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    <body><![CDATA[First off, I must say that this book has been EXPERTLY titled.  If I had a nickel every time my mother asked me...<br/>This book contained several clever observations and helpful insights, perhaps the most helpful being the simple fact that I am NOT the only daughter out there who was occasionally ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/5101969">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is an insightful look into how mothers and daughters talk to each other, written by an expert in sociolinguistics. The complex mother-daughter relationship can make our conversations at times wonderful but at other times the ones we most dread. Drawing on the author's own research, the book is ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54359709">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Tannen was a must-read for interpersonal communication classes and is most noted for her research on the differences between male and female communication styles.  Aside from obvious issues with mother-daughter communication, there were some surprisingly fresh ideas that she delved into.  Good.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book intriguing and it made me evaluate the conversations I have had with my mother and my two daughters that began fine but ended in arguments. I have always used the mantra that &quot;perception is reality&quot; and this book shows that. The meta talking that Tannen refers to makes se...]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I agree with Dr. Tannen when she states that this is the mother of all relationships. This book nicely sums up important communication, psychotherapy, and emotionally focused theory.  She humorously and gently makes her points with poignant family stories and anecdotes.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The title captures the misunderstandings that can cause conflict between mothers and daughters. Dr. Tannen collects the most amazing exchanges and seeks healing for all. Communication and relationships remain challenges.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A pretty good review of how mothers and daughters communicate.  (Only the title is pointed via Mother TO daughter and my daughter was much more likely to say that to me than I was to her!&lt;smile&gt;).  I did enjoy the read.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this book on the recommendation of a writing teacher.  Tannen's explanation and description of conversation between mothers and daughters was illuminating.  The only problems I had with the book is one that I've heard about all her writing and research.  <br/><br/>The families Tannen discus...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10065361">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Insightful discussion about mother-daughter relationships and how the the things we say aren't always perceived the way we mean them.]]></body>
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