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A Three Dog Life

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When Abigail Thomas's husband, Rich, was hit by a car, his skull was shattered, his brain severely damaged. Subject to rages, terrors, and hallucinations--and with no memory of what he did the hour, the day, the year before--he was sent to live in a nursing facility that specializes in treating traumatic brain injuries. This tragedy is the ground on which Abigail had to bu...more

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Published 2007 by Harcourt, Inc. (first published September 5th 2006)

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Mar 21, 2013 Susan rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: read-2013

Some readers will be disappointed by this brief memoir -- it's not really about the dogs, nor is it about the severe brain injury that incapacitates Abigail Thomas' husband. Rather, it's about Abby trying to make something tenable of a life forever altered by tragedy and loss. Yes, the eponymous three dogs (Australian aborigines who kept warm sleeping next to their dogs called the coldest nights "three dog nights") are one thread of grace, instruments by which Abby learns to live in the moment a...more Some readers will be disappointed by this brief memoir -- it's not really about the dogs, nor is it about the severe brain injury that incapacitates Abigail Thomas' husband. Rather, it's about Abby trying to make something tenable of a life forever altered by tragedy and loss. Yes, the eponymous three dogs (Australian aborigines who kept warm sleeping next to their dogs called the coldest nights "three dog nights") are one thread of grace, instruments by which Abby learns to live in the moment and let go of past and future. But there are other such threads as well (knitting, art). Also, some readers might be stymied by the mish-mash timeline underpinning this memoir; the narrative progresses thematically around issues like guilt, comfort, isolation, etc. rather than chronologically. If you're a reader who craves structure, beware! Think instead of imagism -- where the artist's point is not didactic, but instead aims to present clarity and purity through images (in this regard, Rich's strange, otherworldly utterances that border on premonition are especially, well . . . rich).

Having said all this, the beauty of Three Dog Life (and there is a bracing, spare beauty to it) lies in the deceptively simple prose, the nothing-short-of-inspiring love Abby bears her husband, even when he is not the man she married or knew, and her hard earned courage in facing the daunting challenge not only of coping, but creating a new life for herself, one that is ultimately both more and less. As she says, to paraphrase: you might not make meaning out of tragedy, but you might eventually make something of it. To this middle aged reader who has faced her own share of life's slings and arrows, this rings profoundly true.

Once I realized that the form of the narrative -- the lack of a definitive timeline, the meshing of past memory and present circumstance -- craftily fit the subject (Rich's coming unmoored in time, with no short term memory capacity and seemingly precious few long term memories, either) -- I was impressed with the writer's skill. Finally, I admired Thomas' restraint around certain subjects, such as Rich's rages, her extended, blended family, her refusal to give the reader a "death scene" at the end. The book refused to pander to the rubberneck impulse. In this regard, Rich's closing words ("Abby, our life has been so easy that the days glide by") were a benediction. That's about the best you can hope for.(less)

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Feb 17, 2008 Keleigh rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: schooldaze

This book struck me as both straightforward and subtly complex. The language is simple and unassuming, yet the attention to detail creates a much more layered and nuanced portrait than first perceived. I was intrigued, albeit occasionally confused, by the way Thomas hopskotched through time, shifting between present and past tense without ever truly grounding me in a “now.” I felt this was craftily intentional, conveying the “eternal present tense” that her husband now lives in, and she has been...more This book struck me as both straightforward and subtly complex. The language is simple and unassuming, yet the attention to detail creates a much more layered and nuanced portrait than first perceived. I was intrigued, albeit occasionally confused, by the way Thomas hopskotched through time, shifting between present and past tense without ever truly grounding me in a “now.” I felt this was craftily intentional, conveying the “eternal present tense” that her husband now lives in, and she has been forced to acclimate to and adopt. My impression was that the chapter divisions served as placemarkers, signifying shifts in time that could be months or years. I got the feeling I was in “real time,” following the author through her process as she writes sections over a span of five years (the first chapter says they married 12 years ago; in the last chapter she tells Rich they’ve been married 17 years). This was really effective for me, infusing the narrative with a sense of immediacy that carried through the whole book, so that I felt like Thomas was no more prepared than I was for the next stage or revelation. As for disclosure/evasion–I too noticed how little Thomas revealed about herself, and about Rich, but by the end I appreciated this as purposefully selective. It got me thinking about memoir as a more focused art; rather than stuffing all the details of a surface life (occupation, date of birth, number of kids) into a big baggy autobiography, Thomas demonstrates how we can learn the rhthym of a narrator’s internal life through everyday details like what kind of food is stocked in her refrigerator, or the fact that she hates when other people remember things she loves better than she does. Rich’s history has been essentially erased; at one point Thomas declares that the past is not as interesting to her now as it once was. It seemed fitting, then, that she would not take time revealing “mundane” background info, except insofar as it contextualizes the present moment. Existing in the present moment is the theme that stayed with me most powerfully after finishing this book. Though I might not feel cozied up to Thomas as a confidant, I do feel invited in to a private space of observation and memory, as if she allowed me to hover along behind her as she evolved through her process of grief and acceptance.(less)

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Nov 28, 2008 Joanie rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: bookclub, memoir, non-fiction, brain-injury, south-shore-readers

Abigail Thomas book begins with a blurb that explains that Aborigines used to sleep with their dogs to keep them warm. Really cold night were referred to as "three dog nights." I was totally sucked in after reading that part but as much as I liked the book (maybe 3 1/2 stars would be more appropriate) it didn't quite live up to my expectations.

The author's husband suffers a severe traumatic brain injury when he is hit by car. He requires constant care and supervision and he ends up in a locked u...more

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Aug 06, 2012 Nancy rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: memoir

Wonderful, wonderful writing. Although I have nowhere near the life crisis to live with she had, I am much the same age and many things she said hit me as true for me. This is a keeper for me. (Since I have so little room for more books in my life, most books I read these days get donated to the library when I am finished.) I will go back to 2 paragraphs and a sentence on pages 169-170. "When I was young, the future was where all the good stuff was kept, the party clothes, the pretty china, the...more

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Aug 10, 2011 Lara rated it 5 of 5 stars

I scooped up several copies of Abigail Thomas' memoir, A THREE DOG LIFE, after hearing her read at a local, indepdendent bookseller a couple of years ago. The seal of approval on the cover by Steven King noting it as "The best memoir I have ever read." was certainly intriguing, but I was more taken by her and the glimpse she gave us into her life.

Simply told, in April 2001, Thomas' husband Rich took their dog Harry for a walk and was hit by a car. The accident shattered his skull and the life th...more I scooped up several copies of Abigail Thomas' memoir, A THREE DOG LIFE, after hearing her read at a local, indepdendent bookseller a couple of years ago. The seal of approval on the cover by Steven King noting it as "The best memoir I have ever read." was certainly intriguing, but I was more taken by her and the glimpse she gave us into her life.

Simply told, in April 2001, Thomas' husband Rich took their dog Harry for a walk and was hit by a car. The accident shattered his skull and the life that he and Abigail once shared. Not so simple was the reality of what would happen next. All were left traumatized by the event that permanently altered Rich, leaving him with a traumatic brain injury and a sketchy recollection of the world he once inhabited.

Thomas' memoir is a love letter to her husband and the one, then two, then three dogs that ultimately helped her through the emotionally painful and unpredictable moments that followed Rich's accident. She imparts so many lessons learned on the value of living in the moment, appreciating what you have right now, and wasting no time worrying about the future.

That's not to say her road to these realizations was an easy one. Thomas regularly struggled with guilt about what happened and her husband's eventual placement in a skilled facility that could better manage his volatile emotional state and physical limitations than she ever could.

Her writing is simple without being simplistic, authentic and just plain good. One of my favorite passages is when she realizes that life can go on and she can even expereince moments of joy and happiness:
"If only life were more like this, you will think, as you and the dogs traipse up to bed, and you realize with a start that this is life."
I was certain this book could have the possibility of wrecking me, sucker punching me when I least expected it, or even when I did. Thomas' story is such a tragic one, but one that is offset by her sheer commitment to her husband and herself. It's so beautifully told that I actually came away not with feelings of sadness but admiration for her, her perspective and her expertly and seemingly effortlessly crafted words.
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Jun 26, 2008 Jes Pedroza rated it 2 of 5 stars Recommends it for: older woman.

I love dogs so the title of this book caught my attention.
After Abby's husband suffers severe brain damage after being hit by a car while chasing after one of their dogs, the relationship that the couple shares is transformed. Richard, Abby's husband is a "new person" trying to make sense of the world around him. He gets irritated easily, says bizarre things and has sporadic and surprisingly accurate premonitions. Abby suffers from extreme guilt because she is not able to care for her husband a...more

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Dec 10, 2007 Jenny rated it 3 of 5 stars

Memoirs are a tricky thing to read. Some feel self-indulgent and egotistical, some feel too intrusive and private and others keep you guessing why this person felt the need to write about their life. This memoir is hard to categorize. It's short, choppy, a bit meandering, and the title is deceiving. It's not about dogs, it's not even really about her husband's accident, it's more about her. Just her. Should her life stand still because her husband has no past, no future, and barely a present tim...more

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Jan 04, 2008 Inder rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: dogs, memoir, read-2008

Abigail Thomas's husband of 13 years was hit by a car and suffered a traumatic brain injury, leaving him without any short term memory and unable to process most normal conversation. This is her memoir of coping with this tragedy.

I'm not going to pretend that this is a "fun" book to read, although sometimes it is. Ms. Thomas has a dry, self-deprecating wit that you can't resist.

However, I will say that this is one of the most beautiful memoirs I've read in some time. Every simple, spare sentence...more

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Jun 28, 2007 Katie rated it 4 of 5 stars

Abigail Thomas's husband Rich sustained a brain injury after they had been married for 13 years. His ability to process new (or retain old) information was almost entirely destroyed. Thomas describes the stages of grief and self-doubt she experienced after her husband's accident. And the tremendous simplicity of these stages is what makes them so beguiling: the abstract concept of losing your husband -- of your husband essentially dying but continuing to live -- is one that on the surface seems...more

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Jan 06, 2009 Courtney rated it 5 of 5 stars

I would recommend this book to anyone who has gone through a tragedy or lost someone important to them. It also is a great book for anyone who has ever thought, dreamt or is plannng on doing any writing of their own. As a writer myself, I find Thomas truly inspiring because of that fact that she did not start writing until age 47. It's a quick, easy, inspiring read. Go Buy it!

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Jul 27, 2008 Heather rated it 4 of 5 stars

I loved this book, although it was difficult to read at times. Not because of the writing - Thomas' writing is thoughtful, witty, easy-to-read. But the topic - what happens when someone significant in your life is altered mentally - can be uncomfortable and it's one that most of us will face. As Alzheimer's runs in my family, I probably will encounter it with my parents - and my husband may face it with me. How do you survive having to put your partner in a nursing home when he's a physically-he...more

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Mar 05, 2011 Danielle rated it 4 of 5 stars · review of another edition

Shelves: memoir, non-fiction

I finished reading this book on a quiet Saturday morning in my apartment, a warm coffee in hand, the pitter-patter of rain filtering in through my window. Perfect.

When I initially started reading this memoir, I couldn't possibly imagine how much I'd come to like it. Initially, I was struck by the disjointedness of Thomas' memories - I must have been trying too hard to make sense of their chronology. When I finally let that go, the wonderfulness of the story crept up on me. Its basis is sad, und...more

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Apr 26, 2009 Dawn rated it 4 of 5 stars

I learned from this book that it is possible to love someone so much that regardless of how they have changed, or why, or the fact there is no future you can continue to love that person, while still maintaining your own life. And the dogs made it possible I think. Amazingly coincidental, I began and read most of this book on 4/24/09; the 9 year anniversary of the car accident that injured the author's husband and changed her life forever.

Abigail Thomas has a wonderful writing style. I've order...more

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Jan 21, 2009 Chana rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: inspirational-memoirs

Written in a sparse prose that is exactly right. There is the tragedy which is sudden and heartbreaking, but it happens in a moment and one can't go back. Listen to this, "I thought I had accepted Rich's accident, even though I kept putting myself in a place where it hadn't happened yet. Rich hadn't left for his walk. I could stop him at the door. I thought that not accepting meant turning my face to the wall, unable to function. So now today I look up the word acceptance and the definition is "...more

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Nov 25, 2008 Carrie rated it 3 of 5 stars

This is a memoir about the past 5 - 6 years of Abigail's life. Her husband suffered brain damage one night when he was hit by a car while out walking their dog, would had slipped from his collar and bolted into traffic. After recovery, he's never quite been himself and has no short term memory. He must live in special homes as his rages and confusion are too much for Abigail and a nurse. The book follows her as she deals with the change in her marriage, the change in her life, and how she deals...more

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Oct 01, 2012 Cynthia Vogel rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone, particularly middleaged people

A Three Dog Life is a book written by a 63 year old woman who'd only begun to write in her forties. Her husband of 12 years was struck by a car and suffered severe brain damage...which made him prone to say things that were obscure and wildly poetic and made him too sick to live at home....Abby learns to go on living her life with her three dogs and weekly visits with her husband.....It is a book of details surrounding a massively disturbing life event....The details are the pavement the charact...more

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Aug 31, 2012 Becky rated it 2 of 5 stars

I got this book because of the endorsement by Stephen King...and this is the one time my favorite author has let me down.

This book is about Abigail Thomas, mostly. It's about how her husband is severely injured when he is hit by a car when walking their dog, which causes him to lose part of his brain and all of his short term memory. The story itself is compelling, but the way this story is told was not, for me at least.
I guess the style of writing that Thomas entails is more stream of conscious...more

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May 26, 2012 Linda rated it 5 of 5 stars

In this beautifully and honestly written memoir, Abigail Thomas tries to make sense of an entirely new perspective on the passage of time. In the aftermath of her husband’s nearly fatal collision with an automobile, Thomas discovers that her life consists of the past and the future. Her husband, Rich Rogin, survives for five years in a nearly foreign world constructed by his traumatic brain injury. His life is solidly in the present and his wavering moods and cryptic allusions to the world they...more

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Apr 16, 2012 Lynda Felder rated it 4 of 5 stars

Abigail Thomas packs A Three Dog Life with brutal observations, made palatable by moments of pure comic relief. She tells the story of her life before and after her husband, Rich, suffers from traumatic brain injury after being hit by a car.

I read this memoir after reading a short article a good friend left on my doorstep called “Everyone Has A Story To Tell” by the same author. She tells how her husband Rich describes his life after the accident:

“In a moment of perfect clarity, he once describe...more

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Mar 17, 2012 Monica rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: read-in-2012

Wow, I really didn't have a clue what this book was about when I read the title and grabbed it to read later. I thought it was going to be a warm fuzzy story of a woman whose dogs keep her sane in some type of midlife crisis. You can't judge a book by it's title. This memoir of Abigail Thomas deals with the horrible car accident that caused her husband Rich to have a traumatic brain injury. The most interesting parts of the book for me were the things that he said that were so lucid, yet he had...more

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Aug 23, 2010 Dinah rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: memoir, nonfiction

Nobody rips my heart wide open quite like Abigail Thomas. I had the pleasure of sitting in on a Master Class with her in college, and I have never encounter such a straight-shooter in both her demeanor and her writing. There is very little flourish to her memoirs: no padding of metaphors, few run-on sentences, latinate words only when they are exactly appropriate. This woman has an extraordinary gift for staring her very ordinary, and very difficult life straight in the face, and sketching its l...more

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Jun 29, 2010 Thechicgeek rated it 3 of 5 stars

Stephen King declared this "Best Memoir I Have Ever Read." I have to say, I am surprised by that. I did enjoy the book but in many ways found it somewhat uninspiring. Abigail Thomas details the difficulty of trying to live happily after a loved one sustains a life-altering brain injury.

My problem with the story was that I felt she was just kind of existing, but not really enjoying her life as much as she could. To me, she was in a holding pattern. Abigail was simply trying to make the best of a...more Stephen King declared this "Best Memoir I Have Ever Read." I have to say, I am surprised by that. I did enjoy the book but in many ways found it somewhat uninspiring. Abigail Thomas details the difficulty of trying to live happily after a loved one sustains a life-altering brain injury.

My problem with the story was that I felt she was just kind of existing, but not really enjoying her life as much as she could. To me, she was in a holding pattern. Abigail was simply trying to make the best of a bad situation. She felt understandable guilt for wanting to live life and be happy, to move forward, and she was very torn by those needs and the love she had for her husband. The situation she found herself in due to this tragedy is really unimaginable. The story made me sad.

What I found most compelling and worthy of discussion was her relationship with her animals and the importance of them in our lives. In many ways she replaced her husband with her animals. Many women do this as they age, divorce, or have found themselves disappointed with life. Dogs are loyal, they always love what we cook, they snuggle and give us unconditional love, keep us warm at night and get us out and active in the world. They are our best friends and treat us like Rock Stars! Love comes in many forms, doesn't it? The question that keeps coming back to me is, when we replace our animals for human interaction and love are we really living our best life? Our animals are able to fulfill a longing that we have to nurture another, they give us great joy and it feels as though our empty love tanks are filled, but are we really just hiding? To face humans, we face rejection. I think what many ask when confronted with relational difficulties is, is it worth it? I say yes. To live to the fullest we must be willing to let go of past hurts, and release our guilt for leaving someone when there is only a shard of a person left. We can embrace our memories, and yet, continue forward down the road of life, taking opportunities as they come, never fearing the risk involved to truly discover our best selves and create a life truly worth living. In the meantime, though, our beloved animals remind us that we are loved and appreciated, and yes, life is worth living!
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May 01, 2010 Grace rated it 1 of 5 stars

Shelves: book-club-books, memoir, non-fiction, science-brain, read-in-2010

Abigail Thomas' "A Three Dog Life" is a jumbled up mess of a memoir that is out of control and incredibly difficult to follow. Is it about her three dogs? Is it about using the three dogs to cope after his husband's accident? Is it about her husband Rich's irreversible brain damage from the accident? Is it about her writing? These four concepts are meshed together in a stream of consciousness style that left me scratching her head and wondering who in their right mind would publish something so...more

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Nov 01, 2009 Nancy rated it 3 of 5 stars

Abigail Thomas had only been married to husband Rich for a few years when he went out to walk the dog he never wanted to own. The dog broke free, and Rich went into the road to save him, and was hit by a car. Traumatic brain injury. The "nicest guy in the world" would never be the same.

Thomas writes this memoir about the very situation which has occupied the worry section of my brain since I got married: what happens when the guy you marry is no longer the guy you married - but you are still ma...more

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Jul 16, 2009 Ann Marie rated it 3 of 5 stars

Picked this up - no joke - because it was in the bestseller aisle at Sam's Club. It truly it a touching and poignant account, but I was often distracted by the stream-of-thought style of writing and overall organization. I frequently thought “what, where are we, when was the accident again?” The author’s husband suffers a serious brain injury and is no longer himself, actually no longer even fully functional. She chronicles the struggles, the hospitals, rehab facilities, a brief time at home wit...more

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Jul 26, 2008 Lois rated it 5 of 5 stars

In these poignant essays Thomas describes the five years following her husband's brain injury which necessitated his being institutionalized. How their marriage has evolved with him living always in the present - their companionship. She sells their New York apartment, buys a house in the country to be near him, acquires two more dogs to keep her company and makes a new life for herself teaching, writing, knitting, seeing friends and also living in the present. Illuminating and inspiring.

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Jun 07, 2010 Margaret rated it 4 of 5 stars · review of another edition

Shelves: memoire

The best feature of this book is Ms. Thomas's writing - it's so down to earth, elegant, funny, wry, poignant, poetic - all those adjectives plus others in the same family(-ies). It's a tribute to her writing that once I started reading this book, I continued reading once I'd figured out after a couple of familiar, deja vu pages that, oh yeah, I read this book some time ago... The book is a series of essays, more or less in chron order, about her life partly before and mostly after her husband is...more

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Jul 06, 2009 Beejay rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: my-top-shelf

My sister lent me “The Book Thief” with the great recommendation that it was “the best book she had ever read”. I read it, and she was almost right – I give it second place. My sister lent me “The Five People You Meet in Heaven”, telling me that it was a real joy. I hated it so much it’s actually one of those rare books which I couldn’t even finish, and swore not to feel guilty about doing so. My sister lent me “The Faraday Girls”, assuring me it was a quick, easy, delightful read. I finished it...more My sister lent me “The Book Thief” with the great recommendation that it was “the best book she had ever read”. I read it, and she was almost right – I give it second place. My sister lent me “The Five People You Meet in Heaven”, telling me that it was a real joy. I hated it so much it’s actually one of those rare books which I couldn’t even finish, and swore not to feel guilty about doing so. My sister lent me “The Faraday Girls”, assuring me it was a quick, easy, delightful read. I finished it simply because I did after all feel guilty about abandoning “The Five People You Meet in Heaven” when it had been recommended to me by my sister, my best friend. And so, when my sister lent me a bundle of books with no comments attached I approached them neutrally.

In this way I came to “A Three Dog Life”. I just finished it. I wonder if there is a statutory waiting period before you can read a book again. What I really want to do is book a plane ticket and fly off to Woodstock, to sit down with this amazing writer, Abigail Thomas, and just probably do nothing but perhaps chat and perhaps drink - red wine or tea, either would be good.

This book is Abigail’s account of how her life did a 180 (no, not a 360) degree turn after her lovely husband, Rich, suffered massive head trauma when he was hit by a car while out walking their dog one evening in New York. The life which they had imagined building together suddenly was swept away and Abigail creates for herself an alternate life, a three dog life, that phrase being taken from an Australian Aboriginal description of a really cold night being a three dog night, ie it would take three dogs to keep you warm. And, yes, she does end up with the warmth and comfort of three dogs.

This book is so full of precious moments, little gems, that I have to buy my own copy – or maybe just forget to return my sister’s copy – so that when I go back to read it, as I will do very soon, I can underscore and highlight those pearls as I go, pearls such as:

On getting older, “I just couldn’t imagine what my life would be like without the option of looking good.”

On her husband’s constant need to move, ”No, no, and no. Rich just needs to be moving. And I ask myself what use is a destination anyway?”

On living a life unexpectedly alone, “… my house doesn’t fit me anymore. Maybe it’s because from here I can see into the empty kitchen, and then turn my head and look into the empty living room. On either side are these uninhabited rooms, quiet, waiting, but only for me, and I can’t sit everywhere at once.”

And then to come to the last page and read this passage, where she and her husband, in an almost lucid moment, are chatting, “I ask Rich if he knows how long we’ve been married. “About a year”, he answers. I shake my head. “Seventeen years”, I say, “we got married in 1988 and it’s 2005.” “Abby”, he says, smiling, “our life has been so easy that the days glide by.”

It almost breaks your heart, but that would be impossible because this book is not a heart-wrenching, tragic tale of woe; it is a beautiful sharing of the funny and the sad, and definitely not written to glean pity or bring on feelings of despair. A lovely, lovely book, and I wonder why my sister didn’t attach a comment to this loan.
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Feb 10, 2011 Louise rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: memoirs

Abigail and her husband Rich lived happily in Manhattan. On April 24, 2000 while Rich is out walking their dog, he is hit by a car and sustains a traumatic brain injury. His skull was shattered, his perception of time and reality forever altered. After being hospitalized, Rich is moved to a home where they had experience caring for people with traumatic brain injuries.

Abigail lives alone with her 3 dogs and visits Rich regularly but she never knows from one day to the next how she will find him....more

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Apr 07, 2010 Jillian rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: romance

This isn't a romance book, per se, but it's about a deep love for a partner who has dementia after an accident. It was very sad, and has some beautiful passages. I loved the quotes: "Good things happen slowly, and bad things happen fast," and "What is art, anyway, except not pounding on walls."

The chapters describing the author's dogs' behavior after her husbands accident moved me to tears, and I found the chapter about "outsider art" very moving.

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