false 1373942 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1183068583m/1373942.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1183068583s/1373942.jpg Deborah Tannen's #1 bestseller revolutionized the way men and women talk -- and listen -- to each other -- at home, at work, and wherever the communication gap between the sexes can lead to troublesome misunderstandings. The problem dates back to childhood, when boys and girls learn to use language in distinctly different ways; years later, their adult efforts to talk often place them at cross purposes -- even when both are sincerely trying to communicate.

Dr. Tannen illustrates how the best intentions can go painfully awry between spouses, family members, co-workers and friends, With You Just Don't Understand, you'll recognize yourself and your own efforts to be understood -- and gain valuable insight to help you communicate better than ever before.

]]> 147222 12 2622201 1972 You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation total:609|5:133|4:235|3:179|2:48|1:14| 609 2252 947 96 44018 3.69 1453 264 45377468 978990 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.69 525 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 4 2 false Wed Feb 04 00:00:00 -0800 2009 Wed Feb 04 12:46:41 -0800 2009 Wed Feb 04 12:46:53 -0800 2009 As a critic, I do find it a little si...more...]]> 1265965 87219 77651 0345372050 9780345372055 9 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1223647662m/77651.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1223647662s/77651.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/77651.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.73 71 LOS ANGELES TIMES
Discover how men and women can interpret the same conversation differently, even when there is no apparent misunderstanding. Discover why sinscere attempts to communicate are so often confounded, and how we can prevent or relieve some of the frustration. This fascinating, helpful, and controversial book--on the NEW YORK TIMES Bestseller list for two years!--explores, in depth the differing style men and women articulate, and how to work through it and get to the heart of the matter.]]> 1972 1 1 false Wed May 16 23:12:41 -0700 2007 Wed May 16 23:12:41 -0700 2007
This is marketed as a self-help book, and the writing itself is quite pleasant and accessible, but it makes a lot of sweeping statements about language and gender relations without backing them up with resea...more...]]> 47836286 2082590 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 5 1 false Sat Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2000 Sat Feb 28 18:01:58 -0800 2009 Tue Mar 03 15:19:22 -0800 2009 7464611 1537123 77651 0345372050 9780345372055 9 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1223647662m/77651.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1223647662s/77651.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/77651.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 LOS ANGELES TIMES
Discover how men and women can interpret the same conversation differently, even when there is no apparent misunderstanding. Discover why sinscere attempts to communicate are so often confounded, and how we can prevent or relieve some of the frustration. This fascinating, helpful, and controversial book--on the NEW YORK TIMES Bestseller list for two years!--explores, in depth the differing style men and women articulate, and how to work through it and get to the heart of the matter.]]> 1972 3 1 false Sat Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2000 Mon Oct 08 22:07:00 -0700 2007 Mon Oct 08 22:15:16 -0700 2007 more...]]> 55487603 1074042 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 4 1 false Sat May 09 00:00:00 -0700 2009 Sat May 09 11:10:42 -0700 2009 Sun May 10 09:44:07 -0700 2009
I liked this...more...]]> 54137468 2208646 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 4 1 false Mon Apr 27 11:24:35 -0700 2009 Mon Apr 27 11:50:42 -0700 2009 more...]]> 3072886 177898 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 5 1 false Wed Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 1994 Sat Jul 14 10:45:12 -0700 2007 Thu Dec 17 00:37:21 -0800 2009 more...]]> 45546373 1883838 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 4 0 false Fri Feb 06 06:48:18 -0800 2009 Fri Feb 06 06:53:21 -0800 2009 more...]]> 21658750 874506 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 5 0 false Sat Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005 Mon May 05 14:55:21 -0700 2008 Mon May 05 15:04:59 -0700 2008 more...]]> 22186021 284562 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 5 0 false Tue May 13 17:06:02 -0700 2008 Tue May 13 17:11:45 -0700 2008 more...]]> 60492154 2329884 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 3 0 false Tue Jun 16 00:00:00 -0700 2009 Sun Jun 21 02:50:12 -0700 2009 Sun Jun 21 02:58:48 -0700 2009
It was still worth reading. ]]> 53399754 2179232 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 4 0 false Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2001 Mon Apr 20 17:04:05 -0700 2009 Mon Apr 20 17:08:03 -0700 2009 48187003 2089443 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 3 0 false Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 1995 Tue Mar 03 22:38:18 -0800 2009 Tue Mar 03 22:49:54 -0800 2009 68015397 2546121 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 5 0 false Wed May 01 00:00:00 -0700 1991 Wed Aug 19 06:50:38 -0700 2009 Wed Aug 19 06:51:54 -0700 2009 65265937 2416464 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 2 0 false Tue Jul 28 09:05:48 -0700 2009 Tue Jul 28 09:07:33 -0700 2009 ]]> 47031961 1462980 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 4 0 false Sat Feb 21 04:36:01 -0800 2009 Tue Nov 03 22:18:55 -0800 2009 more...]]> 53471598 872942 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 3 0 false Tue Apr 21 09:58:06 -0700 2009 Tue Apr 21 09:59:24 -0700 2009 31275476 1386100 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 2 0 false Tue Aug 26 18:09:38 -0700 2008 Tue Aug 26 18:29:52 -0700 2008 more...]]> 77842116 2943068 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

]]> 1972 0 0 false Sun Nov 15 07:38:31 -0800 2009 Sun Nov 15 07:43:08 -0800 2009 57259001 383922 147222 0060959622 9780060959623 85 <![CDATA[You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation]]> http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982m/147222.jpg http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1172184982s/147222.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/147222.You_Just_Don_t_Understand_Women_and_Men_in_Conversation 3.70 609 Spending nearly four years on the New York Times bestseller list, including eight months at number one, You Just Don't Understand is a true cultural and intellectual phenomenon. This is the book that brought gender differences in ways of speaking to the forefront of public awareness. With a rare combination of scientific insight and delightful, humorous writing, Tannen shows why women and men can walk away from the same conversation with completely different impressions of what was said.

Studded with lively and entertaining examples of real conversations, this book gives you the tools to understand what went wrong -- and to find a common language in which to strengthen relationships at work and at home. A classic in the field of interpersonal relations, this book will change forever the way you approach conversations.

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