Stumbling on Happiness

by Daniel Gilbert
Stumbling on Happiness  
published 2006 by Knopf
first published 2007
binding Hardcover
isbn 1400042666   (isbn13: 9781400042661)
pages 304
description Do you know what makes you happy? Daniel Gilbert would bet that you think you do, but you are most likely wrong. In his witty and engaging new ...more
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Alana
05/29/08

bookshelves: 2008may, reviewed
Read in May, 2008
recommended to Alana by: Angela
I was given this book by a friend who likened the style to Alain de Botton. While I don't agree with the comparison, I can understand that the genre bears certain similarities -- a nonfiction book with meandering tone, musing on a single topic -- but because this is primarily about psychology and the way we make decisions, I wouldn't really put these on the same shelf.
That being said, this was an interesting read... although I've been "currently-reading" this in bits for about a y...more
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Maggie
08/20/08

"No one likes to be criticized, of course, but if the things we successfully strive for do not make our future selves happy, or if the things we unsuccessfully avoid do, then it seems reasonable (if somewhat ungracious) for them to cast a disparaging glance backward and wonder what the hell we were thinking."

"This is when I learned that mistakes are interesting and began planning a life that contained several of them."

"Surprise tells us that we were expecting som...more
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Foster
10/12/07

Read in June, 2007
I just finished Daniel Gilbert’s new book, and it’s highly recommended. Next time in Cambridge, I’ll be asking him to join me at Grafton Street for a Guinness (you’ll get this if you read the book).

He uses one of the most humorous and accessible non-fiction, science-related writing styles to explain a whole genre of psychological, psychiatric, and philosophical research. His basic message is that we are crap at remembering our past happiness, and also terrible at making decisions tha...more
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DJ
DJ rated it: 2 of 5 stars2 of 5 stars2 of 5 stars2 of 5 stars2 of 5 stars
08/23/07

bookshelves: great-ideas
Read in August, 2007
recommends it for: anyone with a budding interest in psychology
Gilbert points out that our minds are constantly unconsciously predicting the immediate future. Our skill at this effort is what allows us to read so quickly. However, when we try to predict anything beyond the immediate future, we fail miserably.

Gilbert's main point is that we are a bad judge of the past and present. Our memory and foresight are imperfect at best. When prodding the past and feature, our brain tends to focus on too few details. We choose a few main details and extra...more
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kareem
05/01/08

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Caitlin
bookshelves: american, psychology
Read in April, 2007
recommends it for: anyone except most moralists and libertarians... so... none of my friends. ;b
April 2007, first impression: So far, this book is witty, eye-opening and really fun. Also really well researched. He references Daniel C. Dennett in the first five pages, so how could I not love it?

May 2007, upon completion: Update...

Ultimately, I decided to give this book three stars because I believe that it is a ballsy and well-executed attempt to take on an impossibly difficult problem (happiness - that's a biggie). For the most part, I admire Gilbert's methods, though they ALL bec...more
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Guy
05/13/08

bookshelves: socsci
Read in May, 2008
First thing you need to know about this book: it's cognitive psychology, not self-help. To Gilbert's credit, he states this clearly early on... but by then, for many purchasers, it will be too late, since the cover fairly shouts "Self-Help!!".

So, to be clear: "Stumbling on Happiness" won't do much to help you be happy, but it will help you understand some of the many reasons as to why, despite our best efforts, we so often fail to be so.

But only some of the reasons,...more
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Eric
12/03/07

bookshelves: psychology-popular, psychology-science
Has a copy to sell/swap — Read in August, 2006
recommends it for: anyone
The author Dan Gilbert, is a gifted teacher and professor of social psychology at Harvard. This book is an overview of his research on affective forecasting, which examines what and how people think about their own emotions. This line of research began with the question of how accurate are people at predicting how they will respond emotionally to a variety of experiences. Not very well, it turns out. This led to an examination of the factors that lead to these fascinating mistakes that we all...more
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David
06/21/08

bookshelves: audiobooks, read-in-2008
Thus begins my adventure in audiobooks. I have never "read" an audiobook, and I've decided to start listening to them in order to "up my medication" you might say. This way I will at least double the amount of information that I present to myself and potentially learn more and enjoy more than I would have while just reading print. I think what I might start doing is listening to nonfiction audiobooks so that I can spend more time reading literature. But we'll see where this t...more
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Chris
Interesting, but not what I imagined: This book was engagingly and wittily written and presented a thesis on how bad we are at predicting how happy we will be and remembering how happy we once were. The author presents lots of studies (and anecdotes, too) to back up this thesis, providing lots of food for thought. I learned a lot about how our brain processes things, from perception to memory to imagination. I was also amazed at how much research is done in this area! <br /> <br />As...more
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Carole
01/29/08

I picked up this book partly because of the tag line from Steven D. Levitt, author of Freakonomics : "This absolutely fantastic book will shatter your most deeply held convictions about how the mind works."

"Cool!" I thought to myself, "I love it when my most deeply held convictions are shattered." But unfortunately, a lot of the convictions he shatters here had already been shattered for me when I read The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz. He si...more
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Jafar
09/15/07

As someone who believes that happiness is a near impossibility (in addition to being overrated) I knew that the book wouldn’t come as a big surprise. Gilbert mixes psychology and cognitive sciences to show us how our brains interpolate, extrapolate, rationalize, cook up some facts and forget others, and do all sort of other tricks to put us on a never-ending and often misleading track called pursuit of happiness, while making us believe that we know what happiness is and how to reach it...more
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Danielle
bookshelves: just-read-it-
Read in April, 2008
recommended to Danielle by: Browser Book selection
recommends it for: social science nerds, couch psychologists
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Sarah
08/22/07

Read in August, 2007
recommends it for: people "curious about the human condition"
If you have read any of my other reviews, you can anticipate my first objection: THE WRITING REALLY SUCKED. This is a guy who thought that putting multiple lists into one sentence, every sentence is the best way to make a point. For example: "This is why boys, men, fathers, brothers and sons, like things like sports, hunting, tv, fishing and feather boas." And he would stick in the unexpected "feather boas"...not sure why....to keep things interesting???? You can't fault...more
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Matt
06/27/08

Read in June, 2008
Stumbling on Happiness spends a little time analyzing what makes people happy and why they try to make themselves that way. Mostly, however, it's about people's ability to accurately forecast whether some future event, item, treat, action, etc. will bring them pleasure. Or, rather, their inability to do it. In fact, the "Stumbling on" might be interpreted as "Tripping over" as much as "Happening upon".

I thought it was a pretty interesting discussion about how...more
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Bill
01/09/08

bookshelves: reality
Read in April, 2007
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Geoff
01/22/08

Has a copy to sell/swap — Read in June, 2007
recommends it for: the Tipping Point crowd
Highly entertaining. Since we all made fun of psychology majors in college, I think we tend to underestimate how clever and amusing psychology experiments can be.

This book is by an established Harvard psych professor who has synthesized his field down to a brisk series of rapid-fire experiments and anecdotes that quickly convince the reader that:

1) You think you remember what made you happy in the