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  <title><![CDATA[The Suicide Index: Putting My Father's Death in Order]]></title>
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  <default-description>&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;i&gt;When you kill yourself, you kill every memory everyone has of you. You&amp;#8217;re saying &amp;#8220;I&amp;#8217;m gone and you can&amp;#8217;t even be sure who it is that&amp;#8217;s gone, because you never knew me.&amp;#8221; &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/i&gt;Sixteen years ago, Joan Wickersham&amp;#8217;s father shot himself in the head. The father she loved would never have killed himself, and yet he had. His death made a mystery of his entire life. Using an index&amp;#8212;that most formal and orderly of structures&amp;#8212;Wickersham explores this chaotic and incomprehensible reality. Every bit of family history&amp;#8212;marriage, parents, business failures&amp;#8212;and every encounter with friends, doctors, and other survivors exposes another facet of elusive truth. Dark, funny, sad, and gripping, at once a philosophical and deeply personal exploration, &lt;i&gt;The Suicide Index &lt;/i&gt;is, finally, a daughter&amp;#8217;s anguished, loving elegy to her father. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</default-description>
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  <original-publication-year type="integer">2008</original-publication-year>
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      <name><![CDATA[Joan Wickersham]]></name>
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  <read_at>Mon Mar 02 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[oh, if i could give one book to people to considering suicide, this might be it. i would also give it to anyone considering writing a memoir. so. beautiful. <br/><br/>so much of this is brilliant - from the questions of how even to write the book, to the difference between a biographer and a memoiri...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50403743">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Feb 12 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this immediately after &quot;Blue Cotton Gown,&quot; a memoir I found a little too New Age and mooshy, and now I  want to reread a chapter of that to dispel the chill that this one has left.   I realize the whole point of the book was to coolly examine her father's suicide, but to me it came ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46370954">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Jan 28 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Can't believe I finished two books today that blew me away.  This is the story of the author's quest to make sense of her father's suicide.  Great writing--very lyrical and poetic in places, and also very funny with dark humor.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[When Paul Wickersham killed himself in 1991, he not only ended his own life, but also shattered the lives of his wife and two adult daughters, irrevocably altering their futures, as well as their pasts. Every former notion, thought, and memory of the man that they had known and loved so well is call...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44888813">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 13 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[What an incredible book!  I could go on and on about it, but I won't.  I highly recommend it to everyone, though -- the author's insights really moved me and gave me lots to think about.  A book that will stick with me for a long time....]]></body>
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    <review id="71888598">
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  <read_at>Fri Sep 18 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[&quot;A crooked, looping, labyrinthine story&quot; - a memoir of the impact of the writer's father's suicide. Searingly honest and unflinching examination by a mature writer with an original organizational twist (yep, structured by chapter, set like an index). Frank and compelling, both in tone and ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71888598">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="54384486">
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    <body><![CDATA[Book Jacket - On a winter morning in 1991, Joan Wickersham's fathet shot himself. The father she loved would never have killed himself and yet he had. His death made a  mystery of his entire life. Who was he? Why did he do it? And who was she now? Joan Wickersham has chosen the index format - that m...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54384486">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="42445013">
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 13 05:45:36 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Instead of chapters, the author put an index at the front of the book. For instance: Suicide: act of, anger about, attitude toward. Not only is this different, it actually structures the book in a more realistic way than a chronological narrative would have. Reacting to a suicide doesn't happen all ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42445013">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67479105">
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    <body><![CDATA[<br/>“In the airport, coming home from vacation, he stops at a kiosk and buys grapefruits, which he arranges to have sent to his daughters. They will stumble over the crates waiting on their porches, when they get home from his funeral.”<br/><br/>Thus opens this stark and haunting memoir, wri...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67479105">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="55562645">
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  <read_at>Wed Apr 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A very powerful book about the author's father's suicide seventeen years ago. There were no obvious signs her father was considering such an act, and he left no explanatory note. Wickersham has hit on a unique and perfectly apt form for this narrative--an alphabetized index with entries such as, &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/55562645">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="29091345">
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 02 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was really good and I really related to it.  My father just did the same thing and it was exactly what I needed.  I feel very fortunate to have been able to read it right after his death. ]]></body>
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    <review id="45759307">
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    <name><![CDATA[Jamie]]></name>
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  <read_at>Wed Feb 11 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was worried this would be morbid, depressing, and difficult to read. It's not. First of all, it's arranged as an index, which is kind of bizarre, creative, and a form that happens to work really well here. It's told in a very straight-forward, simple manner. It's an organizer's attempt at organizi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45759307">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="50629553">
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  <read_at>Tue Apr 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[How do you review a book on suicide? It's grim, it's sad, it's confusing . . . much like suicide. But having just experienced the death of a loved one by suicide, I found it comforting to read about someone else who understands the grief and all the other emotions that are associated with suicide. T...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50629553">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="65105805">
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  <read_at>Thu Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was an emotional yet wholistic attempt to understand the tragedy of losing a father from suicide, adding layers of stigma and mystery upon the already devestating process of losing a loved one.  Suicide is such a taboo topic, forbidden from most religious standpoints as unforgivable yet philoso...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/65105805">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really don't know what to say about this book.  I liked reading it, but it is very personal, and unless you are going through a similar event in your life, it won't really help you much.<br/><br/>At one point in the book, the author discusses what type of book she should write.  I understand why...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42173756">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Well, this is sort of the zenith of a string of downer books.  A daughter's incredibly sad exploration of her father's suicide.  The question why suffuses the whole book, although to the reader I don't think it feels so pressing.  She has a fascinating family.  The black hole at the center of all th...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25697784">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I've known at least 5 famlies that have sufferred through a suicide and wondered about the effects it had. this book has given me much insight. <br/><br/>The author says &quot;Suicide isn't just a death, it's an an accusation...It says, 'You weren't enough to keep me here.' It sets up unresolvable...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/70455048">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Sep 16 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Fabulous compelling study of one woman's need to figure out WHY. Of course she never does, but it's fascinating to watch as she sorts through all the apparent signs and signals that she &quot;missed&quot; along the way.  Survivor guilt is strong. Saw shades of my own parents in the marriage--strong ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/69681001">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Feb 10 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I selected this memoir from the 'new books' shelf in the library on an absolute whim.  I have not been directly touched by suicide (although its specter exists within my family) and still I found this woman's personal story incredible moving.  The index format seemed too precious on occasion but the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44695147">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Mon Nov 17 15:38:15 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Nov 17 15:42:58 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[heartbreaking book written about 15 years after the author's father killed himself.  She organizes it by topic, arranged in &quot;Harper's index&quot; form (e.g., &quot;Suicide: attitude toward; mine&quot;), which at first seemed a little stilted but grew on me.  I ended up thinking it was much more...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/37982409">more...</a>]]></body>
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