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Farkas az asztalnál

3.7  ·  Rating Details ·  22,523 Ratings  ·  1,811 Reviews
Gyermekkorában Augusten Burroughs számára az apja csak egy árny volt: egy alak a lépcső tetején, egy köhintés a földszintről, egy némán cigarettázó figura a sötétben. Ahogy Augusten idősebb lett, úgy bontakozott ki előtte apjának sötét és fenyegető személyisége. Valami gonosz, titokzatos, megnevezhetetlen borzalom. Egyik szörnyű csalódás követte a másikat, és Augusten gyer ...more
224 pages
Published 2008 by Kelly
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Jul 30, 2014 tee rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: gave-away
Burroughs is dramatic. He's a ranting, raving, immensely creative drama queen. Unfortunately his drama queen antics were too overboard this time around with way too many "could have" "maybe he..." "i think he could have"s. Sandwich this with his writing being an awkward combination of sufficiently good and cringeworthy and you have a headache on your hands. The bright! he stared at the bright! when he was a year and a half old. Gah, save me.

It goes without saying that I think abuse of children i
Dec 19, 2010 Betsy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, 2008-read-in
CAVEAT: This book is potentially triggering for survivors of physical, emotional, and/or sexual abuse, as well as animal lovers.

I heard Augusten Burroughs said, and I paraphrase, that Running with Scissors was a joyous romp compared with this book. Now that I have read it, I understand why. Running with Scissors does seem like a collection of insouciant anecdotes juxtaposed with the raw, unpolished emotionality that Burroughs unfurls in this narrative.

I've read doubts from others about what in
Mar 19, 2016 Lyn rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Sad, pitiful, disturbing but ultimately redemptive.

Augusten Burroughs’, born Christopher Robison, 2008 autobiographical work A Wolf at the Table describes his difficult childhood with this parents and his older brother. To say that the Robison’s were dysfunctional is like saying Neil Peart of Rush is a drummer. The action in this novel takes place when Augusten in younger and mostly precedes the action in his 2002 novel Running with Scissors.

Mostly about the caustic and troubled relationship bet
Will N Van
Jul 06, 2008 Will N Van rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition

Augusten Burroughs is one of my favorite contemporary authors, and it has always puzzled me a bit regarding the debate as to whether or not the events in "Running With Scissors," and now "A Wolf at the Table," are ultimately word for word truth. Given the corroboration from his older brother who has written his own memoir, I would have to say that there is a good chance that much of what Burroughs writes is based on his actual experiences. I suppose if I were a character mentioned by him and fel
Apr 15, 2008 Melissa rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I had to stop reading this because I was so infuriated by the first chapter. I'm sorry, but there is NO WAY Augusten Burroughs remembers looking at the mobile above his bed when he was not even a year old (and in such detail!), or what the bottle tasted like at that age (or being sad when it was taken out of his mouth!), or that he was thinking the moment his friend got lost at the seaside ("I just assumed he'd never return"... what toddler thinks like that?). After "Running With Scissors," I'm ...more
Jan Kendrick

This is a tough one... A tough review to write, a tough book to read.

Normally I like Burroughs' books, but I am truly torn over this one.

Things I liked: The description, the imagery. I truly FELT (not just UNDERSTOOD) what he was writing. I also liked the way the book flowed. It was chronological for the most part, which made sense, but it wasn't rigid. It wasn't a day-by-day diary of his life. That would've been too much. Finally, I liked the threads he wove throughout the book: his father
K.D. Absolutely
Jun 29, 2011 K.D. Absolutely rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoirs, gay-lit
Early this year, I read Augusten Burrough’s bestselling memoir about his dysfunctional family in Running With Scissors (2002). It covers the time that Burroughs spent living in the home of his mother’s therapist. I was enjoying it (after all, Augusten Burroughs ranks #15 in the Top 25 Funniest People in America according to a magazine's survey) until it came to that detailed oral sex scene between him and the other male character towards the end of the book. That threw me off not because I am sq ...more
Anita Dalton
Oct 12, 2010 Anita Dalton rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: books-we-own
I think this is a fine book but I have no idea if you should read it or not. If you don’t know what I know, maybe it won’t be worth it to you. Because I think, at its heart, this is less a memoir for me than a book of kinship, a description of what it is like to be small and terrified, held in thrall to a mentally ill and at times despicable parent, to never feel peace, to watch creatures you love die (or in my case disappear entirely without a trace) and have nothing you can do about any of it. ...more
May 02, 2008 Paul rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I like Augusten. In this post-Frey Scandal world, it seems anyone who writes memoir has suddenly become suspect and frankly, I resent it. No one ever screamed FRAUD at Truman Capote for fictionalizing his past – well, at least not to his face, I’d imagine. Anyway, much has been made of the fact that the quirky humor that has kind of defined his style thus far is missing from this book (and make no mistake: it is) but then the subject at hand, viz., his alcoholic and possibly psychotic father, do ...more
Aug 01, 2008 Christine rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Some of the "Average Joe" negative reviews of A Wolf at the Table that I've read online complain that author Augusten Burroughs' "didn't really know what it was like to be abused" or that Burroughs' mental anguish in the hands of his father's quasi-psychotic unpredictability "was boring, same day in day out" or that "it wasn't funny." Wow. What a bunch of self-centered, whiny turds.

A Wolf at The Table is what it is - a simple memoir of a son who spends a lifetime searching for the love of his fa
Jason Pettus
Aug 12, 2008 Jason Pettus rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
(Today's review is much longer than Goodreads' word-count limitations. Find the entire essay at the Chicago Center for Literature and Photography []. I am the original author of this essay, as well as the owner of CCLaP; it is not being reprinted here illegally.)

I've mentioned here regularly the entire idea of there being an "underground-arts canon;" that is, that just like the academic community, what we call the modern cutting-edge arts has now been around long enough (arguably
Dec 28, 2008 Luke rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
If you've read and enjoyed Burroughs' 'Running With Scissors' then there's really no excuse for not reading 'A Wolf at the Table' - purely because it provides the other half of the story.

Let me clarify. While Burroughs' earlier memoir revealed what a uniquely torturous childhood he'd had, it also presented it in a very John Irving kind of way - horrible, yet camp and darkly fabulous. There were, amongst the freaky parenting and bizarre psychotherapy (wankroom, anyone?) moments of happiness there
May 31, 2008 malic rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoir, queer-stories
this book is terrifying. it's about a little boy who longs for love from his father, who in return psychologically terrorizes him.

This is Burroughs' third full-length memoir, and it takes place mostly before the time Running With Scissors was written about, with a couple of stories that take place in his adulthood. However, I think I would still recommend reading his books in order of when he wrote them.

A Wolf starts with a melodramatic tone, and then Burroughs jumps into his memories of being
May 12, 2008 Cat rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
god, it almost pains me to leave augusten burroughs a shoddy review but im sorry, this book bored me to death.

one of the things i most admire and apriceiate about A.B. is his outstanding humor and wit despite the traumatic events that have shaped his life. this book lacked the humor.

and when you take away the humor, you are left with a husk. a husk filled with crap.

another thing that really drove me mad, were all the seeming contradictions that i am left from all the other books hes written. in
Aug 12, 2008 Kristen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2008
I read Running With Scissors and was alternately horrified and fascinated with the author's life. I read Scissors with a weird detachment, viewing it instead as a fictional memoir, because it was too difficult to read, imagining that what he described actually happened to him.

But, I did enjoy his writing style, the wit, and his sense of humor. I wouldn't describe his books as "funny" but there is a certain dark biting humor to them.

I started out reading this book, already mentally prepared, hav
May 18, 2008 John rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is my brother's newest book, a dark story about our late father
Nov 23, 2008 Terry rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: non-fiction, memoir
I do like Burroughs; I like his essays rather than his sustained writing. I feel like I'm the only one in America who didn't like Running With Scissors. This book...hmm. It's very frightening, and Burroughs as ever is compulsively readable. Yet I was occasionally confused; the jacket copy refers ominously to "the games", but that reference only appears once near the very end of the book and it's never clear what it means, exactly. This, linked with a scene in which Burroughs wakes up in the midd ...more
Spider the Doof Warrior
This book is rather poetic. Augusten Burroughs has not had the healthiest family and childhood in the world. It's interesting to read about people's less than ideal childhoods. It has the effect of making me feel a bit hopeful. As if people can somehow be successful and eventually whole despite all of that.

But man, Augusten's father frustrated me. Books about dysfunctional childhoods are also very depression and stressful. Like all Augusten wanted was some affection but he didn't get it. But his
Jeanette  "Astute Crabbist"
Burroughs tells the story of his relationship with his father up until early adolescence, at which point his parents divorced. This is sort of loosely written, not exactly chronological, but that's to be expected with childhood memories. It's easy to read and moves quickly. If you look at it from the perspective of a child, it's really sad. It must have been so hard to always live with no sense of certainty or safety. He kept trying so hard to get his father to notice him and show approval, even ...more
Sep 21, 2016 Marko rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
The reviews for this book are quite diverse.

You have the nice ones and you have the bad ones, that range from 'oh how dramatic' to 'oh how boring' to non sequiturs like 'how can a kid be so eloquent'. I've seen this before. When it comes to children in pain (or people in intense pain), some have the tendency to raise their guard up and become ignorant and stupid.

Like, when people started accusing Hanya Yanagihara's novel A Little Life for being hyper-realistic and then, several weeks after, HON
Apr 28, 2015 Carmen rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: People who like gothic horror
There is no laughter in this book.

Chronologically set before Burroughs renowned RUNNING WITH SCISSORS, this book chronicles his years 0-12, living with his two mentally ill parents.

This book focuses on his father, and is very successful in creating a dark, gothic atmosphere. Living in a house in the forest, Burroughs's father is a threatening figure who smiles wrong, and wields an axe. Living in terror of him, Burroughs and his mother walk on eggshells, never knowing when he's going to snap and
Sharon Putman
Jul 17, 2008 Sharon Putman rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
“I knew I had an ugly life. I knew I was lonely and I was scared. I thought something might be wrong with my father, wrong in the worst possible way. I believed he might contain a pathology of the mind -- an emptiness -- a knocking hollow where his soul should have been. But I also knew that one day, I would grow up. One day, I would be twenty, or thirty, or forty, even fifty and sixty and seventy and eighty and maybe even one hundred years old. And all those years were mine, they belonged to no ...more
Jan 07, 2009 Anne rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Several years ago, I read Augusten Burroughs's memoir Running with Scissors (later turned into a movie). I found it disturbing that he had so much abuse and tragedy in his life, but he seemed intent on minimizing it and just trying to get a laugh. Reviews of the book hailed it as hilarious, and given that it was supposedly true, I found the whole thing profoundly sad. Since then, I have been reluctant to read his other books, but something moved me the other day and I picked this one up. A Wolf ...more
Jul 31, 2008 Anastasia rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: sandra, pamela
What a sad little book. Burroughs' descriptions of trying so hard to get his father's love and attention just broke my heart. I read this in a few hours, but it made me very curious about the rest of his family-- his mother and brother are both authors, too.

I think anyone who is a parent might find this book interesting. Burroughs does a great job of reminding us how even very, very young children feel. His retelling of his childhood feelings about his parents made me ponder how my son will ulti
Kelly McCoy
Feb 22, 2015 Kelly McCoy rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: memoirs
This is a really hard book to rate and review. Augusten Burroughs definitely has a story to tell, but the narrative drags the book down. It starts with Augusten remembering life as a one year old, and even if he really does remember being that young I didn’t see what it added to the story. I kept thinking the book was just off to a slow start, but it never really gets going. Of course I feel something for Burroughs, he was abused as a child. His mother was emotionally unstable, his father spent ...more
Aug 06, 2013 Antoine rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Beautiful and painfully written. Augusten Burroughs tells a dark and twisted recollection of his childhood... As he experienced it. This book is for anyone who ever longed for the acceptance of a parent. Moved me to tears.
♥Laddie♥ (Lee Lee)
I know that a lot of people were disappointed in this book after Running With Scissors. Strangely enough, I liked this better than Running With Scissors.

This is basically the story of Burroughs' relationship with his father. It's a relationship that was a quiet horror. Mind games are a terrible thing no matter how old you are but when you're a child everything seems ten times worse. I think that's why this book disturbed me much more than Burroughs' tale of his relationship with his mother.

I r
Aug 16, 2008 Lisa rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audiobooks
07/08 Much darker, without the humorous asides. Listening to Augusten read is a little like watching a performance art piece. His speech is very deliberate and slow; at first annoying, I think I can settle into this well. Poignant childhood memories so far.

08/08 Stunning! I am so glad that I listened to this on audiobook rather than reading it. It is compelling, utterly moving, and miraculous. Only afterwards, in a short interview on the final CD did I learn that Augusten's vision for the audio
Aug 02, 2008 Cindy rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: prisoners on death row - should cheer them up!
Shelves: memoir
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May 13, 2008 Malbadeen marked it as books-ill-never-read  ·  review of another edition
I recently shared my distaste for Burroughs writing with someone that thinks highly of him. She insisted that if I heard him speak in person my opinion would be diferent. while I'm not willing to pay 27.00 to hear him speak this month, I did listent to this interview:

and now not only am I further convinced that his writing is self indulgent, rambalings; insulting in their pointedness but I also think he is:


and while I feel bad that h
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Augusten Burroughs born Christopher Robison, son of poet and writer Margaret Robison and younger brother of John Elder Robison.

Burroughs has no formal education beyond elementary school. A very successful advertising copywriter for over seventeen years, he was also an alcoholic who nearly drank himself to death in 1999. But spurned by a compulsion he did not understand, Burroughs began to write a
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