With the Light: Raising an Autistic Child (With the Light: Raising an Autistic Child #1)
by
Keiko Tobe
Born during the sunrise - an auspicious beginning - the Azumas' newborn son is named Hikaru, which means "light". But during one play date, his mother notices that her son is slightly different from the other children. In the alternately heartwarming and bittersweet tale, a young mother tries to cope with both the overwhelming discovery of her child's autism and the trials
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Published
September 24th 2007
by Yen Press
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I marked this book as "to-read" for fairly personal reasons. As a person with a disabled sister and as someone who provides respite care for families with disabled relatives, this was something that sparked my interest. As far as the art itself is concerned, I felt it fairly standard "manga" fare; large-eyed women, bobble-headed children, flowery/bubbly backgrounds. Clean, certainly. There was a very nice grace that the character designs maintained throughout the novel, and the proportions were...more
Feb 11, 2013
Synesthesia
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
People who Care about People with Autism
These have got to be the best books I've read about autism ever. Even better than these sort of scientific kind of things, and books by parents.
It's just so sweet. The way they try to include Hikaru and understand him. It's a book filled with sweetness and compassion and it's best not to read it in public if you are like me and get wet eyes over people being kind to people.
Seriously, Read this book about autism and not age of autism and sites like that. I mean it! Those sort of sites are all neg...more
It's just so sweet. The way they try to include Hikaru and understand him. It's a book filled with sweetness and compassion and it's best not to read it in public if you are like me and get wet eyes over people being kind to people.
Seriously, Read this book about autism and not age of autism and sites like that. I mean it! Those sort of sites are all neg...more
Mar 27, 2009
Sarah
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
those unfamiliar with autism; anyone who wants to try manga but is unsure where to start
Though fictional, this is an enlightening look at what it is like to raise an autistic child, based on several true stories. Even though it is often frustrating, Hikaru's parents and everyone around him grow tremendously because of their contact with him and his unique way of interacting with the world. Even unpleasant characters are given their own stories and sympathetic moments rather than simply being cruel and unlikable. It is wonderful to see Hikaru grow too, and although there are more vo...more
So... this is a manga (Japanese comic) about autism. Really. That was so unusual that I kind of had to check it out of the library.
I'm not sorry I did, either, aside from the fact that I stayed up too late a few nights this week because I was reading it. The story follows a young Japanese mother as she struggles with raising her first child, both before and after learning that he is autistic. The plot, which focuses on the daily life of the family, is sometimes a bit sappy, but I still found mys...more
I'm not sorry I did, either, aside from the fact that I stayed up too late a few nights this week because I was reading it. The story follows a young Japanese mother as she struggles with raising her first child, both before and after learning that he is autistic. The plot, which focuses on the daily life of the family, is sometimes a bit sappy, but I still found mys...more
Jan 07, 2009
Rebecca
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
relatives of autistic people and people fond of dramas
Recommended to Rebecca by:
my friend Katie
This is proof that I read something other than science fiction and fantasy. With the Light is the story of Sachiko, a newlywed who has her first son, Hikaru. Hikaru is a highly-strung baby and hates to be held and Sachiko can't figure out what's wrong with him until his pediatrician diagnoses him with autism.
The first volume covers Hikaru's life from birth to midway through elementary school. A lot of it resonates with me because my little brother is high-functioning autism, and I ended up givi...more
The first volume covers Hikaru's life from birth to midway through elementary school. A lot of it resonates with me because my little brother is high-functioning autism, and I ended up givi...more
Before I read this book, I thought I just lacked the "manga gene." I love American comics, but Japanese comics were incomprehensible to me. But it turned out I was just reading the wrong genres of manga. This book instantly grabbed me, and wouldn't let go. (Which is not to say that I didn't struggle at all with it, just that it was much easier to follow, and gave me an incentive to figure it out when I had trouble.)
I fell for little Hikaru, and soared when he triumphed and sorrowed for his defea...more
I fell for little Hikaru, and soared when he triumphed and sorrowed for his defea...more
This is a Japanese graphic novel (Manga or "Mahn-ja" if you, like me, have always wondered exactly how you should say it). This was set out with other books on autism, in preparation for Temple Grandin's visit next week at the library. I came across it and, having not read Manga for a while and pleased to find it on such a unique subject, snagged it.
There's a heartbreaking honesty to this and it's very well researched. The story is inspired by real people and their experiences with their own aut...more
There's a heartbreaking honesty to this and it's very well researched. The story is inspired by real people and their experiences with their own aut...more
With The Light is an amazing manga about mother, Sachiko Azuma as she raises her autistic son, Hikaru. As you read the manga not only do you enjoy a story full of family pains and triumphs but you also learn a great deal about autism and autistic people.
Sachiko struggles with the diagnoses at first, panicking in response before finally accepting and seeking help to learn what she can do. Her next hurdle is a disinterested and then even ignorant husband. Afterwards she does her best to find Hikar...more
Sachiko struggles with the diagnoses at first, panicking in response before finally accepting and seeking help to learn what she can do. Her next hurdle is a disinterested and then even ignorant husband. Afterwards she does her best to find Hikar...more
This book was the first graphic novel I have ever found in the parenting section of the library. I thought it was such a cool idea that I picked it up without really looking at what it was about. With the Light is the story of a couple in Japan who has had their first child to find out he has autism. If I understand correctly this is volume 1 and out there somewhere is a volume 2.
This story was amazingly touching. I told my husband it was too hard to read because it made me want to cry. As a par...more
This story was amazingly touching. I told my husband it was too hard to read because it made me want to cry. As a par...more
The graphic novel format works well as the reader is gradually immersed frame by frame in the realization and acceptance of Hikaru Azuma's autism. The diagnosis is resisted by the Azuma family, but acceptance brings help, relief, and a strength they did not know they had.
As they navigate social situations and the already competitve and difficult Japanese education system, the reader learns both about autism and how an autistic child can be accomodated and even integrated into the larger world. A...more
As they navigate social situations and the already competitve and difficult Japanese education system, the reader learns both about autism and how an autistic child can be accomodated and even integrated into the larger world. A...more
Though fictional, this is an enlightening look at what it is like to raise an autistic child, based on several true stories. Even though it is often frustrating, Hikaru's parents and everyone around him grow tremendously because of their contact with him and his unique way of interacting with the world. Even unpleasant characters are given their own stories and sympathetic moments rather than simply being cruel and unlikable. It is wonderful to see Hikaru grow too, and although there are more vo...more
The first book in Keiko Tobe's fascinating series about raising an autistic child in Japan is actually the third I've read; unfortunately my local comic store isn't particularly good at making sure I can buy them in the correct order, though you'd think they'd be a little more sensitive to that in a book about autistic children.
No matter, it's still great out of order. Here we get the story of how Hikaru was first diagnosed with autism, and his mother Sachiko's struggles to get him into mainstre...more
No matter, it's still great out of order. Here we get the story of how Hikaru was first diagnosed with autism, and his mother Sachiko's struggles to get him into mainstre...more
This is an amazing story of a woman's search for understanding and compassion for her son who is autistic. The story itself is very engaging, and I found myself very emotionally invested -- I cried for Sachiko's heartbreaks and I cried happy tears for the good days, too. I appreciate that the story gives some useful information without getting too into the medical aspects, making it accessible for anyone. I appreciate as well the emphasis that everyone with ASD is unique and have different strug...more
Genre: Graphic Novel, Manga, Autism
Hikaru is a boy born to a newly-wed couple in Japan. However as he grows up they discover he has Autism and at first this causes a rift between the husband, Masato, and his wife, Sachiko. Sachiko doesn't understand what autism is and her whole family blames her for not being a good mother and raising a well-disciplined child. However as the book progresses that family comes back together and Masato and Sachiko as well as friends in the community all work togeth...more
Hikaru is a boy born to a newly-wed couple in Japan. However as he grows up they discover he has Autism and at first this causes a rift between the husband, Masato, and his wife, Sachiko. Sachiko doesn't understand what autism is and her whole family blames her for not being a good mother and raising a well-disciplined child. However as the book progresses that family comes back together and Masato and Sachiko as well as friends in the community all work togeth...more
Such an aggressive, massive work. So much research. It truly is impressive.
I related with the plight of the mother not because I have an autistic child, but because Tobesan created such believable characters struggling with a real issue of our day: disabled children. Invisible disabilities affect millions of humans, yet even in this day and age their struggle is a matter of inconvenience for others. Tobesan captured this struggle in a moving yet informative way. Even if you do nor have an autis...more
I related with the plight of the mother not because I have an autistic child, but because Tobesan created such believable characters struggling with a real issue of our day: disabled children. Invisible disabilities affect millions of humans, yet even in this day and age their struggle is a matter of inconvenience for others. Tobesan captured this struggle in a moving yet informative way. Even if you do nor have an autis...more
Mar 30, 2013
Sasha Boersma
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Those new to autism & those looking for a relatable story.
Recommended to Sasha by:
Librarian
This book was recommended to me by one of the local librarians when we were chatting about literary graphic novels. I actually want to give this one a 4.5, but that isn't an option, so I went with 5.
I was a little worried about this one, as there is so much literature out there about autism that is negatively positioned, and was very pleasantly surprised with how balanced and smart this story is.
It follows the life of the parents of a little boy, the discovery of his condition, their efforts in...more
I was a little worried about this one, as there is so much literature out there about autism that is negatively positioned, and was very pleasantly surprised with how balanced and smart this story is.
It follows the life of the parents of a little boy, the discovery of his condition, their efforts in...more
This book made me cry, but in the hopeful way. It's an honest, clear, helpful account of what it is like to raise a child with autism, from diagnosis to the early years of school. Keiko Tobe writes clearly and openly about the journey from birth to diagnosis and from diagnosis to acceptance. I was very interested in the differences between Japan and Ireland in terms of the support available also. I think this series would be a fantastic addition to any class library- it really gives a much neede...more
Pretty good, a little after-school-special-education-y. But it's stuff you need to know, and it's kind of good to just go along with the mom of an autistic child as she goes through various challenges. I'm not in a rush to read the other volumes, since there's not tons of narrative thrust in the memoir format , but I'm sure I will get to them.
The manga-ness of it was ok, a little too pretty, but I guess I did enjoy the Japanese cultural setting! My educational readings about Salarymen helped me...more
The manga-ness of it was ok, a little too pretty, but I guess I did enjoy the Japanese cultural setting! My educational readings about Salarymen helped me...more
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Apr 08, 2012
Talyn
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Autistic people, Asperger's Sydrome, those wanting to learn more about this disorder
Recommended to Talyn by:
http://www.anime-planet.com recommendations
A beautiful manga, a beautiful, sad, heart-wrenching, but with-a-glimmer-of-hope-story.
It is about a mother in Japan who gives birth to a boy named Hikaru. She is initially overjoyed that she has a bundle of joy to take care of, but soon he grows up and by toddler years she realizes there's something amiss. He screams and cries whenever she tries to hold him, he doesn't speak, he goes crazy and has a tantrum/crying fit whenever something really loud goes off (a bell, a slam of the door). She is...more
It is about a mother in Japan who gives birth to a boy named Hikaru. She is initially overjoyed that she has a bundle of joy to take care of, but soon he grows up and by toddler years she realizes there's something amiss. He screams and cries whenever she tries to hold him, he doesn't speak, he goes crazy and has a tantrum/crying fit whenever something really loud goes off (a bell, a slam of the door). She is...more
Apr 08, 2009
Nicholas Whyte
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http://nwhyte.livejournal.com/1282675.html[return][return]This is a Japanese graphic novel about autism, told from the point of view of young mother Sachiko Azuma, who realises quite early on that her baby, Hikaru, doesn't respond like other children do, and in due course gets the diagnosis of her son's disability. Most of the rest of the story is about her navigation of the Japanese social welfare system, and especially the education system: Hikaru is quite seriously disabled but is at least ab...more
Feb 23, 2008
Beth Chandler
rated it
4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Kat, Tom, Stasa, just about anyone
Shelves:
manga-general,
general-fiction
Based on the manga-ka's interviews with families and research on autism, this is the story of a young couple whose little boy is diagnosed as having autism. I hoped and worried and learned along with Sachiko and her husband and those they know, through all the frustrations and misunderstandings and criticisms and gifts joys and triumphs.
The tone is a bit sentimental but no more (in the opinion of this childless prospective mom anyway) than should be from a mom's POV. The manga series was created...more
The tone is a bit sentimental but no more (in the opinion of this childless prospective mom anyway) than should be from a mom's POV. The manga series was created...more
OK: Manga. What images does that word create?
Images of biologically impossible physical feats, computer super-brains, cybernetically or anatomically enhanced young people (usually female), mega-weapons and all-out Armageddon spring to mind?
Perhaps.
However, those who know a little about the topic (which I admit, I am not one) will tell you that in Japan there are as many types of manga as there are genres in fiction. Not all manga is like the suggestions given above, though outside Japan, to be f...more
Images of biologically impossible physical feats, computer super-brains, cybernetically or anatomically enhanced young people (usually female), mega-weapons and all-out Armageddon spring to mind?
Perhaps.
However, those who know a little about the topic (which I admit, I am not one) will tell you that in Japan there are as many types of manga as there are genres in fiction. Not all manga is like the suggestions given above, though outside Japan, to be f...more
I was handed a copy of “With the Light: Raising an Autistic Child – Vol. 1” at a recent librarian preview. A heavy 527-page tome, the book broke every expectation I had regarding the Japanese form of comic books, called manga. First of all, it’s realistic fiction. Second, it’s honestly informative and interesting. And third, at no point do you encounter inappropriate bouts of nudity or other moments that a person might think to expect from manga. To read “With the Light” is to do away with the p...more
This was my first "Japanese" book and at first it was difficult to understand and read. The translation was sometimes litteral and it was written to read right to left instead of left to right. Once I over came those reading blocks, I understood the book.
As I read, I couldn't help but feel for Azuma each time she had to go through another trial with her autisitic son. This is a wonderful book and has beautiful illustrations that help the reader understand what is going on.
As I read, I couldn't help but feel for Azuma each time she had to go through another trial with her autisitic son. This is a wonderful book and has beautiful illustrations that help the reader understand what is going on.
This graphic novel about raising an autistic child, reads like a memoir, for it is from the mother Sachiko’s POV. Her son is Hikaru and she learns about autism and her son as she raises him. It’s also about her husband, their marriage and how they create a community to raise their son. This takes Hikaru up to third grade, I would have easily read another 500 or 1500 pages to find out more about Hikaru’s life. This is
delightful
.
This series is amazing. Created from interviews and essays of families with autistic children, it really captures the struggles of the Azuma family in a realistic and poignant (sometimes heartwrenching) way. It also teaches the reader a lot about autism and how to accommodate people with autism in a dignified and respectful way. I recommend his series to anyone who has a person with autism in their family or is interested in learning more about it.
I'm not done yet, but this manga has me totally captivated! I've become teary-eyed in several places, and have truly connected with the story. A very accurate depiction of what it can be like to have a child with autism (or in my case a sibling) and how the people around you act (some good, some total dicks).
UPDATE: Finished the book, and cannot wait to read the other 7 installments. A touching series.
UPDATE: Finished the book, and cannot wait to read the other 7 installments. A touching series.
This series is absolutely terrific. I was a little worried at first because of the subject, but over the last couple years it's become one of my favorite series. It's very realistic tale, and I know this from personal experience. A good friend of mine has an autistic brother and I've watched him grow over the years. It's a definite read, whether you're a manga fan or not.
An amazing and wonderful story about a family with an autistic child. The story was very gripping, and worked really well in manga form. The particulars of his disability come across vividly in illustrated form and the writing style blends a breezy page turner tone with serious drama and strife. One of my favorite manga stories.
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Keiko Tobe (1957-January 28, 2010) was a mangaka who wrote primarily josei manga. She was best known for creating With the Light, which won an Excellence Prize in the Japan Media Arts Festival Awards in 2004 from the Japanese Agency for Cultural Affairs and inspired a television drama.
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