In My Father's Country
by
Saima Wahab
Born in Kabul, Afghanistan, at age three Saima Wahab watched while her father was arrested and taken from their home by the KGB. She would never see him again. When she was fifteen an uncle who lived in Portland, Oregon brought her to America. Having to learn an entire new language, she nonetheless graduated from high school in three years and went on to earn a bachelor's...more
Hardcover, 352 pages
Published
2012
by Crown Publishers
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Born in Kabul, Afghanistan, at age three Saima Wahab watched while her father was arrested and taken from their home by the KGB. She would never see him again. When she was fifteen an uncle who lived in Portland, Oregon brought her to America. Having to learn an entire new language, she nonetheless graduated from high school in three years and went on to earn a bachelor's degree. In 2004 she signed on with a defense contractor to work as an interpreter in Afghanistan, never realizing that she w
I was eager to read this book after hearing the author speak on the Daily Show. Saima Wahab is an amazing woman and I enjoyed reading her story. She seems pulled in many directions and, frustratingly, the book doesn't really resolve the disparate forces working on her because Saima hasn't resolved them herself.
The book was a wonderful window on a different culture and life in Afghanistan for the people serving there. It made me thankful to live in the US where my sons don't have any say over how...more
The book was a wonderful window on a different culture and life in Afghanistan for the people serving there. It made me thankful to live in the US where my sons don't have any say over how...more
my only complaint is that i wish there were some more craft to the writing in this book. maybe some fierce literary editing? but in terms of the content, i enjoyed very much learning about pashtun culture through wahab's being both afghan and american. i was especially saddened by the american military's ineffiency in waiting so many years into the war to finally attempt to understand the people they were trying to help. how many people had to die, and still die, over misunderstandings?
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Excellent read. Some very good insights into Afghanistan, the culture, roles and expectations. The author did a good job of balancing the book with personal experiences and explaining the expectations of the culture she grew up with and the western culture she adopted.
The author, Saima has a kind heart with people and genuinely cares. Her personal relationships that she shared made her seem rather immature but I'm thinking that is due to her experiences as a child where you didn't speak with a...more
The author, Saima has a kind heart with people and genuinely cares. Her personal relationships that she shared made her seem rather immature but I'm thinking that is due to her experiences as a child where you didn't speak with a...more
What a disappointment. I heard Saima Wahab speak on the Daily Show and was very eager to read this book. She has a fascinating story to tell. She was born in Pakistan and emigrated to America at the age of 15. She became a very successful American, but always felt drawn to Afghanistan. So when she was offered a job translating Pashtun (her language) for the American military, she jumped at it.
I loved the beginning of this book when her father was killed by the Soviets and they were forced to fle...more
I loved the beginning of this book when her father was killed by the Soviets and they were forced to fle...more
I loved this book for its historical importance. Not only is it a book which represents the historical time period of U.S. involvement in Afghanistan, but most importantly the historical importance of feminism behind the book. If it was not for the feminist revolution within the U.S. and other developed nations in the world, this story could and would never be told. This story, by Saima Wahab, is a story that unfolds some of the cultural mysteries of the people living within Afghanistan during t...more
While Saima Wahab is an impressive person, in my opinion she is not an impressive writer. I wanted to be involved in her story; I wanted to understand her struggle to reconcile her pride in being Pashtun with her desire to live the life of an independent woman. But I just didn't feel it. Wahab describes her emotions without involving you in them. She also left out a lot of details, perhaps to protect her family, that would have helped me understand her experiences. I found the descriptions of he...more
I didn't expect the first few pages of In My Father's Country to impact me the way it did. As I read the author's initial recounting of an incident that nearly left her dead at age five, about her father shooting his pistol off in honor of her birth despite the fact she was a girl, a tradition saved solely for boys, and then his prediction that she would go far in life, I thought of my own dad. And it made me sad. I had to stop reading at that point, take a deep breath, wipe the tears away and t...more
I was amazed by Saima's bravery in breaking away from her uncles in Portland and becoming a virtual outcast from her family. Her unique gift and accomplishment as a fluent Pashtun-English translator made her valuable as an interpreter and cultural advisor. This has given her what she most wanted ever since childhood - freedom and independence as a woman in both her Afghani and American worlds, and she fights still to improve the lives of restricted Afghani women.
The author talks about another i...more
The author talks about another i...more
Saima Wahab was sent at an early age to Portland Oregon to be raised by relatives who had escaped Soviet-occupied Afghanistan. Her aptitude for languages enabled her to graduate from high school, attain a college degree, while living under the thumbs of her tradition bound uncles who were determined to continue the tribal ways of her Pashtun inheritance. Even an innocent inquiry from a boy regarding homework would lead to interrogation and accusation. As soon as she was able she defied them, for...more
I picked this up in the new book section because it sounded intriguing. It reminded me a lot of my best friend, although not an Afghani, she is caught as the author was between two worlds and trying to make sense of her place in them. You know how sometimes you read an autobiography is so dense you can't read it? Well this book read like a fiction novel, plus the subject matter was something I didn't know much about, so I just flew through it.
The author was born a part of the Pashtun ethnic gro...more
The author was born a part of the Pashtun ethnic gro...more
Really great read. Saima Wahab's life and thoughts about Afghanistan and U.S. presence in Afghanistan are worth reading about. As she often reminds readers in the book, Afghan women who become Americans and then travel back to Afghanistan to make a difference in the country of their fathers are a rare breed and she is courageous for having chosen this life path.
The search for self is not always as pronounced as Saima's, but I think everyone can relate to her journey in some small way.
One little...more
The search for self is not always as pronounced as Saima's, but I think everyone can relate to her journey in some small way.
One little...more
Skip it! I am always interested in learning about other countries, cultures and customs. Unfortunately, this book did little to enlighten me. It started out pretty decent but lost steam (and all sense of direction by about 1/3 of the way through). I plowed ahead simply due to my own stubborn habit of ALWAYS finishing a book. My patience was never rewarded however. There was no climax, no big "Ah-ha moment," just a growing distaste and annoyance with the author. She kind of wanders with no real p...more
If this were a fiction book, I would be critical of some of the plot points (all the falling in love....), but since this is the story of her life, I have to give her credit for being honest, without descending too much into self-pity or attempts to make herself look good.
One of my favorite moments in the book came as she was sitting in with another (less skillful) translator, who is trying and failing to keep up with an explanation of why a civilian was shot.
Similarly, the contrasts between c...more
One of my favorite moments in the book came as she was sitting in with another (less skillful) translator, who is trying and failing to keep up with an explanation of why a civilian was shot.
Similarly, the contrasts between c...more
In My Father’s Country is a moving and inspiring memoir following Saima as she recounts her life from Afghanistan, to Pakistan, to America, and back again. A refugee from her homeland of Afghanistan at a young age, Saima spends a good portion of her life trying to figure out where she belongs. Her family fled to Pakistan to escape the rule of the KGB as Russia invaded Afghanistan. Years later, her mother and uncles arranged for Saima and her brother and sister to live in Portland, Oregon with th...more
Once again, prompted to get a book based on an interview on The Daily Show (http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/tue...). Jon Stewart hasn't steered me wrong yet.
Saima was just a little girl in Afghanistan when the Russians were invading. She survived a bomb dropping on the room where she was sleeping, being hit by a bus, and being a woman in Afghanistan. Based on the book, she's an anomaly. Her dad was very progressive, so much so he had a radio show to encourage others to rebel. He was taken by t...more
Saima was just a little girl in Afghanistan when the Russians were invading. She survived a bomb dropping on the room where she was sleeping, being hit by a bus, and being a woman in Afghanistan. Based on the book, she's an anomaly. Her dad was very progressive, so much so he had a radio show to encourage others to rebel. He was taken by t...more
Saima paints a picture of Afghanistan for American understanding. She grew up in Afghanistan, went through high school and college in the USA, and then back to Afghanistan. She likes Americans because she believes most of them went there to try and help the people. However, she says that as far as most Afghans are concerned, the Americans are the same as the Russians--invading infidels. The disconnect comes from the language barriers and cultural misunderstandings.
She closes by providing intercu...more
She closes by providing intercu...more
This was an interesting view of the war in Afghanistan from the viewpoint of a native who has become an American citizen. The details of her job as translator and later as cultural educator were interesting, as were the observations of cultural mistakes the U.S. military made that later came back to haunt them. It is easier to understand the headlines today with the background and insight from this book. That said, I have to say I did not like Ms. Wahab very much. She was determined not to be co...more
As a native of Afghanistan, Saima is working with the U.S. army to improve the relations of the Pashtuns and the soldiers. She is craving a life of her own.
She writes: "To a Pashtun woman, a husband who doesn't beat her regularly is showing he loves her" or "How do you say 'I love you' in Pashtun?". She writes it doesn't exist. or "Women can't talk in public". A man has to go with her to a shop. Saima doesn't want to submit to the family rules, she defies her fate.
This memoir is very rich, we ar...more
She writes: "To a Pashtun woman, a husband who doesn't beat her regularly is showing he loves her" or "How do you say 'I love you' in Pashtun?". She writes it doesn't exist. or "Women can't talk in public". A man has to go with her to a shop. Saima doesn't want to submit to the family rules, she defies her fate.
This memoir is very rich, we ar...more
As with many of the others posting here I read this as a result of seeing Ms. Wahab's interview on The Daily Show. I am struck by her perseverance and determination, and also by the difficult job our military has in Afghanistan, which I never appreciated until now. I can only hope that now that she is gone, there are others left behind who are as dedicated, though their mission seems nearly impossible. The cultural divide is more than great...it seems nearly insurmountable. God bless us all, and...more
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As a memoir enthusiast, I could not wait to get my hands on this book after watching Saima interview on the John Stewart Show. With what little bits were offered I was sure this book was going to be an excellent story and that it would be captivating from beginning to end . My expectations, however, fell very short as this story quickly transformed from fairly interesting to very dull.
Saima's writing style is far from captivating and is what I describe as being "clunky". Because the paragraphs...more
Saima's writing style is far from captivating and is what I describe as being "clunky". Because the paragraphs...more
I learned a lot about Afghanistan and the conflict our soldiers are involved in there by reading this book. The author is a Pashtun from Afgahanistan, but left the country as a child. Her father was arrested and never returned, so her grandfather kept the family together and escaped to Pakistan. She and her siblings were able to come to America, but as an adult she was drawn to return to the land of her birth. She became an interpreter for the military and then later she taught the military how...more
Available in NH as an E-Book Download. This beautifully written memoir tells of the author's early years in Afghanistan and then her education in the US. As a young woman, she has the strong feeling that she needs to go back to help her people. Saima works as an civilian interpreter for the US Military in Afghanistan. Her efforts lead to the greater understanding of the Afghan people..especially the tribe of her heritage. At a time, when the US is still in Afghanistan, I found this to be a behin...more
Interesting book. She was born in Afganistan but moved to the United States at 15. She was very americanized. SHe had the opportunity to go to Afghanistan as an interpreter in 2005. Since she was a native Pashtun she was able to speak to her fellow countrymen as one of them. She broke many barriers with her outspoken ways and liberal views of the role of women. That said, the book became somewhat repedetive for me. She had problems with male relationships and her personal encounters were not wel...more
How often does one read a book in English by a native Pashtun speaker who conveys her own life and experiences as an Afghan-American? Not very often probably. That unique status permitted me to forgive some of the awkward writing -- and also to temper my reactions to the flaws in her telling of her own ongoing story.
Instead, I thank Saima Wahab for IN MY FATHER'S COUNTRY in which she reveals her private struggles as a bi-cultural female in search of meaning and purpose.
I encourage her to keep...more
This biography is an interesting view into Pashtun Afghan culture from an author whose viewpoint is possibly unique. Very important to understanding how gender, Afghan culture, and Muslim religion interact in this crucially important region of the world.
One thing that I really got out of reading this is a picture of how badly the United States screwed up its operations in Afghanistan, not because the soldiers involved were ill-intentioned, but simply because nobody told them what they needed to...more
One thing that I really got out of reading this is a picture of how badly the United States screwed up its operations in Afghanistan, not because the soldiers involved were ill-intentioned, but simply because nobody told them what they needed to...more
Interesting book. It was nice to read about Afghanistan and its cultures from someone who really knows it - and I feel like I learned a significant amount. The story of Saima's life was really interesting to read, however, I just came out of the book not liking her very much. For that reason, it was a bit hard to read at times because I got so frustrated with her personality, her choices, and her voice. Maybe not the most fair critique - but it's the case. The book was really gripping for about...more
Jon Stewart interviewed the author and I was immediately intrigued. I hoped for an insight into Afghanistan and its people since I knew little about the country really. I was not disappointed. Wahab's account of her life in Afghanistan, then her immigration to the US, and back to her home country captivated me from the beginning. Her internal fight she had between remaining true to her heritage yet wanting freedom was so insightful. I was very sad to see the book end and would love to hear how t...more
The author grew up in Afghanistan during the Soviet invasion, her beloved father taken by the KGB. At 15, she came to the United States, completed her education, then returned to Afghanistan under contract as interpreter and specialist to the U.S. military. With her unique background, she was able to offer insights into Pashtun culture to her military colleagues. I learned quite a bit about village life in Afghanistan, appreciated the peek into military culture, and was absorbed in this rather p...more
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SAIMA WAHAB was born in Afghanistan, went to Pakistan as a refugee, and moved to the United States as a teenager. Since then she has become one of the only Pashtun female translators in the world and, among other consequent roles, has returned to Afghanistan to work as a cultural adviser with the U.S. Army. A longtime resident of Portland, OR, Saima now lives in the Washington D.C. area.
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