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  <title><![CDATA[Friendship: An Exposé]]></title>
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  <default-description>From the writer whom James Atlas has deemed &quot;the liveliest, most erudite, and engaging essayist we have,&quot; Friendship is a sharply entertaining examination of those complex and wonderful relationships without which wed all be lost.  Joseph Epstein sketches an amusing yet serious anatomy of friendship in its contemporary guises: the duties and requirements of friendship, the various kinds of friendships, the differences between male and female friendships, the complications marriage and family create-and what happens when sex enters the equation.  Moving easily from Aristotle to Seinfeld and drawing on his own experiences with people both famous (Saul Bellow and Ralph Ellison) and unknown (an army bunkmate), Epstein uncovers rich and often surprising truths about our chosen companions.</default-description>
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  <original-publication-year type="integer">2006</original-publication-year>
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      <name><![CDATA[Joseph Epstein]]></name>
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  <date_added>Sat Nov 10 13:14:17 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Nov 27 21:31:59 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Whew -- finally finished it.  A funny thing to say about a four-star book, which this was.  On the positive side, and the reason for the four stars, this book was really everything non-fiction should be -- readable and well-written, educational, well-researched, thought-provoking, and highly enterta...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8932887">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="36365871">
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  <read_at>Mon Nov 17 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Oct 27 22:39:05 -0700 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really enjoyed Epstein's Expose of Friendship.  I was able to digest it slowly since the chapters serve as articles examining one aspect of frienship.  One of Epstein's purposes in writing the book was to demystify frienship.  In friendships we tend to idealize what  a friend should be.  Sometimes...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36365871">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Oct 10 19:21:55 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Sep 22 14:34:25 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was a slower read than I thought it would be, given its book jacket claims to humor. There are many good insights, but you have to keep in mind that this is non-fiction philosophy and social commentary, and thus more like academic study than reading, say, Dave Barry. I'd recommend reading ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7560369">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="47010224">
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  <date_added>Fri Feb 20 19:42:26 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Feb 20 19:45:08 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[While there are many books I can't put down once I start reading them, this one I could not pick up.  I got no more than halfway through it and just couldn't bring myself to finish it.  I have no interest whatsoever in the Greco-Roman history of friendship.  I found no rhyme or reason to the book at...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47010224">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="490718">
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Mar 29 19:47:35 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Mar 29 19:51:49 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Filled with wonderful little tidbits, like this: <br/><br/>&quot;Thy friendship oft has made my heart to ache,&quot; wrote William Blake. &quot;Do be my enemy--for friendship's sake.&quot;<br/><br/>Though Epstein complains a little too much about his uncanny ability to have and keep friends (suc...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/490718">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_updated>Wed Feb 18 12:57:21 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Some piquant observations, but I wouldn't want to be friends with this guy.]]></body>
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    <review id="13210136">
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  <read_at>Fri Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The author's style was pleasant enough, but he was mostly recounting the friendships in his life. There wasn't enough detail about the friendships to be satisfying, so really it seemed the whole book was building to two chapters that would have been interesting essays- The Broken Friendship and The ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/13210136">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="37508033">
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 30 01:21:27 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[most interesting are the chapters on male - male and female - female friendships.]]></body>
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    <review id="3610041">
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  <read_at>Fri Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2006</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Jul 26 16:59:36 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jul 26 17:02:59 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Chose this after reading review in the Wall Street Journal. Apologized to my reading group afterward. It is terrible! A couple members disliked it so much they didn't even finish the book, which is not typical of our group.]]></body>
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    <review id="1967938">
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[How many friends do you have?  What does it mean to be a friend?  What is the history of friendship.  All this and much more are explored.  I finished it, it wasn't bad.]]></body>
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    <review id="13973224">
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 29 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Jan 29 15:09:09 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Currently reading this. Funny,insightful. Lots of refrences to the great philosophers(plato/airostotle).]]></body>
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    <review id="3078423">
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  <read_at>Sun Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat Jul 14 14:23:55 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Repeat your information at least twice. You've got a book to fill, after all.]]></body>
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    <review id="9685457">
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    <body><![CDATA[So far this is a little long winded, but interesting.]]></body>
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    <review id="11736714">
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    <body><![CDATA[Mildly amusing; nothing gripping.]]></body>
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