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The Boys of My Youth

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Rarely does the debut of a new writer garner such attention & acclaim. The excitement began the moment "The Fourth State of Matter," one of the fourteen extraordinary personal narratives in this book, appeared in the pages of The New Yorker. It increased when the author received a prestigious Whiting Foundation Award in November 1997, & it continued as the hardcove ...more
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Published January 29th 1999 by Back Bay Books (first published January 1st 1998)
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Jul 09, 2010 Harkinna rated it it was amazing
Everyone loves this book. No one writes bad reviews of this book. The Boys of My Youth is Jo Ann Beard’s only book to date. Everyone is right. The book is amazing, but I am going to tell you what I did not like about the book.

Beard’s descriptions of childhood are just too well done. While reading them, memories of your own childhood bubble up. And not just the good memories, but also the memories that sting, the memories you thought were gone.

And really, as you are reading the book, she flits ar
Aug 21, 2008 Megan rated it liked it
Recommended to Megan by: Sarah Lawrence College
This book taught me a lot about reading and writing: that is, what I want to read and what I don't want to read; what I should write, and what Jo Anne Beard shouldn't. The ambiguous, vague touchy-feely pieces on her family were Important Because They Happened to Her. In a very, very negative way. The piece "Coyote" particularly stands out as one that I absolutely had to skim over. It must have been laborious as hell to write, because it was laborious as hell to read. I'm not a courtesan. I don't ...more
Jul 01, 2007 Brendan rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: William H. Gass & Eric Clapton
William H. Gass, that curmudgeonly king of American letters, proclaims with enormous exasperation that that “the perils of the present tense are pronounced.” In his 1996 essay, “A Failing Grade for the Present Tense,” he shakes his finger like a schoolmarm and scolds, “What was once a rather rare disease has become an epidemic.” And sounding like our elders in Washington, who wonder where in the world the outrage went, he woefully concludes that “if there is an academic prose, this prose is coll ...more
May 17, 2013 Melanie rated it really liked it
This dark and luminous collection of personal essays is worth reading if only for the essay entitled "The Fourth State of Matter", first published in The New Yorker in 1996. The heartbreaking essay is probably one of the best that I have ever read, both for its deep humanity and the elegance of its stylistic structure. I won't even tell you what it's about for fear of ruining any part of it.

Jo Ann Beard is a ridiculously gifted writer and her recollections of youth (she is especially remarkable
Sep 06, 2007 Chris rated it it was amazing
Shelves: oldfavorites
One of my all-time favorites. Jo Ann Beard writes like a friend -- does that make any sense? Or maybe it's her writing style that just makes me *wish* we were friends. I first read this book for a memoir writing workshop, and I immediately realized that this is exactly how I wish all my own writing could turn out. Her collection of essays is just spot on -- in tone and character and so much wonderful detail. A particular stand-out for me is the story 'The Fourth State of Matter,' which -- withou ...more
Simon A. Smith
Dec 15, 2013 Simon A. Smith rated it really liked it
This is a very strongly written memoir. Beard does several things that writers are NOT supposed to do. She's a rule breaker, this one. It's mostly written in present tense (big no), it's really "workshoppy" (uh-oh) and it leans toward melodrama about illness and dogs (run for the hills!) But fuck that noise. This is an honest, heartfelt, humorous look at what it's like to be neurotic woman writer with a whimsical voice and an astute ear for dialogue. Not hooked? There's mass murder, too. Put tha ...more
Apr 17, 2013 Constance rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I liked these a lot and would recommend them. Some of the essays here are just so nice to read. (Skip Coyote though; as one wonderful gr reviewer put it, “It must have been laborious as hell to write, because it was laborious as hell to read. I'm not a courtesan. I don't have time.”) While the overly-dramatized, overly-neat memoir style seems slightly dated, it is really satisfying for an essay to have a cohesive narrative and Jo Ann does it well. (The post-modern “I think this happened but I ca ...more
Feb 19, 2011 Vanessa rated it it was amazing
Shelves: read-for-school
I read just read this for my Creative Writing class in college and fell in love! Reading Jo Ann Beard's memoir was like spreading butter. Sounds weird I know, but the writing quality and word choice just flows so smoothly and naturally. She goes into such great detail creating this images of the simplest things. Her word choice makes you think, "Wow those words are exactly how I would describe that if I could think of the perfect way to say it." There are so many lines in the book that I just ch ...more
Apr 23, 2013 JSou rated it it was amazing
Recommended to JSou by: Mike "PHT" Reynolds
These seriously are some of the best essays I've ever read in my life. I can't even say how much I loved this book, and now Jo Ann Beard. What a fantastic writer. Every single essay in this collection made me laugh AND cry.

Thank you, Mike Reynolds for such a wonderful gift. (I finally read it! )
Donna Everhart
Oct 27, 2015 Donna Everhart rated it it was amazing
I was mesmerized by the writing style of Jo Ann Beard. She did a magnificent job capturing her youth, really her life in general, from the time when she was about three up through adult years. I laughed out loud as some of her descriptions of her relationship with her mother, her aunts, friends, siblings.

She wrote often saying, "We" this, or "they" that. She might be referencing herself for "we" or maybe her and her doll, Hal, or someone else, but it was so uniquely done. Her voice in these sto
Angela Blount
Sep 19, 2014 Angela Blount rated it liked it
Shelves: non-fiction, poetry

On the whole, his was a pretty erratic read. The author jumps around from memory to memory in her small-town Midwestern life without anything this reader could call a logical cohesion or progression. Half of the time, these short stories almost feel more like tangential modern poetry than memoir essays. The most gripping and memorable of these was, hands down, her memory of a horrific act of workplace violence that the author narrowly avoided.

While seeming somewhat unlikely, the author's recoll
Oct 25, 2015 Sarah rated it liked it
i hate when i read a sample on amazon and those first few pages are so good but when you get the book in your hands you find that each subsequent page is a little more literary than you blah, or uppity or just fanciful. Not that it's bad at all. I understand all the accolades Beard received and I LOVED Inzanesvile but this one i couldn't read more than half. I just hoped the next essay would be better but it was just more poetic stuff. Boo!
Vincent Scarpa
Dec 22, 2014 Vincent Scarpa rated it it was amazing
Just finished my annual reread of this, one of maybe ten books I'd rather die than be forced to live without. I stand by what I've said for a long time: there may be writers who write better books, better essays, better stories, better poems, but NOBODY writes better sentences than Jo Ann Beard. [And, for my, .02, no one writes better essays than Jo Ann Beard, either. Not even close.]

Every single essay here feels like a lifetime achievement, a life's work. To single out any one is silly. JAB is
Apr 28, 2010 Luann rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites, essays
This book of essays is one of my favorite all-time reads. Beard has a particularly Midwestern voice, in my opinion (I grew up in Illinois) and that identification really struck me. Some of the pieces continue to haunt me years later. Very occasionally I've seen something of hers in The New Yorker - but I've been waiting and hoping for another book for a long time.

I highly recommend this. In fact, I think I just talked myself into rereading it.
Karen Brown
Oct 29, 2015 Karen Brown rated it it was amazing
Shelves: favorites
Wow. I am so late to the Jo Ann Beard party (this was published seventeen years ago!) Her prose is spare, yet beautiful. Her voice is intoxicating and you'll find yourself devouring every single essay. I briefly considered skipping her piece entitled "Coyotes", solely because I had loved every single preceding story and didn't want to change the upward trajectory of my experience. The title seemed to indicate that this wasn't in my wheelhouse. That would've been a big mistake.

Her description of
Heather Hasselle
Sep 03, 2015 Heather Hasselle rated it it was amazing
Shelves: read-nonfic
The way life is written about in these essays is proof that a life lived as closely observed and deeply felt as Jo Ann Beard's is worth reading about, and worth writing. Especially in the language Beard uses, which is like sitting beside someone as they flip through pictures of a family photo album, narrating in the most beautiful and real way. I want to live (and feel as though I did) in some of these images:

"I've thrown my lot in with the guy in the driver's seat, and he with me. We're both c
Mar 31, 2015 Dennis rated it it was amazing
I had never heard of Jo Ann Beard or her critically acclaimed memoir The Boys of My Youth or her most famous essay, "The Fourth State of Matter" (on the 1991 University of Iowa shootings), until March 2015. I picked it up because I was in the mood to binge-read as many memoirs as possible. I found a list through a Google search and went down the list: Angela's Ashes. Check. Another Bullshit Night in Suck City. Check. Maus. Check. Fun Home. Check. The Glass Castle. Mark to read later.

And then Th
May 23, 2016 Dina rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2016
Inspiring. As in it inspires me to write more about my own childhood and adolescence and all the strange details that surface in memory, things I thought were long gone. Nothing's ever really gone.
Sep 30, 2009 Jody rated it it was amazing
Jo Ann Beard
Interviewed by Michael Gardner

JoAnn Beard is a graduate of the Nonfiction Program at the University of Iowa. JoAnn Beard served as a visiting writer to the MFA program at Saint Mary's College of California in the fall of 2003.
MG: This is the first year that the nonfiction genre exists in the MFA Program at Saint Mary's College and will also be the first year in which works of nonfiction will be included in Mary Magazine. In developing my ideas about the genre of nonfiction, I couldn
I was already blown away by the quality of this collection when, near the end, I discovered that the writer grew up in Moline, IL (just a hop and skip from where I live). What the WHAT?

A few months ago, I read (and enjoyed) an essay, "Behind the Screen," (about a little girl and her family on the Fourth of July), on a blog about a genre called flash memoir. A week or two later, I picked up The Boys of My Youth at a local bookstore mainly because I liked the title and because the copy was on sal
Jan 27, 2013 Jessica rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This feels like a cohesive memoir even though the chapters are self-contained essays. I really enjoyed this collection even though some of the topics of the essays are more common like first loves, childhood crushes, and a mother's death. Almost all of the pieces are grounded in present tense even though Beard jumps around in time. This ability is particularly impressive in the title story, "The Boys of My Youth." Her most interesting essays to me were the one about the shooting at Physics Depar ...more
Mar 23, 2016 Maddie rated it really liked it
A wonderful collection of essays that together compose a non-chronological memoir, The Boy of my Youth is Beard's examination of her life through the men - her father, her childhood crushes, her (ex) husband. And while the men are central they are simultaneously in the background - despite the title and the focus it was Beard's relationship with the women in her life that drove this book for me - her cousin, her best friend Elizabeth, her mom. While the boys are always the undercurrent of the es ...more
May 30, 2014 Christine rated it liked it
'The Boys of My Youth' is a memoir written through a collection of essays. The narrative is not linear and I enjoyed the shifting timeline and her overall writing style. The strongest chapters were Fourth Side of the Matter (recalling a horrific workplace incident) and a chapter written about her being followed in her car in the south (frightening). Without question, these sections were 5/5 stars. For the most part, I enjoyed the sections written about her childhood but her adult sections (exclu ...more
Jan 19, 2013 Laura rated it it was amazing
Our local writers group hosts events every once in a while, and the latest event was "Bookstruck"—bring a book you had read a while back and reminisce about how it still affects you. One of the writers touted this 1998 acclaimed story-style memoir, reading some passages from it which made me curious enough to get it out from the library. Really loved Jo Ann Beard's voice and writing style. The stories of being a girl growing up in the midwest resonated with me, although Beard had quite different ...more
Jul 08, 2013 nicole rated it liked it
Shelves: 2013
On the whole, I wasn't into this one. In fact, it gave me a nightmare that my husband had cheated on me, and I had to explain it to all of my parents, and I carried a huge grudge against him for a whole day.

This is one of those reads that baffles me, as I know I love confessional personal essays, and yet this couldn't hold me. When I tracked down the path of how it found it's way to my reading queue, I realized that it was recommended by Libba Bray, who I also a heated reader's conflict with, i
Joan Colby
Apr 16, 2013 Joan Colby rated it it was amazing
. Beard is funny, moving and often poetic in these essay-memoirs. “Coyotes” is pure poetry in parts…”In the dark that, on my smooth ocean, inside my mind, he is already gray and golden like the desert, like the moon moving among them in the clearing…” “Cousins” will resonate with any girl who had a bosom friend for the wild and carefree times. I remember reading “The Fourth Side of Matter” years ago in the New Yorker, one of the most powerful and unforgettable stories I’ve encountered. Beard’s v ...more
Mike Barnett
Dec 30, 2014 Mike Barnett rated it it was amazing
My new new favorite author: I don't even know what to say about her. Her writing is incredible. Really, if you read just one new book this year, make it one of hers.
Aug 13, 2015 Gabrielle rated it it was amazing
The best collection of non fiction short stories I've ever read. Okay the only collection I've ever read, but I'm going to go out on a limb and say it won't be beaten.
Apr 23, 2016 Beth rated it it was amazing
This collection of twelve essays is one of my favorites, not because the subject matter is fascinating (though some of it is) and not because the stories are uniquely told (though most of them are), but because you get lost in them. You get lost in the way Beard reminds you of something you've forgotten about (the friend from your youth with the French Provincial bedroom furniture, calling boys you've no intention of actually talking to, how an errant lover gives himself away). It all feels fami ...more
Barbara M
Jul 25, 2015 Barbara M rated it it was amazing
A friend of mine who is a writer gave gave this book to me as a gift. She told me that she loved it and hoped I would enjoy it too. I absolutely loved this book! I took it with me to the beach today and I couldn't put it down until I finished it! It added to my enjoyment of a glorious beach day! I love sitting on the beach reading a great book.

The book is a collection of stories - a memoir of the author's childhood and young adult memories. It focuses on the "boys" of her youth who shaped her li
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Jo Ann Beard is the author of a collection of autobiographical essays, The Boys of My Youth. Her work has appeared in The New Yorker, Tin House, Best American Essays, and other magazines and anthologies. She received a Whiting Foundation Award and nonfiction fellowships from the John Simon Guggenheim Foundation and the New York Foundation for the Arts.
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“We sit silently in our living room. He watches the mute television screen and I watch him. The planes and ridges of his face are more familiar to me than my own. I understand that he wishes even more than I do that he still loved me.” 14 likes
“As she lies in the bed she weeps, for Bing, for the melting, shimmering candles, the filigree on the holiday tablecloth. She is an unwilling astronaut, bumping against the thick glass of the ship, her line tangling lazily in zero gravity, face mask fogged with fear. My sister reaches across, over the bed, and we both embrace the mother, holding her on earth, pulling her onto the ship, breathing our oxygen into her line. Ten hours later she is dead.” 1 likes
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