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The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying

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This acclaimed spiritual masterpiece is widely regarded as one of the most complete and authoritative presentations of the Tibetan Buddhist teachings ever written. A manual for life and death and a magnificent source of sacred inspiration from the heart of the Tibetan tradition, The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying provides a lucid and inspiring introduction to the practic ...more
Paperback, Revised and Updated Edition, 444 pages
Published June 26th 2012 by HarperSanFrancisco (first published January 1st 1992)
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Sep 07, 2007 Charuga rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: those pondering THE question
Shelves: spiritual
I have been reading this book since I got it in 2002. I read, put it down and pick it up again in 3-6 months. It puts into words the most difficult concepts, yet it is so deep in meanings that it takes awhile for me to digest. I started this book while in a job that I dealt with patients who were living yet quickly dying - it helped me deal with my questions of death. And with dealing with those questions I learned about life. I am now 3/4 done. It's ironic that when I pick it up to read, there ...more
Vivien Ni Dhuinn
Aug 17, 2012 Vivien Ni Dhuinn rated it it was amazing
I read this book after my 11year old son was diagnosed with terminal cancer. I needed to find some spiritual form of understanding as to what was happening.

The first section of the book deals with how to live well while the second part of the book deals with how to die well. We all acknowledge that it is important to have guidelines as to how to live our life as a compassionate and caring being. Very rarely do we consider that it is equally important to know how to deal with death, be it our own
I'll admit I haven't finsihed it's one of those books you read a little in, ponder it, leave the book on the bedside and then read some more in later.
Maria Espadinha
Dec 18, 2016 Maria Espadinha rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Abanar Até Acordar

"Se tudo morre e muda, então o que é realmente verdadeiro? Há alguma coisa por detrás das aparências, algo ilimitado e infinitamente amplo, onde a dança da mudança e impermanência tem lugar? Há algo com que possamos de facto contar, que sobreviva ao que chamamos morte?"

"Saiba que todas as coisas são assim:
Uma miragem, um castelo de nuvens,
Um sonho, uma aparição,
Sem essência, mas com qualidades que podem ser vistas.

Saiba que todas as coisas são assim:
Como a Lua num céu brilhante
May 12, 2009 Erica rated it really liked it
Recommended to Erica by: mom
Shelves: dharma, non-fiction
I'm on page 134.... reading slowly.

Every time I read a paragraph in this book, I can feel my pulse slow, & my heart open. I drop back into myself and remember why I'm here. I remember to be a human being & not just a human doing. This slowing has happened enough that now even just looking at the book across the room has a similar effect.

My mother loaned me her copy -- not sure she's gonna get it back soon as it is such a powerful reminder for me.
Dec 26, 2010 Justin rated it liked it
First, this is not a direct translation of the Bardo Thodol, commonly known in the West as the 'Tibetan Book of Living & Dying.' Rather it is a broad introduction to Tibetan Buddhist beliefs including the author's interpretation of the teachings contained in the Bardo Thodol. The validity of Sogyal's teachings are generally accepted within the Tibetan Buddhist community. Sogyal Rinpoche received teachings from an early age by highly respected teachers such as Jamyang Khyentse Chokyi Lodro, a ...more
Mar 09, 2008 Doreen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I love this book with a passion. The Essential Phowa practice has sustained me through so much loss and I have practiced it countless times over many years.
The most recent time was last year for gorgeous A'ine who was only 17 and sent a butterfly as she continued on her journey.
I was so privileged to be able to practice this for my beloved mum while she was dying - the most profoundly spiritual experience which I treasure more than words can say.
The most poignant time was while miscarrying o
Jan 27, 2009 Bill rated it it was amazing
Shelves: spirituality
The author, Sogyal Rinpoche, is a prolific Buddhist Teacher as well as the founder of many Buddhist Centers worldwide, including Lerab Ling in the South of France, which I think is his best-known retreat center.

Anyway, to quote wikipedia:

"In 1983, Rinpoche participated in the ‘New Dimensions in Death and Dying’ conference in California. This brought Rinpoche in touch with the work of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and Professor Kenneth Ring in the fields of hospice care and near-death research."

Oct 25, 2009 Elby rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I read this book and took from it what I needed and left the weird stuff for others. What I took was significant and very helpful, and I keep this book around to re-read those passages. I believe anyone can find something in this book useful to them personally, but probably not all of it. Prepare to be frightened when you come across the writing that speaks to you, most likely at the start. If you are broken and as spiritually wounded as I was when I began this book, also prepare to be overwhelm ...more
Oct 16, 2009 David rated it it was amazing

I first read the so-called ‘Tibetan Book of the Dead’, in the acclaimed 1927 Evans-Wentz translation, some twenty years ago and found it pretty heavy going. At the same time, I appreciated that it was packed with the wisdom of the ages and wished that it could have been more accessible, rather than reading like an early twentieth century German academic tract by a von-someone at Heidelberg University. So after stumbling upon Rinpoche’s book recently I was delighted to find that it was written in
Feb 15, 2013 Jennifer rated it it was amazing
Shelves: yoga-and-zen
Though I am finished with this book, it is not going back on its shelf. I'm placing it right next to my meditation spot and intend to put its words to use in my practice. And when the time comes that I or a loved one has the opportunity to prepare for death, I again expect to keep this book close at hand.

I read this book right after walking away from a serious car accident with only bruises. My years of yoga training served me well during the accident and its aftermath, but I knew that it was ti
Sean Wilson
The night before I opened up the pages to this book I had a profoundly transcendental dream. It consisted of myself dying, along with my wife, happily, freely, without fear or sorrow, smiling as I took my last breath on this physical world; my eyes shut yet I could see a wonder of psychedelic colours I had never seen before. I could feel and hear everything but not in the same way our bodily senses experience it. In a word, it was an otherworldly dream—ah, the irony! The funny thing was that I h ...more
Bridget Petrella
This book will change your life. This acclaimed spiritual masterpiece is widely regarded as one of the most complete and authoritative presentations of the Tibetan Buddhist teachings ever written. A manual for life and death and a magnificent source of sacred inspiration from the heart of the Tibetan tradition, The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying provides a lucid and inspiring introduction to the practice of meditation, to the nature of mind, to karma and rebirth, to compassionate love and care ...more
Aaron Smith
Apr 02, 2008 Aaron Smith rated it really liked it
As a Westerner, I find Eastern philosophy at once simple and complex: the basic tenets of Buddhism and Eastern religion appear to be very simple (consideration for all living things, consciousness of all our actions and the knowledge that every action affects others, and a "forsaking" of the permanence of material things), but for those of us who've built our lives and measured our success by the acquisition of these very things, it's a hard sell.

The main message I've been getting from the book
Feb 13, 2010 Eric marked it as gave-up-on-reading  ·  review of another edition
Sigh, I'm not so keen on this whole belief in literal reincarnation business (even with the nuances he throws in).


I eventually gave up on reading this book around chapter 17 or so. It just drove me batty, the luminous this and extraordinary that. Sorry if I'm just being close-minded. (I will say that chapter 11 of this book is actually really really good, with the exception of a couple of crystal-radiant paragraphs, it showed a genuine compassion for the dying, very touching, offering the dy
May 15, 2011 Daniela rated it it was amazing
The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying is a beautiful book, full of truth and wisdom. I have been reading it off and on for the past couple of years and finally finished it. What I really love about this book is that it puts the ancient teachings of Buddha in a modern context and addresses many alarming problems with modern society that are leading our world toward destruction. One of these problems is that Western society has dismissed spirituality in favor of a "see to believe" attitude based on ...more
Ian Morphett
Couldnt finish it, what a droll read, no offence placid buddhist dudes, but you are boring as batshit.
Jan 04, 2017 PAЯTHAИ rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: tibetan
The Tibetan book of Living and Dying is actually the interpretation or briefing of the sacred ancient Tibetan Buddhist text widely known in the west as The Tibetan Book of the Dead said to be written by great Indian Buddhist master Padmasambhava who brought Buddhism to Tibet in the 8th century.

An excellent book which doesn't have anything to do with religion Buddhism but everything with compassion and humanity with which it shows how can we transform ourselves and this world while living our lif
Apr 05, 2010 Zo rated it it was amazing
Shelves: required-reading
I cannot recommend the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying highly enough. I believe it is one of the most important books for anyone in the modern world to read.

The premise as I see it is: 1) throughout the modern world, our fear, avoidance, or shrugging off of death and dying is an enormous cause of our personal and collective spiritual suffering, as well as social injustices and environmental unraveling; 2) the possibility of understanding death clearly, using our lives to prepare for death, and
Jan 08, 2009 Josh rated it really liked it
An extremely important (and relevant) carry-along during my half-year trip to North India, Nepal, and Bhutan. Rinpoche writes largely to a Western audience, so it doesn't surprise me that much of his content seems simplistic and applicable to the ordinary observer. Really, TBLD is just another book that explains the "intermediate" or "transitional" states of life and death, which are otherwise known as "bardos."

I don't mean to suggest that Rinpoche totally sold out (as some refugees have suggest
Viet Hung Nguyen
Apr 07, 2012 Viet Hung Nguyen rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: to-reread
Một cuốn sách với những kiến thức khó. Lama Sogyal Rinpoche đề nghị nên đọc 4-5 lần, trước khi có thể thấu hiểu những kiến thức sâu sắc về tâm linh được trình bày trong cuốn sách. Mặc dù chỉ mới thẩm thấu được một phần nhỏ kiến thức về sự sống và cái chết, tôi xin cảm ơn Lama Sogyal Rinpoche về những gì ngài đã trình bày và mong muốn lưu lại, gửi đến các sinh linh có tình cảm trên trái đất. Một thông điệp mang tính tỉnh thức và giác ngộ. Nếu một ngày nào đó ai cũng phải chia tay với cuộc sống nà ...more
Feb 16, 2010 Kev rated it it was amazing
Scientists recently discovered what happens to the body, and in what order, as its dies. Their discovery replicated what Buddhism has said for millenia as outlined in this book.
However, The "Tibetan Book of Living and Dying' continues with what happens to 'you' next, after you're dead, and if for no other reason it makes this book a must read.
Tom Lombardo
May 23, 2013 Tom Lombardo rated it it was amazing
Sogyal Rinpoche fled from the Chinese when they invaded Tibet, a modern tragedy of a magnitude not generally acknowledged in the West. He writes of the invasion, "Over 1 million people out of a population of 6 million have died at the hands of the Chinese; Tibet's vast forests, as indispensable as those of the Amazon to the ecology of the world, have been cut down; its wildlife has been almost totally massacred; its plateaus and rivers have been polluted with nuclear waste; the vast majority of ...more
Feb 14, 2011 Leslie rated it it was ok
Parts of this book are interesting, but overall it kind of starts to drag in the middle. I appreciated a look at life, death, and justice from a completely different perspective. It also does represent a considerably more balanced perspective on life and death than most of American culture has at present. However, I cannot understand anyone looking at the world and coming away believing that there aren't truly evil people. And it's too much of a stretch to think about colored humors attached to ...more
Patrick Murphy
Aug 05, 2014 Patrick Murphy rated it it was amazing
I read this book when I was 30. I gave it to my mother then, she was 60. I am now 57 and she is 87. I feel this book gave me a way of looking at mortality, and my own inevitable death one day, differently, hopefully more gracefully. I hoped it would do that for my mother. Now, she is old enough to be failing, and I want to ask her to read it again, but somehow I can't. I am afraid to do so would be egotistical, and possibly fill her with sorrow. Yet, I believe this book holds many keys for a gen ...more
Mar 01, 2013 Paul rated it it was amazing
No other book on earth contains the precious wisdom that this one does. When I read it in 1994, it both saved and changed my life, as it has countless others around the world. Rinpoche, I owe everything to you.
Satyadarshini Sharma
Reading it the 3rd time in the past 15 yrs....
Tsering yangzom
Jun 17, 2008 Tsering yangzom rated it really liked it
to read it again.and again.
Craig Williams
Nov 20, 2011 Craig Williams rated it really liked it
I'm not a religious person, but I have always been pretty spiritual. One may argue that "spiritual" is to "religious" as "agnostic" is to "atheist", but I don't feel that's necessarily the case. I've always associated a "religious" person as someone who is very dogmatic and ritualistic, whereas a "spiritual" person is a little more open-minded. At any rate, I've always been a student of religion, rather than a follower.

I ran across this book while I was going through a little spiritual turmoil,
Meagan Bonwit
Beautiful book packed with wisdom that has already affected how I view life. This book will definitely require re-reading.

Some parts were beyond my ability understand/believe/"get" but generally the book contains lots of very useful pieces of guidance for my life.

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Sogyal Rinpoche (Tibetan: བསོད་རྒྱལ་, Wylie: Bsod-rgyal) was born in the Tibetan Fire Pig year (1947-8) and raised by one of the most revered spiritual masters of this century, Jamyang Khyentse Chökyi Lodrö, who recognized him as the incarnation of Tertön Sogyal Lerab Lingpa (1856-1926). With the Chinese occupation of Tibet, he went into exile with his master, who died in 1959 in Sikkim in the Him ...more
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“Perhaps the deepest reason why we are afraid of death is because we do not know who we are. We believe in a personal, unique, and separate identity — but if we dare to examine it, we find that this identity depends entirely on an endless collection of things to prop it up: our name, our "biography," our partners, family, home, job, friends, credit cards… It is on their fragile and transient support that we rely for our security. So when they are all taken away, will we have any idea of who we really are?

Without our familiar props, we are faced with just ourselves, a person we do not know, an unnerving stranger with whom we have been living all the time but we never really wanted to meet. Isn't that why we have tried to fill every moment of time with noise and activity, however boring or trivial, to ensure that we are never left in silence with this stranger on our own?”
“We are fragmented into so many different aspects. We don´t know who we really are, or what aspects of ourselves we should identify with or believe in. So many contradictory voices, dictates, and feelings fight for control over our inner lives that we find ourselves scattered everywhere, in all directions, leaving nobody at home.

Meditation, then, is bringing the mind home.”
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