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My Struggle: Book 2: A Man in Love (Min kamp #2)

4.33  ·  Rating Details  ·  6,729 Ratings  ·  639 Reviews
Having left his first wife, Karl Ove Knausgaard moves to Stockholm, Sweden, where he leads a solitary existence. He strikes up a deep friendship with another exiled Norwegian, a Nietzschean intellectual and boxing fanatic named Geir. He also tracks down Linda, whom he met at a writers' workshop a few years earlier and who fascinated him deeply.

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Paperback, 592 pages
Published June 3rd 2014 by Farrar, Straus and Giroux (first published October 2009)
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Sara Barberá That's a very interesting point. However, after reading the interview, I truly believe that Karl Ove is referring to his fight only in personal terms.…moreThat's a very interesting point. However, after reading the interview, I truly believe that Karl Ove is referring to his fight only in personal terms. No doubt. I don't see a reason to over read the parts where he refers to people from another culture. He is the first one living in another culture, and I sympathize with that feeling of alienation, since I am currently living in the same situation. (less)
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Glenn Russell
May 15, 2015 Glenn Russell rated it it was amazing

Oh, Karl Ove, you capture the heart-break of the lovesick, hypersensitive teenager that speaks to our own lost teenage years. And thanks for Book 2, writing of your life during your 20s and 30s, married, raising children, dealing with the whole urban banana. A reader might think very self-centered of a writer to pen 6 thick volumes of his life, but you, Karl Ove, are able to tap into the culture's pulse and our collective modern human experience - reading your books is almost like reading our ow
[from Min kamp 1]

It was now more than two weeks since I had published my review of Min kamp 1, and during that time I had not posted anything new. Every day, I stared at the screen, tried to begin, abandoned my unsuccessful attempt after half an hour. Maybe I would never again manage to produce a meaningful piece of writing. I checked my mail for the third time that afternoon. Someone I didn't know said they thought it was amazing that I could read the books in the original Norwegian. There's no
Jun 16, 2016 Lee rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: favorites
The original Norwegian editions of Karl Ove Knausgaard’s six-volume My Struggle series, presented in thick ~500-page installments, have purportedly sold more than a half-million copies and won lots of prizes. If rumors of such critical and commercial success are true, even if only in Scandinavia, it’s good news for humanity, since these volumes lack traditional plot, let alone anything approaching bondage, vampires or wizards. Maybe it helps that Knausgaard, a respected author of two novels befo ...more
Jun 22, 2015 Geoff rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Book Two of My Struggle makes good on the promise of an ‘epic of the everyday’; toward the end of the book Karl Ove describes his idea of literature as a kind of participation in the gaze of another, how only diaries and essays continue to move him as works of literature because that is where one might come closest to inhabiting another’s gaze on the world, another’s purview onto being. Thus the book he begins to write, thus the book we hold in our hands. For even here among the ascetic, exhaust ...more
Jul 20, 2016 Perry rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
"The Epic Side of Truth, Wisdom"
Feel like my soul has turned into steel,
I've still got the scars that the sun didn't heal

"Not Dark Yet," Bob Dylan, 1997

Prior to reading this, I was skeptical about reading a roman à clef based loosely on the author's life? Could he succeed in depicting a seemingly ordinary life as interesting enough to fill 4/5/6 volumes? Is he the Scandinavian equivalent of the fat-head fiction writers churned out from MFA programs across the nation to dazzle the cognoscenti w
Jul 01, 2013 Melanie rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition

My first impression of Karl Ove Knausgaard came from a black and white photograph published with a review of his book "A Time For Everything" in The New York Review of Books.

He is seen smoking against the rugged Norwegian landscape, hair disheveled, wearing an old, battered tee-shirt, lost in thought. Completely and unabashedly himself, yet ill at ease. Entirely present, feet deeply rooted in the present moment, yet his mind is clearly in flight, flickering at the surface of his gaze.

The strikin
Nov 10, 2015 Darwin8u rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2015
A Man in Love


"The fact that paintings and, to some extent, photographs were so important for me had something to do with this. They contained no words, no concepts, and when I looked at them what I experienced, what made them so important, was also non conceptual. There was something stupid in this, an area that was completely devoid of intelligence, which I had difficulty acknowledgng or accepting, yet which perhaps was the most important single element of what I wanted to do."

-- Karl Ove Knaus
Feb 27, 2016 Helle rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: norwegian
Though his style and agenda have nothing in common with Virginia Woolf, Karl Ove Knausgård, too, has an outrageous and uncanny ability to mix the banal and the lofty, the quotidian and the existential without ever upsetting the balance. He deals, in short, with life, and in this process he cuts off all layers of pretension and untruth and reveals the rawness, the failures, the temporary successes and the anxieties of modern life.

In this second installment of Knausgård’s massive opus, he zooms i
Justin Evans
Jul 29, 2014 Justin Evans rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
I'm torn between taking part in the backlash against the Knausgaard hype--because, let's be honest, there are plenty of authors more deserving of front page attention from every newspaper, magazine and website with 'New York' in the title--and trying to get in early on the revisionism to the backlash, by pointing out that although Knausgaard is not Proust or Woolf, nor is he trying to be, and it's not his fault that every newspaper, magazine and website with 'New York' in the title decided to pu ...more
I really, really, really loved the first one of these, but I did not love this one. It was at times a... slog to get through. There were some great moments and I'm glad I finished it, because it ended strong, but the majority fell into the risky trap of this project, and read to me like excerpts from a self-absorbed parenting blog detailing what life is like as a successful writer with a family in Sweden (spoiler alert: in the absence of any other worries -- medical bills, say, or the need to do ...more
Ben Winch
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Dec 14th 2014

I’m on the second My Struggle book and believe it – and its predecessor – to be a failure, at least as it relates to me. Is that arrogant? Should it be: I’m a failure, at least as I relate to My Struggle? The plain fact: I’ve been skipping pages, have been since the start. Skipping phrases and sentences too, skimming to reach the parts that say whatever it is I like to hear Knausgaard say. Not only skipping forward either, but jumping around the way I do with rock bio
Stephen P
Nov 14, 2014 Stephen P rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition

A man with no roots. The narrator wherever he has been has not belonged. This includes his interior as well as the exterior world. No wonder, as a writer, his only interest is to locate and express the truth.The truth is difficult he sees. External reality is endowed with meaning but only through his eyes. Otherwise it remains as objects of mass and outline.

However, his vision cauterized by the split between his shamed self (hints of his being abused) fostered by an unending castigation of his
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At 8%, and once again I'm eating an apple. Coincidence!? An apple a day keeps the doctor away; they say. Karl Ove and his family are eating apples too. On a family trip to an amusement-park. The muse is long gone; the park peeled off and ugly, but the kids don't notice. The first food mentioned in a novel has to mean something, right? A symbol ... maybe? Apples are secretly driving our fate. The tree of knowledge, the forbidden fruit, the apple falling on Newton's head, and
Jul 16, 2013 Ken rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
How the hell does Karl Ove (I feel as though we are best friends now) pull this off? No way should he be managing this. I loved the first magnum, despite the downward spiral of a dying alcoholic father, and now I'm giving highest marks to the follow-up opus as well. Four more books are promised to come. I don't doubt it. The man can go on and on and on to the point where detractors might equate his diary-like approach to a diarrhea-like one (only with words, thank you).

I like Book Two despite t
Sep 18, 2014 James rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: literature
I gave the first volume of Knausgaard’s memoir/novel 2 stars and wrote a fairly scathing review. I don’t usually write reviews for books I rate below three stars because critiquing anything these days makes you a target, and I don’t use this site for anything other than calm, sedate conversation about literature. However, I felt I should review the first volume because it provoked such a very strong response in me, more so than most books I don’t particularly like. Something was going on in this ...more
M. Sarki

As I was nearing the end of Volume II I actually felt a bit silly and embarrassed as I looked forward to reading my customary turtle-paced six pages each morning. I used the book as part of my daily meditation as I knew there was no way I could read it like I do novels in which I am interested in and cannot help myself in finishing more than too fast. And as hard as it was for me to trudge through the almost endless Knausgård rhetoric involving changing di
Marcello S
Aug 12, 2015 Marcello S rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Come si fa a scrivere (solo) due righe su un libro così?!

Lo dico subito: la parte migliore del libro è l’amore tra Karl e Linda, con le loro tecniche di avvicinamento non proprio infallibili.
Almeno all’inizio, i nostri sono bellissimi nel loro perdersi e ritrovarsi, tra mille silenzi e comportamenti imperfetti.
Le cose però cambiano e periodi di felicità si alternano ad altri di buio e liti furibonde.

E Linda ne esce come una rompicazzo insopportabile + possessiva + furiosa + maniaca + depressa +
Jan 09, 2016 Caterina rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Stephen Wood
Shelves: favorites
Maybe because it deals with the sweetness and struggles of love and marriage, I found My Struggle, Book Two: A Man in Love even more compelling -- and enjoyable -- than Book One: A Death in the Family. Together, they are a breathtakingly honest, intimate portrayal of the ordinary lived experience and interior life of someone who ruminates about everything -- a self-absorption that somehow transcends self. We read to get out of the self, Karl Ove claims, and that rings true to me - so there's som ...more
I can't stop reading-I bought the next volume as soon as I got ten pages near the end. Long passages of excruciating detail of mundane events (such as making a cup of tea, taking little children out to school, marital arguments over chores) suddenly lit by poetry. Uneasy feelings in social situations, readings in (to me) exotic locales, the light of memory that fades with time-and the lights that don't. Ruminations on art, modernism, poetry, literature, and the meaning (if there is one) of life. ...more
Maria Roxana
May 12, 2016 Maria Roxana rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
”Indiferența este unul dintre cele șapte păcate capitale, de fapt cel mai mare dintre toate, pentru că este singurul care păcătuiește împotriva vieții.”
Mar 23, 2015 Trish rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
We are almost finished with Volume Two of Knausgaard’s six-volume memoir before we learn what Knausgaard is about with this huge, unwieldy thing he calls a novel.
"Over recent year I had increasingly lost faith in literature…Fictional writing has no value, documentary narrative has no value. The only genres I saw value in, which still conferred meaning, were diaries and essays, the types of literature did not deal with narrative, that were not about anything, but just consisted of a voice, the v
Dec 05, 2013 Flaneurette rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: bokm-l, 2012
Great writing by a great author with a great voice, yet not the great literature Knausgård is capable of producing. I heard an interview with Knausgård on Leonard Lopate which I think explains it all. He reported that he wrote and never looked back. He has not even read what he has written. I did notice that he is quite wordy in this volume, there is no economy of ideas and reflections, a certain lack of editing is apparent, not to mention that one very annoying spelling mistake. But honestly I ...more
Jul 25, 2016 Marc rated it it was amazing
In chronological terms, Book 2 deals with Karl Ove's falling in love, becoming a father, dealing with fame, and searching for a new writing project. It is hard to crystallize the appeal of this book and yet it is magnetic--for me, it's as if Knausgaard pulls you into his life. And because his life is very much about the search for happiness and self-acceptance, you feel that it is your life, as well. There's a certain futility to it all because you know that humans are not wired for this type of ...more
Jim Coughenour
As soon as the second volume of Knausgaard's My Struggle was published in the US, I pounced on it, at first reading hungrily, then slowing down. A few months ago, around p. 425, I stopped. Then, at one particularly stressful moment last week I dragged it along to read in a cafe while I was eating a bagel, and it caught me again.

Over and over I asked myself, Is this any good?

I have no idea. What I do know is that it's strangely compelling, strangely because its narrative is the sort of "sharing"
Jul 13, 2013 Harrison rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
knausgaard says somewhere in his book that he saw no value in fiction, only in essays and diaries (of course there was some qualifying which i omit). his books read like a diary, and i think this is where their value lies, in their total honesty and absorption in the mundane, and occasionally it reads like an essay, when he begins to organize the events in his life into some thought.

i hardly ever believe anything anyone says unless it was somehow believable to me in the first place, or unless th
Jun 07, 2016 Ludmilla rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
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zaman zaman" bana ne marketten aldıklarından be adam" moduna girsem de - ki knausgaard'ın her şeyi detaylıca anlatması meşhur- ilki gibi içine gömüldüm, bu kadar dürüst ve kendini açıkça sorgulamasına yine şaştım, tespitlerine, edebiyata dair kısacık notlarına, içdöküşlerine, yazarlık sürecine en çok da hayata dair yazdıklarına hayran kaldım. diğer ciltleri de merakla bekliyorum.
Dec 28, 2015 Palma rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
A Karl Ove lo terminás queriendo o lo terminás abandonando en la pág 30 del primer tomo al grito de Ké Mé ÍmPóRtÁÁ tU Víídáá ShÓ sÓy MááS ÍmPórTáánTéé. Y no está mal tampoco que lo abandones si no te gusta, porque el tono no lo cambia mucho a lo largo de las páginas y SIEMPRE va a ser así de monocorde o aburrido, así que no esperes otra cosa. Bueno, después de terminar el segundo tomo, confirmo lo que pensé con el primero: crea una nueva forma de narrar, ensancha los límites de la literatura, lo ...more
Sep 04, 2015 Hakan rated it it was amazing
Knausgaard'ı okumak bambaşka bir tecrübe. Görebildiğim kadarıyla okuyanlar ya hayran kalıyor ya da nefret ediyor, arası pek yok. Ben ilk gruba girenlerdenim. İlk cildi de büyük keyifle okumuştum. İkinci cildi de elimden bırakmak istemedim. Bazıları, adamın özel hayatını, hatta sıradan yaptığı şeyleri, aklından geçen düşüncelerini, arkadaşları ve ailesiyle ilişkilerini en ince ayrıntısına kadar anlatmasını bir nevi röntgencilik olduğunu ve değerli edebiyat olmadığını iddia ediyor. Ama Knausgaard ...more
Jeff Bursey
Mar 09, 2014 Jeff Bursey rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
In this second volume of six, Karl Ove Knausgaard weaves together, in a style that free associates and moves from one time period to another, a memoir that brings in parenting, the struggle to write, the cultural differences between norwegians and swedes, the value of friendships, and more, while also trying to describe his relationship with Linda, his second wife and the mother of their three children.

The tension in the book (a fictionalized memoir) exists between what is stated in the subtitle
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  • Through the Night
  • imot kunsten
  • Papeles falsos
  • Shyness and Dignity
  • Innsirkling
  • The Discoverer
  • Poison, Shadow, and Farewell (Your Face Tomorrow, #3)
  • Child Wonder
  • Beksińscy. Portret podwójny
  • Ett annat liv
  • I Refuse
  • Replacement (Norwegian Literature Series)
  • Before I Burn
  • Harmur englanna
  • Pier en oceaan
  • Days in the History of Silence
  • Exodus
  • My Documents
Nominated to the 2004 Nordic Council’s Literature Prize & awarded the 2004 Norwegian Critics’ Prize.

Karl Ove Knausgård (b 1968) made his literary debut in 1998 with the widely acclaimed novel OUT OF THE WORLD, which was a great critical and commercial success and won him, as the first debut novel ever, The Norwegian Critics' Prize. He has since received several literary prizes for his books.
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“All my adult life I have kept a distance from other people, it has been my way of coping, because I become so incredibly close to others in my thoughts and feelings of course, they only have to look away dismissively for a storm to break inside me.” 27 likes
“I feel almost physically ill in the presence of boring people who consider themselves especially interesting and who blow their own trumpets.” 13 likes
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