Diana in Search of Herself: Portrait of a Troubled Princess

Diana in Search of Herself: Portrait of a Troubled Princess

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Diana in Search of Herself is the first authoritative biography of one of the most fabled women of the century. Even those who knew Princess Diana will be surprised by author Sally Bedell Smith's insightful and haunting portrait of Diana's inner life.

For all that has been written about Diana--the books, the commemorative magazines, the thousands of newspaper articles--we h...more
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Published August 15th 2012 by Random House Trade Paperbacks
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Tom
This book provides a perceptive, no-flinching look at a young woman who apparently had little purpose in life except to project an image and be a celebrity. The highly detailed and well documented chronological survey reveals all of her psychological weaknesses that were hidden or glossed over by the British newspapers. Smith pours forth the evidence that Diana Spencer had a borderline psychotic personality, perhaps permanently damaged when her own mother deserted the family when Diana was 6. Sm...more
Nancy
With 100 pages of notes, bibliography, and index at the end, the book was obviously well researched. Although the author was not without her own opinions, I thought she presented Diana and the various people in her life fairly evenhandedly, with equal praise for their virtues and criticism for their flaws.

The author's suggestion that Diana suffered from borderline personality disorder seems plausible. After reading this account, I have no doubt that the princess was extremely difficult to deal w...more
Eileen Granfors
This book was suggested in "Girl in Need of a Tourniquet." I like it when one book leads me to another whether it's the author's next book ("Finn" to "Kings of the Earth" or "Girl Interrupted" to "Girl. . .Tourniquet" to "Diana. .. in Search of Herself."

I try to stay away from celebrity exposes and rip-offs. Sally Bedell Smith looks at Diana from Diana's traits as a borderline. Her public persona versus her private self and that constant wearing of and wearing down of the mask gave me a new look...more
KOMET
Reading this book made me realize that, as much as I admired and adored Princess Diana, how little I knew about the real Princess of Wales.

No matter all the press I read about Diana during her lifetime, this book --- which is replete with quotes and attributions from many of Diana's friends, detractors, and associates whom the author interviewed --- has brought home to me how deeply troubled and conflicted Diana was about herself and her relationship to the world around her. Yet, in spite of al...more
Fredsky
A boring book about Princess Diana! Thick with quotes that skew the narrative, disorganized, wordy, self-importance oozing from the author... I really hated it. Borderline personalities are interesting, aren't they? (Until the thrill is gone) But Sally Bedell Smith is such a serious journalist that all drama, all interest is beaten to a pulp. I'd rather watch a video loop of a woman in cowboy boots jumping on broken glass for an hour than try to read this book straight through to the end. This b...more
Verna
This is the most comprehensive look at Diana, Princess of Wales, that I have read yet. It gives a more complete picture of her early life and what happened to her when she married into the royal family. It is obvious Diana had a lot of issues going on in her mental/emotional life. One gets the sense of a little girl abandoned early on by everyone in her immediate family. I don't think she got over this fact, she was too vulnerable and sensitive as a result. I think the author's perception of her...more
Dale Stonehouse
This was a tough one to get through, perhaps because of the difficulty with which the princess approached life and her world. The premise that Diana suffered from borderline personality disorder is probably accurate; it would have been nice to read a bit more about the positive side of that affliction. The book did give a clear picture of how she dealt (poorly) with her fear of abandonment, which is really the only causal factor in BPD; everything else stems from it. It also demonstrated the deg...more
Mary Ann
I have this waiting to be read. I wasn't too keen on another tired encomium to Diana, but after reading Bedell Smith's books on Queen Elizabeth II, the Clintons, and the Kennedys, I'll give it a go. 10/14/2012 I was never a "Diana-watcher" and read most about her after she died. Much of what I read either praised her as an almost-saint or decried her as a traitor to the royal family and/or an unstable homewrecker. This bio is objective and thoughtful and gives the reader some insight into the ma...more
Michelle Bouchor
This is probably my favorite book about Princess Diana. (And I think I've read almost all of them.) Most of the books are pretty one sided or acts as if Princess Diana was a saint. This was much more objective and shows the reader that even though she was a beautiful, caring person, she also had a lot of emotional problems. Some of them were probably due to her parents' divorce and others were from her husband and the royal family. At any rate, it was good to see that while she wasn't perfect in...more
Sandra
Apr 30, 2008 Sandra rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Sandra by: myself
In some point, Diana's life wasn't easy. She had a lot of stress, with photographers all around her, being a queen, not being beloved for her husband, wanting other man, caring for people. Living in sadness because she wasn't close to the one that she really loved. Crying because she not always had the "normal life" that she wanted, dreamed about.
Having no good life at all, this did not prevent her to love her children. William and Harry were her best treasure life could give her. She tried to b...more
Taylor
Largely focused on proving a theory of Borderline Personality Disorder (and very in-depth and well-researched on that angle), to the almost complete exclusion of other aspects of Diana's life. Her relationship with her children is rarely discussed, and it felt incomplete in parts. But overall, a disturbing, fascinating read.
Ann Clay
Very biased in favor of Charles. Makes Diana look like she was so mentally ill she was completely mad. Too extreme, in my view. Totally absent is what kind of a husband Charles was, how he was incapable of having a modern marriage. Clearly Diana had her problems, but I doubt anyone save Camilla could stand being married to the PoW.
Karen
Seems to be a pretty fair analysis & extensive research on the part of the author. Brings much understanding of the interpersonal and intrapersonal dynamics of the individuals involved in her life. Enjoying the read!
Chrisi McGlone
I would not read this book unless you are very emotionally strong, very depressing.
Sharon
I have no excuse. I read it, nothing new.
Emily
Jul 29, 2011 Emily marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
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Angela
3.5 stars. I never knew she had so much going on emotionally. This was a really in depth look into Princess Di's life. Very interesting.
Jill
I read this not because of a vested interest in Princess Diana, but to learn more about borderline personality disorder. This made for a more compelling read than I'd anticipated.
Robin
Wow. What an actress Diana was.

An insightful look at the possible psychological undercurrents of the personality of the Princess of Wales.

I have changed my mind about her -- again.
Melissa
Jan 03, 2008 Melissa rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: anyone who likes to read about the royals
This book allows us an inside look at Diana, Princess of Wales, her childhood, how she met and was courted by Prince Charles, her relationships with her sons, relationships after Charles. A wonderful look at a princess who was all too real and taken us from us much too soon.
Jacquie
Became repetitive in thought. Definitely a different take on the Diana situation.
Angela
May 13, 2013 Angela marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
Emma
May 05, 2013 Emma marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
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