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  <default_description>&lt;B&gt;Candid, passionate, personal, and heartbreakingly funny, a view from within the whirlwind of parenting a child with special needs&lt;/B&gt; &lt;P&gt; Three years ago, magazine editor Denise Brodey's precocious four-year-old son, Toby, was diagnosed with a combination of sensory integration dysfunction and childhood depression. As she struggled to make sense of her new, often chaotic, often lonely world, what she found comforted her &lt;I&gt;most&lt;/I&gt; was talking with other harried, hopeful, and insightful parents of kids with special needs, learning how they coped with the feelings they encountered throughout the day. &lt;P&gt; In &lt;I&gt;The Elephant in the Playroom&lt;/I&gt;, moms and dads from across the country write intimately and honestly about the joyful highs and disordered lows of raising children who are &amp;#147;not quite normal.&amp;#148; Laying bare the emotional, medical, and social challenges they face, their stories address issues ranging from if and when to medicate a child, to how to get a child who is overly sensitive to the texture of food to eat lunch. Eloquent and honest, the voices in this collection will provide solace and support for the millions of parents whose kids struggle with ADD, ADHD, sensory disorders, childhood depression, Asperger's syndrome, and autism&amp;#151;as well as the many kids who fall between diagnoses. &lt;P&gt; Offering readers comfort, community, and much-needed perspective, &lt;I&gt;The Elephant in the Playroom&lt;/I&gt; is sure to become essential reading for parents of special needs kids.</default_description>
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    <body><![CDATA[When you're a parent, you often feel like you're the only person in the world dealing with the challenges of raising kids. (I think that's why Supernanny is so popular -- it makes us feel like other people have kids worse than our own!) <br/><br/>When you're raising a child with special needs, tho...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52660967">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm currently reading this one and am about half way through. While I don't have a child with special needs I have worked with many such children and also have friends who have children with special needs. I felt that this book would be an interesting look at what these families face and at their tr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59654980">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[When you do the work that I do, no amount of attempting to understand how parents with special needs kids feel is too much.  This book is a great one because it honestly and candidly takes you into the lives of parents through their own words.  It's a quick read and one that I would recommend to any...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46088816">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Of the books by parents of special needs children that I've read, this is by far my favorite.  The writing is consistently good and the parents are honest about both their challenges and their feelings about being &quot;special&quot; parents.  My only complaint is that the collection doesn't include...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51084653">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Thank God for this book - it's very comforting to read.  It will not help you address your child's issues per se.  It is a book of essays by parents with kids with special needs and it gives each parent's perspective on particular issues (such as what it's like to try to find the right school for yo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6109680">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Wonderful collection of stories from parents of special needs children.  It really made me feel like I'm not the only one in the world dealing with these issues.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[It took me a long time to read this book..but not because it wasn't good, I'm just going through a period of not being into reading as much.  Anyway...I found this to be such an awesome book of writings from parents of children with a variety of disabilities...from ADHD to CP to Bipolor to Autism.  ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12655098">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a must read for ANYONE who has a special needs child.  I actually would like to encourage people who have friends or relatives with a special needs child to read this book.  It is so hard to make people understand what our lives are really like and why I am not running around to playdates an...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12600519">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book a lot.  It gave lots of insight as to what parents with special needs kids have to go through on a daily basis.  It makes you think about your own kids weather they are &quot;special&quot; or not and makes you cherish them no matter what their situation may be.  It also helps to ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17096304">more...</a>]]></body>
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