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When We Were the Kennedys: A Memoir from Mexico, Maine

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1963, Mexico, Maine. The Wood family is much like its close, Catholic, immigrant neighbors, all dependent on a father's wages from the Oxford Paper Company. Until the sudden death of Dad, when Mum and the four closely connected Wood girls are set adrift. Funny and to-the-bone moving, "When We Were the Kennedys" is the story of how this family saves itself, at first by depe ...more
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Published July 10th 2012 by Mariner Books (first published January 1st 2012)
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Lynn Plourde

#10 It’s the best book I’ve read in YEARS. My husband says the same thing. Agreement like that doesn’t happen very often.

#9 Monica Wood’s initials are M. W. —which surely stand for Master Wordsmith.

#8 The book opens with the sudden death of nine-year-old Monica Wood’s father, and that’s just the start of the trials and tragedies in this memoir. Yet OPTIMISM sings through its pages.

#7 Monica Wood is a fiction writer first an
Barbara A

Each summer for at least the last decade, I've been lucky to have found a way to read a book that takes place, or was written, in Maine. From the beloved "Country of the Pointed Firs" to Justin Cronin's magnificent "The Summer Guest", through Paul Doiron's excellent mysteries, Elizabeth Gilbert's wonderful "Stern Men" ( written before she was THAT Elizabeth Gilbert), the stately, proud "Olive Kitteridge" by Elizabeth Strout, Colby College professor Jennifer Finney Boylan's funny, poignant memoi
Angela M
I'd recommend this beautifully written memoir to anyone but if you grew up in the 60's and remember exactly where you were when you heard that President Kennedy was killed , I would tell you that you just absolutely have to read this book .

Mine was not a Irish Catholic upbringing like Monica's but I was raised in an Italian Catholic family of five children and I was 13 not 10 like Monica was when President Kennedy was killed . I lived during those times of " yes sister " "no sister " in my navy
Diane S.
WHEN I first started reading this book I did not realize how closely I would come to identify with this wonderful family. Irish Catholic, oh yes, salmon loaf on Fridays, we had salmon coquettes in cream sauce which I hate to this day. Much younger siblings, priests, the sisters, Catholic school and a family grieving a Father's early death. Yes, to all of those. How the family handled his death and how they changed in the face of it is the main thrust of the story told with honesty and a great de ...more
I definitely liked this book and it is definitely worth reading.

Its topic is the death of a loved one, seen particularly through the eyes of a young child. Monica, the author, speaks of her father's death when she was nine years old in 1963, the same year Kennedy was assassinated. How did that death impact her own life, her siblings', her mother's and her uncle’s? You follow first the days, then the seven months and finally the two years without Dad – the "Dad-less days". This is touching, but n
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Oct 17, 2013 B the BookAddict rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Everyone
Recommended to B the BookAddict by: Goodreads; excellent reco
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I totally get this gorgeous little book. It reminds me of my own childhood; Catholic, growing up with only sisters, being educated by nuns. And this novel gave me back a saying from those days, “offer it up”: used when things test you beyond all reasonable limits. What a gift!

Told in the guileless voice of young Monica, it's the wonderful recollection of a childhood marred by a loss but no less strong in a family of love, laughter and hope. And this is a loss about to be mirrored in the nation'
This is the best book I've read in a long, long time.

It's wonderful on many levels: the conversational, family-centric tone; the mix of pathos, humor and everyday living; the remembered details (and those that the author only thinks she remembers, as the afterword suggests); the moral underpinnings of life and work, 50 years ago, in a small town in Maine utterly dependent on the paper mill that caused its existence. The author even gives us a wonderful, what-happened-to-everyone epilogue. Becaus
Easily my favorite book of 2012, this exquisite memoir set in a Maine mill town starts out seeming like a deceptively small story — the sad tale of a tragic year (1963-64) in one family's life — but expands chapter by chapter into a profound meditation on time, identity, and faith.
There is no place more personal to me than Mexico, Maine. It's where I grew up and where Monica Wood, author of When We Were the Kennedys: A Memoir from Mexico, Maine, grew up too. Mexico, improbably, is also the focus of the book I am writing, the one I have been working on for seven years. Naturally, I was curious. So I heeded the advice I often give to other authors: one writer's success is every writer's success. Be generous, not jealous. I tore through her book in an afternoon.

Although we a
Poignant memoir about the author’s Irish Catholic family, living in the small town of Mexico, Maine in the early 1960s. Albert Wood, the author’s father, worked as a foreman for the Oxford Paper Company, the major employer in town. One morning on his way to work he suffered a heart attack and died, leaving his wife with two grown children and three younger daughters. Monica was in the fourth grade.

While her mother gives in to grief, Monica seeks ways to cope, from immersion in Nancy Drew books t
Loved it. I grew up on a farm near three small towns in Maine in the same time period -- I was in the 7th grade when JFK was shot. We did not have a paper mill, but the riverside in one town had a tannery and all its associated odors, while in another town was the shoe factory, which had closed by the time I graduated from college. My uncle was a sewer at the shoe factory and he would sometimes be able to get us low cost seconds (what made them seconds was never clear) in time for school to star ...more
Mexico, Maine is my hometown. I am three years younger than this author. Monica Wood was in my brother's class all through school. Reading this memoir was an amazing journey back to childhood for me. The names and places are still alive in my memory. But Monica Wood was able to create a masterpiece out of the childhood I walked through without seeing. Her descriptions of our town were exquisite ... her recollections of her family events profound.

Readers who do not have the experiences of living
The author really is a beautiful writer. One can perfectly conjure an image of the town of Mexico, the time, the architecture, and especially the mill. I do wish the author had really described her characters a little sooner, though, and in some cases more completely. I can imagine it must be very difficult to accurately describe the people to whom one is so close. You can describe their tone of voice or they way they walk, the things that make them *them* to you; but the details that make a "ch ...more
First of all the cover of this book is very misleading, however the book is a great read.
The book has NOTHING to do with the beach or the beaches of Maine.
Anyone familiar with Maine knows that most of the State is not "Vacationland" what so ever, and that is the Maine that this book addresses.
The book is set in the early 60s, in a Maine milltown, when men could support their entire large families on wages from working class jobs.
The story is a true memoir of Monica Wood's experiences.
Growing up
In April of 1963, as novelist Monica Wood was getting ready for another day in fourth grade, the terrible news that her father died suddenly on his way to work forever changes her family. Later in 1963 the Woods family will be joined in mourning s the entire nation is stunned by the assassination of President Kennedy. Forty-nine years later these events will become the heartfelt When We Were the Kennedys: A Memoir from Mexico Maine. Albert Wood, father of two adult children and the surprising th ...more
I will read anything Monica Wood writes. Her prose is nothing short of astounding. This is a memoir of the sudden death of her father in 1963 when Monica is in 4th grade. I liked this and the beat of her family with and without the man is well-told. That said, I wasn't completely riveted. I'm not sure I'm meant to be. It's a quiet kind of memoir. I thought the connection between the Kennedy assassination and her loss (especially as witnessed via her mother) is quite poignant. The mom felt a cert ...more
I love this memoir. I was maybe a little inclined to love it anyway, because I came to the book already liking Monica Wood's writing (and her sense of humor), and it didn't hurt that I live in Maine, and was brought up small-town Catholic.

I like what another reviewer, who knew Wood in school - says "...but Monica Wood was able to create a masterpiece out of the childhood I walked through without seeing." It reminded me of one thing Wood says about her father: "Dad talked about (Prince Edward Is
A candid look at growing up in a time when truths were either sugar coated or ignored, and surviving them. The Catholic angle is not preachy, but an accurate reflection on how life was addressed. The author used a substantial amount of vocabulary that made me grateful for e-reader dictionary (even as a Cradle Catholic with 13+ years of Catholic education and several cousins & friends in the Priesthood, I never heard the term "rabat" for the vest-like article of clerical clothing). However, n ...more
Having been a teenager in the 1960's in the Mexico, Maine area, I found myself reading the book to connect with what might be familiar. This is a memoir of the impact of losing her father as a young child and the background omniprescence of the Oxford Paper Mill -- employer of many in the area. Well written, it brought back memories of places and of the constable, a family friend. I felt a sadness throughout, at least in part from the gap left in their lives by the early death of her father. At ...more
Oh, how I loved this book! Heartwarming and funny and tragic and vivid. I ate it up in a day. Wood gorgeously evokes the many characters and unfathomable events that changed her family's existence--as well as that of her Mexico, Maine community and the entire country--in 1963. This memoir is the bomb.
Katharine Davis
A heart-warming memoir. I loved this book and at the last page I hugged it to me and didn't want to let it go. Beautiful writing and a memorable story!
Regina Spiker
I can't describe what a wonderful feeling this book gave me - whether it's because I too live in a small town that is kept afloat by a nearby paper-mill (New Page to boot) or the sweet childhood camaraderie of the Wood sisters or that many of my childhood friends were Catholic and we grew up in the 60s... A sweet, exceptional memoir written by Monica Wood, "When We Were the Kennedys" is definitely a worthy read.

From the prologue, you will find the pivoting event that all chapters refer to: Monic
Laura Kilmartin
I loved this book.

(I hate those reviews where you have to read between the lines to decide whether the reviewer was a fan or not. I like to start with the important stuff...)

When We Were the Kennedys includes some backstory about the history of Monica Wood's parents, how they came to Mexico, Maine and also some glimpses into the future of each of Monica's siblings and other important members of their family and community. For the most part, though, this is a story of the first year after Monica'
Nancy Kennedy
Monica Wood writes with exuberance and tenderness about her upbringing in the paper mill factory town of Mexico, Maine, in the 1960s.

"Our story, like the mill, hummed in the background of our every hour," she writes, "a tale of quest and hope that resonated similarly in all the songs in all the blocks and houses, in the headlong shouts of all the children at play, in the murmur of all the graces said at all the kitchen tables."

Ms. Wood's idyllic childhood is shattered one day when on his way to
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I had really high expectations for this book to be a lot all at once: a tear jerker, laugh out loud funny, a sort of coming-of-age book all rolled into one. After all, the description makes it sound like this is exactly what it is! While it wasn't as funny as I had hoped, I did find myself consistently wanting to read on to find out what would happen next.
The story is told from middle-sister Monica's perspective. The Wood family
Deborah Carr
I loved When We Were the Kennedys, one of the rare memoirs of a family who knew how to be a family. Despite the tragedy at the beginning of the book (and the author's life), Monica Wood's family clung together through their sadness and other difficulties that followed.
This book had a lulling voice that recreated a world as if it still existed. For a short time I felt like I was in this sweet family, their Catholic school, their humble apartment, their blue collar town. And I hated to leave.
Monica Wood was in fourth grade when President Kennedy died. I was in sixth.
She lost her father at eight; I lost my dad at 18.
The author watched the workers at Oxford Paper company strike. I watched my father strike at General Electric.
Oxford Paper went through a number of acquisitions and is no longer the same company. General Electric in southwest Philadelphia, where 5,000 workers streamed in and out as the whistle blew every day in the 1960s, is no longer there. Leveled.
This is one of a ha
This lovely book quickly became one of my all-time favorite memoirs. Wood's ability to describe childhood experiences rivals Harper Lee's in To Kill a Mockingbird. Although her subject is very sad--the sudden death of her beloved father when she was ten--it is also filled with characters full of love, kindness, and resilience, as well as grief and confusion. It also paints a vivid picture of an industrial town where working in the factory brought pride, unity, and security to families like Wood' ...more
Joanne  Clarke Gunter
This is a very well-written and engaging story about the struggle of the author's family to overcome the sudden and unexpected death of their beloved father. The time is the early 1960's, a simpler and slower time especially in the small town of Mexico, Maine, and this book evokes all the nostalgia for those long ago days of family trips, home-cooked meals around the family table, and a father who unfailingly goes off to work each morning and returns each night to squeals of joy, until he doesn' ...more
I really loved this memoir by Monica Wood set in a small town in Maine. The story reminded me of just how naive, innocent, and insulated children could be in the 60"s before internet and how family was the center of the universe for the Woods family. It is a beautiful story of survival through the toughest of times.

I loved the girls anticipation of Father Bob's weekly visits. I loved the families unquestioning love and devotion to Betty. Monica's description of their trip to Washington DC and N
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Monica Wood is the author of four works of fiction, most recently Any Bitter Thing, which spent 21 weeks on the American Booksellers Association extended bestseller list and was named a Book Sense Top Ten pick. Her other fiction includes Ernie’s Ark and My Only Story, a finalist for the Kate Chopin Award.
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“Maybe he, like Mum, believed God had delivered three extra children, one-two-three, as a sign of His plan for this couple's long, long friendship. But God had also delivered to him the Oxford Paper Company, and the foamy river it sat upon. And the long working hours it required. And the poison it put in the air. Three more girls from God might portend a long married life, but a multi-acre paper mill, with much heat but no heart, could make for still competition if it decided to bestow the opposite.
Maybe it was the work.”
“The packet of fading photos gives it away if you know how to look: always a rundown porch landing and stair rails behind, always a child squinting into strong sunlight and a grim-faced adult skulking in shadow. What must it have been like to grow up in that silence?” 0 likes
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