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3.95 of 5 stars 3.95  ·  rating details  ·  4,412 ratings  ·  642 reviews
Excellent Women is one of Barbara Pym's richest and most amusing high comedies. Mildred Lathbury is a clergyman's daughter and a mild-mannered spinster in 1950s England. She is one of those "excellent women," the smart, supportive, repressed women who men take for granted. As Mildred gets embroiled in the lives of her new neighbors--anthropologist Helena Napier and her han ...more
Paperback, (Penguin Classics), 231 pages
Published December 26th 2006 by Penguin Classics (first published 1952)
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Aside from a few differences--living in the 1950s, being British, not being a teacher, being actively involved in church--Mildred Lathbury could easily be me. She's in her early 30s, she's unmarried, people keep telling her about their problems and expecting her to fix them, men think she's in love with them just because she's single, and she prefers living by herself because someone else would just mess everything up.

And here's another thing that I noticed: her friends and neighbors would often
A most excellent book! Full of lots of humor and thoughtfulness--I agree that it's a bit Jane Austen-esque. However, I am not sure that the overall theme is quite so optimistic as Austen's works. I would be very interested to hear from others who have read this book to find out what they think. Did Mildred find a fulfilling life? What was Pym's view of "excellent women"--were they neglected victims or silent heroes? I'm looking forward to reading more of Pym's work. Highly recommended!!!
Although this wasn't a dashing romantic tale like Jane Eyre or even Pride and Prejudice I thought it was great. It was slow in some areas, but I still found it rich and thrilling.

Everyday life and excursions are related with humor and depth. Church gossip and those "delicate" marital concerns that can arise when laundry is aired publicly, were so hilarious to watch as an outsider along with the protagonist. I found it a bit feminist as the sense that not all women need to be married to
I am honestly not sure what to make of this book. I initially discovered this book (and author) through a random Amazon-crawl, where I assume it was recommended to me based on some of my other highly-rated books. I vaguely remember reading that Excellent Women was satirical, funny, biting, etc., and there were several comparisons to Jane Austen. I don't share the crush that virtually all well-educated white girls seem to have for Jane Austen (despite being a well-educated white girl myself), but ...more
I had such high hopes that I would love this book, and I did, so very much.

So many people had said that it was so good, that it was Barbara Pym’s best book, and when I realised that it was the story of a spinster, in her thirties in the fifties, my mind went spinning back.

Not to the fifties – I’m not that old – but to when my mother took me to church as a very small child. We always sat behind a row of elderly ladies, and I spent a long time looking at their backs and hats during dull sermons an
This is my first Barbara Pym book, but it definitely won't be my last! Her gentle humor suffuses the book, and the characters spring to life in just a phrase or two. What seems at first a light, subtle, tongue-in-cheek storyline is actually incredibly insightful and the story stays with you long after you finish reading. The characters could very well be my next door neighbors – each and every one. Amusing, charming, entertaining, endearing, interesting, soft-spoken, no gimmicks – all of which t ...more
Jul 19, 2008 Paula rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Lovers of Literature, and Romance
Recommended to Paula by: A Book Store Owner who knew of my love for Jane Austen
Shelves: favorite-books
Warm, witty and wonderful. Pym gives us glimpses of human nature with all its flaws, but with such sympathy that we cannot help but love her characters. The best novels help us to develop our empathy, or what Eliot called "fellow-feeling," toward mankind. Such books teach us to be as forgiving of the flaws of the characters as we are of our own flaws, and so learn empathy toward real people. This is one of those rare books. It give you glimpses of humanity so close to us that we will smile in re ...more
I thoroughly enjoyed this book - my first Barbara Pym. Mildred Lathbury is an "excellent woman" - 30's, single, capable, involved in the church, living alone in post war London. As such, she is taken for granted on every page. Do you need someone to work a jumble sale? Are you having a fight with your husband and need someone to write a note to him? Did you move out of the house and you need someone to meet and manage the moving company? Do you have a chicken at home and need someone to cook it? ...more
A typically chatty tale from Barbara Pym. Lives of quiet desperation is always a phrase that swims around in my mind when I read her novels. Those bedsit spinsters eating tins of baked beans or lettuce and a bit of tomato with bread and butter for tea. But perhaps Mildred Lathbury is something more than that for though she does live her life vicariously in the service of others Pym allow her to have rather a good time in the process, she is literally wined and dined by all the male protagonists ...more
Mar 13, 2012 Sarah rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommended to Sarah by: Casey Kinson
This book is the most British thing to ever happen! I can just see Mildred's good manners and wry narration in a BBC series...

I don't usually go in for comedy-of-manners, but this was just so well done. Our little, daily sorrows and triumphs can be far more moving than any epic romance. Pym's observations are as poignant as they are funny.

Mildred Lathbury probably wouldn't approve of me, but that's alright! I adore her.
Je pense que, dans une autre vie, j'étais certainement une vieille fille anglaise. Je trouve beaucoup de réconfort dans les romans qui sont tranquilles & domestiques, qui s'attardent au quotidien & en décrivent les revirements subtils. Leur reconnaissent une importance, aussi.

Mais si Excellent Women correspond bien à cette description, on se rend compte assez tôt que Barbara Pym ne cherche pas à réconforter la lectrice.

Nous sommes au début des années cinquante, à Londres, & les exce
This series of set pieces oozes austerity. Anglicans endure the post-war shortages with a sober humor and allow their imaginations to whimsy while mantaining hopes for the future. The protagonist shuffles between a small circle of characters, sips a great deal of tea, ponders the limits of her education, her wit, and her looks. There are disputes and relationships dissolve, but this isn't an Iris Murdoch parlor exercise. Feelings may blush and pale. There are no scars here. That was the war, dar ...more
Orinoco Womble (tidy bag and all)
I have read over half of this book, and find no "biting satire." There's no "high comedy" here, even in contrast to "low" (ie vulgar) comedy. Also no tension, no direction, no plot. The only thing approaching irony is that the main character works for a charity that helps "decayed gentlewomen" without realising for a moment that she is one herself. At first I thought this would be part of the plot (I actually thought there would be one) and we would get an insider's look at these women's problem ...more
A short contemporary novel about the everyday life of a single woman of a certain age living in London in the 1950's. Like the other “excellent women” she knows, Mildred keeps herself busy with charity work and church raffles. Her acquaintances freely impose on her while presuming that she’s on the lookout for a husband.

I liked the book. It’s described as "Austenesque", and is supposed to be Pym's wittiest novel, but while it is sometimes amusing, it's far from the comedy of manners I was expect
Considered one of the most underrated British authors of the 20th Century, Barbara Pym comes closer to being a "modern Jane Austen" than anyone else I've encountered. Witty and insightful, Pym has the same firm grip as Austen on human nature and all of its hilarious ridiculousness. The difference, however, as was pointed out to me, is that Austen felt matrimony worth pursuing whereas Pym is not so sure.
The protagonist, Mildred, is an "excellent woman" who bears her friends' burdens, washes thei
I gave it 5 stars because it was a good story and had lots to think about, from human nature (why does everyone assume an unmarried woman loves to do scutwork? to British terms "pingpong bats" haha to changes in the class system in England after WWII to descriptions of "uninteresting food".) To expound on just one, as I've gotten older, I think it's true that the more you do for others, they more they take you for granted, they're not appreciative. I gave it an extra .5 star for doing all that i ...more
EXCELLENT WOMEN. (1952). Barbara Pym. *****.
While browsing the Penguin Classics list of new publications, I saw several entrys by an author I hadn’t read or even heard of. I’m always willing to take a chance with one of Penguin’s publications in their Classics series. This was one on the list, and I was blown over by my “discovery.” Ms. Pym (1913-1980) was best known for her series of novels about the British middle class. She published her first novel in 1950, followed by five more novels. The
Shannon Reed
I deeply enjoyed this book, but it also hit too close to home. I just ended a relationship with someone who is studying to be a minister, and this novel is about a clergyman's daughter (as I am) who spends much of her time in her church (as I do) and lives vicariously through others' relationships. Everyone expects her to marry the vicar. There is a great deal of subtle, pointed wit about the clergy and the church, and about single women and their propensity to fall in love with clergymen. So... ...more
Mister Jones
May 19, 2008 Mister Jones rated it 2 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: euthanized literary derelicts
Recommended to Mister Jones by: a creative writing prof who thought it was a great work
Holy Man of Jane Austen's pet terrier!

I read this one a few years ago for a grad school course, and for some aberrant reason, I liked it. Now, however, reading this again, I think I can unequivocally state it was B-O-R-I-N-G.

Mildred Lathbury is this self-conscious noisy ass spinster who devotes a great deal of her time with church functions and musing about herself and others in her circle of acquaintances and friends. After about page 50, I kept wondering if the pace of the book was going to p
Mary Ronan Drew
The Excellent Women of Barbara Pym's novel of that name are the middle-aged Church of England spinsters who make up the altar guild, who run the Christmas bazaar and the summer fete, and who dote on young curates. They line up speakers for the Episcopal Church Women lectures (or the English equivalent) and they lead the Girl Scout troops. Without them the church of the 1950s, when this book was published, would not run smoothly.

Belinda and Harriet of Some Tame Gazelle are typical of the excellen
Wry. Some of the same English farcical pleasures as Connie Willis and Iris Murdoch, though less funny, less philosophical. Despite not being a mystery, the period and the preoccupation with manners and tea and curates might please Miss Marple fans.

NYT commenter:

"Life’s Little Events

Barbara Pym’s works will never leave my household, at least not unless I’m dragged out with them, still clutching the frayed and faded pages. These books matter to me because they are life under the microscope, where
I didn't like Excellent Women quite as much as I enjoyed Quartet in Autumn, but I'd still heartily recommend it. Barbara Pym is becoming like a friend to me. She writes very well--and with wonderful wit and originality.

Excellent Women tells the story of Mildred, a single woman in her 30s who spends a great deal of time and energy absorbing and working to solve the problems of those around her. She is one of those "excellent women" whom others seem keen to dump their burdens on--yet Mildred seems
‘Excellent women’ by Barbara Pym was something fresh, I really enjoyed reading this sweet-satirical novel with crisp and clear writing. The story is about everyday-life of Mildred Lathbury (protagonist and narrator) a 30 year old spinster.
As the title suggests she is an “Excellent Women” that is to say that.. she is single, too good, too friendly, too obliging, also she is one of those who will never even think of hurting someone. Indulging herself in others problems like her own, feeling gui
Beth Bonini
Again, I want to give this novel a 3 1/2 -- but for the exact opposite reasons that I gave that rating to Lorrie Moore. I read this novel and Moore's A Gate at the Stairs back-to-back, and they couldn't be more different. Moore's novel is so very contemporary that I doubt it will still be read in 10 years; on the other hand, Pym's novel -- while precisely placed in slightly shabby middle-class post-War London -- has a timeless quality to it. I enjoyed it, but I found it very easy to put down. Yo ...more
Christopher H.
This snappy wonderful little novel was my first exposure to the writing of Barbara Pym, and it won't be my last! The novel's protagonist, Mildred Lathbury, is a spinterish woman in 1950s Britain with feelings - real feelings. She wants to 'do the right thing' and make every one around her feel good; sometimes at the expense of her own feelings and needs. This novel is Austenesque in style and prose and devilishly funny at the same time. Once you start reading this little gem you cannot help but ...more
I am only giving this book 4 stars because I thought it was a little slow at the beginning . But I really enjoyed its subtle humour and self derision and the characters. It took me into a world that is very different from mine and this is something I really appreciate in a book.
Non riusciamo mai ad evitare di analizzare i gesti di chi non nutre alcun interesse per noi, nella vana speranza di scoprire che forse, dopotutto, ne abbiano almeno un poco.

Romanzo grazioso, dalla prosa sobria e con personaggi vivi, delineati magistralmente. Purtroppo la storia non mi è piaciuta. La vita delle "donne eccellenti" quelle che in Italia chiamiamo le "perpetue" ha poco a che fare con me. Eppure, c'è un senso di poesia nella vita sottile di queste donne che vorrebbero piacere a tutti,
I picked up this book because it had an attractive cover and also because in the front Philip Larkin is quoted as saying "I'd sooner read a new Barbara Pym than a new Jane Austen'. Jilly Cooper says her books make her 'roar with laughter'. I think we can see where this going, can't we?

It's a well written book with many astute observations and it's not terrible or anything, it just wasn't my cup of tea. (Incidentally there is a lot of tea-drinking in the book; I wonder if there is some kind of in
Somehow I got it into my head that I had to get my paws on some Barbara Pym. No doubt you Goodreads geeks are the cause of that. Well Excellent Women was the only Pym my library had so into the bookbag it went. I get her home and read, read, read my heart out. I liked the characters. Some of them I even liked to dislike. I loved the witty but not self-consciencely witty prose. Elegant turn of phrase, very classy and delightfully British. ( There's an awful lot of tea being served. I suspect ther ...more
Mildred Lathbury, an unmarried thirty-something and one of the excellent women referred to in the title, lives alone in the top flat of her building, which also houses several offices and a second flat below hers whose occupants she shares a bathroom with. The flat has been empty, but there are now new neighbors, the rather exotic Napiers.

Helena Napier is just back from Africa, where she had been doing fieldwork on matrilineal kin-groups. Helena is an anthropologist. She is not an excellent woma
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After studying English at St Hilda's College, Oxford, she served in the Women's Royal Naval Service during World War II.

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