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    <body><![CDATA[This rose above the fray of standard chick lit a few times - I have found myself ruminating on a few passages.  Namely, when her parents try to help and are surprised at just how baffling the search for another can be when the woman looking has so much to recommend for herself; her dad saying &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52137309">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book to be pretty disappointing.  Like others have commented - I kept waiting for the part where something substantial happens.  I also could never understand who Anita was really looking for - and I kept waiting for her to outgrow a lifestyle that seemed to be doing nothing for her - b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43390179">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I learned that India is not the tradition bound society it once was. I enjoyed learning about the new India but Jain didn't do a great job of making herself into an interesting character. I found her writing compelling enough to finish the book but it lacked a fascinating main character. Some of the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28414921">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I can't tell if I hated the writing or hated the writer.  The only thing keeping Anita Jain from getting married is Anita Jain.  And as an Indian single girl in her 30s, I can relate to how she's feeling and what she's going through, but Anita does some real bonehead things.  And one thing is for ce...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67081407">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I can't remember why I picked this out, but I'm glad I did -- it was an engrossing read and an interesting look inside a different culture from someone who was, in some ways, on the outside looking in. The ending was somewhat abrupt and I didn't get a sense of closure, but maybe that was the point. ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48191829">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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