Belong to Me: A Novel

by Marisa de los Santos (Goodreads author!)

published	May 1st 2008 by HarperAudio
binding	Audio CD
isbn	0061557633 (isbn13: 9780061557637)
description	Everyone has secrets. Some we keep to protect ourselves, others to protect those we love. A devoted city dweller, Cornelia Brown surprise...more [close] Everyone has secrets. Some we keep to protect ourselves, others to protect those we love. A devoted city dweller, Cornelia Brown surprised herself when she was gripped by the sudden desire to head for an idyllic suburb. Though she knows she's made the right move, she approaches her new life with trepidation and struggles to forge friendships. Cornelia's mettle is quickly tested by judgmental neighbor Piper Truitt, the embodiment of everything Cornelia feared she would find in suburbia. A saving grace soon appears in the form of Lake, and Cornelia develops an instant bond with this warm yet elusive woman. As their individual stories unfold, the women become entangled in a web of trust, betrayal, love and loss that challenges them in ways they never imagined, and that ultimately teaches them what it means for one human being to belong to another. [close]
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Lara rated it:

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05/01/08

Read in April, 2008

I'm basically copying this from what I wrote on my blog, which is why it's so lengthy:

I thought this was positively delicious. And I’m not just saying that because I got the book for free, either. I’m not afraid to trash free stuff, you know (Hi there, Old Navy Jeans! You still suck!). I’m saying it because it really is lovely.

I first encountered Ms. de los Santos’s writing when I picked up her book Love Walked In off one of those tables at the megabookstore with the “buy 2...more I'm basically copying this from what I wrote on my blog, which is why it's so lengthy:

I thought this was positively delicious. And I’m not just saying that because I got the book for free, either. I’m not afraid to trash free stuff, you know (Hi there, Old Navy Jeans! You still suck!). I’m saying it because it really is lovely.

I first encountered Ms. de los Santos’s writing when I picked up her book Love Walked In off one of those tables at the megabookstore with the “buy 2 paperbacks for the price of 3″ signs or whatever. I don’t think I’ve ever hidden the fact that I am a sucker for an attractive book cover despite all proverbial advice not to choose one’s reading material (or anything else) that way, and the cover for Love Walked In spoke to me. Anyway, I ended up loving the book and was so pleased to learn that de los Santos was building further upon those characters with Belong to Me.

Reading Belong to Me is like walking around with one of those geared-towards-children “READING IS FUN!” posters pinned to your back. That’s what it is: pure, unadulterated fun. It is a 390-page reminder of why I love to read. It made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me roll my eyes at the questionable realism, it made me snort, it made me nod my head in agreement, and it made me want to jump into the pages and hang out with most of the characters and then it made me want to jump out of the pages and hang out with the author. I mean, sure, we read books sometimes because we want to be moved at our very core or because we want to feel intellectual or because we want to learn or because it won a Pulitzer or a Booker Prize or whatever. But sometimes we read to be entertained. Belong to Me does just that - and the best thing about it is that it does that without being too embarrassingly vapid or chick lit-ish.

It doesn’t hurt that I want to be friends with Cornelia Brown, the main character, either, despite the fact that she describes herself as weighing about the same as “your average sack of groceries” (I tend to resent thin people). I can get past that - easily - with her description of her first suburban dinner party:

“It was a pastel-colored prairie of linen pants and sleeveless tops, stretching in every direction as far as the eye could see. I stood on its edge and felt myself in my dress turning - subtly, like an early-autumn leaf or a days-old open bottle of red wine - from easy and elegant to overreaching and tarty.”

And then, later, as she so appropriately describes the way I feel at most events involving my in-laws:

“‘I’m good at dinner parties!’ I wanted to shout. ‘Dinner parties are my natural habitat! I am appropriately dressed and good at dinner parties!’”

Cornelia, honey, you’re not alone.

I don’t want to ruin the book for you by telling you much more, since I suck at keeping secrets and will inevitably overshare too much of the plot, but you should definitely read this. Set down War & Peace for a little bit and settle in for some scrumptiosity (a word, I promise!). And Ms. de los Santos, if you’re anything like Cornelia or Clare or any of your other characters (hell, even Piper-like-viper-but-with-a-p) and you’re up for a chat over too much wine, I’d be honored to join you. I can’t wait for your next book to come out....less

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Anna rated it:

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07/26/08

bookshelves: chick-lit, fiction

Read in July, 2008

recommends it for: Readers who like lots of mundane detail, long sentences, and an overabundance of commas!

Okay, so this is your classic Marisa de los Santos -- LOTS of commas, unnecessary detail, and probably one too many plot lines interwoven together... She's definitely a talented writer but I think she needs better editors. And she needs to stop it with the insanely long, comma-laden sentences!!!

I'm really torn on whether or not to say this is a "good book" because I think parts of it certainly are good but on the whole I kind of struggled with huge chunks (amounting to probably ha...more Okay, so this is your classic Marisa de los Santos -- LOTS of commas, unnecessary detail, and probably one too many plot lines interwoven together... She's definitely a talented writer but I think she needs better editors. And she needs to stop it with the insanely long, comma-laden sentences!!!

I'm really torn on whether or not to say this is a "good book" because I think parts of it certainly are good but on the whole I kind of struggled with huge chunks (amounting to probably half the text). The author is HORRIBLE at writing interesting introductions/beginning parts of her novels so the first 100-150 pages or so were really pretty dull and confusing and I ended up skimming much of it. Many of the characters carried over from Love Walked In -- Cornelia, Teo, and Clare. I suppose I should've liked them and cared about them (since I did in the previous novel) but interestingly enough they were entirely flat and boring this book! Cornelia, especially, because the author tried SO HARD to make her funny and witty and likable but I could not get myself to care about her. The much more interesting characters were the new ones -- Piper, Dev, and to an extent, Lake. The plot twist -- the attempt to tie the new and old together -- seemed pretty contrived but at the same time was a bit shocking. I don't know if this means I am oblivious or if I skimmed over some important parts, but I was actually surprised.

I have no idea why the author felt compelled to add Lyssa as a background character. I also didn't buy Rafferty's character one bit. Even Lake seemed too psychotic from the beginning for me to really like her but at least she was more interesting than boring, annoying Cornelia.

But... despite of all my negative comments, I have to acknowledge that parts of this book were really good. I read some chapters in their entirety and found them to be interesting. This was especially true for Piper's storyline. The author did an excellent job of developing her character and making her very human and likable and I think the chapters about her were the best ones in the whole book.

So, I am giving this book 2 stars even though 2.5 is much more appropriate but I can't quite say I "liked it."

Also, just a side comment, it really bothers me that two of the four authors whose "praise" they quote on the back cover of this novel are in fact [what I would consider] "bad" authors. Jennifer Weiner, who describes absolutely every piece of chick-lit as "wickedly funny" or "bewitching," and Karen Joy Fowler, whose novel The Jane Austen Book Club is consistently one of the lowest rated titles on Goodreads. ...less

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Karma rated it:

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07/21/08

Read in April, 2008

I LOVED this book! In many ways the plot was unoriginal - finding your true self by not being afraid to deviate from social norms and expectations, women learning to get past stupid assumptions and biases, etc. Sometimes the writing verged on arrogant; either over simplifying the complex or alternately making complex the simple. BUT, then she would put words to a feeling or thought that I didn't even realize I felt or had thought! Her descriptions of motherhood were so beautiful and stunning...more

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Tamara rated it:

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06/04/08

bookshelves: crowd-pleasers

Read in June, 2008

recommends it for: Jodi Picoult fans

I have to preface this review by saying that I am very dense. There is no other explanation for the fact that it took me almost 75 pages to realize this was the sequel to Love Walked In and not just the author's second novel. Sigh.

Similar in style to Jodi Picoult and Anne Tyler (without Picoult's cult following and only if Anne Tyler were prescribed Prozac and a shot of Oprah.) This is one of those books that I find to be perfectly imperfect. I have the desire to dissect it, but in t...more

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Sarah rated it:

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07/25/08

Read in July, 2008

This was my first ebook on my Kindle which I think is at least in part what I liked so much about it.

The story is told from 3 different characters points of view with chapters alternating between them. I enjoyed this literary device very much because I thought the characters were well developed, believable and quite interesting. They were also complete enough and different enough that I always knew whose perspective I was reading about. The author did a neat job of allowing us to know what ...more

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Lisa rated it:

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05/28/08

I'm just going to admit it right off the bat--I loved everything about this book from the picture on the front cover to the last sentence...

Marisa de los Santos is a poet, and it's evident in her prose. There is an economy in her writing yet it's also imbued with desriptive phrases that make you think, "Oh...I know exactly what she means." And she uses words like 'insouciant' and "truculent' as a matter of course.

I'm beginning to think there is some new requiremen...more

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Roxy rated it:

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07/03/08

bookshelves: are-you-gonna-make-me-cry--, book-club-selection, general-fiction

Read in June, 2008

*sigh* finally finished it!! This book was a selection for my non-GR bookclub and not my choice. I'm not going to describe the story line because I suck at that so all you are getting, as usual, is my opinion.

The first half is difficult to read. The author loves to embellish everything. Paragraph upon paragraph of description of something that is not even that important to the storyline. I'd say she spends the first half of the book just describing the characters. I put the book down ab...more

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Eileen rated it:

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05/18/08

bookshelves: chick-lit

Read in May, 2008

recommended to Eileen by: Barnes and Noble

A group of people with issues meets group of people #2 with issues. A lot of heart breaking situations occur with "witty" lines and "intellectual" references to classical composers, well known authors and artists. What would Chick-lit be with out it?! THEN Predictable twist happens (uh oh wasnt expecting that) and group #1 and #2 are related (suspense music) But no worries, all ends well and has a hollywood ending. With every annoying cheezie line known to man.

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Whitney rated it:

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04/18/08

Read in April, 2008

Loved, loved, loved, loved, loved LOVED this book. It was the kind of book that I would think about all day... dying to get home and pick it up again. I even started bringing it on my lunch break and reading it in the park-- I couldnt get enough! I can't remember the last book I read that I became so obsessed with.

You have to read Love Walked In before you read this one in order to truly fall head over heels in love with Teo, Cornelia, and Clare... and then in Belong to me you will fall MO...more

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Kate rated it:

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06/07/08

Read in May, 2008

I read "Love Walked In" as a book club book - it seemed like a good way to end our club for the summer - lighter than some of the other books we read but with enough content to make for a good discussion.
Well, it turned out to be so much more. We all loved the book and had one of the best discussions we'd had in months. Personally, I fell in love with the characters - I wanted to know them, be their friend. As soon as I realized there was a second book, I started reading. I admit...more

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Stephanie rated it:

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07/13/08

Read in July, 2008

It wasn't until the climax of this story that I realized I was truly enjoying it. It took a long time for the characters to "come together" and I found myself struggling to get through chapters dedicated to certain individuals. Still, the outcome of the character's collision with one another made it worth the wait. In whole, it was a beautiful story.

I absolutely loved the relationship between Cornelia and Piper. I fell in love with Cornelia while reading "Love Walked In"...more

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Pam rated it:

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02/02/08

bookshelves: fiction

Read in February, 2008

02/02/08
TITLE/AUTHOR: BELONG TO ME by Marisa de los Santos
RATING: 4.5/B+
GENRE/PUB DATE/# OF PGS: Fiction/2008/288 pgs
SERIES/STAND ALONE: Stand Alone
TIME/PLACE: Present/suburb of Philadelphia
CHARACTERS: Corneila Brown/wife to Teo/dr
FIRST LINES: My fall from suburban grace, or, more accurately, my failure to achieve the merest molehill of suburban grace from which to fall, began w/ a dinner party & a perfectly innocent, modestly clever, & only faintly quirky remark abo...more

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Juli rated it:

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04/16/08

bookshelves: 2008, favorites

Read in April, 2008

recommended to Juli by: the galoshes! or, the author's name being on the cover was enou
recommends it for: all of you! <3

I have so much love for this book and this author. Lookit the cover! With galoshes! And uneven page ends! Believe it or not, the inside is even better. :P

I bought it on Saturday, and then had so much to do all weekend, that I ended up reading it all night Sunday night, after carrying it around with me everywhere. This is the sequel to Love Walked In, which is possibly my favorite book ever (or at least in a four-way tie :P), and if you haven't read it, go out and get it. Now.

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Fran rated it:

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07/13/08

Read in July, 2008

i started reading this book last week when i borrowed it from my library. BUT it was only a 7-day loan and no renewals allowed. i read feverishly for several days, and i even bought myself time IN the library for an hour before i had to go home, on the day it was due. but, alas, i have 103 pgs to go and I REALLY want to finish it. but with going on vaca for over a week, i won't be able to take it out again to read over the vaca. i'll be back to finish it SOON!

***********Got the book yest...more

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mellymel rated it:

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04/15/08

Read in April, 2008

Utterly readable, even if you haven't read Love Walked In, this story stands alone. The author (a poet) has a lovely fluid style. She makes the reader privy to all of the private thoughts (and this is a VERY thoughtful bunch) and weaves it all together with just enough history and background that the story makes sense. And I especially enjoyed how it explored women's friendships - the work it takes to make friends in adulthood. So often characters are "lifelong" friends or fall easily ...more

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Gail rated it:

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05/11/08

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Read in May, 2008

A devoted city dweller, Cornelia Brown surprised no one more than herself when she was gripped by the sudden, inescapable desire to leave urban life behind and head for an idyllic suburb. Though she knows she and her beloved husband, Teo, have made the right move, she approaches her new life with trepidation and struggles to forge friendships in her new home. Cornelia's mettle is quickly tested by judgmental neighbor Piper Truitt. Perfectly manicured, impeccably dressed, and possessing impossibl...more

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Linda rated it:

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07/04/08

This is one of the best I've read in a long time. I didn't want it to end, but when it did, it ended perfectly. Even the acknowledgmt. to her husband, "...whose many gifts include changing the way time moves," what a well-loved husband she has. I loved every character so much that it never bothered me to go from one to another. Marisa del los Santos intertwined their lives brilliantly. Teo and Cornelia were a "perfect" couple who met their "trials" head on Pip...more

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Laura rated it:

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05/10/08

bookshelves: borrowed-from-public-library

Though I could never really begin to like Piper (her bitching about people that wear the same dress size I do was not endearing, and basically we are supposed to like her because she has family issues and her best friend is dying), the book wasn't bad.

I disliked reading about Dev, because it's always awkward when a member of the opposite sex tries to create adolescence for a character, unless they do it really well. Somehow, Dev was likable but not real to me.

Also, I could not get t...more

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Linda rated it:

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04/23/08

bookshelves: fiction

Read in April, 2008

recommended to Linda by: Susan
recommends it for: fans of Anne Tyler, Joshilyn Jackson, Lolly Winston

This is the kind of "family & friendship" book I totally dig. Witty, crisp, well-written (de los Santos is a poet, which comes as no surprise if you've read her) and layered with the dramas of ordinary lives and relationships. Cornelia and Teo, from Love Walked In, move from NYC to a Philadelphia suburb with hopes of starting a family, but it's not so easy for them (especially Cornelia, who is labeled an urban intellectual) to make friends. de los Santos masterfully unmasks reade...more

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Heidi rated it:

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04/30/08

bookshelves: book-club-books, books-i-own

Read in April, 2008

recommended to Heidi by: Sarah Beesley

The only reason I gave this book 4 stars was because I was not used to the writing style. I am not used to an author going off on tangets that don't make sense then moving back to the plot. However I did really enjoy this book. The best way I can describe it is like a train. It slowly climbs the MTN and is meticulous in getting up it. But as soon as the peak hits the train goes steam rolling down the other side of the hill. That is how this book was. Slow to move towards the climax but once the ...more

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