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Finding the Dragon Lady: The Mystery of Vietnam's Madame Nhu

3.56 of 5 stars 3.56  ·  rating details  ·  324 ratings  ·  75 reviews
In November 1963, the president of South Vietnam and his brother were brutally executed in a coup that was sanctioned and supported by the American government. President Kennedy later explained to his close friend Paul "Red" Fay that the reason the United States made the fateful decision to get rid of the Ngos was in no small part because of South Vietnam’s first lady, Mad ...more
Hardcover, 280 pages
Published September 24th 2013 by PublicAffairs (first published January 1st 2013)
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"Another focus of the article was on Madame Nhu--a woman who seemed to be a fascinating character to the journalists of the time as I found several references to her in more than one Newsweek article, and as many pictures of her in fashionable dress. It's reported that Diem is little more than the puppet of Madame Nhu and her husband, Ngo Dinh Nhu. She's portrayed as an almost comic book like villain--an Asian femme fatale known as 'the dragon lady' by journalists in Saigon. She is described as ...more
I had never heard of Madame Nhu before I came across this book, and that's too bad, because she's a fascinating character, and from beginning to end, her circumstances gave her unique "front row seats" to the complicated story of Vietnamese history between the period of French colonialism and the 1975 fall to Communism.

Tran (Nhu) Thi Le Xuan, the titular "Madame Nhu" was born to parents with long, aristocratic pedigrees which extend back to the last Emperor of Vietnam, who lost his kingdom to t
This biography documents the author's search for and connection to her elusive subject. Tran Le Xuan, who became Madame Nhu, goes in and out of Monique Brinson Demery's radar.

With all that has been written on Vietnam, it is surprising how little attention Madame Nhu has received. This could be due to her gender, her unofficial role (other than hostess) in her brother-in-law's government or her being on the losing side of history. The book shows the pivotal role she played. She used her position
I found this book revealing a tiny bit more of the elusive and very private Madame Nhu. I seriously doubt we will ever know this woman, and frankly I believe she orchestrated this plan. She strikes me as a woman thoroughly taking pleasure in being an enigma, mysterious to the end and even loathed.

Demery confirms this woman possessed a thirst for power, her authoritarian demeanor very apparent, and barbed tongue gained her the title of "Dragon Lady." She never allowed males to control or dictate
Christina Mitchell
History and politics are my favorite topics for nonfiction reading. This biography of notorious Madame Nhu enticed me from the moment it was discussed in a program segment on NPR. Since so little is known of the Dragon Lady of Vietnam, the biography is fascinating. I must extend caution, however. Demery claims she is in possession of Madame Nhu's memoirs, though it does not seem from the author's commentary that much of these memoirs made it into her biography of Madame Nhu. Demery also talks co ...more
Interesting look at a person and a time and place I didn't know much about. Reading this book, I realized that I knew very little about Vietnam in the lead up to the Vietnam War. More even then the story of Madame Nhu, I found this information interesting. Madame Nhu herself was definitely a worthy subject for a book, but not a particularly likable one. Though I could admire her for being ahead of the times as far as feminism, she really didn't seem like a good, kind person, but rather a very eg ...more
Patricia Reding
Jun 08, 2013 Patricia Reding rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Desiree
I attended the BEA show in NYC May 29 to June 1 of this year. Passing through a crowd one day, I came upon a book giveaway and so, I got a copy. Settling into my seat on my flight back a day later, I dug in to read.

I grew up during the Vietnam conflict. Though very young at the time, I remember hearing the news and seeing the pictures flash across the television screen. I remember especially, Malcolm Browne's photo of the burning monk. When I went to college, I studied political science and phil
I have to give credit to Monique Brinson Demery for her incredible tenacity, spending over 10 years researching this historically reclusive woman. But therein lies the problem. Monique spent much of the book detailing her problems in getting interviews. She never met Madame Nhu in person and had to piece this book together from the erratic phone calls she received.

Madame Nhu is the dragon lady, the woman who used her feminine wiles to influence the Diem regime, leading to its downfall and Americ
I received a free copy from to participate in their online book group about this book. It is a biography of Madame Nhu who was the First Lady of South Vietnam in the early 1960s in the years leading up to the war with the Communist North. Her bachelor brother in law was the President and her husband was second in command, although much of the West felt that she was the real ruler. Madame Nhu survives the coup of her family by being in the USA at the time. She then disappears into ...more
Cheryl M-M
Women in politics. They are often reduced to the clothes they are wearing and the hairstyle they rock. In a predominantly male driven aspect of society the female is usually merely the wife of, daughter of or mistress of a man in power. Not enough women take center stage in government and when they do they are scrutinized and criticized far harsher than their male counterparts.
Madame Nhu was only the sister in law of the man in charge and yet she and her family exerted the strongest influence on
Erin Cataldi
An intriguing and insightful work on the legend (and the truth) of South Vietnam's Madame Nhu. Before reading this novel I had virtually no idea who she was, where she was from, or why she was important. But after reading this I can say I've learned a great deal and am amazed I hadn't come across this stunning woman earlier!

Monique Brinson Demery does a masterful job of weaving the mysterious Madame Nhu's life together and manages to create a rich tapestry of mystery and intrigue. This novel als
Viviane Crystal
The story of Madame Nhu begins with her life as an upcoming bride living in a Vietnam laced with French dominion and influence. She is about to marry a man who will eventually become the Prime Minister of Vietnam, the man who will wield the real power behind President Ngo Dinh Diem as nations and revolutionary groups vie for power, prestige, and style in Vietnam. For now Tran Le Xuan, Nhu’s name in her youth), is excited about her marriage and upcoming family status. But intrigue is omnipresent ...more
Dragon Lady" it was recommended based on my reading preferences here on Goodreads and then caught my eye because Monique Brinson Demerey and I both attended Hobart & William Smith Colleges. Having recently visited Vietnam on academic sabbatical, I found this tremendously interesting. This first book is quite an achievement! It was clearly a labor of love but also reflects an appreciation for storytelling and research. Like many of the readers, I knew very little about Madame Nhu. This colorf ...more
Walk-Minh Allen
The name "Madame Nhu" conjured for me the image of a political puppeteer who through sheer will and enigmatic beauty could influence anyone in her path with either the wave of her hand or the swipe of her caustic tongue. Only tangentially did I know anything about Madame Nhu from reading brief descriptions about her, here and there, in other books about the Vietnam War. In my younger years, I remember watching news footage of her during the Buddhist crisis and listening to her notoriously remark ...more
Christian Shute
This was an excellent biography of a woman misunderstood, vilified, and forgotten. The story of Madame Nhu is the story of Vietnam and America's involvement there. Rather than just the big picture of Cold War politics, this book tells the story of a woman who saw herself as the savior of Vietnam and its women.
I caught this author on a CSPAN/BookTV show and was immediately engaged, not only with the author, but with the story.

I loved both Ms. Demery's giddy sort of "passion" for Madame Nhu's story, but also the internecine intrigue surrounding this mysterious "Dragon Lady."

It is clear the Ms. Demery was the loving parent in her relationship with Madame Nhu, as she patiently dealt with tantrums, long periods of silence and drama all the while gleaning as much as she could from this exasperating woman.
Kevin Tran
As a biography of this most flamboyant character in modern Vietnam history, it was very thin and unsatisfactory. As an essay of the author in finding the "Dragon Lady", it was interesting at times but also frustrating as it led to nowhere. As a re-told story of Vietnam during the 50's-60's, of the assassination of President Diem and Mr Nhu 3 weeks before JFK's, of the link of JFK and involvement of the US with the ordeal in South Vietnam during the Cold War, it was still frightening to read. Ove ...more
This book provided a lot of information about a period I lived through but a subject that I deliberately kept at arm's length. The author's skillful interjection of her present efforts to locate her subject in between past history of Viet Nam and the intervention by France, the U.S. and other powers, makes for revelatory reading. At least to someone as ill informed as I am. At times it does get into confusing detail and my lack of familiarity with the names made it difficult to keep track. If I ...more
Ben Trump
As a biography, the front end (early childhood - mid 1960s) of Madame Nhu is solid and interesting. Less so afterwards, as discussion of her later life is thin.

As a retelling of the story of how the author 'found' Madame Nhu, I ended the book a bit disappointed. I love interview-based books, which I appreciated here - but the story itself just seems a bit too serendipitous for me. As it is written, the author just got lucky in one day getting a phone call (or her old journal), which is a bit uns
A friendly and accessible bio/memoir of how the writer got a hold of a reclusive, historically controversial figure and coaxed enough conversation out of her to piece together a memoir. It doesn't give a hard-hitting look at Madame Nhu, presumably because there's plenty of folks out there who vilify her (to the extreme, Demery would argue). It's a gentle, friendly introduction to the Diem era of Vietnam.

I would also say Demery's treatment of Mme. Nhu, while seemingly too gentle, is still better
Elizabeth Moeller
I received this book as a giveaway from BookBrowse
My understanding of Vietnam and the Vietnam war has always been very American-centric. I have read widely about the fictional and non-fictional accounts of both American soldiers who went to fight and Americans at home who struggled with the moral implications of the war.
This book offered me a new lens through which to understand not only American involvement in the Vietnam war, but the larger context of the history of Vietnam. For those who may
I requested this book because I had wanted to know more about the Vietnam War. In school my history classes usually focused on three time periods, the American Revolution, the Civil War and WWII. However, despite my curiosity I am not usually fond of picking up history tomes and going at it. Biographies are so much easier and reader friendly for me, especially when they’re about women. Finding the Dragon Lady was both intriguing and enlightening; I learned so much from this book and am ready to ...more
Viet Lam
Having listened to Mrs. Demery's interview on The Daily Show, I got a copy from the library and started reading. I appreciate the background information that Mrs. Demery provided, and would recommend it to anyone who is interested in Vietnamese history!

Being born in Vietnam myself, and younger than her children, I have certain bias against Madam Nhu. The "barbecued monk" comment really rubbed me the wrong way. But, have resided in the US for quite a while, I am open minded enough to try to see w
Interestingly, regardless of who is right and who is wrong, Demery writes a thought provoking view of Vietnam as a country as well as those who sat in power seats in Vietnam, the United States, France and China in the mid twentieth century. Madam Nhu is the central character in this book, and she is portrayed as a less than perfect person. But let's see, who is perfect and who was right? Demery's view makes for very provocative reading - both internationally and personally.
Very interesting bio specifically about the part " the dragon lady" played in Vietnam's history.
Also interesting as to the chain of events that led the author to successfully communicate with her and obtain her memoirs.
I was surprised at how little I knew about the history of the country. The author did years of research.
The only thing missing from the book were lots of photographs! I read the book on kindle so perhaps
There were photos in the actual book? Mme was such a colorful character - phot
A. Bishop
This is a great biography about Madame Nhu. I was born in the generation worrying about Nicaragua and the Gulf War not the Vietnam war, but it was still a meaningful read for me. The Vietnam war and the politics leading up to it were always a bit of a mystery to me. The best I received from school was it was america trying to block communists from spreading. The facts presented in this book, and the narrative spun around them are just a fascinating read. I picked this book up after it was on the ...more
A very interesting read about a woman I knew nothing about except for a youtube clip I had watched whilst looking for something else. At the time I wondered just where she fitted in the history of Vietnam, and this book answered the question admirably.

The author spent 10 years in contact by phone with Madame Nhu whilst she was in exile, and along with her conversations and meticulous research, she has given us a very in depth picture of just who The Dragon Lady was.

This was a very interesting story of Madame Nhu, the first lady under the Diem regime in Vietnam. I know precious little of the history that got us into Vietnam, so this was my entree into some of that history. The book is written as the authors encounter with Madame Nhu. They do in phone interviews for years, which the author supplements with fact finding through research and and other interviews.
The story of Tran Thi Le Xuan who would become Madame Nhu, the first lady of Vietman. And also much more. The early chapters provide a good overview of the history of Vietnam and the culture and traditions of the country at the time. While well documented and historically accurate parts of the story read like a novel. For me (who grew up toward the end of the Vietnam War) it was a fascinating story. That the author would find the long exiled Dragon Lady and establish a relationship with her is a ...more
Loretta Revers
She is a first time author. My daughter ( her friend) recommended this book. I like her style of writing and got into it from the Prologue. Monique found Madame Nhu living in Paris and was able to get a great interview with her. Madame Nhu has been in exile many years. My husband does some teaching at Universities in Viet Nam so I found her story interesting. Learning about how they are changing some customs to fit in with the modern world is very interesting for me. Females were always looked u ...more
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Monique Demery's first book, Finding the Dragon Lady: The Mystery of Vietnam's Madame Nhu, will be published in September, 2013 by PublicAffairs Books.

Monique graduated from Hobart and William Smith Colleges and received a Master's degree in Asian Studies from Harvard University. She lives with her family in Chicago, IL.
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