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    <body><![CDATA[About half-way through. Subtitle could be &quot;Masculinity in the Simon Family Tradition&quot;-- I can picture generations of us reading this and saying, &quot;How the hell did he find this out about me? I've never told anyone...&quot; One or two might then look at the title and do a Homeric &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4334491">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Interesting analysis of how depression manifests itself differently in men than the &quot;classic&quot; symptoms generally thought of.  Especially good discussion of how violence, workaholism, and depression are passed from parents to children, particularly sons.<br/><br/>As a mother of boys, I al...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54399177">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I couldn't get through this book.  It was all too familiar -- men not in touch with their feelings, victims of harsh fathers and a society that forces men to suck it up and squelch their emotions.  It seemed a bit passe and whiny in the end.  That may not be Terry Real's fault -- the book has been o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74925506">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[As happens with lots of college students, there came that point where I needed to talk to someone. It wasn’t just that I was in over my head, it was that I didn’t care and didn’t plan on getting better. On my second try, I found a therapist who was a good fit for me. She had a different backgr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59945501">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Barbara Deming writes that &quot;I think the reason that men are so very violent is that they know, deep in themselves, that they're acting out a lie, and so they're furious at being caught up in the lie. But they don't know how to break it....They're in a rage because they are acting out a lie -- w...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12354836">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very informative book about male depression and how men deal with depression different than women. A good read for men dealing with issues of anger, workaholism, or find problems connecting with others. Also a good read for anyone going into the psychology or counseling field to recieve another take...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43730701">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[For those who are interested in new insights into male depression that you wondered about all along, Real is the one to read.  I believe that Arch Hart may have documented the concept even before Terry;however, Terry's stories of others and himself keep you glued to the book. ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Really helpful for depressed dudes.  Wish I could say more but....I don't wanna talk about it.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[well, &quot;liked&quot; isn't exactly the word, but it was very enlightening and explained a lot to me.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Uh oh.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was crying by page 60 of this book which profiles male depression as evidenced in a number of interviewed American men.  Men who deal with mental health issues, depression in particular, are additionally stigmatized in societies which value men as disavowing their emotions and providing a constant...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2436188">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is about what it is to be a Man that almost no one, anywhere is talking about.  Even though this book is very well written, I found it hard to read at first.  The more I read it the easier it gets, the more this foreign idea finds the truth in my life.<br/><br/>Please, consider reading t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25049678">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have read this once so far and want to get back to it again. I have been in depression most of my adult life and am just coming out of it with the help of many great friends. This book offers some intellectual stimulation and support to get there. It does not do it all but is an integral part in m...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/37700208">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book has lots of insight into how boys develop psychologically and how depression is caused by trauma and stress during childhood as well as during adulthood.  It also talks about how to treat depression,giving a lot of case studies about the use of psychotherapy and medicine.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Got this book to understand better the lives of screwed up males *ahem* but found it very interesting to read about the psychology of this guy. Wounds, duality, hidden depression, etc. Interesting.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this for my work as a therapist. I found it interesting. Not all of it was new ideas but after mostly working with women it gave me some different ideas in my work with men.]]></body>
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