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  <title><![CDATA[Parenting the Hurt Child : Helping Adoptive Families Heal and Grow]]></title>
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  <default_description>Gregory C. Keck and Regina M. Kupecky explain how to raise a hurting child with loving wisdom, resolve, and success.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_day type="integer">19</original_publication_day>
  <original_publication_month type="integer">4</original_publication_month>
  <original_publication_year type="integer">2002</original_publication_year>
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      <name><![CDATA[Gregory Keck]]></name>
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  <read_at>Wed Sep 02 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Apr 24 17:27:00 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[In my work as a psychologist for the St. Louis Family court I run across a lot of youths with Reactive Attachment Disorder, from abuse and neglect of a variety of types in their formative years. As a result thse children are very damaged in their ability to form and sustain adaptive relationships, a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53871334">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was directed to this book by our counselor and was so thankful to have read it.<br/>It really spoke to the issues we have been going through with our daughter, who is adopted from China.<br/>This is a great read to examine your approaches and responses, and  help give an understanding into your ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42128160">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Fri May 08 08:26:27 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri May 08 08:27:50 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book highlights the internal life of kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder.  I had to read it for my internship last year and now I have a kid on my caseload who's definitely Reactive Attachment and I'm going to send this book to his foster parents. Good stuff. ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Excellent book for any foster or adoptive parent as well as anyone who works with hurting children.]]></body>
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    <review id="33637399">
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  <date_added>Tue Sep 23 14:17:45 -0700 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Awesome parenting tips for my family and lots for anyone's family.  They give pages of real and easy ideas on how to increase love and trust between you and your children and between siblings.  There are fun ideas like becoming sticker sisters (you both wear a matching sticker all day but it's your ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/33637399">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="46636822">
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  <read_at>Thu Feb 19 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[gave lots of great tips for helping kids with attachment issues bond with their new parents]]></body>
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    <review id="53597742">
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  <read_at>Wed Apr 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Good information. I expect it will be useful.]]></body>
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    <review id="29465205">
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  <read_at>Fri May 09 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was a great book with well illustrated examples on parenting a child who has suffered neglect and abuse.  I would recommend for any person or couple interested in learning more about providing foster care or adopting (domestically or internationally). ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[It is a very helpful book, I learned alot of what to except when Zachary gets here.  On how to parent him different than what I do with my own children and why the things I use with my kids may not work with him.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2004</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Keck does a great job explaining why traumatized kids act the way they do. This was the book that really shifted my thinking from RAD as a disease, to the idea of complex developmental trauma.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a good overview of what to look for and how to tackle attachment disorders in adopted children.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[this guy knows his stuff]]></body>
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