The Divorce Party

The Divorce Party

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Two women at the opposite ends of marriage are trying to answer the same question: When should you fight to save a relationship and when should you begin to let go?

On their thirty-fifth wedding anniversary, Gwyn Huntington and her husband, Thomas, invite friends and family over for a most unusual celebration. Their home, Huntington Hall, has been in the family for generati...more
Hardcover, 246 pages
Published May 15th 2008 by Viking Adult
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Carla
I zipped through this book and here's why: The story caught my attention because the plot did not sound like any story I had ever read. It is set in the outer reaches of Long Island where a family reunites for a party to mark the end of the parent's marriage (THE "divorce party") and the chance to meet the son's new fiance. The story is told alternately from the perspectives of two female characters (aren't the women always the story-keepers in families?): the mother, Gwyn, and the new fiance, M...more
Michelle
"When I first read the marketing information about this book, I was intrigued. Divorce parties? Really? Isn't that all a bit...odd?[return][return]It turns out that there are perfectly acceptable reasons for throwing a divorce party. While I may still be uncomfortable with the idea, I do see their merit, especially when the parting is amicable. However, in spite of its title, this book is not about divorce parties but about marriage and love and, just like the synopsis reads, what it takes to ma...more
Becky
I would actually give this book 2.5 stars - I didn't dislike it, but I didn't really like it, either.

The book was filled with a lot of strife and tension - Gwen and Thomas are divorcing, Maggie and Nate are engaged but he has lied to her and she's just finding out - and the ending (I felt) was depressing. I guess I should have seen that coming, since the title is "The Divorce Party".

I also felt that the book spent a lot of time trying to be a deeper, wiser book than it actually was. There were s...more
Jalyn
I'm going to do this review differently than my normal reviews because I don't feel like my typical What I liked/What I disliked will express my feelings for this book correctly.

As a warning: ******THIS REVIEW CONTAINS SPOILERS******

I don't know why I thought there might be a happy ending to this book. Maybe I'm just the kind of person that thinks all things will end well for those who want it that way, but I don't think anything really ended well for these characters, except for Georgia maybe....more
Sharon
This book gives “Meet the Parents” a new twist.

Gwyn Huntington has been married 35 years to the day and she’s having a divorce party… for herself. Her husband Thomas has claimed he is found religion and wants to move on, but she knows the real truth. What will Thomas do when she reveals her surprise?

Maggie MacKenzie is engaged to Nate Huntington and they are planning to scrape enough money together to open a restaurant. As if that isn’t enough she is meeting her future in-laws at their divorce p...more
Trisha W.
I enjoyed this book. It was about two different women, each at different ends of their marriage. Gwyn and her husband of 30 some years are getting divorced and throwing a divorce party. And Maggie is with Nate, Gwyn's son. So Maggie and Gwyn know each other because of Gwyn's son. It was sad at some points in the book. Like when Gwyn is having doubts on if she is still in love with her husband, then she finds out what he is really doing, when he said that he was at Buddhism classes. And Nate is h...more
Jeanette Stingley
The Divorce Part by Laura Dave is one of the best books I have read in awhile. You know a book is good when it only takes me 3 days to read it!

The whole book takes place in one day. Maggie is about to meet her future in-laws at their Divorce Party. Yes, Divorce Party. The couple, Gwyn and Thomas, is throwing in the towel after nearly 35 years of marriage. Thomas has found religion (or at least that is his version of him growing apart from his wife) and doesn’t see Gwyn as part of his journey int...more
Kerri
First of all, I read most of this book while laying on my new awesome hammock so that may have added to the enjoyability!

I think the book would be just a light, quick read. And it was pretty quick! But, it was pretty thought-provoking, actually. Made me think about marriage, and what it means- And more importantly, the whole idea of truly being intimate and honest. I'm a songwriter, and it's a topic I find comes up over and over in my writing. That need and want to lay all the cards out for som...more
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I read Dave’s London is the Best City in America awhile back and enjoyed it so I though I’d try her new book. Maggie and Nate are working together to open a restaurant. Maggie loves her life and its challenges until she realizes that she doesn’t know her fiancee Nate very well. The first clue is that Nate has been hiding some envelopes from an investment company from her. Maggie is unsure if she should fight to save their relationship or let it go.

This story is contrasted with Nate’s mother’s s...more
Heather  Adams
Based on the title and the cover, I expected this to be a light and fluffy "chick lit" type book. I don't mean that to be disparaging; I like that type of book sometimes. In any event, I was surprised to find that this book was more serious and thoughtful than I had imagined it would be. I really enjoyed the stories of both Gwn and Maggie. I thought it was a little unlikely that Nate would try to hide so much, but maybe I'm just naive. I liked reading about the women's internal struggles and the...more
Andrea
This story is told by the two main female characters: Gwyn and Maggie. Gwyn Huntington is planning a Divorce Party that falls on the day of her thirty-fifth wedding anniversary. Her husband says that he has found a new religion and that they are now too different from each other, but she knows better. Maggie is Gwyn's soon to be daughter-in-law. On the day that Maggie is to meet her in-laws for the first time, she finds out all about Nate's, her fiance, hidden past. The two women must overcome s...more
Cheryl
Gwyn Huntington is getting ready to throw the most important party of her life…her divorce party! Yes you hear me right…a divorce party. It is like a tradition to host one, when your divorce is final. It is like freeing yourself of the old and saying I am ready to take on the world again. Someone who can’t understand what Gwyn is going through is Gwyn’s soon to be daughter in law, Maggie Mackenzie.

Maggie has found the man of her dreams and his name is Nate. He comes from a wealthy family. She i...more
Sarah
Jul 12, 2009 Sarah rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Susan
If London Is the Best City in America is a good book, this is a GREAT book. I loved the characters and the setting. It was very cinematic, and I think it will translate into a movie quite well.
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Stacy
I love books and movies about marriages. The happy, the sad, the damaged. There is something so complicated about this relationship and no two are ever the same. Gwyn is facing the end of her marriage, but there is still something there, love or hope, or both. And Maggie is faced with a future husband who is willing to keep the most basic truths about himself a secret from her. The chapters alternated between the two women and I loved it. It was thoughtful and thought-provoking, meaningful and s...more
Bridget
Gwyn is a party planner who has been a leader in all different kinds of celebrations for other. Including Divorce Parties. After being married for thirty-five years, her marriage is over. Now, she is throwing her own divorce party which she knows will be different from all the rest.

Meanwhile, Maggie is looking forward to starting her life with the man of her dreams. This may sound wonderful right now, but she still has to meet the in-laws.

Weddings and divorce may seem like complete opposites but...more
Cassie
I really enjoyed this book. It was a very fast read, and was easy to get through. The entire book (minus the prologue and epilogue)takes place in one day, yet you get so inside these two women's lives, it feels like you know everything about them. The back and forth between Maggie & Gwyn keeps you going. I thought both of these women were great characters and they had a pretty fabulous supporting cast. Even with all their faults, I found myself really liking these characters. Nate & Thom...more
Ruth
Maggie is engaged to Nate. She is traveling out to Montauk to meet his parents for the very first time at a party that they are having to celebrate their divorce. The idea of the party is to let everyone know that they can honor their past life and remain friends into the future. But does each person have secrets that they haven't revealed to others? Why haven't they revealed those parts of themselves? Are there ever good reasons to have secrets and if they come to light can we forgive, forget,...more
Carol
A banquet of suprises that nudges your taste buds with emotional flavour. An indepth drama that unfolds as a stale marriage is to be celebrated with a divorce party to be held on the couples thirty fifth wedding anniversary. By reflecting on happier times with family and friends at this gathering they hope those close to them will understand their decision to seperate. Then the older couple can move forward with the changes in their future. A well written novel that touches the heart strings and...more
Jules
Nov 10, 2009 Jules rated it 4 of 5 stars
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I really like Laura Dave's writing style, but I could see how someone else wouldn't. She delves so completely into the emotional and mental life of her characters that every action and decision is imbued with ample weight and meaning. Nothing is simply careless. I could see how that would irk people or they could find it ponderous, but I like it as a window into all the quirks of someone else's mind. It feels intimate, particularly because Dave is so great observing and capturing the tiny detail...more
Dana
I started this delightful book after dinner last night, and finished it by midnight. I felt as if I were living inside a Noel Coward play, with his wry sense of humor and sly understanding of love and marriage and secrets. This novel was so well written, never overly sentimental, and always held my interest. A young man and his fiance head to Montauk, to his family estate home to attend the divorce party being given by his parents to commemorate the good years of their long marriage, that is now...more
Hayden
This book was a really really good read. With divorced parents, I can't really understand why a couple would split up if they were happy enough with their union to celebrate a split. But the story goes alot deeper than I predicted. I was expecting a comedy, and while there were funny parts in this novel, there were also surprisingly deep and heart stirring developments as well.

This book gives the reader a look at just a few of the infinite ways that love can be expressed.

It left me wondering i...more
Lauren
I enjoy reading anything by Laura Dave; I find that her characters embody a perfect blend of endearment and fault that really make them human. Dave does not disappoint with The Divorce Party, an entertaining novel that sheds valuable insight about the nature of relationships.
In The Divorce Party, Gwyn and Thomas are toasting to the end of their marriage by hosting a celebration at Huntington Hall, their fit-for-a-postcard home in Montauk, Long Island that’s been in the family for generations (a...more
Eric Klee
Finishing THE DIVORCE PARTY felt like an amicable split. I didn't hate it, but I wasn't in love with it, so I didn't feel sad when it ended. It tries to be a tale of revenge, but it's not that vengeful. It's more about relationships and moving on after "life-altering" events shape your future, but it just comes off as a bit too lifeless.

In the novel, the affluent Gwyn is planning a divorce party for she and her soon-to-be ex-husband Thomas after 35+ years of marriage, inviting hundreds of their...more
Natalie
Simply amazing.
Vicky Norton
Nice smooth writing; realistic story; I love the characters doing what real people would actually do, good and bad. I like that it covers one day, I always think it's amazing when authors (and movie directors) can do that. The storm of 1938 that starts the book could have had more to do with it; I know it made the patriarch of the family stay at Montauk, but I wonder if the storm at the end was really needed. Anyway, the use of almost my favourite Van Morrison song at the end of this gets it fiv...more
Lisa
When reading a Laura Dave book, I almost feel like I am reading an Emily Giffin book. Dave’s stories – or at least the two I have read: “The Divorce Party” and “The First Husband” – like Giffin’s are centered on females with complicated love lives. What separates Giffin and Dave from other authors in the romantic comedy/chick lit genre, though, is that their stories have substance. While their books may be quick-paced and perfect for the beach, they aren’t full of fluff. They can actually be qui...more
Adriana
This is by far Laura Dave's best work. She not only captures the angst of being young (relatively speaking), in love and determined to make a relationship work (which is essentially what her other two books have been about), but she also manages to interweave this story with that of another relationship in its death throes. Maggie's fiance, Nate, is bringing her home to meet his parents, which is difficult enough under the best of circumstances. Unfortunately, these are not the best of circumsta...more
Margherita Dolcevita
In copertina c'è una torta a forma di cuore spezzato.
Dietro, sotto la trama, c'è scritto "Una commedia nera piena di ironia"; ok, lo scrive ELLE, che non è esattamente la bibbia per quanto riguarda la narrativa, però uno che legge e recensisce i romanzi ci sarà anche lì.
Bene, con questi presupposti uno cosa si aspetta? Una commedia nera piena di ironia sul divorzio.
Sbagliato. Di comicità non c'è traccia, meno che mai nera, l'ironia se la sono dimenticati da qualche parte e il divorzio è nel tito...more
Meg
Perhaps I am becoming a softie...I liked this book too! Another quick read, great plot, the premise quirky, the drama pretty far fetched, but it IS fiction afterall. The beginning went very smoothly for me, but with the "twist" it seemed too fast paced for what had come prior. Almost as if the author took it up two notches instead of what I would have preferred to have seen - one. I would have rated it four, if it not had been for this hiccup. The younger female character accelerated the develop...more
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