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The Florist's Daughter

3.38  ·  Rating Details  ·  702 Ratings  ·  184 Reviews
During the long farewell of her mother’s dying, Patricia Hampl revisits her Midwestern girlhood. Daughter of a debonair Czech father, whose floral work gave him entrŽe into St. Paul society, and a distrustful Irishwoman with an uncanny ability to tell a tale, Hampl remained, primarily and passionately, a daughter well into adulthood. She traces the arc of faithfulness and ...more
Hardcover, 227 pages
Published October 1st 2007 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt (first published January 1st 2007)
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Nancy Rossman
May 10, 2012 Nancy Rossman rated it really liked it
I first bought this book two or more years ago. From good publicity in literary places, I thought this would be one I SHOULD read. My interest in the book waned by page 26 and I put it aside. This morning for some reason I found it again. My circumstances have changed completely from my first reading. I have NEVER had the realization how much my own situation brought to how I felt about a book until just now.

My 93-year-old mother is frail. A few months ago I figured she would go any time...havin
Särah Nour
Apr 04, 2011 Särah Nour rated it did not like it
I enjoy memoirs. It’s fun for me to read about people with more interesting lives than mine. However, I think writing a memoir poses a challenge, and also involves some risk. How many aspiring writers out there have jotted down ordinary journal entries and sent them in for publication, hoping for a big break? Where do you draw the line between personal disclosure and good storytelling? FYI: pouring your soul into the page doesn’t necessarily make for good writing.

That’s what someone should have
Aug 20, 2011 Stacy rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir
The Florist's Daughter was a hard read for me! "A nothing-happened narrative, our kind of story." The author kept circling around the same subjects, beating a dead horse so to speak, to the point I felt like she was soon going to take me straight to her or my own insanity. Poetic or not where we were headed didn't feel like a healthy place. We seemed incredibly stuck in things we couldn't change like heritage, where we grew up and how our parents see the world. I couldn't understand why we weren ...more
Mar 01, 2012 Florinda rated it it was ok
According to the biographical info on the back flap of this book, this is Patricia Hampl's fifth memoir. I haven't read any of the others, and since this one left me quite underwhelmed, I'm not sure that I would.

A memoir doesn't absolutely require a narrative arc, but I think that a reader might find the presence of one more rewarding, and this book really doesn't have it. Patricia's presence at her mother's bedside on the night of her death is the framing device for her recollections of growing
Feb 16, 2009 Trina rated it it was amazing
This is a modest little book, but exquisitely written. Patricia Hampl is a poet as well as prose writer, and it shows. I was very touched by, and I personally related to, the relationship of the grown author and her aging parents. Long ago I read her "Romantic Education" and now I remember that it was the beauty of the writing that made me love it so much. This quote is from her thinking back on schoolgirl days:

"Only poetry and music, it seemed, could express the real things, which were the unsa
May 25, 2011 Daisy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: sent to Lara; Steve and Shana for the flowers and St. Paul
Did she ever get her way? Not then, not during her sweetheart period, not till later when she mastered the fine art of being impossible. p. 11

This is a beautifully written, intricately structured memoir in honor of the writer's parents. She deciphers who her parents were and who she became because of them in episodes so poetic, I think she labored over every single word. Because of the title, I thought this would be more about her father, the florist, but there's equal time spent on her mother.
Jan 26, 2008 Beth rated it liked it
This is Hampl's fifth (!) memoir, a meditation upon her parents and her relationship with them. Hampl grew up in St. Paul, Minnesota and (according to this book) never left. She cared for her parents through multiple illnesses. Her father died of heart failure, her mother eventually of a number of illnesses, dementia finally obliterating much of her ability to relate to the real world, something that Hample took in her stride. Hampl's memoir is not of the confessional variety --- there are few l ...more
Jun 06, 2010 Linda rated it it was ok
Maybe I need to try reading this again in a few months. I had high expectations and was very disappointed. I thought I would be able to realate to this character/author more, but the book really bored me - I had trouble finishing it. The author discusses her "common" upbringing by "common" parents as she sits by her mother's deathbed while writing Mom's obituary. I seems Dad was a hardworking and well respected "florist" and mom worked in a library and liked to document much of their life. My im ...more
Jun 13, 2011 Atarah rated it did not like it
The book started off with Patricia Hampl at her mother's bedside. The first third to half was dedicated to just being by that bedside. I liked how it started off that way, made it interesting, but for such a short book, there was too much emphasis on that. I'm fine with a certain percentage of a book being dreary, but this one had too much of it. And I thought it might have a little more to do with a flower shop of some kind, a little more on a parent (this one being the father) being a florist ...more
Oct 28, 2010 Quiltgranny rated it it was ok
Shelves: bookmarks
This book is beautifully written.

I just wish the subject matter had been different. I was immediately in love when I started it and got sucked in with the language and style of writing. But that only lasted through the description of the author's sharp edged mother and her mother's relationships with the people and places around her. When the father (the florist) was finally introduced, the climate shifted and it was hard going. Even though this is a memoir and the title includes "daughter", th
Jun 10, 2010 Elizabeth rated it liked it
I wanted to like this book more than I did. I wanted to be committed to the people and wrapped up in their life. I just wasn't. But that didn't stop me from crying when her mom died. I mean, how can you read a death scene and not cry!?
Sep 23, 2009 Karen rated it it was ok
I can see why other people would like this memoir but it just didn't sit well with me. It's very poetic, abstract, and non-linear, and I couldn't relate to many of the themes. It's a beautiful book that just isn't my style.
Aug 08, 2015 Jennifer rated it liked it
It'd be 3.5 stars.

Hampl has a dreamy writing-style that seemed especially appropriate as she sat at her dying mother's bedside in the hospital.

Hampl spends these "dead of the night" hours remembering how she ended up there - the daughter of a Czech florist and a library archivist Irish mother.

She jumps from place to place in her history examining her relationship with her parents, as their primary caretaker. She never really left St. Paul, always felt bound to them somehow there - the middle cla
Jun 19, 2013 Mom rated it liked it
While her mother lay in the hospital dying, Patricia Hampl began writing this quiet introspective meditation on her two parents. She describes her parents' "relentlessly modest life" (and her own) as middle class folks living "ordinary" lives in middle America. While the author was determined to "get away," in the end she finds herself caring for her parents as they age and eventually pass away. She describes her hard-edged, bookish Irish mother and her handsome naive Czech father (the florist) ...more
Bookmarks Magazine

"Nothing is harder to grasp than the relentlessly modest life," observes Patricia Hampl, the award-winning author of several memoirs. In The Florist's Daughter, she turns the focus from herself to her parents and their ordinary lives. Resisting the impulse to be sentimental, she "homes in on the unguarded moment, the pivot of contradiction, that reveals character" (Newsday) and brings Stan and Mary Hampl to vivid life in her lovely prose and breathtaking metaphors. Critics note that the title is

Alison (AlisonCanRead)
Oct 25, 2009 Alison (AlisonCanRead) rated it liked it
Shelves: non-fiction
This is a memoir contrasting between Hampl's childhood in St. Paul and scenes of Hampl dealing with her parents' illnesses and deaths. Hampl grew up in St. Paul in the 1950s, before the highways arrived and made the connections between the Twin Cities easier. Minneapolis and St. Paul were divided into two very different worlds: the Scandinavian, Lutheran city of Minneapolis and the Catholic world of St. Paul where one identified their neighborhood by stating which parish they attended. Hampl's f ...more
Patricia Tyburczy-bettis
Oct 07, 2012 Patricia Tyburczy-bettis rated it really liked it
Despite the geographical location of Old St. Paul, I found much similarity in Patricia Hampl's story, with my own upbringing. And I loved how she went back and forth in her memories between the influences and personalities of each of her unique and distinct parents. It seems a universal story about the role of the daughter, and certainly rang true with my life, as my mother was also the one who lingered with terminal conditions after my father died from congestive heart disease, and I became her ...more
May 31, 2013 Arlene rated it really liked it
This beautifully written memoir is the work of the florist's daughter whose Czech father accepted her as a poet, and whose Irish mother constantly reminded her she was a writer. A writer, a poet --small difference compared to the major differences between her parents'cultural backgrounds, outlooks on life, and relationships with their daughter. Their life stories are told with humor, compassion and a unique insight that allows the reader to be there, to really know these people. There isn't anyo ...more
Mar 11, 2009 Kathie added it
Intereseting memoir. Telling the story of living in the Twin Cities. comparing the ethnic culture of the Norwegians of Mpls. and the Irish Catholic of St. Paul; along with all the different neighborhoods, historic buildings, and difficulties of living in this era.
I coud relate to this quote: "I opened the door to the rest of my life, this new life without a living link to the old world, and he said, as if he knew all about me, "Well, now that's the end of an era for you."
Having not grown up i
Jun 30, 2008 Suzanne rated it it was amazing
I really enjoyed this book. She a great writer and it's a very well written, suprising and touching memoir of her parents. I read this book based on the NYTimes review so I'll quote a bit of it here, "...Hampl’s honest examination of her own life makes “The Florist’s Daughter” a wonder of a memoir. A conflicted daughter, a begrudging Midwesterner and a woman who has been besotted by illusions, Hampl proves that the material closest to home is often the richest. Her mother, who complained that he ...more
Esme Pie
Jan 15, 2011 Esme Pie rated it really liked it
Shelves: memoir
I think I've mentioned numerous times that I'll read pretty much any memoir that comes my way. I saw this on the new book shelf at the library and brought it home based on simply on the facts that it was a memoir, and I used to work in a flower shop. What comes home with me from the library has a very low bar to cross.

Anyway, I loved this book. This author is a wonderful, wonderful writer. It is instantly clear that she is a poet as her lovely and lyrical writing shines from every page. This boo
Mar 06, 2013 Krista rated it really liked it
As Patricia Hampl sits bedside during her mother's fading moments, she recalls her formative years as the daughter of a feisty, distrustful Irishwoman and a handsome, gentle Czech. I love the vivid sense of place Hampl creates. I have never been to St. Paul, but could visualize the streets, the river, the fancy downtown store where wealthy visitors purchased flower arrangements from Hampl's father.

As the granddaughter of a feisty Irishwoman and her handsome, gentle husband, I could connect to m
Jan 23, 2011 Xenia0201 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I chose this book because of the reviews praising Hampl's prose as otherworldly, as something one would not expect out of a memoir written in 2007. The Florist's Daughter does not disappoint. It is about everything and nothing; a collection of Hampl's memories and instances that tied together Irish and Czech heritage while she was growing up in St. Paul, MN in the 50's and 60's. We begin with Hampl clutching the hand of her dying mother while with her free hand, writing her obituary. Like her fl ...more
Carolyn Jacobson
Aug 21, 2008 Carolyn Jacobson rated it liked it
Recommends it for: people with aging parents, people interested in telling their family's story
At first I was worried this book would be too site specific--too focused on St. Paul for an Iowan like myself. But I really warmed to it. I was interested in the way Hampl depicted her changing relationship with her parents, both as they aged and as she herself changed. I like her thoughts about how she became a writer with their influences and within that household. I like the sketchy depiction of her brother to whom the book is dedicated. Will there be a memoir about him down the road? And I l ...more
Oct 28, 2010 Kate rated it really liked it
Hampl makes me feel nostalgic for St Paul, though I only live ten minutes from there. Honestly. The way she describes her childhood, her growing up Catholic and Irish and Czech reminds me of my childhood, growing up Catholic and Irish and German. The death of her parents is something I dread with my own parents. And I long to escape, to go somewhere, to do something important, but will probably, ultimately, never truly be able to leave Old St Paul- I still call Macy's Dayton's, and I go to Landm ...more
Jun 05, 2013 MaryJane rated it it was amazing
This was a beautifully written memoir about the author's parents. The author grew up on St.Paul's West End and Crocus Hill neighborhoods and the book contains wonderful descriptions of St.Paul and it's neighborhoods. My grandparents lived on the West End, and I appraise property there now, so the neighborhood evokes particular memories for me. There were also some uncanny similarities with my parents lives that were particularly touching to me. I enjoyed the book very much, so much so that I sta ...more
Kathy McC
Aug 31, 2009 Kathy McC rated it liked it
AS far as memoirs go, this was enjoyable. Hampl has written other memoirs, this one happens to tell about her relationship with her parents and her reflections on "no longer being a daughter" after both have passed away.

My mother believed "that words were everything. They could go anywhere, be anything. They got you to the Great World without a ticket."
"The world is eternally embattled, good and evil contend, people burn. Life's no party, no matter how much we count on parties, life off them.
Nov 11, 2013 Beth rated it did not like it
I only read the first fifty pages, and found absolutely nothing in this book that would compel me to continue. I only read that far because it was a book club choice, and I thought if everyone talked it up, I would finish. But nobody liked it.

Basically, it was like a lady I didn't know suddenly started complaining to me about her life, but I had no way of connecting with her at all, and there wasn't any story to it. It was just a stranger complaining. I was bored.
Apr 03, 2011 Emily rated it it was amazing
I checked this book out of the Carnegie Library of Pittsburgh after finishing "I Could Tell You Stories," and enjoyed it during a trip back to Minnesota to visit family this spring. Hampl's descriptions of Old St. Paul remind me of all of the best parts of the city, and open a window into the time before I-94 and 35E were routed through its neighborhoods, and into the lives of Czech and Irish immigrants and their families during the midcentury.
Jenny Roth
Jan 18, 2009 Jenny Roth rated it really liked it
Recommended to Jenny by: Dylan
This refreshing memoir tells the story of ordinary lives--ordinary in the fact that no one in the book is famous, drug-addled, or suffers undue hardship. What's remarkable about Hampl's story of her parents' lives is how extraordinary it is. They may not have been millionaires, celebrities, or war heroes, but they were good people and good parents, and that fact alone makes them worthy of writing and reading about. Inspiring.
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Patricia Hampl’s most recent book is The Florist’s Daughter, winner of numerous “best” and “year end” awards, including the New York Times “100 Notable Books of the Year” and the 2008 Minnesota Book Award for Memoir and Creative Nonfiction. Blue Arabesque: A Search for the Sublime, published in 2006 and now in paperback, was also one of the Times Notable Books; a portion was chosen for The Best Sp ...more
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