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Sex with Kings

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What does Camilla see in Charles? Did the Duchess of Windsor REALLY think she was going to get the crown of England? Learn the scandalous truth about the illicit relationships of some of history's most powerful men-and the women who slept with them to get to the top.

SEX WITH KINGS is the perfect book for anyone who revels in the scandalous goings-on of royals through the
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Paperback, 304 pages
Published September 30th 2004 by HARPER COLLINS 7 WOR (first published 2004)
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Homa
Sep 07, 2007 Homa rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
For whatever reason, this is an excellent book to read aloud to a friend (or, i suppose, to yourself). What I learned was that, back in the day, the fundamental order of operations, in terms of position went a little something like this:

pope
king
mistress at her peak
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bastard son of king
legit son of king
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sack of shit
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mistress at all other times
queen
sack of shit on fire

Ashley
Mar 09, 2008 Ashley rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction, history
Although the topic was very interesting, the organization of this book completely killed it. Herman jumps around from one royal mistress to the next, and it became very difficult to follow who was who - I found myself flipping back to earlier chapters to see who she was talking about. I really wanted to enjoy this book, but I couldn't even finish it. With a good editor and some chronological organization, it has potential to be really interesting stuff. As it is, it's only poorly written, unorga ...more
Wendy
Aug 17, 2008 Wendy rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: history
I had mixed feelings about this book. On the plus side, it's a fascinating read, giving a perspective on history that we don't often get. It's also laugh out loud funny in a lot of places.

On the minus side, the author has a couple of quirks that I found slightly irritating. One is that she's constantly beginning sections of the book with passages like, "We imagine that the life of a royal mistress must have been glamorous, full of ..." Maybe it's just that I've read enough history to know bette
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Chris
Apr 09, 2010 Chris rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: history-misc
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Educational gossip!

Old Review

It is impossible not to like a book that has the line "many men were willing to lay down thier wives for their king".

Totally impossible.

At times funny, at times surprisingly sad, this is a good book. Herman writes about the mistresses withuot making them saints. She is sympathic to husband, wife, and the other woman and the other woman's husband. While the book focuses mostly on the French, there are some really funny and strange stories. Like the one about
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Camille
I could not finish this book; I read up to page 120 and then skipped to the last chapter (p. 237-255). The organization of the book did not work for me; my main issue were the author's point of view, founding assumptions, and 'values', which I found distasteful.

I thought the organization of this book was detrimental to its content. Each chapter was on a theme, one aspect of the king-mistress relationship; there were also subchapters for a more granular look at the theme. Because of this, Herman
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Laura
Nov 15, 2007 Laura rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfic
I picked up this book a few years ago because of an article in the magazine Mental Floss , and enjoyed it as a light and somewhat fluff read. I just reread it and remember that there are some large problems with it. The organization is really awful, the chapters pretend to be about large categories but are conversational and don't seem to be held together much. The author skips from anecdotes about one mistress to anecdotes about a mistress from hundreds of years previously, in fact, all of the ...more
Cher
Nov 07, 2015 Cher rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
3 stars - It was good.

Mistress Virginie di Castiglione once stated "The more I see of men, the more I love dogs." Reading about the history of men making befuddled fools of themselves in the name of lust makes it incredibly easy to agree with that statement.

This made for an entertaining, though also disheartening read about vacuous men and jealous wives throwing tantrums over their unworthy partners. It's amazing how 1000 years later, the more things change the more they stay the same.
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Xysea
Oct 02, 2007 Xysea rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: fans of romantic and historical fiction, fans of royalty, nobility and scandal
Okay, well this is a saucy book. It certainly details most aspects of the mistress/queen/king dynamic. And being a royal mistress was good while it was good, but it was hardly a life to envy.

Yes, it was considered an honor to be chosen. It came with riches, power and a shot at (occasionally) being queen. It also came with venereal disease, bastard children, crushing poverty and a pit of vipers known as the royal court.

Mistresses were not always beautiful, or thing. However, they generally offere
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Kelly
Dec 31, 2009 Kelly rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: romantical, history, owned
The author of this book is much less like a historian than she is like a gossipy old grandma from a bygone stuck-in-its-ways-and-ideas generation, telling you tales by the fireside. She's judgmental, melodramatic, partial (she's got a huge crush on the French) and very silly... but also delightfully vicious, gleefully arch, and has some of the best stories ever. Approach the book with that image in mind, and you'll have a blast.

Full of as much sex, intrigue, backstabbing, catcalling, fabulous on
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kingshearte
OK, so I have to start by addressing a common complaint that I've heard about this book, which is that it only deals with, like, half a dozen mistresses, which, if that were true, hardly supports the theory that almost all European monarchs had mistresses. This is simply not true. Out of sheer perversity, I kept count, and there were more than seventy mistresses specifically named in this book. Most of them were either in England or France, but there were also some from Russia, Saxony, Austria, ...more
Chrys
Oct 25, 2009 Chrys rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
This book was a disappointment overall. Herman takes a fascinating topic and reduces it to a gossipy, disorganized read, largely judging the women discussed based on their looks and weight. Though I certainly learned a lot of historical information from this book, it seemed to exaggerate and scandalize many events of history, as if listening to a jealous woman at court discuss these subjects rather than an objective contemporary "historian". At times, the author seemed downright catty in discuss ...more
Angela
Nov 04, 2011 Angela rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
SEX. Did that get your attention? Ha.

I don't know about you, but I consider sex to be very interesting. Combining sex and history sounded like an intriguing read so when I saw Sex with Kings at my local used book store I just had to have it! I was completely engrossed in this book (which hasn't happened for a long time) so I would definitely recommend this book to others. I've noticed that a lot of people dislike Eleanor Herman's organizaton of the book, but it didn't bother me. Rather than maki
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Brittany
Dec 02, 2011 Brittany rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: history
This book was very lucky. I read it on the beach in Portugal on my honeymoon. I think under almost any other circumstances I would have lost patience with it much more quickly. As it was, I made it almost all the way through in good spirits, and only got impatient the last couple dozen pages.

I have shelved the book "history," but I'm not actually sure about that. It's really more "history lite" or some other nonsensical genre. She did do some research, but she focused on a handful of women, rath
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Jessie  (Ageless Pages Reviews)
3.5/5

Engrossing, but somewhat chaotic execution. Still, this was a really interesting read for me.
Jennifer Johnson
With a detailed look into the lives of royal mistresses, Eleanor Herman’s book really opens your eyes to the scandalous position. Not all about the sex, the role of royal mistress was demanding physically, sexually and intellectually. Not only did a mistress bear SCADS of royal bastards and have to constantly be ready and willing to please the king, she helped guide his politics, kept the king in control, worked tirelessly, (and often to her own detriment), on her appearance all for the chance t ...more
Rio (Lynne)
Jan 06, 2012 Rio (Lynne) rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is an interesting light read about some of the most infamous mistresses in history. From Madame de Montespan's witchery to Lady Castlemaine's historic control over Charles II. The author covers the how and why of how of these ladies came into the King's world, held their positions, fought for pensions, outwitted rivals and queens, birthed bastards and how after their meal tickets either moved on or passed away leaving these ladies to fight their enemies. She doesn't go deep, so if you aren' ...more
Aj Sterkel
Jan 25, 2017 Aj Sterkel rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: nonfiction
Have you ever wondered what Game of Thrones would be like in real life? Well, this book might satisfy some of your curiosity.

The author, Eleanor Herman, guides the reader through 500 years of European history and tells the stories of Europe’s most powerful royal mistresses. The writing is lively and sometimes laugh-out-loud funny. The book includes passages from letters and diaries that were written during the time that the mistresses lived. Royal courtiers were snarky. I didn’t know if I should
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Carrie Kellenberger
As my friend Jaclynn said when she loaned me this book, there's nothing quite like reading about ancient gossip. She was right. Sex with Kings takes the reader through five hundred years of Europe's most formidable and influential monarchs and their royal mistresses. These were the women that kings sought for themselves, rather than the foreign princesses they were forced to marry for the sake of their nation. In many cases, royal mistresses were treated better and received more money, clothing ...more
Gina
May 05, 2012 Gina rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Gina by: Lisa
Shelves: 2013
This was a pretty indulgent read, kind of like if Perez Hilton was a woman and a European historian/academic, and had a dry, British sense of humor (how's that for a recommendation?)

Let me start off by saying it doesn't get to graphic with the details, most of the intrigue has to do with the court gossip, the jealous queens, the power plays and the extent to which the royal mistress could influence politics. There are just as many Great Love stories here as there are affairs of a lesser caliber,
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Kelly
May 07, 2009 Kelly rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
If you like history and nonfiction, this is an entertaining read. It's not as graphic as the title might suggest, instead it explores the influence that mistresses have had on kings for centuries. You can read about one mistress at a time, jump to different chapters in the book (it's done by mistress) and not worry about leaving it for long periods of time and returning, since each chapter could stand alone. I think it does a decent job of telling the other side of the story, discussing what a m ...more
Elena
3.75 stars.

Sex with Kings is a light and fun non-fiction book which reads much like a novel. I expected it to be somehow more difficult and deep, but instead it was extremely easy and fast to read. Nothing memorable, but definitely enjoyable (it reminded me of Doomed Queens).

The organization of the book was also a surprise. I was expecting Eleanor Herman to follow a chronological or geographical order; instead, she proceeds through topics, such as the rivalries between queens and mistresses, or
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Kara

Sex with French Kings: 200 years of fighting to stay on top in the court of Versailles would have been a more accurate title, since most of the mistresses documented here are French between 1600 and 1800. There’s a fair amount of English mistresses along with some Polish, German and a few Russian ones, but France dominates.

The book is arranged by themes such as jewels, beauty, children, after-the-king, etc. which means Herman keeps covering the same group of mistresses, just at different points
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Lize
Aug 22, 2010 Lize rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2004
This one was a lot of fun. "500 years of adultery, power, rivalry and revenge." From Henry VIII to Prince Charles, it's full of juicy tidbits about the Queens, Kings, their mistresses and life at court. The job of a royal mistress was about much more than beauty and sex--she was a confidant, advisor, and cheerleader. She made sure he was well-fed, comfortable and entertained, and gave him a respite from his responsibilities. From the 1400's to the late 1800's, being a royal mistress was a really ...more
Kirsti
Mar 07, 2009 Kirsti rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Kirsti by: Jen
Shelves: nonfiction, history
"The more I see of men, the more I love dogs." --Virginie di Castiglione, a mistress of Napoleon III

"Hark the herald angels sing / Mrs. Simpson stole our King!" --naughty British schoolchildren in 1936

Lively and well-researched account of the mistresses and wives of royalty. I thought this passage was especially interesting:

"It was generally accepted that bastards were more intelligent and better looking than legitimate children. The belief was that intercourse between a man and his mistress was
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Madeline
Jun 03, 2007 Madeline rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A collection of all the history that got edited out of classroom textbooks because of adult content. Sex With Kings is combined biography of famous royal mistresses, from Madame de Pompadour to Camilla Parker-Bowles. They may have been sluts, but these women rocked, and they sound like a lot more fun than the monarchs they slept with.

My one quibble with this book, and the reason it doesn't get five stars: Anne Boleyn, one of my favorite historical figures EVER, is conspicously absent for almost
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Anna
Eleanor Herman is definitely not the first place you go for 100% historical accuracy; but her books are a really good source of entertainment along with the basics. I liked "Sex with Kings", which details the lives of various royal mistresses to kings, precisely because it goes in-depth on the character of "the mistress".

We hear a lot about Kings because they were male and many times despotic and autocratic. We hear a decent amount about Queens because they were often considered important enoug
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Rachael Hewison
Definitely an interesting book, Sex with Kings had me captivated for quite some time. It is a well thought out book and is structured cohesively contrary to other opinions. Many people feel that she should have divided it into a time scale or concentrated on one mistress at a time, but I thought the structure was fantastic. She divided her chapters well and thought of interesting topics. She explored themes such as how the mistress’ husbands reacted to their wives sleeping with the king, the rel ...more
Richard
I'm kind of amazed how listlessly I read this book, for Herman certainly found a wonderful angle of history to examine--the complicated relationships among the royal court and the king's mistress--but the approach in this book became rather unappealing at times. The chapters here are set up thematically, and so some names recur through a lot of these chapters, but I think I might have found more compelling an approach that took one or two telling examples to examine more linearly to then connect ...more
Chelsea
Jul 22, 2007 Chelsea rated it liked it
The stories are fascinating and (occasionally) titillating, and all the better because they're true. But the organization of the book killed me. If she had gone chronologically or geographically, it would have made much more sense. Instead, she went by vague themes, which meant that many royal consorts (the one that comes to mind is Madame Pompadour) popped up all over the book, and far enough apart that it was easy to forget what I'd already learned about them. Otherwise, a very good book.

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Emily
Sex with Kings was a book I got from the library on a lark and read only half of. It's meant to be a history of kings' mistresses in Western Europe focusing on the period from 1500 to 1850, but I'm not sure it deserves the appellation "history."

The author mentions the relationship of the mistress to the king (more diversion than confidante), the mistress's rivalry with the queen, and the threat of younger, prettier women to the mistress's status. The title is catchy, and there are some startling
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“History is so fascinating that it never has to be presented in a boring way,” she explains. “These were flesh and blood people, just like you and me, facing war and plague, falling in love, living among splendid a
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