You Don't Love Me Yet

You Don't Love Me Yet

2.77 of 5 stars 2.77  ·  rating details  ·  3,094 ratings  ·  530 reviews
From the incomparable Jonathan Lethem, a raucous romantic farce that explores the paradoxes of love and art

Lucinda Hoekke spends eight hours a day at the Complaint Line, listening to anonymous callers air their random grievances. Most of the time, the work is excruciatingly tedious. But one frequent caller, who insists on speaking only to Lucinda, captivates her with his...more
Hardcover, 225 pages
Published March 13th 2007 by Doubleday (first published January 1st 2007)
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Ceridwen
Jun 10, 2012 Ceridwen rated it 1 of 5 stars
Recommended to Ceridwen by: Not checking reviews first
There's a point in this novel when one character says something to the effect of you can't say something that is both self-pitying and sarcastic. Then the other character high fives the interlocutor for being so insightful, which kind of made me vom. That's just a stupid thing to say, and sure, it's the kind of thing that self-involved knobs would say to each other - which is undoubtedly the point - but the way this aphoristic douchery is repeated, oh, I don't know, like a refrain? or a hook? in...more
Michelle
Audio book experiment II failed.

I am pretty sure this book would have blown even if I had read it on the page. I listened to it while driving back and forth to Santa Clara from my home office for a project I was working on. I was sick of my iPod so I thought I'd try audio books. (I have since learned from friend recommendations and personal experience that it is not the best idea to listen to fiction while driving.)

Anyway, as far as I could surmise, this book is about a young band trying to brea...more
Jason Pettus
(Reprinted from the Chicago Center for Literature and Photography [cclapcenter.com].)

Longtime followers of my creative projects know that in general I don't like publishing bad reviews; that for the most part I see it as a waste of both my time and yours, in that I could be spending that time instead pointing out great artists you may have never heard of. However, since one of the things this website is dedicated to is honest artistic criticism, I also feel it's important to acknowledge books th...more
Jill Golden
Sep 09, 2007 Jill Golden rated it 1 of 5 stars Recommends it for: no one.
I loved Motherless Brooklyn and Lethem's book of essays, The Disappointment Artist. You Don't Love Me, Yet, however, has almost ruined my faith in contemporary fiction. Because I don't want to spend more time writing about this book than I have to, I will list some of the things about it that annoyed me:

1) The Characters' Names:
Bedwin
Falmouth Strand
Vogelsong
FANCHER AUTUMNBREAST (I actually had to stop reading for a few days after that one)

2) The contrived sex that made me never want to have sex...more
jeremy
no, i most certainly do not, and if you keep writing like this, i never will. reads like an overreaching first attempt at fiction. the only thing worse than whiny hipsters is an entire novel about them. the only thing worse than that, is a poorly written one.
Jenni  Lunde
I saw this book and immediately knew I'd hate it as something from the pretentious "Rent" vein. But it was on my required reading list, and school begins soon, so I picked it up and read it all in a sitting, and am now ready to digest it.

If I read it all in one sitting, it couldn't have been that bad—right? Wrong. I just wanted to get it over with. The basic premise is this: a struggling band of slightly (but no more than that) misfit characters gets their big break via an inspirational (somewha...more
Gabriel
Oct 29, 2008 Gabriel rated it 1 of 5 stars Recommends it for: no.
Man, I heard this was not great, but I didn't really expect it to suck THAT much. I figured I'd give him the benefit of the doubt since he's written some things I loved, especially the . Oh well. At least it was short.

Overwrought prose, boring and/or unlikeable characters, not to mention the ever-dangerous task of writing about music and not sounding like a total douche.

Upon reading some of the other reviews I felt I should add that I don't have any problem reading about hipsters or sympathizing...more
Jon
May 18, 2008 Jon rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Flower Sniffin, Kitty Pettin', Baby Kissin' Corporate Rock Whores.
I actually dont see what Lethem could have done to make people happy with this book. All the reviews here pretty much slate it but I think it was written as a conscious detachment from Motherless Brooklyn/Fortress of Solitude and offers a nice relief. A bit more of a disposable pop riff than a layered, carefully constructed piece of art like his other two most famous books. Yes the characters are hateable, and yes the plot meanders a bit but if anyone out there has actually moved in band circles...more
kristin
This was a Christmas present, so let me first congratulate myself for reading it so soon after receiving it. Believe me, this is rare.

The cover is kind of cool. I like books with attractive covers. 1988 excites me because I wish I were my current age during that year. Lucinda Hoekke happens to be my current age, in that year, is allegedly hot, and in a band.

I envied Lucinda until she started having sexathon benders with a fat, hairy, old man. Which began at approximately page 65. I had to take...more
Trin
Oh my god. I’m actually shocked that a book by a respected author like Lethem could be this bad. Because it is so bad. It’s full of whiny, painfully hipstery characters with names like Fancher Autumnbreast tooling around a fake L.A. that makes no geographical sense (even less than the real L.A., I mean) and having lots of deeply unpleasant-sounding sex that made me lock my legs at the knee as I read. Fine. That’s just bad. But what launches this book into the stratosphere of shockingly, appallin...more
Ryan
Apr 16, 2008 Ryan rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: people who like bad period pieces.
Recommended to Ryan by: myself
I would hate if my boss always compared my successes to my failures. Luckily my boss doesn't. If he did, I would quit. What he usually says when I make a mistake is 'Ryan, you screwed up, don't do it again'. Unfortunately most of Jonathan Lethem's readers don't give him that much respect. As an author of tremendous talent, he constantly gets compared to his greatest works. A comparison that is a waste to both the author and to any critical reader.

That said, at its best YOU DON'T LOVE ME YET is l...more
hanna
Wow, was this dreadful, irredeemably so. Where to begin? The overall feeling that the author had spent a grand total of a weekend in Los Angeles before writing this book, and threw in random details from looking at a GoogleMap? Honestly, even people that have lived in LA only briefly and hate it at least have more specific, well-founded, and intense reasons to justify their disgust. The derision that got blanketed in its own apathy is so textbook poke holes in LA because of someone symbolic need...more
Danielle
Nov 05, 2009 Danielle rated it 1 of 5 stars
Recommended to Danielle by: Cindy
My initial impression is that Motherless Brooklyn may turn out to be the only Jonathan Lethem book I like...
Sam Tepperman-gelfant
Big Heart, Little to Love

Reading "You Don't Love Me Yet" is like spending a few hours with college juniors who've just been exposed to postmodernism: there are some pretty turns of phrase and occasional insightful observations, but overall it's pretty annoying. Both Letham and his characters belong in this clique of moody hipsters, sharing a decided tendency to over-estimate their own cuteness. The characters confuse self deprecating irony, aimless attempts at artistic expression, and slogan-fil...more
Jack
Jan 16, 2009 Jack rated it 2 of 5 stars Recommends it for: The "Hip" and "Clever"
A disappointing outing from the normally transcendent Jonathan Lethem, clever (oh is it clever!) but never actually engaging. It's about a bunch of twenty-something kids in a band that blow that one chance to make it big, probably because they're all too damn clever for their own goods.

It's not that this is a bad idea, or that Lethem doesn't demonstrate the necessary affection for his characters to make them lovable. It's that the whole book smacks of trying too hard. The characters are all "in...more
Aimee
Although several fellow Goodreaders gave this "novel" low marks, I thought I'd give it a go, as the basic storyline sounded amusing. What a disappointment, especially after Motherless Brooklyn. The characters are annoying, self-absorbed, and one-dimensional. The story is equally uninspiring--Ennui in a half-hearted, Tragically Hip band. In the book, the band struggles to find a name, which aptly fits the aimlessness of the book and its protagonist. An appropriate name would have been "Void".
Bjorn
Jonathan Lethem always wrote books in much the same way that Yo La Tengo make music; a reference here, an influence there, an irresistably charming fusion of twee pop, disco, free jazz and aggressive punk. Or in Lethem's case, some pop cultural journalism, some Austerian New York/Brooklyn, some satire, some Woody Allen sex and characters just overdone enough to be both funny and believable. All of it ever so slightly transparent so that you can see the layers underneath where he tries to work ou...more
Shonna Froebel
I listened to the audio version of this which was read by the author. Lucinda Hoekke has quit her job in a coffee shop to work in a performance art gallery answering a complaint line for an old boyfriend. Lucinda has also broken up, again, with her boyfriend Matthew. They remain good friends, and still play together in a band. Matthew is the singer and Lucinda plays bass. The real genius of the band is Bedwin who plays guitar and writes the songs.
Matthew works at the zoo, where is has a special...more
Holly
Lucinda has a new job: As part of an ex-boyfriend's art project, she answers phone calls from LA residents responding to very plain fliers pasted all over the city stating "Complaints? Call". One man who calls frequently and complains mostly about himself becomes Lucinda's obsession, only rivaled by her fledgling band. As the Complainer becomes part of Lucinda's life, he merges into the band, made inevitable when she "steals" his complaints and makes them into a very popular song, propelling her...more
Michael
A novel about Silver Lake, the neighborhood where I now live in Los Angeles. If you loved Chronic City, you will like this book.

Lethem's essentially trying to dignify hipsterism. It's a mighty challenge. Almost all of his characters are annoying. They're in a band. People try to connect despite their essentially comfortable states of alienation. Purpose floats in and out of their lives. One of them keeps a kangaroo in his bathtub. The band performs at an event called the Unparty.

The book is save...more
James
This book is not realistic - have you read any Lethem books/stories that are? So forget about realism, or anyway, realism of events. The painful realism for me was in the relationships of the all the improbable people. The main character especially is painful to read because she is such a common type - the serial monogamist who doesn't know what she wants and doesn't realize others are being hurt by her physical movements through her emotional landscape. The awful relationship with the Complaine...more
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Christian Kitchen
Yeah, so I've decided that there's a genre that encompasses fiction occurring primarily in the city of Los Angeles. I'm not sure that I like it, I'm not even sure that the hollowness with which it rings is the hollow tone of LA or the sound of not very well realized fiction.

I've been to LA a couple of times and each time I left, I left with the same sense that this book left me with. Like I'd awakened from some not very interesting dream in which I hung out with a whole bunch of unarticulated p...more
Sarah Norman
This book was pretty much pants.

"Smart, funny and hip . . . I love this book" said the Independent. A publication that clearly needs to smoke a good deal less crack. There were lots of other similar reviews. Many emphasized the books 'coolness,' and my theory is that many of the reviewers were sort of older - like maybe in their fifties. As this is a book clearly written for/about people in their twenties and thirties, the reviewers must just have thought that while the book was blantantly crap,...more
Michaela
I just don't know what to say about this -- was it a modern morality tale? Possibly. Was it successful? Not really. Do I even remember much about this book a few weeks after reading it? No.

Granted, Lethem played fast and loose with the fantastical pre-Motherless Brooklyn. This book seems like it should have come from that period in Lethem's career. Compared to his early work, it hits a lot of the same sweet spots: creativity, sex, etc. Except it rang a little hollow. Then again, was it supposed...more
Naomi
Bits of this book were very clever. I liked the song names and little clever bits of dialogue, and the premise of Falmouth's art project, but the story itself was not that interesting. The protagonist didn't change at all over the course of the book, and sometimes made some choices which didn't seem consistent with anything other than male fantasy. Sex and alcohol made up about 70% of her activities, which gets old after a while. Also, the bit with the radio show seemed to kind of veer away from...more
Noah Soudrette
This is the third of Jonathan Lethem's books that I've read, and while I liked one and loved the other, this was in the end a disappointment. While at first the characters seem to able to carry the meandering plot, they are eventually revealed to be paper thin stand-ins for... something. That's the biggest problem here. I have no idea what Lethem is trying to say. Is he commenting about love? relationships? music? ownership? depth? shallowness? The answer is yes, he's commenting on all of those....more
Caris
And you know what, title? I don’t think I’m going to.


I’ve gone back and forth with myself the past few days trying to determine whether this book was really good or really bad. My initial thoughts (and the ones that were reinforced by reading) pushed me toward the latter. But I was on the fence. So I had a look at what other people said about it.

Almost unanimously, this book is hated by the fine people of Goodreads. 2.72 average stars. For a mainstream author with a kajillion reviews, that’s so...more
Lauren
I thought this would be my kind of novel. From the description it seems like it would be my kind of novel. Everything about it screams my kind of novel. And maybe it is my kind of novel, in theory, but certainly not in execution. The oh-so-tragic characters and their oh-so-tragic lives are stuffed with moody hipster clichés and too-clever-for-their-own-good quips that read more like an aging wannabe trying to prove how "with it" they are than someone who is actually cool. It's like someone rippi...more
Sara Habein
I really enjoy Jonathan Lethem’s work, and I believe that this novel is meant to be satire on love and fledgling rock bands. He has a way with describing things that paint a clear picture, and I do appreciate that he takes an unflinching approach to relationships of all kinds. Still, this didn’t make me like the characters any more. While I certainly know people like those in this book, providing some amusement, those people tend to annoy me. The clothes, the self-inflicted haircuts, grand conve...more
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JONATHAN LETHEM is the author of seven novels. A recipient of the MacArthur Fellowship, Lethem has published his stories and essays in The New Yorker, Harpers, Rolling Stone, Esquire, and the New York Times, among others.
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