When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals

When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals

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This national bestseller exploring the complex emotional lives of animals was hailed as "a masterpiece" by Elizabeth Marshall Thomas and as "marvelous" by Jane Goodall.

The popularity of When Elephants Weep has swept the nation, as author Jeffrey Masson appeared on Dateline NBC, Good Morning America, and was profiled in People for his ground-breaking and fascinating study....more
Paperback, 320 pages
Published October 21st 1996 by Delta (first published 1994)
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Ethan Fixell
so disappointing. i had such high hopes. but all every page was like, "maybe animals have feelings. but we're not sure yet. i mean, cats seem to. but who knows? elephants look like they're crying sometimes. are they really? we may never find out."

trash.
Colin
While I agree with the principles in this book, that's all I agree with. There are several reasons.

First and most obvious to many who read it: he has a huge amount of anger towards scientists. I can appreciate this to a large extent, animals have been and are still used in experiments which are horrible. His anger has transcended the normal boundaries to become fanatical. The problem with this is twofold. On the one hand he often makes generalizations which are not always fair (his attacks on an...more
Carrie
I was hoping this would be more like "Animals in Translation: Using the Mysteries of Autism to Decode Animal Behavior," with lots of interesting facts backed up with evidence. Instead, it reads like an essay arguing that ethologists are all wrong because they don't ascribe animals' actions to emotional causes. Granted, I didn't read the whole book, but the part I did read repeated itself over and over. I felt like I was being beaten by a dead, unhappy horse.
Tippy Jackson
Repetitive. No science. Reads something like this-scientists suck because I think my pets have feelings and they really do because I can just tell and how can anyone say they don't? Also, other people think their pets have feelings. So there. Flawless argument. Horribly misinterprets or over interprets behaviors and actions. Everything right up to the looks dogs give and of course, from a look you can read their mind because it's not possible they could be thinking anything other than the anthro...more
Danna
[Readers note: the author is a professor of Sanskrit and a trained Freudian analyst who has a passion for animals and exploring our relationships to animals from a philosophical point of view. He is not a practicing biologist, animal behaviorist, or any other -ist within the zoological/anthropological realm. I believe his intent is to help make this area of science more compelling, interesting, and accessible to the lay public. Best to read it with that understanding in mind.]

I fell right into t...more
Nina Bradley
This book was frustrating to read. It was anecdote after anecdote and even though I agree with the author that animals do have emotions, I found myself disagreeing with his arguments. He likes to present a story of an animal behaving in such a way as to convince us that it is having some sort of emotional experience, of which I have no doubt. The problem is that he is pulling emotions out of his butt and saying "It could be this...or this... or this..." This is why science has little to say abou...more
Tracey
Masson explores "the sin of anthropomorphism" - attributing emotions (& behaviour in response to emotions) to animals, both in terms of his own observations and those of biologists and animal trainers & researchers, all the way back to Charles Darwin. He starts with a general discussion of the topic, then spends a chapter on one of about a dozen different emotional states; including fear, anger, love, joy and compassion.

He's definitely writing with an agenda; he's a vegetarian and very a...more
T.H. Waters
This book is a point by point comprehensive examination of the argument made by the majority scientists that animals, both domesticated and wild (including dogs & cats), are simply not capable of emotion. Do animals experience fear, love, friendship, grief, sadness, joy, and so on? Are they capable of suffering? Before When Elephants Weep was writen, no one had yet offered an in-depth rebuttal that animals' lives are indeed filled with complex sensibility. The author, Jeffrey Moussaieff Mass...more
Dale
Read by David Ackroyd
Duration: 3 hours, 5 minutes (abridged)

Strengths:

When Elephants Weep is full of moving anecdotes concerning animals and the possibility of them having emotions. It is a pleasant listen and usually not "over the top" in its preachiness. It was well read by narrator David Ackroyd. The authors make a compelling, if not scientifically rigorous argument for animal emotions.

Weaknesses:

The authors are continually preaching against scientists who do not believe that animals have emo...more
Anna
Makes some good points, using lots of real-life examples, without the mistake of making animals out to be flower-children. Puts into words the annoying, infuriationg, ridiculous canon in the scientific realm that Animals Can't Have Emotions ("they've just evolved to act as if they do"?!) and it is anthropomorphic to say they do--comparing this to the not-so-long-ago scientific stand that animals (and, by the way, human infants!) can't feel pain as we do and it is anthropomorphic and stupid to sa...more
Caroline
If you’ve ever looked for connections between the emotional lives of humans and animals, look no further than Jeffery Masson and Susan McCarthy’s When Elephants Weep. This insightful and delightful read gives an inside look to the emotional lives, experiences, and actions of species throughout the animal kingdom. From dancing squirrels to bashful gorillas to spiteful killer whales, Masson and coauthor Susan McCarthy discuss enlightening anecdotes and illuminating insights that offer powerful pr...more
Andrew Sydlik
- A mother giraffe fends off a lion for an hour to defend her child.
- A male chimpanzee dies shortly after his mother.
- Koko the gorilla cares for a “pet” kitten she names “All Ball.”
- A male falcon displays uncharacteristic behavior, including sounds that sound like cries of anguish, when his mate is killed.
- A gorilla who is given orange juice as a treat, gives it instead one day to a researcher who complains of a stomach ache. When she returns ten days later, the gorilla insists on the resear...more
Dinah
This book has a fatal flaw, which I believe is the crux of its argument and usefulness: In the discussion of whether or not animals can be said to have feelings, Masson is forced to wrestle with the definition of emotion, its origin and symptoms and causes and ontology. Is emotion mutually exclusive to evolutionary function, as one would come to believe from the tone of scientific discourse? If a mother protects her cubs, can we assume she feels love for them? Why would we possibly assume otherw...more
Caroline
I found this book fascinating, although at least in my own case there was a certain amount of 'preaching to the choir'. As Masson argues, any pet owner would argue that of course animals have feelings, of course their dog is excited about a walk, of course their cat is pleased to see them, or gets jealous or angry or sulks. Scientists, however, would argue that we are guilty of anthropomorphism, a cardinal sin of animal behaviourists, the sin of projecting onto animals the emotions that we ourse...more
Marley
I have a feeling I'm not going to finish this one. The writing is dense and not that accessible... but maybe if I skip to the interesting anecdotal stuff about animal emotions? It starts with a justification of the book, the idea that animals have emotions that are at least somewhat comparable to human emotions and that this deserves study. But that goes on for too long.

Interesting anecdotes about animals; I enjoyed it.
Teagan D
This book was fantastic. I wouldn't say it changed the way I thought, but it definitely enriched and deepened my perception of and appreciation for the lives of animals. Although it was apparent that Jeffrey Masson was on a quest to transform the thinking of people working and living in the scientific realm (and therefore, at times, spoke in a way that was a bit above my intellectual level to fully grasp) I never felt lost or ignored as a reader. My interest in the world of animal studies and ob...more
Lawrence
I am a lion hungry for a piece of meat, but I can't seem to get it across to Mr. Masson. I stood up on my hind legs and mewed and whined and begged, but no nice red meat. All of which is to say that I got to about page 55 and said to myself that this book was not worth the investment in time and energy.

The book is actually a polemic fueled by Mr. Masson's dislike about something or other in the scientific community and inflated by his speculations and rhetorical questions in the form of "If so,...more
Natasha O'rourke
I wanted to like this more than I did. It has some interesting tidbits and case studies, but the author is kind of all over the place and contradicts himself a lot. I believe animals have emotions, but I didn't feel like he made his case as compelling as he could have. But it's an interesting read.
Marie
This could easily be a five star book, as I believe it can change the life ofmany people who do not give enough credit to animals. However in my case I was already in agreement with the fact that animals do have emotions and feel just as much as we do, so it was not a life changing book per say.
However this book is very intelligent. It's well written, very scientific in its approach, and while at times can be a bit snarky, is justifiably so. This is not the feel good "let's read stories about a...more
Carole Gropl
This is a re-read. I first read this book when it came out in 1995. I enjoyed it the second time as well. I don't agree with some of the reviewers of this book who say the author does not make his point. No, he does not scientifically prove that animals have emotions and that these emotions, rather than pure instinct, influence their behavior. I don't think he was trying to do that. I believe he was trying to get people to see animals as sentient beings who feel - and I think he succeeds at that...more
Sandy
Very interesting. I guess dog and cat emotions have been done over several times. The examples in the book were wild animals as observed by folks who have studied them and animals in controlled experiments. Certainly makes the case for more humane treatment of animals and may turn some readers into vegetarians. The scientific jargon describing animal reactions seems ridiculous to those of us who have cared for animals and shared their space. I particularly enjoyed the references to apes and chim...more
Cory
This was truly a beautiful book. It expresses a deep desire to see equality with man and humans. It takes a subjective yet scientific approach to describing the interactions of animals, as well as humans. The connections animals have to their own species and to conspecifics is evident in every interaction. They along with Humanity are striving to be understood and survive. It has given me a different perspective on nature, humanity, animals and the constant interaction between them all. It is im...more
Meghan
Really surprised by the low ratings given to this book.

I found it insightful, seemingly (to my untrained eye) scientific, and a compelling argument for the emotions of animals.

I do think the authors worked hard not to seem to anthropomorphize the animals. It strikes a decent (not too mushy, not too sciency) balance that science people won't immediately criticize, and animal lovers won't immediately hate. Being the latter, I would have loved some gushing.. maybe. But I get it, and I think it was...more
Jitske
I thought this book was extremely interesting and a good read that I would recommend to anyone interested in the animal kingdom. In "When Elephants Weep", the author (Jeffrey Moussaief Masson) and the co-author (Susan McCarthy) attempt to show the reader that animals, too, lead rich emotional lives. It is full of anecdotes and examples of research observations and striking animal behaviour around the world. It was a rather easy read, too, evidently written for a wide audience to get the message...more
Florence
For some reason most scientists discount all evidence that animals are emotional beings, discarding the evidence as anthropomorphism. This author makes a convincing case that animals do, in fact, experience many emotional states that are similar to our own. This makes sense to me. After all, we are animals as well, are we not? I cringed and had to stop reading when some anecdotes involving animal experiments were described. It is just too easy to assign animals to a lower form of life and tell o...more
Geri Dosalua
I listened to the audiobook (cassettes) and the copyright date was 1995. Adult, nonfiction book. Marvelous information about animal behavior. Not a recent book, but still current. Many renowned animal behaviorists are mentioned in the book, as are many famous animals in their own right, such as Koko the gorilla, Alex, the African Grey Parrot, Washoe the chimpanzee, etc. I am very glad I read this. Was not a fast-moving book, but one to relish. Good for trip in the car, where you could give your...more
Kalie Lyn
Every pet owner will admit to committing anthropomorphism – ascribing human emotions to animals – on a daily basis; I know I sure do! We can see that our dog feels happy, that our cat feels playful, or that our turtle feels content; most people do not deny that non-human animals share some basic human emotions. However, in the scientific community, committing anthropomorphism is essentially looked upon as a sin.

In When Elephants Weep, Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson challenges people – scientists, res...more
Victoria
This book examines evidence of emotions in animals. Masson constantly plays to his audience - animal lovers, so though he uses a rather vast array of documentation and philosophies to argue both sides of the argument, the reader is constantly told to think of their own experience. And, as a dog owner, it is hard to imagine anyone saying that a dog isn't ecstatic when you come home, or say yes to a long walk, or is seemingly heartbroken when you won't throw the tennis ball for the hundredth time....more
Christian
I picked up this book expecting to find scientific evidence that animals are capable of demonstrating many of the same emotions humans do. What I got was a book that decided that because many dog and cat owners feel that their pets demonstrate emotion, therefore they do. Also, the author seemed mad at science and scientists that this kind of "evidence" hasn't been suitable for them in the past and spends a good portion of the book complaining about them.

Great book if you want no science and all...more
Margo
Unfortunately, the author is preaching to the choir. I'm sure people who already are aware of animal emotions will read this, and those who aren't will ignore it. However, it even illustrates (briefly) the emotions of the 'not so cute' organisms out there, such as spiders. So hopefully, those who only care about the furry animals will give insects and arachnids a second thought before mindlessly exterminating or stomping on them just because of their mere existence on the planet.
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He has written several books books critical of psychoanalysis, psychotherapy and psychiatry as well as books on animals, their emotions and their rights.

He currently lives in New Zealand with his wife, two sons, three cats and three rats.
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