Creative Counterpart: Becoming the Woman, Wife, and Mother You've Longed to Be

Creative Counterpart: Becoming the Woman, Wife, and Mother You've Longed to Be

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Linda Dillow gracefully and succinctly motivates Christian women to reach for more than they are currently experiencing in their marriages. She includes creative suggestions on how to encourage your husband, live above your circumstances, and develop a plan whereby you can begin to become the woman, wife, and mother that you long to be. She describes a creative counterpart...more
Paperback, 272 pages
Published February 4th 2003 by Thomas Nelson Publishers (first published 1977)
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Cynthia Tam
I just finished reading this as part of a ladies Bible study. The book was originally published in the 1970's. It could do with some updating in a few chapters.

Otherwise, there way the book was written and the way the scripture was presented were very well done. I've never seen the Proverbs 31 woman presented in a way of such strength before.

I like also how realistic she is at the end. Telling the reader not to expect perfection it's a process.

If you're open to personal growth in the way you...more
Kameron
Picked up this book from our church donation shelf and found some great reminders and encouragement as I try to be the wife and mother God has called me to be. She has very practical advice and lots of Scripture references, which are very helpful. This was the 1983 revised version, so it was a bit dated. I'm sure the newer 2003 version is more up-to-date. The only thing I didn't care for too much was some of her cheesy comments and personal stories, and also her sarcastic comment in reference to...more
Jaimie
This was a good review for me - alongside some new information and encouragement - of what a God-honoring wife looks like. While I didn't care for Dillow's overall writing style (It read to me like "Do these 6 things, and voila! You're golden!"), there was nothing in the book that I actively disagreed with or thought wasn't in accordance with sound doctrine. I would categorize this book as primarily practical (though Christian), but not exactly spiritual. What I mean by that is Dillow _focuses_...more
gina
This is somewhat similar to other books I've read though she puts more emphasis on the creative role a wife can play in building up her husband (and her potential to tear him down). I don't like how often she'll drift into the speaking as though a stay at home mom/wife is the only/best kind there is. This offends me personally. Despite this, the book doesn't overly emphasize these type of women and she does try hard to include all types of working women and their own struggles as wives. There ar...more
Sarah Clark
This is one of my favorite books to read to help me remember that being a wife and woman of God is so critical in a family. I do not know how many times I have read it, but each time I do it spurs me on to improve myself, my walk with God, and improve my relationship with my husband. Proverbs 31 is my favorite passage and such a great tool to keeping my priorities straight, and I love how Linda teaches with it. I also enjoyed the study at the end. I would recommend this to any Christian woman wh...more
Rachel
The best part about this book, or maybe I should say the thing that stood out to me the most, was the reminder about priorities. The author suggests an order to what/who should have the highest priority and trickles down to the things that should have the lowest priority. Good reminders and ways to incorporate into daily life.
Lyree
So far, not understanding where I fit in, as a woman who works outside the home as well as inside it, and am still a wife and mother, although my life does not revolve soley around my husband. I will not change for a flawed human being, not to please him, or to merely service him. I will change for God and God alone. People fail. We all do. Mother or father, husband or wife, working outside and/or inside the home. We are human. I think the greatest thing to do is to follow Christ. I know that it...more
c. hodgson
Dillow provides great practical application for becoming the woman, wife and mother that so many woman long to be. She unpacks Proverbs 31 and many other scripture references about godly womanhood, and through her own personal experience, shows readers how to do the same in their own lives!
Dee
This is my second book by Linda Dillow. What a marriage booster! She challenges me more than I'm willing to go, so it's a good exercise in being better as a wife and mother. Very inspirational. I also liked CALM MY ANXIOUS HEART. Both are good Bible study books.
kelly
Great book on Biblical womanhood- good no matter what stage of marriage, motherhood, etc.

Here is one quote (for a teaser): "The basis of partner acceptance is the cross of Jesus Christ."
Mandy
Creative Counterpart is a thorough, yet easy to read, book about the topic of being a wife and mother that brings glory to God. Linda Dillow has captured the complexity of living out the rolls God has placed us in with a simple format and explanation. This book will encourage and exhort you as a wife or wife and mother. While she does talk about our roll of being a mother, the majority of the book is about the position of wife. I highly recommend this book if you are married or soon to be marrie...more
Alyssa Guerrero
I'm a huge fan of Linda Dillow. This was another great book for perspective on being newly married and the role of a wife.
Nina
Very good wife book. I enjoyed the many creative examples as well as the positive upbeat 'you can be the wife God wants you to be' message as opposed to some of the more condemning 'you better be the wife God wants you to be or else....' messages of other books I've read.
Branson
Finally read this book straight through after starting and stopping for years, lol. Now I can without a doubt recommend it to any woman wanting to learn more about being a godly wife! Definitely on my short list of favorite quiet time books!
Chaille
Great book! Very challenging and encouraging.
Carol Nain
Oct 31, 2009 Carol Nain rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: all adults who which to center themselves
I thought this book had a lot of valuable lessons and I plan to implement a new one every month as suggested.
Barbara
Apr 29, 2008 Barbara rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Married Women
I recently facilitated a women's evening book group using Dillow's beautiful study of Proverbs 31. It was a wonderful read that produced 6 weeks of fun and encouraging discussion. Everyone in our group of 12 voiced great reviews. We were encouraged and laughed a lot together!
Michelle Polk
I have read many books on how to be a better wife and this is the only one that doesn't make me chaff! Linda puts it all together in a beautiful format that causes you to strife to be a better counterpart!
Lori
Nov 29, 2007 Lori rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: wives and moms
This is the book I have recommended the most when asked for advice on marriage. It was written nearly a generation ago, but so good. A great reminder on God's plan for marriage.
Bethy
Reading material for an elective (Marriage and Family with Mrs. Tanya York). Great book and class.
Debra
I went through this book for Bible study. I highly recommend this book for any Christian wife.
Brigitte
A great book on how to be a more loving wife by following God's word. Very helpful.
Amy Gentry
good practical advice, returning a blessing for and insult is foundational in a marriage.
Jen
Great book, very convicting in several areas. Will keep and re-read!
Angela
An excellent book on how to be a godly wife and helper.
Lily
I'm reading this with a group of women.
Angel
Mar 19, 2010 Angel is currently reading it
studying for bible study group, so far good
Sarah
May 22, 2013 Sarah marked it as to-read
Shelves: christian, wish-list
Megan Hogan
May 20, 2013 Megan Hogan marked it as to-read
Monica
May 19, 2013 Monica is currently reading it
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Linda Dillow is no stranger to publishing and adventure. She's the author of Creative Counterpart, Calm My Anxious Heart, and The Blessings Book. Linda and her husband Jody lived in Europe and Asia for 17 years training Christian leaders in closed countries with Biblical Education by Extension, During this time, Linda traveled extensively in Romania, Russia, Hungary, Poland and Asia....more
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