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In Stefan Merrill Block’s extraordinary debut, three narratives intertwine to create a story that is by turns funny, smart, introspective, and revelatory.

Abel Haggard is an elderly hunchback who haunts the remnants of his family’s farm in the encroaching shadow of the Dallas suburbs, adrift in recollections of those he loved and lost long ago. As a young man, he believed ...more
Hardcover, 320 pages
Published April 1st 2008 by Random House (first published January 1st 2008)
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Gregory Baird
Gregory Baird rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Fans of Jonathan Safran Foer or Nicole Krauss
“Could there be anything more sad and more lonely than remembering what terrible things the future will bring?”

In his ambitious debut novel Stefan Merrill Block shows off the wide range of his talent. “The Story of Forgetting” combines elements of science, history, and fable into four storylines that weave together to tell a single story. And it works, for the most part. I can see how some may have been turned off by the quirky nature of Block’s storytelling or grown bored with ...more
Peggy
Peggy rated it 3 of 5 stars
Some books are easy: they engage your head with strong characters and/or good storytelling, but somehow miss connecting with your heart. That's not necessarily a bad thing--I'm wholly in favor of reading for the sheer fun of it, and every book isn't going to connect with every reader.

But some books...some books are hard. They hit you in the gut, and once they have you, they don't let go. You can still get the strong characters and the good storytelling, but this time they're wedded t...more
Amy
Amy rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: fiction
I’ve been reading poetry almost exclusively for about three years running, so I was both excited and a little wary upon picking up The Story of Forgetting, Stefan Merrill Block’s debut novel. It had been so long since I’d read so many words at one go…I guess I’d forgotten how one can become immersed in a story, carried effortlessly along by fictional devices like plot & character. Luckily, Block’s novel provided an immediate reminder of such pleasures.

The novel’s strengths lie in the...more
Heather Marsiglia
Although before starting this book I was emotionally involved in its subject matter, having lost an uncle to Alzheimer's Disease, I still think this is one of the best books I have ever read. I would recommend this book to just about anyone. I will admit the ending had me wanting a firmer resolution. I wanted everyone to be ok- but true to life, that's not how stories end. I loved the mix of “true life”/fiction, science, and fairytale. The writing is excellent.
Isabella
This is a story of Alzheimer's disease - or, more precisely familial early-onset Alzheimer's disease. The subjact matter being very sensitive and sad, obviously, this also makes up the tone of the book.

We follow two people over the course of the book.

Firstly, there is Seth, whose mother becomes ill when he is 15. Knowing very little about her life before she was married he sets out to learn about the disease that inflicted her (and sharing that information as he is gathe...more
Ruby
Ruby rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: anyone, especially lovers of myth and anyone who's been touched by Alzheimer's
Shelves: fiction
If I didn't really like this book, I'd hate Stefan Merrill Block. The kid – and yes, I mean kid – was born in 1982, as his book jacket brags. He's still in his 20's. And this book is good, not good like macaroni art is good, or good like that time that your 12-year-old cooked you pancakes and forgot the eggs, it's bona fide good. Maybe it's not great, but jeez, he's gotta have something to shoot for, right?

Block creates a familial mythology that is interwoven with a genetic disease, ...more
Maya
Maya rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: fiction-2008
It seems strange to describe a novel about early-onset Alzheimer's as a compelling read, but there you go: it is.

I have to confess that Alzheimer's ranks right up there among Diseases I'm Petrified That I Might Get--I can't imagine anything more terrifying than to slowly lose my mental faculties. And it so happens that I'm vaguely acquainted with a family in which the mother experienced this terrible disease beginning when the youngest of her children was still in high school.
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Rachael
This was a great book -- I was depressed, though, to note that the author is a scant one year older than me. The story was moving and the recurring images were lovely. The narrative is broken up into the point of view of a teenage boy (who also narrates case studies and medical notes) and an older man. I was somewhat thrown by the boy's voice, in that it didn't vary much from the man's, and that it was in far too sophisticated a tone for his age, but that is clarified somewhat by the final pages...more
Deb
Deb rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: fiction, literary
This powerfully descriptive book is not one the reader is likely to forget, as it vividly humanizes the lives of two families affected by early onset Alzheimers, among other things. The book follows the stories of Seth, a 15 year old boy struggling to deal wth the illness of his mother, normal teenage problems like puberty, and the withdrawl of his Dad and of Abel Haggard, an elderly hunchback living in a decript farm with only his memories and the hope that his long lost daughter will find him...more
Nancy
Nancy rated it 4 of 5 stars
In Stefan Merrill Block’s extraordinary debut, three narratives intertwine to create a story that is by turns funny, smart, introspective, and revelatory.

Abel Haggard is an elderly hunchback who haunts the remnants of his family’s farm in the encroaching shadow of the Dallas suburbs, adrift in recollections of those he loved and lost long ago. As a young man, he believed himself to be “the one person too many”; now he is all that remains. Hundreds of miles to the south, in Austin, Se...more
Ami
Ami rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: favorites
Just finished this. I randomly picked this book up in Boston and began to read it while also trying to read A Voyage Long and Strange. Both were very interesting, but something about this one struck me. The narrative of the character, Abel, had bore an uncanny resemblance to the narrative of one of my closest friends. I read on, at one point, allowing myself to dream that she had perhaps written the book under a pseudonym. (She didn’t. To my knowledge anyway.) But the way in which each sentence ...more
Susan O'Bryant
"At a certain point, the worse you get, the worse it is for everyone around you, but the better it is for you." (from page 195 in the advanced reader's edition)

You realize that this book has a very literal title when you find out what's written inside. The Story of Forgetting is a brilliant yet tragic novel with two main characters and two side narratives, all of which gradually come together as the pages are turned. It begins with Abel, and his story of remembering falling...more
Stephanie
Faces. Stories. Events. Places. Dates. Each person has a unique knowledge of a range of these discrete little pieces of knowledge. Arguably, it’s the very way that we knit these data together that makes us who we are. After all, without these facts, without memory, there would be little left. Worse still than the loss of these memories would be the loss of the ability to create new ones coupled with the loss of the basic human functions that we take for granted. Speech. Writing. Movement.
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Katherine Marple
"The Story of Forgetting" is told from nearly four perspectives:

-The first is an elderly, disfigured Abel recounting on the love of his life (also his twin brother's wife) and his mom.
-The second is the "teenaged" version of Seth, telling in present tense what he researched and felt while his mom was developing early onset Alzheimer's disease at her age of 35.
-The third perspective is all of the medical jargon- the back history that scientists and r...more
Rhlibrary
There is something unutterably sad about Alzheimer's. It's not only that it steals the essence of the person affected, leaving them a husk of their former selves—it's the devastating effect on the family members and assorted loved ones who have to deal with the disintegration, and in the process, often make wrong choices influenced by emotion. The Story of Forgetting tells the familiar yet unique story of such an extended family seen mostly through the eyes of the brilliant, misfit teenage son, ...more
Nojood
A very informative novel about a unique kind of alzahimer that attacks young people. It is inherited, thus young people see their future downfall in the lives of their fathers or mothers. How parents comfort their children with an imagenary world, which goes in parallel with reality, that begins as enchanting, develops to be chaeotic and ends with hope, is a brilliant idea.
I wonder why such unheard of diseases are emerging out of no where. One cannot but wonder whether they are man made...more
Candice
This was an excellent book. It was structured around four stories - the story of Abel, a sexagenarian hunchback; Seth, an awkward teenage boy; the story of this particular strain of early-onset Alzheimer's; and a fantasy story about a land called Isadora. The four parts blended well and added up to a terrific story.

I couldn't help but contrast this with another book about Alzheimer's that I read recently, Still Alice. Where that was the story of one woman's experience with the dis...more
Michael
Block's first novel is well researched, well written, and nicely structured. The information on the genetic basis of early-onset Alzheimer's disease, which forms a major theme of the novel is both fascinating and frightening. The transmission of the meme of the fabled land of Isadora along with the gene responsible for early-onset Alzheimer's disease makes an interesting motif. Although I found some of the sexual content extraneous to the plot, most of the writing is lean and drives the narrativ...more
Julia
Ein Buch eines jungen Autors, das erstaunlich professionell aufgezogen ist und ein schwieriges, oft verschämt verschwiegenes Thema sanft und mit distanzlosem Zartgefühl in das Licht der Aufmerksamkeit rückt.

Der deutsche Titel und Klappentext, beide versuchen, vermeintlich verkaufshemmende Begriffe wie "Krankheit, Tod, Vergessen... Alzheimer" zu verschweigen, wie ich denke, verliert Dumont so aber eine potentielle Leserschaft.

Block zeichnet gefühlvoll Charaktere, die mit dem Vergessen P...more
Sherrie Y
Sherrie Y rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Sherrie Y by: Library e-mail
Shelves: read-in-2009
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Cmorice
Impressionnant premier roman d’un auteur de vingt cinq ans, Stefan Merrill Block, Histoire de l’oubli raconte, des années 50 à la fin des années 90, l’histoire d’une famille frappée de génération en génération par une forme précoce de la maladie d’Alzheimer.
Seth, un adolescent de 15 ans, conscient que ses parents lui ont toujours caché les secrets du passé familial, se lance dans une véritable enquête sur ses origines. à quelques centaines de kilomètres de là, Abel Haggard, un vieil ermite...more
Kiki
Wenn man den Buchrückentext liest, könnte man glauben, es erwartet einen hier eine wunderschön melancholische Liebesgeschichte. Weit gefehlt! Stattdessen ist es eines der besten Bücher über Demenz. Zugegeben - ich kenne überhaupt kein anderes, das dieses (Tabu-)Thema behandelt. Aber es wäre schwer, Stefan Merill Block zu überbieten. Feinfühlig zeigt er die Verzeiflung, mit der die Familienmitglieder mit der Erkrankung ihrer Mutter, ihres Vaters umgehen. Geheimnisvoll entführt er den Leser nach I...more
Huda Felimban
Huda Felimban rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Huda Felimban by: Mrs.NJD
Shelves: english-books
هذا الكتاب غريب نوعا ما
ينقلنا بشكل متقطع بين مشهدين
الأول هو لـ آبيل ؛ الأحدب الذي يعيش مع أخيه وزوجة أخيه
وابنته من (زوجة الأخ)، التي تقرر فجأة -بعد أن تسوء ظروف العائلة - أن تترك المنزل بلا عودة
وبين المشهد الثاني لـ سيث ؛ المراهق الذي أصيبت والدته بمرض الزهايمر المبكر
ورحلته العلمية في فهم مايجري لها بعد أن نقلها والده إلى دار رعاية
كنت مشتتة قليلا في البداية بين المشهدين ولكن سرعان ما اكتشفت الرابط بينهما

امم بالرغم من أن قرائتي لهذا الكتاب كانت ...more
Karen
When I was a child I often heard my beloved grandmother worry out loud that someday she would become "senile." Her lifelong fear did not materialize until she was in her late eighties. The last time I saw her Granny's fear had become a real condition. Her memory was almost gone, and she did not know me or her own daughter. She had devolved into a sweet child, twinkling, at that moment, with mischief and delight. It was these memories and the little worry-voice that Granny planted ...more
Jake Rideout
This is my favorite book cover of all time. Normally that would be enough to convince me to read the book, but this one is not my kind of novel--it's about two men, Alzheimer's, and Texas...none of which are things I normally read about (see below for confirmation). I read this because Stefan Merrill Block is a hilarious and awesome person, which I learned at a BEA luncheon in May. I'm really glad I read it. The book is about Abel, a hunchbacked old man who has lost his twin brother to familial ...more
Kathy
Kathy rated it 4 of 5 stars
In the present, a teenage boy tries to learn as much as he can about the genetics of his mother's early onset Alzheimer's disease. In the past, a twin brothers, one married and the other one unmarried, with a birth defect, and secretly in love with his brother's wife, all live together. Several hundred years ago, a single mutation on the gene of a promiscuous man leads to the eventual spread of the disease now known as early onset Alzheimer's. And finally, the tale of Isadora, a make-believe c...more
sisterimapoet
sisterimapoet rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to sisterimapoet by: Mew
Shelves: fiction-2010
I loved the way we were dragged straight into the story. We were welcomed but were expected to work out where we were ourselves. There was no spoon-feeding going on here. We had to draw our own connections. That felt inclusive and involving. A real case of show rather than tell.

I liked the multiple layers between the different narratives. I like the sense of revelation as you started to notice the connections. This novel made me think, which is apt as much of it is about the a...more
Jen
Jen rated it 5 of 5 stars
Amazing read, the protagonist is as much memory itself as the various memory-inflicted characters in the book. Think this one will stick in the recesses of my brain for a while (ahh, memory, again...)
Kelly
I really enjoyed this story. It's weird that I picked this book up to read after reading Still Alice because both books deal with early-onset Alzheimer's.

I liked that this story contrasts two viewpoints - Seth who is 15 and Abel who is 65 - and it's neat how their stories intersect. I also like that there is a folktale/myth running throughout the story as well - which also connects to both Seth's and Abel's stories. The author obviously researched this topic well, and Seth explains ...more
Susan Henn
5/10 A talented young author's first book. The story is told flipping back and forth through the eyes of two characters. One character is an old man who has experienced a great deal of loss in his life including the loss of his brother and mother to early onset familial Alzheimer's. The other character is a precocious teenage boy whose mom is dying from the same disease. The boy sets out to discover the mysteries of his mom's past by pretending to compile information about the disease for a ...more
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Born in 1982, Stefan Merrill Block grew up in Texas. His first novel, The Story of Forgetting, won Best First Fiction at the Rome International Festival of Literature, the 2008 Merck Serono Literature Prize and the 2009 Fiction Award from The Writers’ League of Texas. The Story of Forgetting was also a finalist for the debut fiction awards from IndieBound, Salon du Livre and The Center for Ficti...more
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