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  <title><![CDATA[Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette, 5e (Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette)]]></title>
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  <default_description>What makes a perfect wedding? &quot;[The bride] and the groom both look as though there were sunlight behind their eyes, as though their mouths irresistibly turned to smiles,&quot; wrote Emily Post in 1922's &lt;I&gt;Etiquette&lt;/I&gt;. Great-granddaughter-in-law Peggy Post, author of the fourth edition of &lt;I&gt;Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette&lt;/I&gt;, absolutely agrees with Miss Emily. To ensure those bright eyes and smiles, she imparts thoughtful and commonsensical advice on how to plan for not just your wedding, but for all the social and familial obligations and traditions that a wedding entails.&lt;p&gt; Unlike many wedding manuals, Post includes advice for the &quot;encore&quot; bride as well as for the new bride. In this day of remarriages and blended families, tact and strategy are often needed to make sure feelings aren't hurt and everything runs as smoothly as possible. A chapter on multicultural and interfaith marriages addresses differing world traditions and how they can be incorporated into a touching ceremony that makes both the couple and their families happy. If you are unsure of who is supposed to do what, Post gives you clear instruction, often including a flow chart that delineates the responsibilities of all people involved in the wedding party (bride's parents throw the engagement party, best man returns the tuxes, flower girl's family pays for her outfit).&lt;p&gt; Throughout &lt;I&gt;Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette&lt;/I&gt; are sidebars with questions asked of Post regarding an amazing array of wedding-related conundrums (&quot;My daughter's fianc&#233; wants to follow his family's tradition of having a money tree at the wedding. I personally find this distasteful; can I say so?&quot;). This is a great book to find the answers for all those sticky questions. All involved in the wedding process should leaf through, get their bearings, smile, and then forge ahead. &lt;I&gt;--Dana Van Nest&lt;/I&gt; </default_description>
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  <read_at>Mon Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The wedding etiquette authority.  There was not one question I had that wasn't answered by this book.  Don't waste your time and money on anything else.  BTW, the seperate Emily Post wedding planner was useless for me, because I used a spreadsheet instead for my wedding budget.]]></body>
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  <date_added>Sat Dec 08 16:21:00 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue May 06 23:05:32 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I borrowed this from the library the first time, and found a limited amount of useful information.  The second time, I borrowed it looking for some very specific information about how invitations should be addressed to couples living together-on one line or two, and guest, etc?  Would you think that...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10153923">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Dec 13 16:45:18 -0800 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat Dec 13 16:45:18 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm not so much reading it and referring to it from time to time. :)]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 17 20:15:13 -0800 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Nov 13 19:21:02 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Nov 17 20:14:34 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I liked this etequette book. It was tactful but not close minded. It took different cultures, races, budgets, and family structures into consideration. The only downside was that because this edition is a little older some things were slightly outdated (very slightly). There is a 5th Edition out now...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/9081921">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Nov 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A helpful &quot;reference textbook&quot; for all of those logistical questions came up re: wedding etiquette.  A particularly good resource when you're trying to figure out how to formally address wedding invitations.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[...so not really.  I just wanted to see if Adam would leave a comment.<br/><br/>i don't think that they have any advice for what to do if one of the dogs in your wedding drops down for a mid-aisle crotch-lick anyway.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Jun 03 13:36:40 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't care what you say, Viola.  This woman knows what she is talking about and we will follow her every instruction to the letter.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A must-read for anyone planning a wedding or attending one. ]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Dec 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Great if you are planning a wedding!]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very helpful]]></body>
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