Son of a Gun: A Memoir
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Son of a Gun: A Memoir

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In the tradition of Tobias Wolff, James Ellroy, and Mary Karr, a stunning memoir of a mother-son relationship that is also the searing, unflinching account of a murder and its aftermath

Tombstone, Arizona, September 2001. Debbie St. Germain’s death in her remote trailer, apparently at the hands of her fifth husband, is a passing curiosity. “A real-life old West murder mys...more
Hardcover, 256 pages
Published August 13th 2013 by Random House (first published January 1st 2013)
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“Son of a Gun” is part true crime and part memoir with more emphasis on the memoir genre since there’s never much doubt about who dun it. It’s also a coming of age book. Justin begins to write the book soon after he loses his mother at age 20 and off and on continues the story until now when (I believe) he’s not quite 30 years old. There is nothing maudlin about this tale though it’s about devastating loss. Justin and his older brother have had little contact with their birth father and...more
"There are no clues left, no mystery to solve. I know what happened. I just don't know why."
When Justin St. Germain was twenty years old, his mother was murdered. Her sudden death left a gaping hole in his life, which he addressed, in some ways, by writing about it. In a nearly decade-long search for closure, he investigates her life: the circumstances that led her to settle in Tombstone, Arizona, the choices that led to her fifth and final husband and ultimately, her violent end. It's clear fr...more
Feb 14, 2013 boekverslaafde rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: abused women, memoir fans,
Formalities first, of course, I received an Advance Readers Copy from a goodreads giveaway.

Son of a Gun by Justin St. Germain is one book I will never forget reading. It's full of incredibly raw emotion, telling the story of Justin's mother's murder. An event that no one should have to live through, but too many do. Not only did Justin suffer by losing his mother to an unforgiving, abusive man, but he relived it, trying to figure out what happened, years after her death, trying to find sense in...more
Anna Mills
I have to start right here and say, "Do not miss this story!" The book is the memoir of Justin St. Germain, a young man who loses his mother to violence. His step father is apparently at fault. He recounts their lives as a family - he, his brother, his mom, and her boyfriends - living in and near Tombstone, Arizona. He intertwines the Tombstone legend and its main player, Wyatt Earp with his own family tragedy. There is an underlying low electrical current that runs throughout and never leaves;...more
First things first: I received this book free from LibraryThing Early Readers in return for this review. This did not effect my review in any way.

This was a hard book to read and a is a hard book to review.

Son of a Gun is the most honest book I can recall reading, which is wonderful, but also uncomfortable. I know people who read a lot of memoir will say that this level of honesty is not uncommon, but it is. Take, for example, The Glass Castle (a book I really liked.) Honest? Sure. But it was i...more
The prose is the kind that pulls you in and won't let go. Like an updated version of Rick Bragg's All Over But the Shoutin', St. Germain dispenses with romantic notions of life in certain parts of America (in this case Out West instead of Down South). People go west to make a new life, to try to erase the past, and so often they find themselves deeply disappointed. And so the dreamscape becomes just the backdrop of their great failure. Their ensuing actions can be desperate, violent.

The story o...more
A well written memoir about the murder of the author's, Justin's, mother. She was apparently killed by her fifth husband and under unknown circumstances. Justin revisits the past to find out what happened. He remembers his mother as a very strong and independent woman, and he wonders what happened to lead her to where she ended up. He has many questions and sets out on a journey to find the answers. He visits a few people from his mother's past to hear their stories. Justin hopes to be able to f...more
This isn't just the story of a murder on the outskirts of Tombstone, Arizona. This memoir celebrates the firm bond between mother and son, questions the role of ephemeral fathers, and complicates the celebrated legend of a shoot-out at the O.K. Corral. With a steady voice that takes careful aim, SON OF A GUN echoes the sound of one strong heartbeat emerging from a tombstone past.
I really enjoyed this memoir. I enjoyed the way he paralleled things in his life to the Old West stories surrounding Tombstone and Wyatt Earp's life. I grew up not far from Dodge City, so I enjoyed how he was able to take parts of his life and show how they played to the larger-than-life stories from the past.

As with so many memoirs that include domestic abuse as a theme, there isn't really a grand happy ending, and not all loose ends are tied neatly. However, St. Germain tells his story and tha...more
Larry Hoffer
In Tombstone, Arizona, near the site of the Gunfight at the O.K. Corral is a plaque commemorating Frank and Tom McLaury, brothers who died in the gun battle. It says, "One owes respect to the living. But to the dead, one owes nothing but the truth."

In September 2001, Justin St. Germain's mother, Debbie, was shot to death in a trailer in Tombstone, apparently by her fifth husband. Debbie, her many relationships, and her murder were fodder for gossip among Tombstone's residents, and her death was...more
Oct 26, 2013 Mum rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: people who liked "A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius."
I was torn by so many parts of the story. I know the author wanted to understand why he was robbed of his mother's presence long before he was ready. He knows only who most likely murdered her, and how. When is iffy. Why is beyond him, and sadly always will be. That people down on their luck are never a priority for the police. Those crimes will remain unsolved and not investigated beyond the simplest solution. I think he had to take a step back to write this bitter, painful truth, because the r...more
Tiffany Myers
First things first: I was a lucky winner of this book in a recent Goodreads giveaway. I am conflicted about this book. While reading, I felt connected to the author (who is also the narrator). The writing itself is quality, and the story is worthy. It was not one of those books, though, that makes me want to stay up until 3am when I have to be up at 6am to go to work the next day, so I can finish it. It took a long time for me to read this book. Each time I picked it up, I fell right back in, bu...more
Nancy Kennedy
Justin St. Germain's mother was murdered when he was a young man. This memoir is his attempt to come to grips with her violent death and more broadly, her life. It's pretty clear from the start who killed her, so this isn't a murder mystery.

Frankly, it's hard to maintain sympathy for the woman, married five times, bent on hooking up with the wrong sort of guy, over and over again. It's more surprising that she lived as long as she did, not than that she died as she did. I am becoming less and le...more
Sam Sattler
Son of a Gun, the new memoir by Justin St. Germain, at first glance appears to be simply a son’s eulogy to his murdered mother. But it is much more than that because of how St. Germain uses his mother’s story to reflect also upon the precarious blue collar struggle so many people face today, one in which one missed paycheck can throw an entire family into the kind of tailspin from which it might take years to recover – if they ever do manage the trick.

Former Army paratrooper Debbie St. Germain...more
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Son of a Gun is an unflinchingly honest memoir as author Justin St. Germain looks back at his mother Debbie's murder by her husband, and goes back to trace her life beforehand, and afterwards. The story of Debbie's life and death is intertwined with Justin's own search for answers, and a little bit of Old West history, while he's at it.

Debbie's life wasn't easy, and she wasn't perfect, but St. Germain never blames her, and in fact expresses anger that pe...more
This is a very well-written book. I found the story engaging and reading was effortless, so I finished it in a day.

As expected, the book was quite sad. The author's mother was murdered by her stepfather and no one will ever no why, although the clues suggest that the murder was probably mostly spontaneous and emotion-driven. From the description of the book I thought it would be about the author's slow search to uncover the "why" of the murder over the course of a decade and ending with him fina...more
This is a gritty, true story of the murder of the writers mother. While the story is told in order and you know who did it early on, you learn over time the journey the author took to get where he is today. The story folds back over time and place but each time with new information and the readers interest is renewed.
Most of the story takes place in Tombstone, AZ with flashes back to the Gun fight at the OK and Wyatt Earp and the time Arizona was in its gun slinging days. Time changes but seems...more
Erin Duffey
My manager used to work with Justin at the newspaper in Arizona when his mother was murdered and she even recalls attending his mother's funeral.

I want to like this. It's an incredible story. And how can you judge someone's memoir? This is THEIR story. He poured his heart out. He investigated. However, I found his writing (perhaps it was the order of events) very disjointed. I had a hard time following when was when, what was where - it was also very hard for me to understand his mother's choice...more
I liked this memoir. It is a bit dark because it mainly explores the murder of Justin's mother. I was hoping for a little lightness now and then, a glimer of happieness somewhere in Justin's future; that was never given.
The relationship men have with their mothers is something that hits home for me - a mom of two young men. Only the superficial seems to be communicated between most guys and their mom. They don't really want to hear more than that. I appreciate that Justin now realizes all that...more
I won this Advanced Readers copy from goodreads and wasn't sure what to expect. This is the true story of the murder of Justin's mother in 2001 in a trailer in a secluded area of Arizona by her husband.

Justin does not sugar coat the life he and his brother had with their mother although, she took very good care of her children and loved them.

This book reflects the anguish and love Justin has for his mother and the yearning to understand Why? I hope this book will help him find the closure and pe...more
Kate Ayers
Memoirs aren't usually my type of reading material, but this one caught my eye. I guess because it's sort of a mystery wrapped inside a true story. The author was only 20 when his mother was murdered. Writing this memoir took a long time, but it was time he needed to work through his anger and self destructive lifestyle following her death. He takes what seems to be an honest look back at how he dealt with the loss, went through the stages of grief and came out the other side. No platitudes, no...more
Wendy Golding
raw, heartfelt story. I feel like I know Justin, he's a real person, like-able and with faults, just like the rest of us. That a child/teenager can grow up in adverse conditions and still be the person he wants to be and continue on the journey to get to a better place is quite inspiring. I would recommend this 'coming of age' story to high school English classes. We can all search for truth in our lives, regardless of the circumstances, and still try and do the best we can, just like Justin did...more
Charlie Smith
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Justin St. Germain's memoir, Son of a Gun, tells a terrible story of lives lived on the margins; there where the promise of the so-called American dream has become a bludgeon with which to control the huddled masses, toiling away, terrified to admit that there is no chance - first or last - that they will ever escape the hovel and the struggle that is their daily existence because the odds are...more
Sarah Phoenix
This is a book about tragedy, about a family with generations of dysfunction and a young man who tries to make sense of it all. I don't think that he ever did. It revolves around the murder of his mother when just after 9/11 and the impact of the dual tragedy.

His mother tried to be a "good" mother, but had no experience on how to do that. Drifting from one relationship to another, the impermanence of her children's existence leads the writer to have no definition of whom he was, where he belong...more
This is the surprisingly good memoir of a man whose mother was murdered by her husband in Tombstone, Arizona and how he comes to grips with and learns to understand his mother's life in the wake of her killing. In what is really a pretty odd, but ultimately successful, bit of storytelling, Justin St. Germain weaves the story of his mother's murder and his family's life in Tombstone with brief biographical snippets of Tombstone's far more famous murders--particularly those committed by and around...more
This memoir is not a whodunnit but a whydunnit. Justin St. Germain tries to make sense of his mother's murder, with the ironic backdrop of his hometown, Tombstone, AZ. Even though the why never really gets answered, Justin's questions and the raw gut honesty of his search for a way out of grief make it a worthwhile exploration. It will resonate for anyone who has ever been impacted by senseless violence and the never ending inner voices that ask, why?
Maureen Stanton
This is a fine memoir, well written overall. The historic story of Tombstone, AZ and the gunfight at the OK coral is lightly woven into the personal story of St. Germain trying to resolve the questions surrounding his mother's murder by her husband (not St. Germain's father). The question is unanswerable; there are no witnesses. The mystery is somewhat compelling but I wished that St. Germain had somehow focused more on who his mother was when alive. She seems like a fascinating person, a strong...more
This is a moving and eloquently told memoir. St Germain's mother was shot to death by her husband, who fled and subsequently committed suicide. St. Germain feels that he has moved on, but when he re-visits his old hometown, where the murder took place, he discovers that he has not yet come to terms with this mother's death.

A story about grief and self-discovery. Highly recommmended.
No one could make this up!!!!! This young boy survived a mother who loved him but somehow couldn't stay with any man for long. He goes through some really rough years and then decides as a young man to try to go back and examine these men and how they affected his life. Would like to know how the rest of his life plays out! Good read!
Amber Mcquerrey
I opened this book the day I got it and couldn't put it down. Best book I've ever read and I'm still trying to catch my breath. This brave, honest and absolutely heartbreaking memoir is among the few things that have come along in my life that will stay with me forever.
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