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WINNER GOLD MEDAL, 2012 READERS FAVORITE BOOK AWARDS (CHICK-LIT)

Mace Evans is single at thirty-eight. When her much unloved older sister, Shannon, declares that Mace is anti-social, she embarks on a journey to understand her condition; whether she was born that way or if it is the accumulation of thirty-eight years of unfortunate encounters with other humans and dogs.

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Published May 17th 2012 by Vivante Publishing
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Mimi Barbour

This story is written in the first person by a woman called Mace and is a journey of discovery - a discourse on her feelings and thoughts - the state of her emotions about love, life, and family.
The author is a gifted writer and her talent shines through each page. I loved the Oscar quips that were dotted here and there…eg: a true friend stabs you in the front. They added a kind of levity to the story and made me chuckle. A wonderful read!

Melanie
One word - hilarious! Being Anti-Social is a far cry from Cunningham's previous novel, RAIN, which was decidedly darker and aimed more for lovers of sad, emotional stories that can and will bring you to tears. Being Anti-Social on the other hand is a lighter read and a bit of a throw-back to Bridget Jones' Diary, except for an older protagonist (Mace Evans is late thirties) and it is set in Australia rather than England. You'll find the same dry humor that was a highlight of BJD, and a protagoni...more
Linda
Very interesting book. The main character Mace, reminded me of myself. Some might find it boring but I thought it was interesting. Good read. A woman who was married to a good guy, did a dumb thing and cheated on him, lost him and then he passed away. This is not ruining the story...that was all "back story" that was explained at the very beginning of the book. The story is about her life now..the aftermath of that, if you will. A woman who is comfortable in her own skin and even though she is s...more
Sharyn O'neill
Some books you can't put down as soon as you start. This one was kind of the opposite for me. It is more like getting together for a chat with one of your good friends, and I enjoyed visiting a chapter or two each night. It's not a thriller, nail biting, heart pumping read with a twist, it is more of an insightful and humorous look at yourself. Yes, I recognized myself in much of the main character Mace, and not just because we both just hit our 40's. Descriptions of friends, of family, of mista...more
Autumn Blues Reviews
Amusingly clever and witty with a touch of sorrow, entertaining through and through.

Being Anti-Social is written in a first person format, so it reads like a memoir and could be anyone's life. Mace is 38, the middle child of 5 siblings, with an introverted personality and a sensitive nature that drives her to consume large amounts of merlot paired up with chocolate. Mace uses psychology to dissect and disseminate her birth order and also her name. But most important to Mace is her personal quest...more
Ron Fritsch
Being Anti-Social, set in present-day Melbourne, Australia, is award-winning author Leigh K. Cunningham’s second novel for adult readers. Because I thoroughly enjoyed her first, Rain, I looked forward to reading Being Anti-Social as soon as she published it. I wasn’t disappointed.

Mace Evans is one of five children in her family, with two older brothers and two sisters, one older and one younger. She’s 38 when the novel begins, and she’s unmarried, childless, and “anti-social,” according to her o...more
David Darling
I laughed all the way through Being Anti-Social, award-winning author Leigh K. Cunningham’s second novel for adult readers.

I laughed not because this is the usual situation-comedy froth but because Cunningham’s main character, Mace Evans, chooses to see the humor in the “anti-social” life she’s created for herself—and perhaps enjoys more than she’s willing to admit.

I also laughed because I adore Oscar Wilde’s pithy contrarian aphorisms, which Cunningham sprinkles throughout her story like flower...more
Kaitlin
Throughout the story, Mace reflects back on her life to see what may have led to her being "anti-social". She looks over her relationship with her siblings and her mother, her group of friends that she hangs out with, and even the men she has loved (and not loved) and lost.

I really enjoyed the flow of this book. The story felt like Mace told her entire life story without even taking a break to breathe. Whenever I would sit down to read, it was like I was having a wine-night detox talk with one o...more
Joana
Reviewed by Me for Readers Favorite

An excellent read for everyone, Being anti-social follows the life of an alcoholic in denial with a surprisingly functional family that she tries to deny her love for. Mace was blessed with a strange name, strange friends and a strange family. She's a middle aged woman who made a horrible mistake that ended her marriage. The subsequent death of her ex-husband has left her miserable with guilt and incredibly lonely. She tries to mask this with her favorite drink...more
NovelJunkies
Rating: 4.0 Stars

I like Merlot with everything, except cereal and milk.

The story of a tight group of 5 friends, interesting plots with men, a mom and sister that are constantly nagging, self realization, and endless supplies of Merlot....what woman would not enjoy this read??

Mace Evans is the middle child of 5 children, and very different from her siblings. Self proclaimed independent, her family has labeled her as anti-social. There's nothing wrong with keeping to oneself...the majority of the...more
Fran
Being Anti Social: Leigh K. Cunningham


Mace Evans is considered anti-social. Her family and friends feel that she never enjoys the company of others. Defining who you are takes perspective, ingenuity, creativity and of course total honesty. Facing yourself in the mirror and taking a pad and pencil to write down what you see might be a unique way to start. Some of us enjoy the company of family and friends while others prefer their own company and limited interaction with others.

Mace Evans is ab...more
Lorrea(Threein3)
Mace is a middle child and there-fore no one expects much from her. Her older sister has deemed her "anti-Social". But can that really be true of someone who regularly hangs out with her friends, attends all family functions and isn't opposed to dating?
Being Anti-Social, follows Mace during her 40th year and all of the things that can happen to a middle child who really doesn't have much ambition in her life. She lost her husband to infidelity and cancer, her job she tolerates, her friends are a...more
Lori Tatar
Leigh Cunningham has done it again with "Being Anti-Social", which could also have been titled "Being True to Oneself". It is a poignant story of single woman as she approaches middle age and chronicles her journey to self-actualization as she thoroughly examines her lifestyle, her relationships both present and past, and her regrets. At times laugh-out-loud funny (my husband can attest to this; he could not figure out what was going on) to painfully sad, Cunningham does an excellent job at maki...more
Dor
[This book was provided to me for the cost of no monies by the publisher via Edelweiss]

I tried. I failed.

Which is a shame because the first 10 - 15% ish was promising. Although it bills itself as Chick Lit through its cover and blurb (supported by some of the reviews, which is puzzling) it has more in common with the authors who get stuck with a "Female" cover whether it's appropriate or not: Catherine O'Flynn or Joanna Kavenna rather than Sophie Kinsella or Marian Keyes. The style is dry rather...more
Deanna


I can totally relate to Mace. :)
Beverly
I really enjoyed reading this - an easy read.
Chris
I read this on my holiday and it took only a few days to read it was a brilliant book. I love the way that Leigh kept the characters real - there is someone in everyone's family in this book :)
Hopscotch Friday
Review by Eliza Murphy for Hopscotch Friday: Mace Evans, the female protagonist of Leigh K Cunningham's award winning Being Anti-Social, could be described as an Aussie Bridget Jones. She's in her late thirties, single, has an interfering family, dysfunctional group of friends, a slight drinking problem and an unfortunate habit of sleeping with her co-workers. However, Mace is also mourning the love of her life – her ex-husband Ben, who died from leukaemia. Mace struggles through life as she wat...more
Jennifer Defoy
When I requested to review this book I have to admit I did it simply because of the title. I didn't really read the description - other than it was fiction. So when it arrived at my door I wan't sure what to expect. After reading the first few chapters I was glad that I had gotten it. It was a story that I can somewhat relate to. I used to have trouble reading books that have Australian characters - mainly because the language is pretty different. But I'm finding that the more I read the more I...more
Shelleyrae at Book'd Out

Despite Being Anti-Social's cartoonish, pastel cover art I disagree with it being labeled as chick-lit. It lacks the light hearted approach to life and love that defines the genre and instead is a fairly serious minded analysis of character, though there are the occasional flashes of dry humor, mainly from well placed quotes by Oscar Wilde, who certainly has sage advice to offer for every occasion.

When Mace Evans is accused of being anti-social by her older sister she gives the complaint consid...more
Laura
Mace Evans is the new, older, and Aussie, Bridget Jones. She has the same dry humour and attitude towards dating and relationships, and her carefree nature is enough to get her into a lot of sticky situations. I love chick-lit because it's a great break from the more serious reads, and sometimes you just want some light-hearted books that will make you giggle to yourself (unfortantly laughter occurs despite where you are, which sometimes leads to embarassing moments). Leigh Cunningham definitly...more
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Mandy's Review:

I'm not sure why people like Mace are considered anti-social by others. Just because we don't like to be involved in every little thing or can fake it up with people we don't (and do) know doesn't mean we're anti-social. As you may can tell, I related well with Mace. I like her independent attitude and her "anti-social" ways. I do believe, though, that the major part of her anti-socialism began when her husband died. He was her soul mate and to lose that is devastating.

Mace's inde...more
Lyndsey
One day her sister, Shannon, calls her antisocial. They have never bren that close. Mostly since age and their parents had a large family. The antisocial one always looked up to her brothers. They could do no wrong. She learned from them. Pretty much a loner who had a few friends. Failed marriage, failed relationships.... things just kept getting worse. Such a heartwarming read.
Dot
Solitary is not being alone.

Solitary is not being alone.

A fabulous book, who makes being solitary an exception. I could totally relate to the main character.
Find a chair and enjoy.
Cathy Klein
I will admit that I started to read this book based on the title. Since I am not a fan of small talk, I will occassionally be accused of being anti social so I had to see what it was about. Mace seemed like an interesting charater at first and I did see some similarities as far as not getting along with a sibling and like spending the evening at home. However, throughout most of the book, Mace was highly negative which sometimes made it hard to read. I am a more positive personality, for the mos...more
Hsucheng Huang
It is a very female book, written for I don't know maybe only for females, because I really find this book boring. It annoys me a lot whenever the narrator mentions "Oscar Wilde." It is okay to bring it up once in a while but really? You almost make Oscar Wilde a stronger character than some other people with less obvious personality.
The story line is vague and even though the auther tried hard, way too hard, to build the charactors, it seems they are still not vivid but pretty 2D.
It's probably...more
Samantha
This was an interesting book, especially as Macey and I have a great deal in common. Though for me it's tea a goid book, soft light and music. And of course for me it's not so much that I'm anti-social as I am autistic. I took a star off because the book (for me started a bit rough) and then Mom diead, which brought back, if for a moment, my own profound loss of my own Mom.

I love that Macey got a beagle named Beagle, and found her way with Rudy. I'd have liked to have seen Dad rebound, and Macy...more
Chrissy (The Every Free Chance Reader)
Did I enjoy this book: This book was okay. It was not a book that I had to read every free chance I had...in fact, I had a hard time finishing it.

This book took too long to get through. The pace was slow and there were way too many Oscar Wilde quotes for my taste. I would have like the quotes better if they were used as a title or introduction to each chapter. Then, the quote would be there for what was going on in the scene but also the reader could skip it if they wanted to do so.

I could not...more
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Blurb:

WINNER GOLD MEDAL, 2012 READERS FAVORITE BOOK AWARDS (CHICK-LIT)

Mace Evans is single at thirty-eight. When her much unloved older sister, Shannon, declares that Mace is anti-social, she embarks on a journey to understand her condition; whether she was born that way or if it is the accumulation of thirty-eight years of unfortunate encounters with other humans and dogs.

For reasons unbeknown to Mace, she has an affair with a work colleague, which brings an unexpected end to her perfect mar
...more
Lisa Rupert
Not Hilariously Funny

Not Hilariously Funny

I decided to read this book based on the review on the front cover. I did not find this book funny or entertaining. this book was not good to read at the end of the day to relieve stress. I found the story depressing and sad and would not read it again. I have a good sense of humour but did not laugh once while reading this book. it was far from what I expected.
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Leigh K Cunningham is a lawyer with a career as a senior executive for a number of public companies in her home country of Australia. She has three master’s degrees in law (Master of International Trade & Investment Law) and commerce (Master of Commerce) and an MBA (International Management) where she graduated as ‘Top Student’.

Now a full-time writer, Leigh has won seven awards for her four t...more
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