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  <title><![CDATA[Sacred Marriage]]></title>
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  <default_description>Starting with the discovery that the goal of marriage goes beyond personal happiness, writer and speaker Gary Thomas invites readers to see how God can use marriage as a discipline and a motivation to love Him more and reflect more of the character of His Son.</default_description>
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  <original_title>Sacred Marriage: Celebrating Marriage as a Spiritual Discipline</original_title>
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  <read_at>Sat Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I got rid of my copy before finishing it (roughly four years ago). Between my incomplete reading and poor memory, I am probably doing the book a disservice. But here are some of my criticisms:<br/>1. I don’t think the main purpose of marriage is to make us holy rather than happy. Marriage was por...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/37600411">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Jul 29 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[For the first time in four or five years, I did a Bible Study this summer that wasn't an inductive study.  To be quite honest, I was a bit fearful that I would hate doing a book study.  I can't stand &quot;how to&quot; books and really hate being led by the nose to a specific conclusion.  (Issues wi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/66490456">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Sat Nov 29 07:59:43 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Nov 29 08:08:50 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book gets you to think a little out of the box about marriage. How often do we get married to become more Holy rather than to be happy? The author provides excellent challenges on marriage from a biblical perspective and follows those up with real life practical examples of celebrities and hypo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38862781">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jun 23 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book took me a while to get through likely because 1) it was required reading for marriage counseling and required readings mess with my mind and 2) because of Gary Thomas' writing style (he writes in a very straightforward and dry way that leaves me yearning for some humor or life.  <br/><br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46653039">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm never sure what I'll get when I pick up a Christian book on marriage; some can be gimmicky or cliched or simply tiresome.  But there are definitely some gems out there, and I count <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/search/search?q= Sacred Marriage" title=" Sacred Marriage"> Sacred Marriage</a> among them.<br/><br/>Instead of asking how spirituality shapes married life, Gary Thomas asks ho...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/22001174">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="21917294">
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  <read_at>Sat Sep 06 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[<u>Sacred Marriage</u> by <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/585.John_Steinbeck" title="John Steinbeck">Gary Thomas</a> has been a sequel to <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/56594.A_Severe_Mercy" title="A Severe Mercy by Sheldon Vanauken">A Severe Mercy</a> in my personal journey of understanding marriage.  <u>Severe Mercy</u> got me excited about marriage, and about the potential for intimate, kindred spirit connection with my spouse.  However, in thinking about marriage in light of spiritual...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21917294">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="17717528">
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  <read_at>Wed Sep 03 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[My women's group used this book to guide discussions on a weekly basis for about six months. The group contained women with kids, without kids, single, divorce, remarried, widowed, and with traditional marriages. Everyone got something out of the discussions that took place despite their current sit...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17717528">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="12802888">
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2002</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[	<br/>9 of 10 people found the following review helpful:<br/> My new favorite marriage book, August 11, 2005<br/><br/><br/>I used to give out copies of Bryan Chapell's wonderful Each for the Other. Before that my favorite book on marriage had been Mike Mason The Mystery of Marriage. Thomas is m...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12802888">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[&quot;Sacred Marriage&quot; by Gary L. Thomas.  I especially liked how he compared Christ's relationship to his church with the marriage relationship. Gary Thomas brings up things I hadn't considered before, like when he wrote about how a couple's vows and commitment to each other in marriage can be...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10930631">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Aug 10 15:46:50 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Good book in many ways.  I was disappointed at the mystical aspect that entered it at times.<br/><br/>Schaeffer and others have also put out a call for us to realize that even in a fallen and corrupted universe, if we look we can still see the touch and glory of God.  <br/><br/>Marriage is certa...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52048604">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="65574100">
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I loved this book. I have heard people say it gets to be redundant, but I read it in 3 days... perhaps that made the difference? I thought Gary Thomas had a wonderful premise: Marriage is more about us becoming like God that about us being happy. He said it a variety of ways, but too many marriages ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/65574100">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[a fantastic marriage book. I actually read it about 5 years ago, before I was married or even in a relationship for that matter. I'm excited to read it again. I just remember a very creative and refreshing perspective on marriage and married life. I'm headed to a conference in about two weeks to hea...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46474517">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[What if marriage were meant to make us holy, and not just happy?  This book made a huge impact on me when I first read it a few years ago.  I'm planning to read it again soon.  If you ever get a chance to hear Gary speak, do it!  And stock up on his books!  They are all wonderful.  Yes, I think I've...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44738724">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jul 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is the best book I have ever read and most likely ever will read on a healthy marriage.  It is uplifting and encouraging.  Our goal for marriage is to serve the Lord.  Gary Thomas is very insightful and writes in a beautiful way that is easy to understand and easy to put into action.<br/><br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58543713">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book took me quite a while to finish...as do all books; but it was VERY VERY good!  The Word of God is sharper than any 2-edged sword, and I definitely felt the &quot;sting&quot; when I read this book.  It's not all glam and happy feelings, which is what I like about Gary Thomas' writing.  He a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/31223302">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jul 20 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book really stimulated my thinking about Christian marriage -- about what it is, what it isn't, and how it's different than the mere legal/cultural institution of marriage that persists more prominently around the world. Thomas emphasizes the spiritual and theological aspects of marriage and ho...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13130629">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Thomas posits that God's primary purpose for marriage is not happiness but rather holiness. This book discusses what a Godly marriage should be and how it can transform the couple and the world around them to know the Lord better. Whenever I read it, I'm reminded of what sort of husband God wants me...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/37576266">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Nov 18 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book to be insightful and helpful.  I only gave it 4 stars because I feel that &quot;When Sinner's Say 'I Do'&quot; is a much more direct statement of what Gary Thomas says in this book.<br/>I would reccommend this book more as milk and the Dave Harvey book as the meat.<br/>What I lik...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26028920">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 22 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat Aug 22 19:00:23 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is one of the books that my wife and I have used for an read together before we go to bed book.  This is not a standard Christian marriage book.  In fact, this is as unique a Christian marriage book as I have read.  There are some parts I have issues with, but the over-riding theme is right on ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/61832180">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Feb 12 10:41:51 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was really wonderful in that the key theme was revolutionary and quite relevant.  The key theme was:  Marriage is meant for holiness, not just happiness.  In fact the theme might be happiness in marriage is the leftovers from the process of reformation and refinement of the individuals par...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/14838204">more...</a>]]></body>
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