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  <title><![CDATA[Family Romance: A Love Story]]></title>
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  <default_description>A memoir by the acclaimed novelist &lt;i&gt;The Wall Street Journal&lt;/i&gt; called &quot;blessed with a sense of history, a feeling for place, an observant eye for detail, and an elegant no-frills style.&quot; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; In their particulars, the Lanchesters were not Every Family. The father was an international banker, the mother a former nun. Yet in the dynamic of family life, their patterns are instantly recognizable. The heart of that dynamic is a built-in tug-of-war: to a young child, a sense of loving protection becomes, as he matures, a set of barriers to be overcome. In his richly told story, John Lanchester brings this dynamic to life, and in the process makes us think about our own family story and about the legacy-emotional, social, intellectual-our parents pass on to us, generation to generation, the bitter with the best. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; It was only when his mother died that Lanchester realized how little he really knew his parents. That, too, is in the nature of families: parents keep secrets from their children, and children are happy to acquiesce, not wanting to disturb their universe. But with Julie Lanchester's death-and the cache of papers and letters she left behind-Lanchester set out to reconstruct just who his parents had been. In doing so, he gained extraordinary insight into his own nature, and a deeper understanding of theirs. And because he has the wisdom to see the universal aspects of his story, &lt;i&gt;Family Romance&lt;/i&gt; resonates for anyone who has ever felt the push-pull of family love. &lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; Part detective work, part remarkable evocation of character, &lt;i&gt;Family Romance&lt;/i&gt; is, above all, compelling storytelling.</default_description>
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    <body><![CDATA[John Lanchester has written a memoir that is every bit as quirky and spellbinding as his novels (Mr. Phillips and Debt to Pleasure).  After the deaths of his parents, he uncovered secrets about their lives – including the fact that his mother had taken on a new identity.  Lanchester's history, wea...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/62024672">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Dec 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really enjoyed this memoir of a man who learns after the death of his parents that his mother was once a nun, and that she was 10 years older than she claimed.  The author makes this a very interesting and engrossing read.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The sort of book that people everywhere wish they could write - the story of their parents, told as both a loving and poignant tribute and a clear-eyed view of parents as fallible human beings with inner lives clearly distinct from their identity as mother and father.  The simple beauty of Lancheste...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/19156565">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A very compelling quasi-memoir about the author's mother who was a former nun who lied about her age to marry -- things the author never knew before her death. Also includes interesting detail of his father's life as a British colonial before and after WWII.<br/><br/>It's an interesting psychologi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4523290">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[connected to my childhood in some wierd way and to my present by coincidence, or it is?]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Best memoir I've read.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[recommended by Granny 7/2009]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Aug 28 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[AMAZING - especially if you're interested in WW2.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Bizarre true story of a dysfunctional family in the British colonial era.]]></body>
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