this and similar behaviors were taken to a whole new level of paralysis. Finally, Emily is medicated @ the end of the book and experi...more
Jeannie
Jan 01, 2012 Jeannie rated it 2 of 5 stars Recommends it for: only people interested in this disorder or wanting to understand it better
I actually hated this book and didn't like the author herself much through all of the book until the end. Then it just clicked and I understood this compulsion.
Honestly, her husband had to have been a saint to put up with all of it, and I think she agrees on that point. I wouldn't have been able to be or stay friends with somoeone like this. The book seems very disjointed to me, it jumps all over the place with one crazy behaviour after the other and it just got annoying for me. I couldn't hand...more
Micaela
I really, really did not like this book. I thought the author was completely unsympathetic about how her disease affected other people in her life, especially the people she loves the most. I understand that OCD is a dibilitating disease, but we have pills for that. And she didn't want to take them! It sounded like she needed a good therapist and a husband who forced her to go.

All memoirs describe how horrible a person's life is: the beauty is when the author can describe the horrors of life wi...more
Rebekah Ortiz
Emily Colas is a young lady dealing with OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). This book is a series of brief stories of her life before she started taking medication for her mental disability. Her condition becomes progressively serious as time goes on and she finds herself trying to make her husband divorce her. Her OCD starts to dominate her world and she starts to really "lose it". I liked this book because it provide an insight to what it was like to have a mental illness. I also liked it be...more
Poly Styrene
I loved this book. Just Checking really blew me away. It is a first hand account of a woman's struggle with obsessive compulsive disorder that displays itself in varying degrees (except when it's full blow for several years as an adult) throughout her life. Unlike any other autobiographical work I've read on mental illness, the author adopts a witty at times almost snarky tone. She presents you with some unbelievably horrifying scenarios (at one point her disorder is so bad that she believes tha...more
Kendra
I enjoyed this book and it's a really quick read. Kind of along the same lines as "Devil in the Details" if you've ever read that. One major difference though is that this book has extremely short chapters, and I hesitate to even call them that. It's sort of like a collection of extremely short stories (the average is probably around a page) that just happen to flow more-or-less in chronological order. I did enjoy the book though and the ending made me happy :) So I recommend it if you want a qu...more
Ashley
I really wanted to like this book - a personal look at OCD that was touted as a funny yet personal glimpse into one woman's daily rituals and compulsions. David Sedaris even gave the book a great review - how could I not like it?

For starters, Colas is amazingly immature throughout. She manipulates and wheedles and whines until her husband goes along with her "compulsions" (though after a while they felt oddly like whims to me. I swear I could practically hear her thinking, "Hm, I wonder if he'll...more
Lisa
I judge this kind of book against one standard: Is YOUR crazy crazier than MY crazy? And by that I mean me personally, my friends and family, and so on. In this case, kinda sorta, but really, in the end, not really. She starts out strong, when it's easy to see how numerous compulsions are negatively affecting her life. However, once again we end up with a woman safely in the arms of an enabling, loving husband (for awhile, anyway). To put it bluntly, this coddled housewife has free reign to indu...more
GateGypsy
This book was written in tiny bites, no one section spanning more than a page or two, which was kindof nice, because it made it easier to read in snippets and quick dips. It was entertaining, humourous, but also very foreign. Not being the compulsive sort, I found it just amazing that this woman laboured under these worries. I must admit I spent most of my time reading it being more grateful that it wasn't me than being particularly entertained. She did interject levity to the subject, of course...more
Josh
To be fair, I would not call myself obsessive compulsive, (though my wife may have a tinge of it in her) so I cannot wholly relate to Mrs. Colas. However, she knows how to entertain, and the book is full of wit and insight and makes the reader almost feel a voyeur by delving into Colas' eccentric mind. I found myself laughing out loud on several occasions, partly because of her sarcastic writing style, and partly because some of the situations she writes about are so absurd, to think about them...more
Elizabeth
While I really think this book is accurate, and there were lots of times I went "YES" to thinks that Colas described, I got annoyed by her seeming selfishness--her husband had to do everything for her. Granted, he totally let the relationship get that way, and I read this in pretty much one sitting, super fast, so it might have been the way I read it that made her sound this way. I'm going to reread when I get the chance. I really want to like it more than 3 stars.
Katie
One of the most irritating memoirs I've ever read. Little more than a stand-up comedy routine, Colas mistakes sarcasm for substance and describes her struggles with obsessive compulsive disorder in a generally unenlightening and unsympathetic way. While there are moments of real wit and occasional flashes of insight, as a whole the book falls flat, and Colas comes across as self-absorbed and, I hate to say it, unlikeable.
Amy
My best friend has OCD. The real OCD, not the stupid little quirks and things we all have that people call OCD. This is one of her favorite books, and she gave it to me to read so that I would have a better understanding of what it is like to have this particular disorder, that very much disrupts and interferes with everyday life. It's an honest and rather funny memior, and I really loved it. I've learned a lot about obsessive compulsive disorder from my friend, and because of that, I get pretty...more
Allie
I found this book way more funny than i should have. But i couldnt help it her OCD reminded me so much of my mother i found it histarical! Im really happy about the ending, because i must admit some times her "quirks" were very annoying but i liked her style of writing and i would definatly read her again.
Ann
I had a lot of hope for this novella about the authors OCD issues which comes to life through this story. However after part one her tales come off whiny and annoying. You can't help but wonder how and why her husband dealt with it all without an intervention. The stories are also disconnected and at times with no purpose at all. An easy read that starts of interesting only to dwindle and become repetitive.
Kimberly Ann
I thought this book was pretty good. I am not usually the fan of the tell-all memoir, but the vignette style of this book made it interesting. I also thought she was appropriately funny when funny was appropriate and also when it maybe even wasn't. Some passages seemed like an exaggerated mis-rememberance, but, well, I err on the side of trusting people despite suspicions sometimes.
Jessie
A witty and dark story of the life of a women with OCD. I like that it's told in short vignettes and that it's written with her own internal dialogue. At times it feels a little disjointed, but I really felt wrapped up in her small world of routines and fears. A fast read for sure.
Alisa Raymond
seriously I could not make it through this book, it was painful. I kept picking it up again to give it another shot and it is just terrible. it's a bunch of like essays or more like journal entries but the stories barely make sense and end abruptedly. I would recommend it.
Jessica R.
This book, although written by an OCD person, and it's not something to laugh at...Emily makes it funny. She knows that her disorder is strange and probably unnecessary to everyone else, but she can make you laugh at the same time.
Erika mendiola
Done.
"Scars are great. They're this outward symbol of some personal pain. Just by looking at someone's scar, you know the person has suffered. But how about the suffering insane? We have no scars. That's why we have to make them ourselves."
Ctknorris
A good read. Read it in an afternoon. Lent my copy to numerous people who all said they have some small compulsive orders they admitted to. It's a game now that we count our syllables to see who has the biggest word.
Lisa
The book is an easy read. I found myself feeling very sorry for the author of the book and didn't find it as funny as advertised. Maybe I didn't think it was very funny because I could imagine living in such a world.
Trena
Sep 26, 2011 Trena added it
I love this book! It is about a person who is OCD. She is very honest about her strange thoughts and rituals that control her. It really shows just how this illness can make life miserable.
Cindy
Scenes from the life of an obsessive compulsive. My dad sure wasn't this bad! Maybe I'm mislabeling him.. He was merely a perfectionist. Great book. Very humorous. Read it in one day.
Christa L
Terrifying read. Many of her fears were either close to mine or exactly the same and hers got so bad she couldn't even leave the house anymore. Good wake-up call.
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