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The Guru of Love

3.3 of 5 stars 3.30  ·  rating details  ·  348 ratings  ·  39 reviews
Writing of Samrat Upadhyay’s debut story collection, critics raved: “like a Buddhist Chekhov . . . speak[s] to common truths . . . startlingly good” (San Francisco Chronicle) and “subtle and spiritually complex” (New York Times). Upadhyay’s first novel showcases his finest writing and his signature themes. The Guru of Love is a moving and important story — important for wh ...more
Hardcover, 304 pages
Published January 16th 2003 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
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Lizzy Williams
Through page 84: I have learned a lot of interesting facts about Nepal through this book already. One I found really interesting is how obsessed people are with their social standing. If you are upper class you show it, and if you are lower class you do what you can to hide it. The main character, Ramchandra, is conflicted by the affair he is having with one of his students. It is taking a toll on his life and his teaching as well. Everytime he is with his wife he can't stop thinking about Malat ...more
he Guru of Love is the first Nepalese novel I have read and it was an interesting experience indeed. It was even more interesting because I was constantly picturing my friend Shanti on the streets and temples of Kathmandu. Namely she sent me this novel straight from the top of the world :)

This was an easy read. Description of local religious customs, arranged marriages, matching between the castes (and consequences if the match fails) … were very interesting. It was a glimpse into another world,
Apr 27, 2010 Jill rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Nora
Upadhyay has constructed an incredibly emotionally complex novel about the love between husband and wife, and the impact changes in this relationship have on the whole family. He is a master of illustrating for the reader the interconnectedness of not just family, but also larger political events as they relate to the individual. Throughout the book he ties in the political struggles of the monarchy vs. democracy in Nepal, bringing to climax of those events simultaneously with the climax of pers ...more
I really enjoyed this. The premise is intriguing: rather than break up the family, a Nepalese man's wife invites his mistress to come and stay in their apartment. All the characters were fully drawn and their actions understandable, and I could feel sympathy for each one. Most impressively, the author is able to seamlessly integrate the culture and conflict of Nepal in the nineties into the story. That's a difficult task and many writers can't manage it and their books wind up sounding more like ...more
Sep 25, 2010 Andrea rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2009
With very limited knowledge of the customs and cultures of Nepal I was more interested in that side of the book then the story. The story was also pretty interesting with a few weird twist, but a lot of it was pretty predictable. The writing was simple and easy to read. A good book, but not something I would pass on to a friend unless they were interesting in Nepal.
A novel about Kathmandu by an IU creative writing prof from Kathmandu. The book cuts across class lines, and takes place before the Cultural Revolution. Gentle. Nuanced. The characters are generally rounded. If one wants to experience this culture, then this is a good entre. Not a life changing read by any means, and there are some moments of lack of motivation.
Fré Van Oers
Nov 23, 2010 Fré Van Oers rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Fré by: Bibek Luitel
Very readable, but little style, weak storyline, weak story.

One of my impressions on Nepali novel writers is that they don't really know what they want: write a novel or write about the (political) evolutions in their country. (Even if they don't live there anymore as is the case with Samrat Upadhyay)

Jun 16, 2014 Cathy rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Everyone, especially anyone who's been to Nepal.
The Guru of Love is a moving story of a Kathmandu math teacher, Ramchandra, who is married to Goma; they have two children. He earns a low wage so moonlights as a tutor so he can save enough money to eventually build a house; however, it seems saving money is an impossible challenge in Nepal. His in-laws are quite wealthy, and are always offering to help out Goma and Ramchandra, but Ramchandra is too proud to accept their offers to lend him money. They are always critical of him, so this is a co ...more
A must if you've been to Nepal - and just a great novel if you have not.
Have read other books by this author, one of the few Nepali fiction writers writing in English. Story of an underpaid teacher, married father of two children, who becomes infatuated with a student. The story is rather unbelievable but loved the setting in Katmandu and the general ambiance of the family and relationships between family members. A Nepali friend, in discussing the author and the book, says Upadhyay is writing for the American audience and that none of the story has any real meaning ...more
Seusai menamatkan novel ini, saya sempat tertegun. Benarkah ada cinta demikian mulia, seperti cinta yang dimiliki Goma, di dunia ini? Cinta yang memaafkan. Cinta dengan segala kebesaran jiwa.

Goma, anak gadis dari Tuan Pandey, seorang kaya raya di Kathmandu, memilih menikahi Ramchandra, lelaki miskin yang bekerja sebagai guru matematika di sebuah sekolah kampung yang (juga) miskin daripada harus menikah dengan seorang dokter pilihan orang tuanya. Ia mengancam tidak akan menikah selamanya jika or
Shashesh Silwal
3.5 Stars

Well it's an average kind of book. You neither end up being effusive about the book or censure the book and have a pan reviews of the book. I was indifferent myself upon finishing the book.

But I must felicitate the author for his attempt, being NRN in USA he has made a good attempt and I admire that.
Aug 22, 2007 Mark rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Anyone
This is not a particularly original story, yet another story of an older man who has an affair with a younger woman--but thanks to its writing and in part its unusual setting in Nepal, it worked for me. The main character is great, a teacher who can never quite live up to expectations and seems to stumble into the decisions he makes. He tutors a poor girl so she can pass his exams and one thing lead to another; at one point in the novel his wife invites him and this down-on-her luck waif into th ...more
I enjoyed this book, although it was difficult to like the characters. Not because of the mistakes they made, but how they handled those mistakes.
Caroline Alicia
Not quite what i expected from the book synopsis, much better than what i imagined. Reminds me of the saying 'don't let the green grass fool you'. Despite the 'main' character being a man, a man who has an affair, this book has a strange feminist overtone. Goma is a very... strong-willed, capable woman as a result of the affair. Or maybe she always had it in her, and it just needed a catalyst.

A big plus was, this book much like A Fine Balance, was also a bit of a history lesson. Nepali {Nepales
The text is deceptively simple. So much so that I almost stopped reading after the first 50 pages or so. But then the descriptions grabbed me and I became immersed in the foreign setting and characters. The book traces the story of a marriage tested by the husband's infidelity. Though the specific reactions of the characters did not fit my own expectations for what people would do in the same situation, the emotional power was real.
Funny, warm tale about a husband/father who spends the rest of his life making amends for a terrible "mistake."
This book is not very good, but I'm learning a lot about Nepal, I think?
I would definitely recommend this. I really liked all the imagery of Nepal and this was a fast-paced read! (Boy did I feel sorry for Goma, though).I've heard some beautiful Nepali lullabies and love songs and these were running through my head as I read the book.
A man in Kathmandu is torn between his wife and kids, and a student he's tutoring -- so his wife insists the girl, Malati. comes to live with them. Pretty good story, pretty good evocation of life in modern Nepal, but doesn't have the sweep of Mistry,
This book was just okay. It was just an interesting story of a love triangle. If it weren't for the fact that it was set it Nepal amidst political struggle, I don't know how interested I would have been. But it was still good and a quick read.
I loved this book because of the detailed description of life in modern Nepal. The character development of the protagonists was quite complete. An umusual handling of a common problem in human nature made this an interesting and quick read.
Mrsdanielle Todd-castagnola
This book was mediocre at best. It could have been better if the main character was more endearing and the plot more substantial. Sadly, I was bored while reading this book and couldn't wait for it to end.
The author deals with a complex web of emotions, and does justice to the plot. This is not a regular love-triangle, the poverty-ridden characters and the Kathmandu backdrop sets this novel apart.
A very enjoyable read. The characters are well-developed and I found myself relating to them. The plot was not what I expected. It's not entirely believable, but interesting twists.
Anne Van
Sort of a "chick lit" written by a young Nepali man. Set in Kathmandu, the story is basically a love triangle within the whirling democracy/monarchy struggles of the 1990's.
heidi was all right. not too exciting. the best part about the book was that i recognized and have been to some of the kathmandu sights mentioned.
I was excited because it takes place in Kathmandu. The descriptions of the city were the best parts. It wasn't terrible but it wasn't very good.
Interesting. I learned a little about life in Nepal. I did want to slap the main character, but enjoyed the book.
Wanda Hilaire
Learned more about eastern lifestyle. Enjoyed reading for pleasure over my holidays!
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SAMRAT UPADHYAY is the author of Arresting God in Kathmandu, which earned him a Whiting Award, and The Guru of Love, which was a New York Times Notable Book, a San Francisco Chronicle Best Book of the Year, a finalist for the Kiriyama Prize, and a Book Sense 76 pick. He lives in Bloomington, Indiana, and teaches creative writing and literature at Indiana University. His eight-year-old daughter Sha ...more
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