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Wenn es verletzt, ist keine Liebe : die Gesetzmäßigkeiten erfüllter Partnerschaft

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In If It Hurts, It Isn't Love, author Chuck Spezzano finds truth in simple insights: What I think I need is what I am called to give. Depression is the fear that something new will leave me. When someone gets angry at me, there is a lesson for me to learn. Jealousy is a birthing place. These principles show how to look afresh at one's most important relationships, in a way
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Paperback, 410 pages
Published 2005 by Goldmann (first published 1996)
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Elizabeth
Feb 12, 2008 Elizabeth rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a daily meditation book on relationships. For a while I was reading a page daily, but now I read it when I am struggling with some sort of conflict or concern. I find that the principles and wisdom always alter my perspective & encourage me to change the things I can change (myself) and release my expectations and blame of others.
Jesus
Aug 18, 2012 Jesus rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book is a good read. It helped me to see how simple relationships can be, yet we make them so difficult because of some underlying problem/emotion within ourselves or walls we have built around ourselves. It also helped me to see how behind every situation there is an emotional trigger from a past situation in your life that makes us respond the way we do. Just be yourself, appreciate the little things and remain positive.
Yana
Feb 11, 2016 Yana rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
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Книгата ми е нещо тип "fast food" психология.
Много рядко осъзнаването на нещо води до трайни промени, поради простия факт, че подсъзнанието е което управлява по-голяма част от ежедневието ни (говорим за нещо от порядъка 92-95%). Това е и една от причините да не ми допадат вербалните терапии.

Все пак книгата би могла да се използва като отправна точка за работа, ако се абстрахираме от препоръките в нея как да отработваме даден проблем.
Chloe Michele
Nov 05, 2013 Chloe Michele rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
First just know this is not the type of book that has to be read cover to cover, each individual page is dedicated to a title/lesson with a thorough explanation. You can choose to skip around, or read it like a book.

This book is intended for you to use as a tool for self-reflection, to look at your actions and take responsibility in your relationships (relationships of all kinds) and make them better.

Definitely an amazing book, unfortunately i lost my copy and will have to purchase another soo
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Elizabeth Black
Feb 18, 2013 Elizabeth Black rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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This book works well as a "Thought for the day" as each entry is autonomous from the others. The drawback is that often times I found myself wanting desperately for him to elaborate on a profound insight, but turn the page, and you're to a different topic for a different day. It makes me want to read his other books!
Erika
Jul 09, 2011 Erika rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
The first time I read this, I read it as a book. Now I read it as a devotional of sorts, accompanying more spiritual text. The short pages are packed full of self-affirming information that will help you get back to "you" and begin the healing process from wherever you stand.
Sandee Clemons
Nov 02, 2008 Sandee Clemons rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: everyone
This book has practical advice on helping to grow relationships. No matter what type a relationship you are embarking on this book will help!
Judy
Nov 30, 2009 Judy rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book is filled with great one-page topics that help you keep a positive perspective and assess your personal views towards life's challenges.
Yvonne
Feb 12, 2013 Yvonne rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I've bought a couple of this as gifts to my friends. It helped me through one of the worst heartbreaks and I was never the same again.
Beth Rocks
May 04, 2008 Beth Rocks rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: everyone
This book is chock full of advice on how to be more loving and committed to your relationships.
Henriette
Jul 21, 2013 Henriette rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Read the German edition - Wenn es verletzt, ist es keine Liebe.
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