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All This Talk of Love

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It’s been fifty years since Antonio Grasso married Maddalena and brought her to America. That was the last time she would ever see her parents, her sisters and brothers—everything she knew and loved in the village of Santa Cecilia, Italy. She locked those memories away, as if Santa Cecilia stopped existing the very day she left. Now, with children and grandchildren of her...more
Paperback, 352 pages
Published February 5th 2013 by Algonquin Books
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Full disclosure: I'm a friend of Christopher's, though despite our once attending a second-tier university we both have fabulous careers now; mine consists of critiquing literature professionally, so if I didn't like my friend's book, I wouldn't include it on my Goodreads list.

I loved A Kiss from Maddalena and liked The Saint of Lost Things, but All This Talk of Love is even better. It was a tough assignment, talking of love without getting sentimental, but this book manages to pull it off, show...more
I am someone who sticks bits of paper in pages as I read so I can go back and reread passages, possibly to record words or ideas at the end. While reading “All This Talk of Love,” I could not stop to rip up my scraps of paper; that would have been too much of an interruption.

The opening pages, my introduction to the Grasso family, pulled me right into the mother and father’s corner, Maddalena and Antonio. A mother who speaks to her son in graduate school in Boston every night at 11:01 about thei...more
While I was glad to get back to the Grasso family, this is a very sad book, and I felt a bit cheated having missed out on the past 40 or so years of their lives. So much has happened since The Saint of Lost Things -- life, death, people have grown up and changed. But Maddalena has never been able to quite heal the wounds that come from being taken from her beloved family and Italian village and there is never any certainty that she truly loves Antonio the way she once loved, in Italy. Antonio ta...more
Karen Blinn
Although this book has received glowing reviews in the critical review magazines read by librarians, I found it somewhat of a letdown. It chronicles the story of a married couple who came to the States from Italy and their first-generation American children. Antonio Grasso married Maddalena after he returned to Italy and viewed the available daughters from her family. She left the love of her life behind in Italy to move to America with him. She cut off all contact with her family back in Italy...more
Julie Whelan
Castellani has a wonderfully warm and sensitive way of characterizing older people. This quality really made this book shine for me. I will always remember the older couple, Antonio and Magdellena, and their final trip to their hometown in Italy. I wished this part of the story happened earlier in the book and lasted longer. At times the beginning of the book was a bit choppy and hard to follow.The younger characters, Frankie a graduate student; Birch, his sex crazed, uncaring and unethical advi...more
Debbie Maskus
This is an interesting book that delves into the psyche of a few of the main characters. I especially like the musings of Antonio Grasso and his feeling for his wife of 50 years. His constant acts of love for her, when all she thinks about is an old love from Italy, are amazing. Antonio fell in love with Maddalena the first time he saw her, and that love never falters. I did not like the younger son, Frankie. He is a weak and dependent individual. The only daughter, Prima, must face her own demo...more
I received a copy of this book through the LibraryThing Early Reviewers Program.

I really enjoyed this book. Be advised though, this is the third book in a trilogy by this author. I wish I had known that going in. However, the story is strong enough to stand on its own.

That being said, this was a very well-written, sweeping story of an elderly Italian immigrant couple and their two adult children.

There are many heartbreaks revealed along the way. The story bounces between the parents, Maddalena a...more
My favorite book in the Grasso family trilogy. This book was haunting and melancholy and funny and true. This book follows Maddalena in the last days of her life. We meet her three children and learn about them as well. Antonio becomes even more complex and fascinating as a character. There are a lot of secrets in this family, and regarding a few of them, the reader is the only person privy to every part of the story.

A wonderful wrap-up to Castellani's series. He's a talented writer and it feel...more
Italian-American families. Growing old. Father in one world, son in another. I can't relate. As the youngsters would say, "Not."

Castellani cast his not-so-subtle characters in a subtle way. He told just enough that we know each one intimately. He's also achieved a rare feat, capturing the essentials of love and craziness in an Italian family. If those two forces are stereotypical, his treatment was not. There was genuine understanding of why and how such cultural norms make sense. The lives of...more
The third book in a series about an Italian girl who comes to America as a young bride and leaves behind her family. This last installment skips ahead several decades. Maddalena is old and suffers from dementia. She and her husband own a successful restaurant and a nice home. They have lost a child tragically, but have two healthy, grown children and four grandchildren.

The novel follows not just Maddalena but her grown children, Frankie and Prima, as they wrestle with universal, everyday struggl...more
I really wanted to love this book, but at times I got tired of the endless family dynamics and the binds of love they talked of.
I liked the daughter until "the big event" but after that not much was heard from her.
The book is well written and moves well until the last go around and gets a bit bogged down.
Finished this book tonight. Perhaps I should have read the others first. I found the characters harsh and unlikeable. Depressing and sad, especially Prima and Frankie. I did like the love story of Maddalena and Antonio.
A strong 3. Maddalena left Vito for life in America and grouses toward the end that maybe the American experience was overrated. An understandable sentiment, given the suburban ennui issues her children deal with. She doesn't see all this (she's particularly blind to Frankie's faults, since he's her favorite) but it's still pretty clear that her children are muddling through.

The book is nicely written and I guess I'm happy that there's a sequel to "A Kiss for Maddalena," one that has some lovely...more
I adored this book for its truth and honesty. The characters from this wonderful and very real Italian immigrant family all come to life beautifully. The relationships are deeply and perceptively portrayed in all their complexity. It is astonishing to be able to express grief, loss, jealousy, ego, resentment, joy -- all of the many feelings and experiences one finds in a family -- and yet the underlying feeling that comes across through it all is love, if even at times in its most imperfect form...more
I could relate to this book in so many ways. Good read for 2nd generation Italian Americans who are really American Italians!
Adam Olenn
A difficult book to read, what with tears in my eyes the whole time. Buy several and give them to your family.
Jennifer Garcia
I chose this book because of the Italian/Italian-American family dynamic. Being Italian-American myself I love to read books like this, and this one did not disappoint.

Castellani took an Italian family and used real life and sensitive subjects to stir up their family. And like any typical family: some loved too much, others not enough, some thought they weren't loved at all, and another was the what she thought the conductor that kept the family glued together. In the end, nothing was at it see...more
Christopher Castellani's third novel is a beautifully evocative examination of a family greatly affected by a past tragedy and their ethnic culture. Antonio and Maddalena Grasso came to America from Santa Cecila, Italy fifty years ago. Together they had three children, but lost one tragically years ago. Now their remaining children and grandchildren have each formed a family construct based on their individual experiences, while Antonio and Maddalena each deal with their personal grief in solita...more
Married to a 2nd-generation Italian-American whose relatives neither remembered nor talked about the old country (except Nonno, who was a man of few words-- all I got was his view of Vesuvius from the back stoop), I was intrigued by the NYT review of this book.

I've been reading the trilogy straight through like a novel in 3 parts. Each book stands on its own, and is removed from the others by decades.

The first (A Gift from Maddalena) is highly recommended. It's a keyhole view from a tiny Itali...more
This novel struck me in a way that I can’t quite explain. I really enjoyed it, nearly loved it – the only thing holding me back from loving it was that, at times, I felt it moved a bit slowly. But I liked the plot – members of the Grasso family each having at least one difficulty they need to come to terms with, both internally and externally – and I felt the characters were really well developed and consistent throughout the novel. Maybe the book struck me because I connected with each of the c...more
Maddalena and Antonio Grasso, married for fifty years, are Italian immigrants living in America . Not once have they returned to their village of Santa Cecilia to visit. Maddalena never opened the mail she received from her family. She closed the door on that part of her life. All This Talk of Love by Christopher Castellani is an in depth depiction of the Grasso family.
The Grasso's had three children, two sons and a daughter. Their first son, Tony, committed suicide. The Grasso's are a close fam...more
John Weeks
Fear and Loving in La Famiglia

In Christopher Castellani’s third novel, All This Talk Of Love, the members of the Italian-American Grasso clan struggle to connect while privately mourning the family they never had.

Marcel Proust would have raised a cup of tea and applauded the novel’s finely nuanced obsession with the past. Even more impressively, not since Simone de Beauvoir’s “The Age of Discretion” have meditations on aging, decaying, and dying been so powerfully and so painfully rendered. Th...more
An examination of the multiple permutations of love, loss and memory all viewed from the eyes of Italian immigrants, this touching and poignant book opens a door into love, and all of the ways it can shelter, protect, shield and not surprisingly, thwart.

Told from several perspectives, the characters all begin to form an oddly poetic perspective for the reader, as everyone’s views combine to give you a fuller picture. Like all families, the Grassos have their levels of dysfunction, secrets, trag...more
All This Talk of Love follows an average seeming Italian-American family, the Grasso’s. It goes through several years from the perspectives of the parents, Antonio and Maddalena, and their two grown children, Prima and Frankie.

Like any family, the Grasso’s have secrets, but they try to remain as close as possible, despite their differences. It was interesting to see the different ways the two generations viewed their responsibilities in life, with Antonio and Maddalena trying to keep all the tra...more
I don't know where to start. Overall, it's an okay book. I only finished it, because I was in too deep by the time I wanted to give up. The biggest problem with the book is the many themes. Too many themes for one book. The sentence structure seems too elequent for the characters. The characters all want to be in control which makes them unlike able. It has poignant moments, but too sentimental to work.
For me, this book was a bit of a "sleeper" in that I got involved and interested far into the book. It's sweet. It tells the story of Italian immigrants. To me, it's also a drama of a family, immigrant or not. The mother of the clan married a man she didn't love/lust. She followed him to America. He was a good man, provided her with everything. He started a thriving restaurant with his brother. They had children, one dies. So they have another one. It's a story of a family, of sadness, of loss,...more
An Italian-American family grapples with change and family secrets as the matriarch slides into dementia: a dry summary that sounds like a chore. But the book is anything but--keenly observed, empathetic toward all its characters, and well worth reading.
If this review makes you want to read this book, please buy it from a brick-and-mortar bookstore.
Didn't love this book and not sure why. An Italian-American couple, raising their children in Delaware. The family relationships well-written, as is general story line. Should they go back to Italy before parents get too old/die? Will they? Kept my interest but didn't make me want to read more by this author.
I received 'All This Talk' of Love by Christopher Castellni from librarything as an Early Reviewers giveaway and loved it. In the notes from the author, he talks about a trip his family took to Ialy to visit his family, that sounds very much like Castellani's wonderful story. Maddalena married Antonio & moved to the U.S. and closed the door to that part of her life and saw no reason to open it. Their daughter thinks it's time to go back to the old country and renew relationships before it's...more
Christopher Castellani’s All This Talk of Love is a novel about an Italian family in America, barely one generation removed from their tiny village of origin and still struggling with the events that brought them across the ocean, the demands of culture both past and present. Told from the point of view of various family members in two generations, Castellani really does provide us with a meditation on love – different kinds, what it means, how it makes people act, what they might learn from it....more
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Christopher Castellani was born and raised in Wilmington, Delaware. His parents immigrated to the United States from a small village in Italy in the years following World War II, and their experiences have been a significant inspiration. A Kiss From Maddalena, Christopher's first novel, was published by Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill in April 2003, and was subsequently published in Australia, the...more
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