Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior

Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior

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A fascinating journey into the hidden psychological influences that derail our decision-making, Sway will change the way you think about the way you think.

Why is it so difficult to sell a plummeting stock or end a doomed relationship? Why do we listen to advice just because it came from someone “important”? Why are we more likely to fall in love when there’s danger involve...more
Hardcover, 206 pages
Published June 3rd 2008 by Crown Business (first published June 1st 2008)
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Trevor
First you need to find yourself an interesting verb – Sway in this case, obviously, but Snoop is also good, as is Stick. It doesn’t have to start with ‘s’ – there’s Blink as well, of course. Then you need some really good stories about people at the end of their tether. Plane accidents are particularly good for this. Both Outliers and Sway both have plane crashes and both have you at the edge of your seat waiting for the inevitable.

Then you need ‘get-out-of-here’ psychology tests – honestly, who...more
Lena
I was not at all in the mood for another non-fiction book about human behavior when my husband asked if I wanted to read this one before he returned it to the library. I half-heartedly decided to scan a few pages before saying no, but I was quickly sucked in to a fictionalized re-creation of the last few hours in the cockpit of the KLM flight responsible for the 1977 Tenerife crash that claimed the lives of 583 people.

Though this book looks at research from social psychology, behavioral economic...more
Lisa Vegan
Jun 01, 2008 Lisa Vegan rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: everyone - except those who never read nonfiction, but maybe they’d appreciate this one
This book is very readable and entertaining, and so engaging that I just kept reading and didn’t read the notes until after I’d finished the book, which is unusual for me. It’s fascinating knowlege for anyone who has an interest in universal human nature and/or group dynamics.

The authors take a bunch of existing studies and do a tremendous job of presenting a cogent thesis about why human beings can exhibit such irrational behaviors. I was familiar with many of the studies cited in the book; I w...more
Otis Chandler
Aug 29, 2008 Otis Chandler rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Otis by: kareem
Great book. Quick read, and you learn about about psychology that you can apply to life or business.

A few notes:
- All about first impressions. First impressions can sway our opinion of something for years to come regardless of subsequent performance.
- Labels matter. If you label someone as a higher performer, top of class, leader, having command potential, etc - it will translate into them actually having it. My high school motto was Principes Non Homines (leaders not men) - now I know why they...more
Brian
Quick read - 181 pages. I banged it out over two days. Sway is a social economic book from the same vein as Freakonomics and The Tipping Point. The authors descibe psychological forces that can "sway" people into irrational decision making. Several well stated examples are given to support the authors theories throughout.

Overall, Sway is entertaining. It falls short on meaningful substance, and some areas are fluff laden. However, there are several interesting points illustrated through engaging...more
David
This book covers roughly the same behavioral economics territory considered in such recent books as Dan Ariely's "Predictably Irrational" (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/....) and "Nudge" by Richard Thaler and Cass Sunstein (http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/....) It had been stalking me on my Amazon recommendations queue for at least a year, but I had resisted it successfully until this weekend, when I came across it in the bookstore and finally succumbed.

I'm glad I did. I wasn't expe...more
Jonathan
Very entertaining. It feels like the authors have just kind of thrown a lot of material together, but the material is fascinating. Roughly speaking, the book is about how people's behavior and decisions are driven by psychological factors they aren't aware of.

Just to give an example, there was a study dealing with the impact of first impressions in which a class of college students were told they would have a substitute instructor for that day's lecture. Bios of the lecturer were handed out, an...more
Jackie "the Librarian"
Aug 04, 2008 Jackie "the Librarian" rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: If you enjoy books such as Freakonomics
Recommended to Jackie "the Librarian" by: Lisa Vegan
Shelves: non-fiction
That street musician might just be a musical genius - you never know! Beware of making assumptions about the value of something based on superficial appearances, or you may miss out on a masterpiece, like the stolen painting in a cheap frame, left out with the trash, and found on the streets of New York by a woman with a discerning eye.
Give yourself permission to go against the crowd, and question authority when you have legitimate questions. In other words, don't let yourself fall prey to bein...more
Bonnie
liked the concept, didn't like the writing style. Not as good as "the drunkards walk"
Ashley Borda
In the Brafman brother's book "Sway The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior" they discuss the fact that as humans, we act rationally most of the time. Especially in situations where we are expected to, like work or school. Yet for some reason sometimes we don't, no matter how professional we think we are. The Brafman's told a story about KLM Flight 4805. The pilot of this flight was one of the most trustworthy, experienced, highly trained pilots at the time. He was the best pilot that the a...more
Nick
Ori and Rom Brafman provide a quick read on the psychology of irrational human behavior. Sway will prove useful to anyone interested in understanding both why people and groups behave the way they do and also how to influence that behavior.

The Brafman's focus on why individuals and groups sometimes behave irrationally. They point to three psychological processes, (1) loss aversion, (2) commitment, and (3) value attribution.

People and groups succumb to loss aversion when they ignore maximizing ga...more
Lynne Favreau
I’ve been considering people’s motivations, trying to figure out why we make the choices we do, in an attempt to understand what may have precipitated the actions of characters I’m writing about. Sway caught my eye on the list of books I wanted to read and turned out to be a pretty interesting. Unexpectedly, this book gave me a lot to think about as far as trying to come up with rationales (however irrational) for why my characters might make the choices they do.

The Brafman brothers illustrate t...more
Jill Furedy
Sway was a quick read filled with lots if sociological studies, which I always find interesting, and yet when I closed the book I felt like I hadn't gotten a thing out of it. The main studies I remember is the 'dissenters voice in a group" and the "subway musician/art in the dumpster" scenarios. But there wasn't a lot of practical application...for instance, I was interested in the job interview section. But it told me what questions not to ask, gave me a vague idea of what questions might be be...more
Jeana
Quick, entertaining read that brought me back to my college Psych 1 class. Unlike college though, reading summaries of psych studies seems to make things "click" a bit more now, as you see these findings being played out in your daily life, especially in work situations. I think the authors could have done a better job of defining "irrational behavior" or the reasons behind why we might act in seemingly irrational ways.

I especially found the snippets on how the concept of loss alters our behavi...more
Sandra Strange
Another great nonfiction read, this book examines the ways in which we derail our decisions, ignoring rational considerations for the irrational pull of obstinacy or out of perceptions of unfairness. The engaging writing helps a lot, but what's most fun to read is the experiences and experiments that support and dramatize the "pull of irrational behavior" the authors are discussing. Some of the most fun: if someone you cannot identify must divide a sum of money, offering you as much (or as littl...more
Shannon Smith
For me, this book falls into the same genre as Malcolm Gladwell’s books and Freakonomics, all of which I rather enjoy. It contains a lot of anecdotes that build to push a single point. The point driven home in this book is that there are underlying forces that are always at work “swaying” us towards doing things that from the outside seem irrational.

It was a very quick read, but a good one. While reading it, I found myself analyzing situations in my life where the forces they discuss might be at...more
Rhonda
Really liked this...a study on why we sometimes do things that are so uncharacteristic for us, and what sways us to do them.

It discussed that there are four distinct roles people play in group decisions. Of course, the initiator who comes up with the idea, bad or good, followed by the blocker, the one who helps maintain balance in the group and presents the other side. Soon the supporter steps in and takes the side of one or the other. The observer stays fairly neutral and tends to just comment...more
Barnaby Thieme
I wish I could recommend this book, as the topic is an interesting and important one, but I can't. It's simply not well written or organized.

Brafman treats the hot topic of cognitive biases and nonconscious factors that contribute to decision making, an area which has received enormous attention in recent years in cognitive and social psychology (Wegner, Wilson), and economics (Tversky).

I gather what he's trying to do is to present some of the basic findings to a lay audience. Either Brafman's...more
Kelly
Jul 17, 2010 Kelly rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: people who are curious about human decision-making behavior
I've been reading a lot of books like this lately--books that talk about how irrational humans are. Basically, all of them have me convinced that we are doomed, and this one is no different. I mean, it's fine that we made idiotic decisions or simply don't understand probability or cause and effect when we were hunting and gathering, but now that we have things like nuclear bombs, it's more frightening.

One of the stories in the book is about the worst plane crash in history (Tenerife, KLM/Pan Am...more
Julie
Sway deals with one of my favourite topics: why we're not as rational as we think. In fact, Sway highly reminiscent of Predictably Irrational (one of my favourite non-fiction books), using many of the same example cases and to make its points. To take just a few examples: how can a seasoned pilot, the head of safety for a major airline, ram his plane into another parked on the runway? Why do players picked in later rounds of an NBA draft get less game time, even if they're just as good as earlie...more
Jonny99
I didn’t check the NYT Bestseller list but I would assume that Sway must be doing well. It is brief enough to read over a weekend and there is just enough psychology that you can repeat and sound like you know what you are talking. It is sort of a little tree that grew in the ground broken by Freakonomics.
The book starts with a story of the mature, highly experienced, and well-trained head of safety at KLM airlines impulsively taking off without clearance, plowing into another plane and killing...more
Mazola1
Sway is a light but thought provoking little book which attempts to shed some light on why people believe and stubbornly continue to act upon irrational beliefs. Why did Lyndon Johnson and George Bush get stuck in paths of action which viewed rationally could be seen to be mistakes? For the same reasons investors don't dump stocks even after it's obvious they're headed for the celler -- because it's very hard to take a loss. Why would people pass up an opportunity to receive a significant amount...more
Christal
Sway: The Irresistible Pull of Irrational Behavior by Ori and Ram Brofman is a very broad overview of several sociological attributes that may affect behavior, causing people to react and behave in unexpected ways. The Brofmans provide a multitude of anecdotal evidence to explain these topics and to demonstrate how they might be observed in everyday life. While this book isn’t very effective at explaining how to combat irrational behavior, it does succeed in introducing the common attributes in...more
Blanca Rodriguez
"Although no one is likely to win a popularity contest by playing the devil's advocate, businesses would do well to respect a dissenting opinion-if The dissenter, of course, is as likely to be wrong as anybody else, but the discussion of the points made by the dissenter can add perspective to the debate."

The above quote is one of the reasons I enjoyed Sway as much as I did.

I have a sociology degree and have been exposed to many of the ideas presented in Sway, however, I'd never come across a b...more
Deb
*Swayed from word one*

Appropriately enough, I was swayed into this book from the very first word! Fascinating, funny, and superbly written, _Sway_ reveals how irrational forces (including loss aversion, value attribution, and diagnoses bias) unconsciously influence our behaviors and thinking. Each chapter begins with a title page of irresistible teasers (such as: "The $204 twenty-dollar bill," Can a discount drink decrease IQ?" "What lovesick college freshmen have in common with HR managers," "P...more
Chris
Much like Predictably Irrational, which I recently read, Sway is concerned with the ways we consistently act irrationally. The Brafmans use a mix of real life illustrations and sociological research to illustrate their points, coming from the fields of business and psychology. They offer enlightening and frightening insights into human behavior, why we do the stupid things we do, and ideas for being a little less stupid.

Because I read this right on the heels of Predictably Irrational, I can't re...more
Ross
Think of the the Brafman brothers as a poor man's Malcolm Galdwell. A very, very poor man. "Sway" covers interesting and important ground, but dumbs it down way too much.

This might be the right call when presenting this material to a half-day corporate retreat. But it makes for a maddening read. Instead of building up their case based on evidence and support, the authors simply assert their conclusions (or the conclusions of the researchers on which they rely? It's never made clear). Instead of...more
Christopher
The authors main premise is that we as humans are fundamentally flawed in our abilities to make rational decisions due to various factors in our upbringing and values systems.

Take for example the story about Who Wants to Be a Millionaire? In America individuals generally admire the wealthy, and as a result when a contestant on the show uses the Ask the Audience life-line the audience gives the correct answer more than 90% of the time. Russians are suspicious of the wealthy as they believe that...more
Yeribel
Quotes/Notes:

Aversion to loss: It doesn’t matter how wrong the decision is, as long as you believe that things will turn out well in the end you will do everything possible to keep in the path. Fighting is better than accepting defeat.

Daniel Kahneman: “To withdraw now is to accept a sure loss,” he writes about digging oneself deeper into a political hole, “and that option is deeply unattractive.” When you combine this with the force of commitment, “the option of hanging on will therefore be rela...more
Aimee
3.5 stars.

The authors enumerate several different patterns of irrational behavior (sways) that are endemic in human decision making. Some are culturally based, but most are actually hardwired into our brains in various ways. I especially enjoyed the first several chapters of the book which clearly explain why I am a terrible investor.

The light tone of the book makes it incredibly readable, but the sacrifice is that the authors never go very in depth on any given sway. Their remarks are rather a...more
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