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    <body><![CDATA[I used this for character research. Very enlightening]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Recommended by a psychiatrist friend. Helped me understand myself and how I relate and/or don't relate to others.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[So far this is an excellant book. It talks about our family of origin and how that can effect you and what you take from that that effects your own life and that of YOUR children. Lots of exercises to do and valuable information to help you drop off the old baggage and create new self talk!!!<br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40818481">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[From the title, I thought this book would be more helpful than it turned out to be. The focus was too much on the narcissist and dealing with them effectively, when I'm looking to understand my empathic side better, to find ways to protect myself and give myself space. I wanted the focus more to be ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52342801">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This was a very enlightening book about being a child of a parent with Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  It was really interesting.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was very insightful and helpful in understanding the unsolvable puzzle that is my father.]]></body>
    
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