C'est la Vie: An American Woman Begins a New Life in Paris and--Voila!--Becomes Almost French

C'est la Vie: An American Woman Begins a New Life in Paris and--Voila!--Becomes Almost French

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Bestselling writer Suzy Gershman (dubbed “Super Shopper Suzy” by Oprah) is our answer to Peter Mayle in this heartfelt, breezy, and funny story of starting over in Paris. Suzy had always fantasized about moving to Paris with her husband, but when he dies unexpectedly, she decides to fulfill their dream alone. Here she gives a deliciously conversational chronicle of her fir...more
Paperback, 288 pages
Published May 31st 2005 by Penguin Books (first published 2004)
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Cate
Okay, okay. So I came upon this book in my house here that we rented out, so thankfully I never bought this piece of crap. I have to say that this may be the worst book I have ever read. I'm going to give out spoilers here cause I am hoping that you will never ever ever read this shitty book. I'm not even done with it, and I can tell you that no matter what happens, this book will never redeem itself. So, first off, this stupid book is based on an autobiography. Which means that this woman actua...more
Starrlp
I got this book because I gravitate towards stories about American women moving to Paris. I long to go to Paris and to read about the experiences of other women makes me feel as close to Paris as I'm going to get for now. The only problem is that no matter what the story is its always the story about an upper middle class or rich women moving to Paris after having been there several times for family vacations and business trips. I would really like to hear about a story where an "average" Americ...more
Sherry
42. "Bestselling writer Suzy Gershman (dubbed "Super Shopper Suzy" by Oprah) is our answer to Peter Mayle in this heartfelt, breezy, and funny story of starting over in Paris. Suzy had always fantasized about moving to Paris with her husband, but when he dies unexpectedly, she decides to fulfill their dream alone. Here she gives a deliciously conversational chronicle of her first year in Paris and of the dizzying delights and maddening frustrations of learning to be a Parisian. Filled with Gersh...more
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Methodtomadness
If you're considering moving to Paris, skimming this would at least give you some idea of what you're up against in terms of finding an apartment, bringing vs. buying household goods, and otherwise settling in. If, however, you're looking for much of a narrative, give this one a pass. The one -- one! -- salient, life-lessonish take-away point from this book seems to be: "Ladies, if you can afford it, and find yourself widowed later in life, France can be a more welcoming and intellectually stimu...more
Liz
Having grown up as an American in Paris, I thought I would find this look at French life from the perspective of an American interesting, but much of the book seems to be less about the woman's experience in France and with the French culture than it is about her shopping expeditions and minglings with socialite, both of which I found terribly boring and hard to relate to. I didn't even finish the book I was so bored. Good premise but this could have been a lot more.
Susanna
This is a book badly in need of an editor. I mean: YIKES. It remains worth reading for its practical value--if you're moving to Paris, for instance. And it's interesting for its cultural revelations, and certainly contains some fun and funny anecdotes, but all without benefit of anything resembling flow. It's as if the author published a succession of journal entries without adding transitions. The bullet points throughout have real promise for fun narrative and just cause the reader to stumble...more
Jennifer
I really enjoyed this book, especially the anecdotes and nuances the author uses to explain her first year of living in France. Her story is quaint, which is nice in my opinion, and I now have an urge to visit France again and spend time doing non-touristy things in Paris.

That said, the author seems to repeat herself a lot, which is a bit annoying. Either she thinks her readers won't remember a person she has mentioned two pages prior, or her editors aren't very good at their jobs. She also see...more
Olga
This is one of the books I found through PaperBack Swap recommendations after reading Entre Nous and giddily requested it hoping for a similarly pleasant experience. It was tough going at first. By page 70 I was thoroughly annoyed with Ms. Gershman because at that point the book read more like a shopping instruction manual with endless mentions of Born to Shop and incessant dropping of names of famous people and brands that began bordering in pretentious. "Is this really who you are, Suzy?" I ke...more
Tammy
A quick, light read but not deep or meaningful in any way. Too much focus on her personally to be a good travel book, but much too shallow about her life to be a good memoir. I have no idea how she truly felt about losing her husband because it's so glossed over. I also have no idea what it's like to be an average American living in Paris because she only writes about the life of a wealthy American with all sorts of connections to the "it" crowd -- fine if you are one, but not easy to relate to....more
Chelle
This was one of the most obnoxious, self-indulgent books I have EVER suffered through. Were it not for the fact that this was a book club choice - and I felt honor-bound to finish it - I would have happily quit after the first few chapters.

The premise seemed interesting: after her husband's death, the author moves to Paris for a change of scenery. Based on the title, I expected some funny American-in-France stories and some anecdotes about her emotional recovery. Not overly philosophical, but s...more
Angi
Unfortunately, this book just wasn't what I was hoping for. I think that someone who is actually moving to Paris would find this book much more helpful as it is basically a guide book written in a different form. There was a lot (A LOT) of information about finding an apartment, what to expect, what to do (and not do), etc. There was also a lot about buying items, what is cheaper in America than in Paris, etc. I was hoping to live vicariously through the author, but I was rather bored and after...more
Aj
I would not recommend this book unless you are a rich snob, or if you are personally friends with this author. This woman is unbelievable. It's fun to imagine starting a new life, renting and furnishing a new apartment in Paris, and learning about the social norms of the new place, but who can identify with this kind of starting over, when you are known at all of the posh hotels, call ALAIN DUCASSE your friend, phone DORIE GREENSPAN for baking advice and have an affair with a Count? Not relate-a...more
Kristine
I picked this up at a used book store after visiting my daughter in France while she was studying there for a semester. I liked how the author explained her experiences moving to Paris and how she was able to set up a new life in a country that chooses to live a slower pace with different priorities than those the author was used to in America. What I didn't like was her attitude about dead husband and the freedom she now had to make her own choices. I found myself wincing at times after reading...more
Nan G.
I have to admit I was a little puzzled by the vitriol heaped upon this book and the author. No, it is by no means the best book about Paris and yes, it is superficial. The author can be quite annoying. All of that said, I found it frothy and delightful and just the right thing to read on a quick vacation at the lake. No heavy themes, no long ponderous descriptions of characters and their dank inner lives. Just a fun little book to enjoy on a summer afternoon. It had the added bonus of starting m...more
Leslie Jenison
I'm on a kick of reading stories about women going through major changes in their lives and starting over. This one..........I don't know. I think the author is probably a nice woman. I got weary of all her name-dropping and "I'm so important" and "I must fit into the right part of society" musings. That is all so different from who I am and what I value. The author seemed narcissistic I found it tedious.
I did, however, enjoy the parts of her story when she wrote about discovering the little se...more
Maureen
Spoken from a true Francophile... this book is awful!!! Same as what some other reviews have complained about, the author comes off as being selfish, annoyingly obsessed with shopping, and out-of-touch with reality. I have never even heard of her "Born to Shop" series, yet she writes as if she is a celebrity. Her pretentiousness started grinding on my nerves about a third of the way into the book, and I just don't understand how it is justified, seeing as this woman's idea of "true French cookin...more
Sarra
Eh. I like Paris. I like reading about Paris. I did not really like this woman at all. I'm not sure who her target audience is, but I don't care about designer labels, or social status, or the "Chef Game", or how to get the best deals while shopping for merchandise created from the blood of the children and slave labor of developing nations. And Suzy Gershman's day job is just that - writing books about how to shop, usually at giant unethical retailers. Also? Dinner parties & social climbing...more
Andrienne
Finally finished this book even though I've had it for a while. I was sick in bed and I wanted to escape somewhere...to France! The main character is in her 50s and so I wasn't too eager to read this memoir of sorts. I did find her tips very useful -- from leasing a home to where to scour cheap furnishings all over France. I've never heard of her "Born to shop" series and actually, a quick peek in Amazon show less than stellar reviews. But anyway, I found myself really immersed in all the highs...more
Christine
BIG disappointment. I was hoping for something cute, along the lines of French Impressions, but I was mistaken. This book is a biography written by the woman who writes the Born to Shop series (never heard of personally, but I may be the only one). She is widowed suddenly and decides to follow her dream of moving to Paris for a year. Her adjustment to French culture and experience trying to find/rent/furnish an apartment are pretty interesting. That is, until she also decides it is fashionable a...more
Helynne
Although I have read many recent books of this genre—American woman discovers the delights and frustrations of cultural difference between the U.S. and France—I found this memoire particularly informative. Suzy Gershman describes the real nitty-gritty details of everyday Parisian life and how it can captivate, but also really bowl over the best-intentioned Yankee gal. When Gershman, a traveling contributor to Born to Shop, is suddenly widowed at age 50, she indulges in a longtime dream to live i...more
Kara
Great book! It was written by an older lady, post retirement, so it wasn't relatable as far as stage of life but she offered some really great insight and advice into being an American in Paris and as I am about to move to Paris, it was such a great book to read to get an idea of what my life might be like for the next year! She was such a great writer also, it was very easy to read and enjoyable! I would recommend this book to anyone interested in books such as this, or anyone moving to France...more
Laura Schmidt
I got this for an American perspective of Parisian/French way of life...I'm be going around France for my honeymoon this summer and thought it'd be a good insight. Slightly silly that the author goes on about name-dropping and being fashionable and spending an insane amount of money on linens (it all makes me think her more-than-slightly absurd). But she did just lose her husband and was trying to make a new start for herself- hence the reason of moving to Paris- to age gracefully and to be cher...more
Karen
Jun 26, 2007 Karen rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Everyone
After reading several books on suicide and grief, being the surviving spouse of someone who had just recently ended their life, I felt I needed something light to read. Normally I read the back cover and the first few pages before buying a book, but in this case I didn't. I saw the cover, I love Paris, it looked like a light read. So I bought it, headed to the nearest coffee shop and settled in to read some fluff. Imagine my surprise when on the first page I read that she moved to Paris after th...more
Elizabeth
Suzy Gershman's account of her first year of living in Paris is a quick read. This memoir is funny and touching and she is honest about what she learns along the way.

I enjoyed the perspective of this book, Suzy was in her early-50's with a son in college when her husband died, unexpectedly and she continued forward with their plans to move to Paris. I have not read much this perspective and it was refreshing.

As a Francophile it was nice to read something encouraging one to move to France!
Christina
The fact that the author decided to move to France after her husband's death is admirable, but that she decided to do it with very little knowledge of French daily life (and then bemoan the difficulties of life abroad in her book) just seems silly. For example, she plans to bake a cake for her son, buys all the ingredients, and then when she wants to get started, realizes that she doesn't have an American measuring cup or a conversion table...I mean, come on.
Elyssa
I am quite interested in expat memoirs lately and had high hopes for this. Unfortunately, this book was disappointing. The author is known for her bestselling books Born to Shop and most of this memoir outlines shopping and purchases in great detail, to the point of exhaustion. And since she knows a lot of people, there is constant (and annoying) name dropping. It's far from your typical American in Paris story, so unless the reader is seeking a materialistic fantasy look elsewhere for the movin...more
Audrey ❦❦❦
I read this for the second time yesterday while on a Mexican vacation, and it felt a little discordant, reading about setting up life in France while on the beach in Mexico. I like the book, but wish that Suzy did not feel the need to be a name-dropper. I also don't "get" her fascination with bed sheets, but I do find that I live vicariously through her story and admire her chutzpah at being able to leave her American
I've behind and start over in France.

Also, the affair with the old guy was just...more
Annmarie
Pretty good memoir about a middle aged American woman whose husband dies unexpectedly, and so she is spurred to fulfill a lifelong dream of living in Paris. Eventually she purchases a residence there - it'd be a pretty good place to grow old, she feels. It's fun reading along with her as she struggles to get used to her new life and furnish her new place, and since she is a very social person, also meeting (on paper) the new people she befriends including a new elderly romantic interest nickname...more
Joan
I had really high hopes for this book, but was a bit disappointed. The insight into life in France is interesting, but the author's choice to purposely leave out information about her grieving the loss of husband of 25 years instantly reduced her credibility in my mind. Obviously this was a difficult time in the author's life, but the book glosses over most everything except for shopping (there is definitely a great deal of information on the where and how's of shopping in Paris), but still felt...more
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