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Life Isn't All Ha Ha Hee Hee

3.52 of 5 stars 3.52  ·  rating details  ·  1,061 ratings  ·  81 reviews
Meera Syal has created an indelible portrait of a close-knit group of Indian women living in London. Caught between two cultures, three childhood friends—Chila, Sunita, and Tania—are expected to revert to being obedient mothers and wives. But their world explodes when Tania makes a documentary, starring Chila and Sunita, about contemporary urban Indian Life. The result is
Paperback, 336 pages
Published June 2nd 2001 by Picador (first published October 1st 1999)
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An interesting read portraying the journey of three British/Asian girls as they battle with the sense of not belonging to either culture, never fitting in with either. At times I felt I could relate to their hardships, (despite feeling that the Indians have it better than the Arabs) as they struggle to break free from all the labels placed on them, but on the whole, I also felt a self of relief that I could most definitely not classify myself as one of them, as my sense of belonging far exceeds ...more
Vickie Wang
May 09, 2007 Vickie Wang rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Asian women of all ages
I see a little bit of myself in each of the three main characters. My friends from class assume that Tania would be my Punjabi-alter-ego, and I do see some similarities. Physical appearance that stands out from other Asian girls, westernized attitude, but I grew out of rejecting my culture after I went to the U.S.

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It was Sunita that really spoke to me. She's an ex-bra-burning feminist, which is one of my many aspiration, who fell madly in love with a fellow Punjabi thinker, failed
Recommended to me by my sister, I ended up really liking this book for a number of reasons. Firstly, it's written by Meera Syal who you may know from "Goodness Gracious Me" or any number of the other things she's contributed to. So needless to say there's a good amount of dry humor but each of the three main characters are incredibly compelling and although they are worlds different from one another the reader can relate to each of them, become invested in them, and want to shake them when they ...more
I didn't write a review before, but reading others' I felt I had to respond. I thought it was a bit offensive that people labeled this light--just because it's about women's lives doesn't mean it's light at all. Do you call death, infidelity, social injustice, etc. light? In fact, I think this contains quite a meaningful examination of a lot of important issues (diaspora, women's roles, the intersection of cultures and generations) and is really complex and beautifully written. Don't even get me ...more
Nov 19, 2007 Lorraine rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: women and book clubs
Shelves: british
An excellent blend of chiclit and serious literature. The book is not a "light read" but is disguised as one, with the way it encompasses topics of typical chic lit fiction (love, adultery, dull marriages, girl friends, midlife crisis, dysfunctional families) with profound insight and realism -- no sugar coating, but no hyperbolic drama, either. The combination of three women, very different but intimately bound together, makes for a good read.
Even though my own journey is so different from the
I loved this book, read it in 24 hrs, laughed so hard at times my sides hurt. My husband is English Indian so his references helped quite a bit. Aside from the funny bits, Meera had some great insights about modern South Asian that sticks out particularly is "no matter how succesful she was outside of the home (be it dr, scientist, CEO), the Asian woman always had to bow her head to her in-laws/Indian society at some point" (that is my general recollection of that line anyway!)

For mo
Upon reading the blurb all I thought was 'here's another book about the lives of Indian origin girls in London..'but just to humor myself I did end up reading it. And it was a complete surprise. Meera Syal is a funny, honest and precise writer; three traits that writers often do not posses in tandem. While the characters are quite cliche (Tania the sexy, smart and independent one, Chila the naive and conflicted one and Sunita the one with the marriage in limbo and the body image issues), Syal gi ...more
Harsha Priolkar
My second book of the year and the one that finally broke the reading rut I've found myself in for too long now! I've seen Syal on TV in the Brit sitcoms she's appeared in but never read her. Having now read her, I must say I like her writing better than her acting!

'Life isn't all Ha Ha Hee Hee' is the story of three friends, three women Tania, Chila and Sunita, bound together by an inherent streak of independence and a underlying desire to break free from the Punjabi roots that bind them all. E
An insight into Indian culture and relationships from the viewpoint of 4 female friends, I found it mildly entertaining, but it tried too hard to be funny and didn't succeed. Only read if you find yourself with absolutely nothing else to do except shoot yourself
Janet Gogerty
I spotted this as a hardback in a charity shop and bought it, as Meera Syal is one of my favourite authors and comedians. I have read 'Anita and Me' and seen the films of both books a while ago.This was written last century, so much has happened in the world since then, a 'modern' novel dates far more quickly than a genuinely old book.
But I enjoyed it, a sparky, funny book with characters and situations you will recognise if you have lived in London. It is also a story about families, different
A nice comedy ! Made me chuckle many a time. For those of you unfamiliar with Meera Syal - she is an author, scriptwriter, comedian and actress. She is most well known for playing the Grandma on the TV Show – The Kumars at No. 42.
“Life isn’t all Ha Ha Hee Hee”, takes place in modern day Britain and centers on three girls – Chila, Sunni and Tania, all friends from childhood, who are now in their 30s, living life, getting married, having careers and raising children, not always in the way they w
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I was curiously reminded, over and over again, of Terry McMillan's Waiting to Exhale. Tania, Sunita and Chila are frequently nteresting women that you can laugh with--I am sorry, I did NOT understand Chila--, but who also make you say puhleeze...put on your big girl panties and grow up! I loved the peek into Indian culture, which is far more proscribed (I don't like to say restrictive, having met two wonderfully happy, pampered, strong, Indian women personally) than my own. It must be difficult, ...more
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My 2010 bookcrossing journal

Hurah, I have finally gotten around to reading this book. I've already read another of her books - Anita and Me - which I enjoyed. And I've never been in the mood to pick this book up and read it. I don't know why, whether it was something with the cover or something... anyway, I listed it on bookmooch with a delay note, so that as soon as someone mooched it, I would be forced to get on and read it!

I did enjoy this, but I don't think it was anything amazing. A good re
After reading Anita and Me, I was looking forward to this book but it didn't live up to expectations. As a look at the cultural quest of a group of friends moving from their traditional Punjabi roots to contemporary London this is interesting enough, but the characters lacked depth and as a story about individuals I didn't find I cared enough.
I knew I was going to like this book, it did come highly recommended, but I was not prepared to love this book. I was actually reading passages to my husband, discussing points with my children, writing down paragraphs, rereading entire chapters...yeah, it got to me. I didn't understand the parts which referred to the Indian culture, but boy did I understand the meaning. What a delight to read!
I really enjoyed this book and read too late each night as I didn't want to stop. The three different female characters are all suitably different to be distinguishable, and allowed for plenty of variety in the plot. Evocative descriptions and descriptive writing. A good read.
Was very nervous about this book as it's not the sort of thing that I would choose to read myself, but since it has been sitting on my shelf for over a year I thought it was about time I read it! I was unsure if I would understand the jokes as I only have a small Indian background (My own mother has an Indian background but she died when I was very young) but I did find myself laughing out loud, shaking the book in frustration and almost crying. It is basically a book about three friends with ve ...more
I wasn't a fan of this novel. It was nicely written prose, but I had a hard time relating to the characters (South Asian women who were born and bred in the UK). I usually am not a fan of South Asian literature that portrays S. Asian immigrants as confused, clumsy, cartoon-like, goofy, troubled, and backward and it is usually these types of stories and movies that make it into the mainstream. Though the author seems to have a grasp on the problems that second generation S. Asian women face, in t ...more
Sunita, Chila and Tania are childhood friends. They live in London and are all of Indian descent. The books begings with Chila's wedding to Deepak ... an arranged marriage. It has always been Sunita and Tania's job to look after Chila - always considered "slow" as a child. Chila's marriage is very innocent, but we learn that Tania has dated Deepak in the past. Chila doesn't know until she sees them kiss. Sunita is married with two children. Her marriage is in a lull, but she doesn't throw in the ...more
I think of this as sort of a British South Asian "Waiting to Exhale." Did I read that from the bookcover or did I make it up? But it really is kinda like that. Kinda pop, not too deep, but fun. It made me laugh out loud a few times, which is why I enjoyed it. Most books about "our" experiences are heavy or literary or depressing, which is not bad, but it just starts to get boring sometimes, until you get something like this to shake it up a bit. It was kind of refreshing to read something kind o ...more
This is a complex, deep and thoughtful book that portrayed three childhood friends as they grew up. Yes, it's about women but this is not chick lit or light. I marvel at the psychological depth and the tension conveyed in their relationships. I appreciated that the context was the UK and that that had its cultural overlay in the storytelling and the social commentary. I was pleased by the depth and complexity of the characters, all told in the first person. The author intermittently included the ...more
1999. London Indian [Punjabi] community. Second-generation young women.

Had to learn some modern UK/London slang for this one!

Agree with several goodreads readers that altho the book sounds 'light' it really isn't.
Just at the very beginning I couldn't quite get into the book, but it turns into a compelling portrayal of three young women's quite different ways of dealing with their ethnic background [embrace it, pretend it isn't there, or change it from within].
Quite a lot of humor in it, and it s
This is an enjoyable story with a familiar structure: the intertwined lives and thoughts of three lifelong female friends. The real twist though is that we haven't seen a great deal of literature that describes British South Asian women living in the day-to-day (or American South Asian for that matter). I found it relatable as well as informative to read about their experiences. I did find the novel long-winded and tangential at times, but I also got caught up in several of the dramas at hand. S ...more
Excerpts from my readers response notebook

Early on in my reading...

I think Tania is feeling the burn of living in limbo...of trying to define who you are and who you want to be. She knows that fulfullung the rold of a traditional Indian wife if not what she wants, but having to live alife as an "exotic" for a man who does not understand is not acceptable either.

I think she left her relationship with Deepak out of fear that they would become what neither of them wanted...the traditional Indian
Sian Powell
This was an interesting story of 3 women, born in Britain but with Indian heritage and some of the issues they face. They are all different but were friends at school. The book follows them as one of them gets married. I enjoyed the story, it was an interesting insight into Britain from an Indian point of view.
Lisa Dyer
An enjoyable and interesting read. Quick witted story about three modern Indian women growing up in the UK and trying to make their way in the world amidst the cultural expectations of their families. Chila, the traditional girl who always dreamed of being a good wife and mother, Sunita, who put aside her career ambitions to marry well and start a family, and Tanya, the ambitious modern woman with no plans to settle down. They all reach crossroads in their lives where they must choose the ways o ...more
I loved this and could barely bring myself to stop reading it.

The book follows the trials and tribulations of three British Indian women, friends who almost form a holy trinity.

Meera Syal is a British Indian comedienne who was part of a sketch comedy group called "Goodness Gracious Me." There are some very funny moments in the book, but what touched me most was the relationship of the three heroines, how they complemented each other and protected each other. Their portrayal feels very genuine;
Chelsie Priest
This book was included on my reading list I obtained whilst at college.

It offers us a glimpse into the life of Asian women and deals with arranged marriage, relationship issues, extra-marital affairs and childbirth amongst other things. It offers us a view into what you may think is stereotypical and yet breaks those stereotypes with every chapter. The novel is brought full circle and offers a happy ending despite everything the ladies have to face within their friendship.

It's still no Anita an
Couldn't really keep my attention .
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Meera Syal MBE (born Feroza Syal 27 June 1961 in Essington, near Wolverhampton) is a British Indian comedienne, writer, playwright, singer, journalist and actress. Her Punjabi-born parents came to Britain from New Delhi, and she has risen to prominence as one of the most UK's best-known Indian personalities. She was awarded the MBE in the New Year's Honours List of 1997.

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