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    <body><![CDATA[I don't think I'm going to finish this before it's due at the library; in fact, I might not get much past the introduction. In reading the editor's introduction, I have to wonder about the kinds of stay-at-home moms she asked to contribute to this volume. She says that although she doesn't understan...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/31045254">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I bought this book at a time when I was on the edge of quitting my paycheck-bearing job for the job of a stay-at-home-mom, and was hoping it would help me feel less alone in the choices I was facing. Hahahahahaha. First of all, most of the mothers who wrote essays in this book are in the publishing ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7597117">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was terribly disappointing. Rather than an insightful collection of stories from all different women struggling to make peace with motherhood and their place in the world, it was a repetitive and flat collection of essays I didn't even bother to finish. Steiner doesn't bother to seek out w...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9190949">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book fascinating and hard to put down, but very different from what it is purported to be.  For one, the many essays from moms, both working and stay-at-home, are supposed to represent the choices all mothers face and the conflicts, yet almost without exception, each author is very affl...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/63587601">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I was so torn as I read this book. I could see why working moms choose to work and feel its best and why stay at home moms feel its best to stay at home. I wish we lived in a country where the society, culture and industry made it easier for women to work and balance a family. However, we don't. And...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21766250">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I read a review of this book in The Atlantic Monthly a year or so ago (I read it awhile ago) and decided to read it.   The essays were all very well written and nicely composed, but I had trouble identifying with or feeling sorry for those poor stay-at-home moms whose nannies couldn't control the ch...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12060091">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[A book of essays by mothers discussing their choice to either stay at home or work outside the home, Mommy Wars was well-written and honest.  However, as I was absorbing the very strong feelings of these essayists, I couldn't help but think that the debate is so &quot;yesterday&quot; and does it eve...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6608760">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This is SO INCREDIBLY poorly done. The idea is that she has a bunch of mom's write about their experience as either a stay-at-home mom or a working mom. Steiner writes the introduction and basically bashes staying at home as being an option for her, and apparently she lived in an apartment on Lake C...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/3923406">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Well, I'm not planning on kids in the near future, but eventually we do want to have kids.  The idea behind this book seems really good, Let's get together some women who stay home, some who work full-time, some who work part-time, and they can explain how these things work for them and what didn't ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/710438">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I really enjoyed this book. It gave me different perspective about working moms vs. stay-at-home moms. Since I really only knew one side of it due to only being a SAHM. I saw that either way it is a struggle and there is always something you are giving up but neither makes you a better or worse moth...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45571977">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Reiterates the point that women should not be judged for how they (and their partners) choose to raise their children - either staying at home, working  full time with nannies/day care (or stay at home dad), or somewhere in between. A bit repetitive and self-indulgent (don't know if that's the right...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58438399">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I was very disappointed.  The book is like a Disney movie, except the fathers are conspicuously absent. <br/><br/>Ms. Steiner needs to try again. Find more women outside of her suburb and her profession. Find women who are raising their children in partnership with their spouses.         ]]></body>
    
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