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The Gangster We Are All Looking For

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This acclaimed novel reveals the life of a Vietnamese family in America through the knowing eyes of a child finding her place and voice in a new country.

In 1978 six refugees—a girl, her father, and four “uncles”—are pulled from the sea to begin a new life in San Diego. In the child’s imagination, the world is transmuted into an unearthly realm: she sees everything intens...more
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Published April 13th 2011 by Anchor
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Brendan
As novels go, The Gangster We Are All Looking For -- Le Thi Diem Thuy's beautifully told account of a Vietnamese immigrant family -- is soaking wet.

The sea is a constant, foreboding presence. Bodies are washing ashore on the first page and they are washing ashore on the last page. A man tells his beloved that if she would marry him, "he would pull the moon out of the sky and turn it into a pool for her to wash her feet in." "Bad water" is blamed for the death of a...more
Adam
I entered this book knowing little more than its title and that it was about the experience of a young Vietnamese refugee. The title led me to expect a different sort of book, but it was nonetheless engaging. Lê Thi Diem Thúy tells the story of a refugee family’s fracturing and decline in Southern California. Refugees are unlike voluntary immigrants in many ways. They arrive on foreign shores with no real desire to be there. They have been forced to abandon their homes and country, to which ther...more
Libby
Libby rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: year-of-women
This book, a fictionalized memoir of a Vietnamese girl who settles in San Diego, was selected for the One Book, One San Diego initiative. The book plays fast and loose with time and memory and feels like at least two different books smushed together. The first is a pretentious rendering of the protagonist's childhood that I found about as meaningful as the plastic bag dancing in the wind in "American Beauty" (which is to say prettily imagined but lacking something in essentials). In fa...more
Matt
Matt rated it 4 of 5 stars
The personal history of le thi diem thuy is certainly one worth telling. She was born in Vietnam at the height of American involvement in their war. Two of her siblings drowned during her childhood. Her oldest brother drowned in the ocean in Vietnam, and a sister drowned in a Malaysian refugee camp. At the age of six, le and her father were picked up by an American naval ship and placed in a refugee camp in Singapore. Eventually they would be reunited with her mother and a sister in southern Cal...more
Ljuneosborne
Reading this book was for an English class, and I'm very glad for it, as I doubt I would have come across it otherwise.

I've read a handful of books about Vietnamese people living in America after the war, my favorite being Catfish and Mandala by Andrew X. Pham. This book is focused more on the child's view of the story, specifically the relationship between the narrator and her father, who she refers to as Ba. In the first part of the book Ba is a sort of protector as she struggles to ...more
Emily
Emily rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2003
Today--speedily even by my standards--I read thuy lê's new book The Gangster We Are All Looking For. It is one of those new novels-in-stories, or stories-as-a-novel pieces that are so popular now. It reminded me primarily of two other books about the Asian-American experience: When the Emperor Was Divine and The Woman Warrior.

lê, who isn't into capitalization, has written a quasi-autobiographical series of vignettes about a young Vietnamese girl in California. It includes scenes from w...more
Teachers4socialjustice Book
Here are some discussion questions that came out of our book club:

1. How does the passage on p. 95 beginning with “…two dogs chasing each other’s tail…” describe the parents’ relationship?
2. What is the significance of the title?
3. How does this book showcase father and daughter relationships?
4. This novel focuses on the places in between such as pages 109 and p. 37. Does the reader always know where these places are?
5. How is this novel about running away to...more
Aaron
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Lis
Lis rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: book-club, 2010-reads
written from the perspective of an immigrant girl from vietnam, having moved to san diego. true to her country of origin, water is a constant theme: people washing in on the shore, boys jumping into a pool, even words sounding like a drop in a well. it goes on this way as constant themes stay throughout. for example, she hardly talks about her mother without mention of her clutching her pocketbook. but it's a short book, such a quick read (easily took me one day without fully devoted attention),...more
Pretty Girls Make Gravy
The Gangster We Are All Looking For is the 2011 choice for One Book, One San Diego; which is a partnership between our local NPR station (KPBS) and the San Diego Public Library. Every year a committee chooses several candidate books and KPBS encourages listeners to go online and vote for their choice in a poll. The winner is promoted on KPBS throughout the year, the author does some interviews, and there discussions of the book are held at local branches of the Public Library system every so oft...more
Nan
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I just read this book for the 5th time. I have to admit that I did not like the book when I first read it, but with each reading, my appreciation for this book increases. I love its poetic language and fragmented narrative. Here is one of my favorite passages:

"After I ran away, I phoned my parents only a couple of times, to let them know I was all right. The last call was from the airport, to tell them that I was moving to the East Coast to go to school. My father wasn't ho...more
Tara
Tara rated it 2 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2011
I love the fact that my new city does a "One book, One San Diego" incentive. However, I saw that one of the three selections for next year is one I've already read and wasn't impressed with, so right off the bat I had my doubts. Also, can we just talk about how it's sort of lame that after, what, 5 years of choosing just one book, they go with the top 3 nominations for 2012? Make a commitment, SD! Stick to your guns! Anyway.

This short memoir did absolutely nothing for me. R...more
Tami
Tami rated it 3 of 5 stars
This is a short book...really just a sampling of the thoughts and impressions and memories of a young girl who has come to America from Vietnam. It doesn't flow smoothly from one ecene to the next--it is not meant to. It is very much like the way a youth summarizes their life--fleeting between fantasy and struggle, imagination and stark reality. The challenges she faces (war, escape from Vietnam, death of a family member, adjusting to a new language and culture)are painted in a rather poetic ...more
Catherine
I feel somewhat neglected by the author when the plot gives way so often to more evocative, lyrical moments. In my less generous moments, I have even found those moments repetitive. But then I try to focus on the artistic purposefulness of the way in which the writer returns to water imagery and how those evocative, surreal, lyrical moments involving water imagery repeat with a rhythm much like ocean waves, and the imagery and prose style parallel the experience of floating, drifting, being imme...more
Amber
Amber rated it 2 of 5 stars
I started out this book with low expectations based on others' reviews but since I was reading it for book club, I picked it up anyway. I found myself really enjoying it for the first little bit. But then it started to drag and feel disjointed. And then when I finally dragged my way through to the end and read that she doesn't even have a brother even though the book continually mentions a brother and he is a major theme in the book I was completely disillusioned. And then I found out that the b...more
Leslie
Leslie rated it 2 of 5 stars
I was not very impressed with the story line and character development in this novel. The language was beautiful and poetic, but I could not get into the story because the timeline kept shifting, and the narrator seemed unreliable. Maybe this was because she was a child for most of the book, but I was confused at many points. I wanted to find out more about the father- why was he called a gangster? How did the mother find them after being left in Vietnam? How did the narrator manage to appl...more
Topher
Topher rated it 3 of 5 stars
A lyric look at a childhood of a Vietnamese immigrant. This book read impressionistically and lyrically--like a long form poem written in prose. There are slight hints at pre and post war Vietnam. How families were torn apart, rebuilt themselves and were torn apart again. You will be unsatisfied if you are looking for a narrative message. Just to read it for the beauty though goes far enough. The author will be visiting my class in January and I am excited for my studnets to have a chance to spe...more
Andrew
I told a friend I'd never read any Southeast Asian fiction. This was the closest she had at her apartment. It's awfully, awfully easy to write romans-a-clef about childhood layered thick with magical-realist tropes-- Sandra Cisneros, I'm looking at you-- and most of the time it's utter schlock. Somehow, the use of motif and the sheer beauty of the writing prevented this from slipping into that category. Not to call it a great book or anything, but it's a pleasant, light, kinda kitschy, kinda...more
Danielle
I am in the habit of looking up syllabi of professors i admire in the field when i want to read books from other countries. This one is from Vietnam and was recommended by a prof. at Stanford. I loved it. I feel that the author tries very hard to surround teh past with magic and sugar and it still hurts and that's what makes this book beautiful--the idea that even when you look at all things from the kindest possible angle, they still hurt. It reminded me of Stop Time, another bildungsroman, fro...more
Virginia Jacobs
This book was beautifully and poignantly written. The language was simple, yet compelling and visual. The book is clearly somewhat autobiographical, and while there are undercurrents of sadness, there is also enough joy and happiness to make the corners of one’s heart turn up, because we have all been there, too, we just didn’t say it as well.

For example, the chapter titled palm is about both palm trees and the palm of the narrator’s hand. The opening paragraph says, “The trees in...more
Emile
Emile rated it 5 of 5 stars
Along with a child-like attention to detail and soft, poetic language there is a magical quality to the story-telling in this memoir - like the interweaving of fact and imagination in a Maurice Sendak book. In 'The Gangster', time, space and reality are grounded in reality but fluid. Increaingly rapid transitions between past and present make the urgency of the past strikingly, and appropriately, immediate. At the same time our narrator seems to pull back, floating higher above what her life has...more
Ben
Ben rated it 3 of 5 stars
A moving and somewhat depressing story about home, cultural identity, assimilation, and cultural values. A young girl and her father come to the United States as one of many Vietnamese "boat people" in the 1970s. Her mother joins them later and the family plods from apartment to apartment trying, it seems, constantly to start a life in this foreign place. The southern California in which the family finds itself is glossy and bright, but shallow and meaningless. And the memories of h...more
itpdx
A lyrical and touching story of immigration and family. The narrator arrives in the US from Viet Nam as a six-year-old with her father. The book touches on their experiencing southern California and trying to understand the culture. The wife and mother joins them and they move through a number of immigrant enclaves. The father struggles with PTSD. The daughter runs away from the parents she can never understand and tries to make sense of her childhood memories of Viet Nam. There is much beautifu...more
Kathy
Kathy rated it 2 of 5 stars
Interesting little book about a Vietnam refugee and her family. But so sporadic and didn't seem to flow real well. Interesting to me a bit because she talks about where they lived and it's here in my hometown of San Diego. And back in the 70's and early 80's I do remember a lot of what we called boat people showing up in our schools etc... not knowing a bit of english and how hard it must have been for them. Also didn't like the ending. This was a book club selection for the month.
Michelle Campbell
I am not really sure what to say about this one. It took me awhile to get into and considering this is a really fast read says a lot. I read the first 50 pages and then sat it down for a week or so. I thought I was going to give it up but could not bring myself to do it so gave it one more try. I ended up liking it. It reads more like poetry than a novel. I like that it is set in my home town. It read like a memoir so I was surprised to learn it was fiction after finishing it. The imagery in thi...more
Christina Wainwright
The book was short enough that I was able to read the entire thing this morning, between when waking and having to get ready for work. My library's book group is discussing it tonight, and I also wanted to find a passage to read aloud in honor of Read Across America Day. Lovely though the writing is, the book defied my quest to find an arresting passage to read aloud. It builds and bends around corners, mixing and melting like when I try to hold onto my own memories.
Bill Sannwald
Poetic without being obtuse. The book reads like memories floating through your subconscious as you lie awake in bed late at night, unable to sleep. Memories can often be one big jumbled mess, especially when concerning something traumatic. In that sense, the transitory prose works well. I particularly liked the passages from the narrator's young childhood years, which capture the bizarre sense and order kids create of the magical and mysterious world around them.
Karol
Karol rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: fiction
I discovered an excerpt of this in Best American Essays 1997, one of my favorite editions, but the book released as a novel. It's a spare and poetic story of a Vietnamese girl growing up in California, the daughter of immigrants from South Vietnam. It's possible that the ending goes a bit abstract, touching lightly on dark matter, but I didn't mind at all. I loved this story and the way it was told.
Alan
Alan rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: novels
poetic novel about Vietnamese immigrants to USA (California). Told from the p.o.v. of a young girl I enjoyed her descriptions of the weird place she's ended up in, and the behaviour of those around her (particularly teenage boys). Slim, almost plotless (although there is the story of her family's disintegration under the pressure) but full of memorable imagery.
Marilyn
A series of poetic little vignettes about life for a young woman who immigrated from Vietnam to San Diego. Very lyrical. Very evocative. Easy, quick read. Not much plot. When I realized that the title indicated that it was a novel---well, that actually decreased my evaluation. The impressionistic style I could excuse in a memoir seemed excessive in a novel.
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