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  <title><![CDATA[Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care about Has Borderline Personality Disorder]]></title>
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  <default_description>Stop Walking on Eggshells: Coping When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder is a self-help guide that helps the family members and friends of individuals with borderline personality disorder (BPD) understand this self-destructive disorder and learn what they can do to cope with it and take care of themselves. It is designed to help them understand how the disorder affects their loved ones and recognize what they can do to get off the emotional roller coasters and take care of themselves.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_month type="integer">7</original_publication_month>
  <original_publication_year type="integer">1998</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care about Has Borderline Personality Disorder</original_title>
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      <name><![CDATA[Paul T. Mason]]></name>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[Anyone who deals with difficult people]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2002</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a surprisingly common problem, and it often coexists with alcoholism and/or drug addiction. We all know people with BPD, although we may not know that scientific label. People with BPD are maddeningly difficult to deal with, irrational, manipulative, and ofte...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/1219848">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67581809">
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    <name><![CDATA[Melacynthe]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Dekalb, IL]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Fri Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Aug 16 02:36:45 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Aug 16 02:45:32 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[My heart stopped when I found this book on my now Ex boyfriend's bookshelf. He came home from work to find me reading it and the expression on his face was absolute shame and horror. It disappeared the next day when he left for work, but the damage was already done.<br/><br/>I DESPISED this book. ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67581809">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="48905365">
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    <name><![CDATA[Dave]]></name>
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  <date_added>Wed Mar 11 06:57:15 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Mar 23 07:20:46 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[As the child of a borderline mother, I found this particularly helpful in understanding the point of view of borderlines and for gaining some useful tactics on how to deal with them--the &quot;spolier&quot; here being that there's no particularly satisfying way, just some ways that work to a degree ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48905365">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="42206379">
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    <name><![CDATA[Amanda]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Medford, MA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sun Jan 04 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Jan 07 07:06:13 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Jan 10 10:43:19 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I picked out this book as I was looking for advice on how best to deal with people who have Borderline Personality Disorder.  The first half is largely descriptive of common behaviors of people with BPD, and I admit I only skimmed that part because I felt I already had a grasp of this.  There is som...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42206379">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="51675835">
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    <name><![CDATA[tomlinton]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Port Townsend, WA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Mon Apr 13 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Apr 06 08:00:39 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Apr 13 13:51:03 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I know people like this<br/>whose behavior puzzles me<br/>This is helping me <br/>generate the compassion<br/>which I think is necessary<br/>for living in this world<br/><br/>I thought it insightful<br/>of the author<br/>to recommend small doses<br/>There's a lot of new stuff <br/>to abso...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51675835">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="77661535">
    <user id="60463">
    <name><![CDATA[Mike]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[West Linn, OR]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Thu Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Nov 13 11:13:50 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Nov 13 11:18:17 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[  I'm sorry that I found it of value to read this book, but I did.  If you have someone in your life who confuses you, swings between the need for absolute control and all sweetness and light, between seeing you as wonderful and then beneath contempt, and more...then you might find this book of inte...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/77661535">more...</a>]]></body>
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</review>
    <review id="46038115">
    <user id="901266">
    <name><![CDATA[Erin]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Atlanta, GA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Feb 11 09:55:49 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Feb 16 07:13:09 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Written mostly for family members and significant others that have a person with borderline personality disorder in their life. Contains valuable and insightful information about this disorder and tips on how to behave to minimize troubling behavior from the person with borderline personality disord...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46038115">more...</a>]]></body>
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</review>
    <review id="51402563">
    <user id="964233">
    <name><![CDATA[Elizabeth]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Apr 03 13:10:29 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Apr 03 13:10:29 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[from the library<br/><br/>not a very encouraging book because it doesn't really give anyone hope that their loved one can be cured....it does however help the partner or family member to survive]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51402563]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="57466448">
    <user id="2357841">
    <name><![CDATA[Robert]]></name>
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  <date_added>Wed May 27 00:04:29 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[I will never forget the acronym FOG, for things a person with borderline personality disorder uses in attempting to control another person's behavior: Fear, Obligation and Guilt.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57466448]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="50621816">
    <user id="515047">
    <name><![CDATA[Foxthyme]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Canada]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Fri Mar 27 11:04:15 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Mar 27 11:07:38 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[It's always good to know you're not the only one dealing with a BPD person. Just for that alone, I love this book. All the rest of the great info is gravy.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50621816]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="74393265">
    <user id="2121353">
    <name><![CDATA[Cathy]]></name>
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  <date_added>Tue Oct 13 09:42:05 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Oct 13 09:43:35 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Extremely helpful when someone in your life has borderline personality disorder.  For me, it helped me set proper boundaries.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74393265]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="63530377">
    <user id="1706059">
    <name><![CDATA[Aimee]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Vancouver, WA]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Tue Jul 14 19:55:08 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Jul 14 19:56:22 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a suggested read, to help me understand my daughter. I really hope it sheds some light on things.]]></body>
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    <review id="7715645">
    <user id="544139">
    <name><![CDATA[Erik]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Portland, OR]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Oct 14 14:13:38 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Oct 15 08:04:19 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[If you care about someone that has an extreme and powerful tendacy to control and manipulate, then this book is a great start.  If you choose to maintain a relationship with this person this book may help you learn their perspective (which most likely will always differ from your own).<br/><br/>It...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7715645">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7715645]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="43820592">
    <user id="1895915">
    <name><![CDATA[Marsha]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Kennesaw, GA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Tue Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Jan 21 10:25:03 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Jan 21 10:25:24 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book truly changed my life.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43820592]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="38666867">
    <user id="1726181">
    <name><![CDATA[Mia]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Eugene, OR]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Tue Nov 25 19:42:09 -0800 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[it was helpful]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38666867]]></url>
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    <review id="24884987">
    <user id="679361">
    <name><![CDATA[April]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Jun 19 07:10:36 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm reading this book out of curiosity not knowing much about borderline personality disorder.  Working as a counselor, I can go through now and think of kids who I am guessing have it though!  This book is incredible and frustrating at the same time.  It is full of great information and specifics o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24884987">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24884987]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="11656116">
    <user id="328662">
    <name><![CDATA[Jennifer]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Austin, TX]]></location>        
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[people whose therapists recommend it.]]></recommended_for>
  <recommended_by><![CDATA[a therpaist I saw for a while.]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Jan 04 14:23:47 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Apr 11 11:25:41 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A therapist I saw last year after my dad died told me to read this book. Woooo... explained a lot about my childhood. In some ways this book was very helpful. Reading other people's accounts of BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) helped me identify patterns in family members' behavior, and was a n...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11656116">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/11656116]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="74376660">
    <user id="2595752">
    <name><![CDATA[Becca]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Atlanta, GA]]></location>        
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      <rating>5</rating>
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  <read_at>Thu Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2002</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Oct 13 06:47:30 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Life-changing.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74376660]]></url>
</review>
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    <body><![CDATA[Rec'd by Paula]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book wasn't quite what I expected.  The first chapters explained Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) fabulously.  Very clear, very understandable, very helpful.  However, the book was really written for someone in a close, intimate relationship with a person with BPD (e.g. a spouse, sister, o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42151106">more...</a>]]></body>
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