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  <title><![CDATA[The Unwritten Rules of Social Relationships]]></title>
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  <default_description>Dr. Grandin and Barron address the social challenges those with autism and Asperger's face, explaining in the process how confusing and illogical normal societal rules can be. They also address the &quot;unwritten rules&quot; that most children understand instinctively but are a mystery to those on the spectrum. They teach how to trust feelings, be assertive in a positive way, and deal with negative people and situations.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_month type="integer">11</original_publication_month>
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    <body><![CDATA[A fascinating but frustrating book.  Co-written by two high-functioning people with autism, it's written mostly for adults caring for children with autism and explains what social rules they might have a hard time understanding and how to teach them.  The authors are very interesting reading when th...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59824533">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jun 11 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[While verbose with too many restatements, this book did indeed provide unique perspectives.  A lot of that perspective was personal testimony by the authors who have autism.  Since the symptoms of autism vary in kind and intensity on a wide spectrum, even normal people (called neurotypicals in the b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59407065">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I think I've read most, if not all, of Temple Grandin's books and a lot of her papers too. I did prefer her writing before she became the 'official' voice of autism by autistic people. <br/><br/>This book was just so weird. To have social rules dissected by those who have learned them and not abso...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24439019">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am a neurotypical and I read this book with the hope of understanding a family member better.  I found that it helped me understand myself.  What a wonderful gift.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is completely filled with useful &amp; insightful information. I really enjoyed having both authors' perspectives, since they each experienced autism in different ways. It goes to show that there is no one approach to dealing with neuro-typical society, but there is common ground for all peopl...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48933379">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A fascinating look at the rules of interaction that neurotypicals know by instinct or nonverbal learning but autistics have to puzzle out by effort.<br/><br/>I'm particularly struck by Grandin's comments about today's social environment vs. the environment she grew up in.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm curious about autism/aspergers due to my nephew, as well as my own Childhood-deafness software issues, and I'm curious about what different pretheoretical factors can tell 'us' about how we perceive ourselves and the world differently.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Great reference for social relationship disorders.]]></body>
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