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Other People's Children

3.64 of 5 stars 3.64  ·  rating details  ·  1,399 ratings  ·  110 reviews
With "The Best of Friends," American readers have taken Joanna Trollope into their hearts. That critically-acclaimed novel has climbed bestseller lists around the country and garnered raves from reviewers like "Good Housekeeping" who said that she "captures the poignant rituals of family attachment and detachment with delicious wryness and large doses of empathy." But with ...more
Hardcover, 294 pages
Published April 1st 1999 by Viking Adult (first published 1998)
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I have always loved (almost all of) Joanna Trollope's novels. And this is one of the best. She's great at exploring the perspectives of ALL people involved in blended families. My only reservation is that the two craziest characters are both women and the men are allowed to be much more normal. That said, if there is a character to be admired in this novel, it is also a woman.
I have always enjoyed this author because she writes a good story and nothing is simple and/or straightforward in her books. The stories are a lot like real life with all its twists and turns.

This book is about stepfamilies - the adults (parents, step-parents), all the various kids, dating someone with kids, the complicated relationships between all people involved, how hard it all is, the joys & love present, the compromises made, etc. Boy, oh boy, did it hit home for me being both a paren
That is really a very good story! The title itself implements what the story is about. Broken families, children involved.It is hard to try and make children happy, especially daughters with attitudes. The character I dislike. She is 25, overly insecure, jealous and possessive over her father and brother, acting as if she is a wife. She broke the relationships between her brother and his wife to be because of her influence as well as her father's wife to be. It is so sad that both men realized t ...more
I would rate this as 3.5 actually. Thought the complex emotions experienced by all characters in a split-family situation very true to life - except possibly for Dale who needed counselling. Tom felt he had to support his daughter in whatever way she elected, but the support should have been directed into professional counselling and strong loving advice from him, rather than letting her run his life, and so affect the happiness of Elizabeth, Rufus, Lucas and Amy as well as Tom.
'It's as if stepmothers have come to represent all the things we fear, most terribly, about motherhood gone wrong. We need mothers so badly, so deeply, that the idea of an unnatural mother is, literally, monstrous.'

I had never heard of this book or its author when I picked it up off the lounge floor, caught in the throes of boredom last Sunday afternoon, and started reading. The characters were all introduced at once, so at first it was quite hard to keep track of who was who, especially wit
A fasinating book if you are in or thinking about getting involved in a second relationship. It describes perfectly the trials and torment that one goes through whilst trying to breakthough all the emotions involved. Lots of pain barriers and plots.
Reading this book helped me realise I was not on my own and have passed the book on to several friends who are in the same position as I was.
What a tangled web is wove, no question. Poor little Rufus, his mom Josie was quite surprised with his appearance, as was Tom, a widower with grown children. Well, doesn't seem that one worked, Josie left the marriage. She has since become involved with Matthew who is very nice and Rufus likes him but Matthew also has three children from a previous marriage. Matthew's children live very poorly with his x-wife, Nadine who's sole purpose in life seems to be to make Matthew unhappy and teach her ch ...more
Jane Croucher
I like Joanna Trollope. As a dysfunctional, barren spinster the tales of the vagaries of family adult life seem far removed from my personal experience, so I approach them more as fantasy or science fiction. But with less hairy midgets like what they have in the Hobbit. Or robots.

Emotional but accurate portrayal of families struggling with divorce and stepfamily life, and the impact this has on kids. Wish the characters would get some basic counselling!
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Alison Davis
Having discussed this at our local book club we all came to the conclusion that most of Ms Trollope's books share very similar characters and plots! However as a stepmother this book did resonate with me and I could see characteristics in family members which made it a slightly more interesting read although I would disagree with the sleeve notes that said that the author offered solutions to difficulties that stepfamilies often encounter. I felt this was a rather lofty ambition that didn't come ...more
"Other People's Children" by Joanna Trollope was a really good read, and probably one of the most honest books I've read in a while. During this novel, Ms. Trollope tackles and wrestles with an issue that seems to permeate throughout society, no matter where you are residing. She takes the issues of separation, divorce, stepparents and the children that are left behind to pick up the pieces, and molds them into a workable art from which her readers(s) can learn from.
Ms. Trollope starts out with
This is an easy come, easy go, book. Efficiently written, carefully plotted and topical in theme, it holds the interest but does not inspire or open the mind.

The characters neatly represent slightly different strata of society. Some characters are definitely nice, reasonable and put-upon, while others are angry, unreasonable and unbalanced, either in a temporary or permanent sense. Places, actually territories, figure highly in the book and represent the different social standing of characters,
Amy Cousineau
Jun 06, 2015 Amy Cousineau rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Amy by: generally like this author
Shelves: general-fiction
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I enjoy this author - she is so real!

However, I've never had a book sock me in the stomach like this one did - it's about remarriage and stepfamilies, stepkids and attendant challenges.

"...explores the hard-won truths and often harder-to-overcome difficulties in coping with present and former husbands and wives, and above all, with other people's children."

A little too close to home - I'll probably have very bad dreams tonight!
The Cats Mother
Read this quite a while ago then a copy reappeared from book club; I remember finding it interesting but my overwhelming feeling was thank god I don't have children. I think it's the only one of hers I've read, there are a few more on the shelf but am not in a hurry to read more.
The name is self-explanatory. This fictional book deals with the trauma of step motherhood, which is universally disclaimed as cruel and unnatural. I felt pity towards all the step mothers involved in this story - who were just human, but had to have super human patience to deal with their step brats. This story revolves around 3 sets of step children and their interrelationships. It was a good and thought provoking read. I personally dont know of anyone who is a step-mom (but for my paternal gr ...more
Cindy Wyatt
This is the third Joanna Trollope book I have read. Her books tend to be about family relationships and everything doesn't always work out neatly or the way you expected (which I appreciate). This book kept my interest but I couldn't help noticing that most of the female characters were overly dramatic and the male characters were weak.
Tess Mertens-Johnson
The only mature adult in this book was Rufus, the eight year old boy.
Families come in all different shapes and forms. This book follows a family broken up and how they try to move on, or not move on with their lives.
Nadine is left by her husband Matthew for Josie, a younger woman. She takes her anger for her husband out on her children. Josie was also married and broke that marriage up for Matthew. Tom, her ex, was widowed when he married the much younger Josie. Tom has an adult daughter Dale wh
Naomi Lambert
Trollope's book are well researched and written. Often set in recognisable British families her characters are complex and we can relate to their problems. Her issue of choice here is step families. Some of it is hard to read but always thought provoking.
Deanne Harvey
A sweet easy read in between the heavier books I am currently reading.
I always forget how "grannyish" some of her character's opinions can be, as a recurring theme perhaps they reflect the authors view on life also.
(eg: the horror shown at having the wedding where 15 types of pizza could be purchased !!! Most people's heaven I would assume)
While I normally love Joanna Trollop's books, I am finding this one difficult to bear. Not that this story isn't good or inviting, but that most of the women characters are immature shrews who spend a lot of their time being jealous and shrieking. Perhaps as I get further into this book, they will redeem themselves by growing in maturity and becoming more tolerant individuals.
Now that I have finished the book, some of the female characters improved and others remain the same. The men had their
Seth Sonenthal
Fun book to read. Little melodramatic. Nadine really needs a therapist. Dale needs a life!
Otherwise a ok read.
Just as the title suggests "Other People's Chilren" takes us through the beginnings of new married life with other peoples chidren......or the life of a step parent. I think anyone who has ever had to deal with this way of family life or children in general could relate to the experiences of the main characters, the two step-mothers and the two fathers. Nothing really new in the tale nor enlightening to give someone the answers to how to survive and end up happily-ever-after. However, there are ...more
Read as an accurate account of the domino effect when people with children choose new partners.
My first Joanna Trollope. The book deals with several blended families . There are several families whose lives are influenced, if not ruled, by concern for their children.

We meet a school principal whose second marriage is strained by his children's rejection of his wife. The ex-wife is a drama queen who uses her children to punish her ex-husband.

The second wife's son by her first husband is a dear child to everyone. When his father begins a new relationship, his adult daughter from his first
I'm not sure if Mom gave me this book to read before or after Kevin and I started dating, but I think it was before... It was my second Joanna Trollope, I think, and I have more on the stack, which I'll probably read eventually. (My pleasure reading went down the tubes this summer and will remain defunct for the forseeable future, I fear.) Anyway, Trollope is a lot like Anne Tyler in that her characters have many faults but are still compelling. Reading this book made me realize how fortunate Ke ...more
Joanne Trollope writes stories about relationships of all kinds. This one had many characters both adult and children and adults who act like children and vice versa. I enjoy her writing style-it has a sort of professional tone to it. Some of the characters you love/like and some you hate, even if you do have an understanding of why they act as they do. This book was mostly about the mess that divorce can bring but other losses as well. Good book...would recommend Trollope's books to anyone in t ...more
Good book. All about stepfamilies.
too many characters
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