Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype
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Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype (Colección "Librinos")

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Within every woman there is a wild and natural creature, a powerful force, filled with good instincts, passionate creativity, and ageless knowing. Her name is Wild Woman, but she is an endangered species. Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ph.D., Jungian analyst and cantadora storyteller shows how women's vitality can be restored through what she calls "psychic archeological digs" in...more
Paperback, 608 pages
Published November 27th 1996 by Ballantine Books (first published 1992)
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Lamski Kikita
Mar 15, 2011 Lamski Kikita rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: all the ladies, and some guys who can handle it
Let me just start with saying that there are two kinds of people who would NOT like this book: 1- chauvanistic men/pigs(hehe), and 2- women who are uptight with their religious and social beliefs (and the stepford housewives type).

This book is for all women, who struggled through life because of the pressures and pre-tailored expectations of their families, socieities, religious leaders, husbands, children, etc, and finally saw the light of the moon and could not fight the urge to howl (owwwwwww...more
Laura
When I worked at Ballantine Books in the early to mid-1990s, this was by far the most successful book the house had ever published (it probably still is). I couldn't get over it -- this piece of shit was a runaway best-seller? Overblown, overwritten, self-important, pseudo-intellectual -- what the hell was to like? And to top it off, the author acted like a complete asshole, with personality traits that matched her book to a T. Her visits to the office were ludicrous; she used to prance around,...more
Lilith
Jan 28, 2008 Lilith rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Women everywhere. And the occasional man.
Shelves: favorites
This book saved my life. I was seriously struggling with an enormous amount of class-related stress, centered around a completely unsuspected attack on my creative potential. After a few months of being shredded mentally and creatively by the people I'd expected to lean on for support and physically by the demands of moving to a new country, I was at a horrible place, alternating between periods of blind rage and near suicidal depression, and for the first time in my life I was watching my abili...more
kate
I have read this book a few times. I pick it up from time to time to look over a chapter of this or that - it affected the way I think about other fables and even the movies. I am half convinced that the end of the Wedding Crashers is really about two healthy psyches driving away together into the future, married to themselves. I was rereading this book about the same time I saw that movie.

Any woman who is interested in empowering herself will be inspired. It is a jungian read on the darkest ve...more
Huda Yahya
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Saadiah
Juicy and satisfying, this book is for any woman who feels an urge to connect with wild and ancient concepts of what it means to be female: messy, raw, and full of luminously passionate creative energy. If this book doesn't make you want to howl out loud, I'm not sure what will!



Phoebe
Here's the deal on this book.

1) It is all too easy to make fun or roll one's eyes or be actually pretty nasty about it, because it's obviously got a ridiculously embarassing title. I personally got the book as a cheerful joke from my dad one Christmas, and I thought to myself, "gag me!"

2) But: Once I read it, I realized how smart this book is. (Eg, I learned the ever-useful term piloerection here.) What this book is is a master-key to the pictorial language that our right brain "speaks," (via dr...more
Malaika
Mar 25, 2007 Malaika rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: self-improvers
I learned a lot from this book. The big ideas for me were:

1. "even if the mother vine is damaged, it doesn't mean her children are"

and

2. "it will never hurt you to go after something you want or something that is calling to you"

The books is sort of a slow-read, but I find the author generous and familiar and enjoyed the way she reconstructed women's psychology through myth.

It's good to have new (complete?) stories in my mind as well.
Rania
نساء يركضن مع الذئاب ...
يُجسد هذا الكتاب فكرة سعي المرأة للتصالح مع ذاتها الوحشية، الذات الوحشية هي الكائن الحي الذي يعيش فينا، يدفعنا للتقدم و هي الروح الحارسة التي تعتني بنا، هي ما يدفعنا للقيام بالمغامرات و التحديات للقيان بالإنجازات لتي نريدها.
الذات الشافية التي تقف بجانبنا لتخلق ولادة الحياة من جديد بعد أن يحل فينا الموت " موت مرحلة ما"(دورة الحياة/الموت /الحياة، بعد كل تجربة قاسية نمر بها هناك ولادة لحياة جديدة). كلارسيا بنكولا تتخذ رواية القصة كدواء و علاج للجروح و الندوب التي مررنا بها ن...more
Mounia
Sep 17, 2007 Mounia added it
Very Interesting book, have to say I had to put it down many times just because it need some deep thinking following some passages.
It linkes old cultures to the modern pshyche of women.
Incredible..I definitely recommend it!!
Chelsey Pennyamon
Another reviewer summed it up: this book's cover was misleading! I know that authors often have nothing to do with how their books are advertised, and perhaps I should have read the introduction before I bought it or something, but it *still* isn't fair that I wasted my money on a book chock-full of Jungian psychoanalysis when what is advertised and what I expected was a book about the literary and mythological archetype of the wild woman. What's worse, the book isn't so much about Jungian psych...more
Adrienne Stapleton
Poetry! I so enjoy Estes's use of language and imagery and the various interpretations of stories and the universal and profound themes hidden underneath the layers of seemingly simple stories. I think this book is very important for women to read, especially for women who must protect and guide their daughters. My favorite story is Sealskin, Soulskin about a young seal/woman who loses her self in someone else's dream and finally finds the courage to pursue her dream and enrich her life.
missy lambert
Jungian psychoanalytic theory applied to folktales and fairy tales from around the world. Yes? Yes.

I want to carry copies of this book around and hand them out, proselytorily, to everyone woman I encounter who feels confined, constrained, and soul-sick. This book has helped me to reconnect with my intuition, reevaluate what it means for me to live authentically, and reimagine what my life can look like when I live it wildly and freely. It really has been a gift to me.

There is lots of gender esse...more
Eva St. Clair
Oct 03, 2008 Eva St. Clair rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: soul searchers, fairy tale lovers, fearless men
Recommended to Eva by: Jane St. Clair
Shelves: itwasgood
As a person who has always loved fairy tales, I read this book very slowly and carefully, enjoying every page. The author's explanations, which incorporate Jungian psychology and principles of women's intuition, enriched and deepened my appreciation for the ancient feminine and the lost art of teaching through fable, myth, and allegory.

Dr. Estes is a very effusive person, which comes across in her writing and can be at times overwhelming. She is quite incapable of using fewer than 3 synonyms st...more
Alex
When I picked up this book, I was expecting alot more story and alot less babbling.

I was disappointed with the amount of analysis, especially since it was heavily psycho-analysis. I suppose if you went into this book wanting spiritual guidance or to revive your woman strength and feminist power, then it would be a great read.

Having taken my share of english literature courses, I didn't want to read more analysis of what it meant when this female character lusted after red shoes. I just wanted s...more
Kathy
I bought this book years ago at a garage sale and never could get into it. Until one day I was walking past and had the urge to flip through it. I ended up reading the whole thing. I do agree with both sides of the love/hate reviews as it is hard to read and the author does seem to be a bit over the top but I read it at a time in my life that I really needed a bit of a pep talk. You really need to be mentally ready for this book.

I think this book is for people going through some issues in their...more
Sofia

For those of us who struggle with life, expectations and how to be ourselves, this is a validation, a benediction. Saying yes this is you and you are beautiful and unique just as you are.
Pippi Bluestocking
As seen on The Cynical Bookworm.

This is one of the books for which I held expectations of an entirely different nature than the real thing. I was hoping for an insightful collection of traditional lore with women protagonists - and in many ways it was this exact thing. I was delighted by the discovery of new folklore, but this is where my delight ended. The author offers her feminist and/or psychoanalytical interpretations of the folk tales, sometimes interesting sometimes slightly over-the-top....more
Barbara Klaser
This is one of those books I hope I'll read again, maybe in five years or so. The reason is that I'm sure I would have gotten something different from it at 20 than I did at 25, at 50 than I did at 55. If it had been published then and I'd first read it at 20, I can see how it would have been helpful to make it a ritual every few years of my adult life. Every woman has lived at least one of these stories. (Some of them men will have lived as well.) These are the stories that our life paths tunne...more
Leah
I'm re-reading this book and wow am I glad I am, including parts I skipped initially, mostly because I couldn't stop reading when I opened to Ch. 14.

Chapter 14 (La Selva Subterranea) has more underlining in my copy than any other section in the book. Here are some quotes:
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"We know that we will have to burn to the ground in one way or another, and then sit right in the ashes of who we once thought we were and go on from there."

"Tears are part of the mending of the rips in t...more
Tammy V
This book completely changed my life: it set me to wondering where she was getting her analysis, which introduced me to Jungian psychology, which introduced me (round about) to consciousness studies, and tracking the shadow - how to understand it, all of which eventually led to my Master's work in story and social change. People nowadays talk about the importance of story all the time but that was not so in the 90s. My understanding of story as a result of this book colors my understanding of th...more
Sarah
I am really loving this book, it covers so much of what I already believed in/felt (and I'm not even finished but wanted to write something even if it be incoherent) such as listening to your intuition, instincts, the life/death/life cycle knowing something good can and will arise from something bad, but reading it in such a way with folk stories followed by analyses, embellish the ideas and make them more solid in my mind and unwavering, knowing others believe the same helps and allows these be...more
Leisa
I got this book around Christmas 2011 & did not touch it too deeply for almost a whole year, although I loved to look at the cover & feel it in my hands. I knew there was something in there for me, I just couldn't fathom what exactly. I didn't get into it at first because I felt the author was putting too much emphasis on male/female differentiation; it's always bothered me to think there is such a gap between sexes. I like to imagine that we are much, much closer... & more fluid bei...more
Christine
I can only make it through 4 or 5 pages at a time, but find it amazing and way more relevant now at just about 40 than I did at 19 or so when it was assigned in college. I would like to meet the 40+ year old woman who does not heavily relate with much of it and just marvel at her good fortune.

At 19 it was a book of women's mythology, at 40 it is a self-help book of the best kind; helps you actually remember what you need help with, where you were going, and why. It also helps you identify forces...more
Jean Gonnella
Excellent, should be required reading. An eloquent writer and an amazing woman with great insights. She is one of my favorite authors and I listen audio versions of her books. I took great pleasure in reading all of her books so far. Her stories, her observations and their resulting lessons are so profound, so insightful and they have inspired me and helped me greatly to learn about life and I learned how to share stories that hear through a program I attended but this book and her others really...more
Meghan
What I learned from this book...can't be summed up in a review. Pinkola-Estes takes a fascinating look at fairy tales from different cultures, and examines how these tales teach us lessons about the human subconscious. Her primary audience is women, however I think that men will stand to benefit from her wisdom, as many of the negative voices in women's subconscious are also present in men's. This book helped me see myself more clearly, and also to clean out the dusty, rarely opened closet of my...more
Jaine
Should be required reading for women of all ages. Apparently, for a little bit, the book was some kind of cult classic that was being passed around from woman to woman. Eh. It's still a book that women like to give to their friends.

I like storytelling, myths, legends. Blah blah. I don't know if it's possible to read this book and not see yourself. It's long. One of my friends told me she read it at night before bed for about a year until she finished it.

Well worth the read.
Michael Fierce
Sep 06, 2013 Michael Fierce marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Michael Fierce by: Leisa

I like this cover best.

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Virginia
I think everybody should read this one at least once.

The only problem with it that I really have is the same problem that I have with, er... the movie Se7en.

It's great, except that it's become such a part of our cultural language that reading it years after it's release, it's become cliched.

Rabbit {Go Go Power Rangers}
This book is amazing. Every time I re-read this, I learn something new and relevant to my life in that moment.

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“There is probably no better or more reliable measure of whether a woman has spent time in ugly duckling status at some point or all throughout her life than her inability to digest a sincere compliment. Although it could be a matter of modesty, or could be attributed to shyness- although too many serious wounds are carelessly written off as "nothing but shyness"- more often a compliment is stuttered around about because it sets up an automatic and unpleasant dialogue in the woman's mind.

If you say how lovely she is, or how beautiful her art is, or compliment anything else her soul took part in, inspired, or suffused, something in her mind says she is undeserving and you, the complimentor, are an idiot for thinking such a thing to begin with. Rather than understand that the beauty of her soul shines through when she is being herself, the woman changes the subject and effectively snatches nourishment away from the soul-self, which thrives on being acknowledged."

"I must admit, I sometimes find it useful in my practice to delineate the various typologies of personality as cats and hens and ducks and swans and so forth. If warranted, I might ask my client to assume for a moment that she is a swan who does not realzie it. Assume also for a moment that she has been brought up by or is currently surrounded by ducks.

There is nothing wrong with ducks, I assure them, or with swans. But ducks are ducks and swans are swans. Sometimes to make the point I have to move to other animal metaphors. I like to use mice. What if you were raised by the mice people? But what if you're, say, a swan. Swans and mice hate each other's food for the most part. They each think the other smells funny. They are not interested in spending time together, and if they did, one would be constantly harassing the other.

But what if you, being a swan, had to pretend you were a mouse? What if you had to pretend to be gray and furry and tiny? What you had no long snaky tail to carry in the air on tail-carrying day? What if wherever you went you tried to walk like a mouse, but you waddled instead? What if you tried to talk like a mouse, but insteade out came a honk every time? Wouldn't you be the most miserable creature in the world?

The answer is an inequivocal yes. So why, if this is all so and too true, do women keep trying to bend and fold themselves into shapes that are not theirs? I must say, from years of clinical observation of this problem, that most of the time it is not because of deep-seated masochism or a malignant dedication to self-destruction or anything of that nature. More often it is because the woman simply doesn't know any better. She is unmothered.”
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“Sometimes the one who is running from the Life/Death/Life nature insists on thinking of love as a boon only. Yet love in its fullest form is a series of deaths and rebirths. We let go of one phase, one aspect of love, and enter another. Passion dies and is brought back. Pain is chased away and surfaces another time. To love means to embrace and at the same time to withstand many endings, and many many beginnings- all in the same relationship.” 193 likes
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