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The Cool Part of His Pillow

by Rodney Ross (Goodreads Author)

4.33 of 5 stars 4.33 · rating details · 49 ratings · 27 reviews

The midforties are that time in a gay man’s life when his major paradigm shifts from sexy to sensible. But when Barry Grooms's partner of twenty years is killed on Barry's forty-fifth birthday, his world doesn’t so much evolve as it does explode.

After navigating through the surreal conveyor belt of friends and family, he can't eat another casserole or swallow much more adv...more

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Published May 14th 2012 by Dreamspinner Press (first published May 13th 2012)

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Jan 19, 2013 Nancy rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: e-books, lgbt, netgalley, made-me-cry, fiction, favorites

This story is one painful year in the life of Barry Grooms. He is celebrating his 45th birthday with Andy Morgan, his partner of 23 years, and a group of their close friends. Both men are successful in their careers, live comfortable lives, and are still deeply in love. Barry’s life is shattered when he learns that Andy and their pugs, Gertie and Noel, are killed instantly when a crane and empty 10-story building collapsed on his parked car while they were inside. Barry’s not even sure why Andy...more This story is one painful year in the life of Barry Grooms. He is celebrating his 45th birthday with Andy Morgan, his partner of 23 years, and a group of their close friends. Both men are successful in their careers, live comfortable lives, and are still deeply in love. Barry’s life is shattered when he learns that Andy and their pugs, Gertie and Noel, are killed instantly when a crane and empty 10-story building collapsed on his parked car while they were inside. Barry’s not even sure why Andy was there in the first place.

Now Barry has to deal with the sudden emptiness in his life and while reading his first-person perspective, I suffered right along with him. It took me four days to get through Barry’s story, not because it failed to hold my interest, but because it was so painful to me. Barry was like the close friend I didn’t know how to comfort. Spending too much time with him was emotionally draining, and I felt completely helpless in the face of his grief. I was thankful for his colorful friends and his supportive mom who were there to ease his grief when it became too much for me.

Andy’s very public accident hasn’t managed to stay out of the paper, and Barry is not in the mood for Christmas, so he takes off to their house in Key West, Florida. More friends, more reminders of Andy, and Barry sells his home and his business, and is off to New York City.

I loved Barry’s reminiscing that showed some of the problems he and Andy had as well as their deep love for each other:

“If only I’d known. I would have been the first to apologize, not just then, but every time we battled. Early in our relationship, my suitcase had been packed by me and, a couple of times, for me, once being told, “Go home to mother!” I scurried for the front door, screaming, “At least I have one!” This made him cry. Over time, the luggage got nicer and the arguments remained petty, but we were careful they left no permanent nicks.”

“Andy and I carried a kindergarten school photo of the other in our wallets, behind our driver’s license, a reminder of who we were before we knew the other existed.”

It’s not all sad. There were wonderfully humorous moments too, like the one that nearly had me flying off the treadmill at the gym when Barry and his sister, Olivia, were working a summer job at Winky’s and Barry had to help her find her missing wart. Yes, you read that right.

Barry’s empty life fills up again as he starts dating and takes a management job at Theatrilicious, a shop specializing in rare and unusual theatre collectibles. He eventually meets a young man who makes him feel desirable, but this is not a romance story. Barry has work to do to move past his grief. There is more loss and heartbreak before Barry does find some healing and closure.

Though this story was sad and painful at times, it was also thoughtful and humorous. If my husband should suddenly die, I have a feeling I will be looking for Barry’s story to comfort me.

*ARC received from Dreamspinner Press through NetGalley.

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Feb 19, 2013 Kazza rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: favourites

Book #10 on Favourites of 2012 at On Top Down Under Book Reviews
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I went into Dreamspinner, saw the title, and the trailer (which I never usually look at), and I bought this book. I thought it sounded interesting, intense. I wasn’t wrong on both counts. I don’t know how to categorise it, it’s not my usual read. I also don’t quite know its demographic, other than people who love a good piece of writing, and, by the same token, aren’t afraid of (this is code f...more

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Aug 26, 2012 Jess Candela rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: jessewave-reviews, m-m, read-in-2012

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Review Summary: This is a story of grief and healing, NOT a romance. Once I accepted that and started to care about the character, I enjoyed it.

Review: I was anticipating this story as one of metamorphosis, that we’d experience Rodney bursting from the cocoon of grief and learning how to live Happily Ever After as a butterfly. Instead, most of the story takes place within the cocoon. A few chapters into it, I found myself rememberingBillionaire’s Row (reviewed here by Aunt Lynn), wonder...more 3.5 stars
Review Summary: This is a story of grief and healing, NOT a romance. Once I accepted that and started to care about the character, I enjoyed it.

Review: I was anticipating this story as one of metamorphosis, that we’d experience Rodney bursting from the cocoon of grief and learning how to live Happily Ever After as a butterfly. Instead, most of the story takes place within the cocoon. A few chapters into it, I found myself rememberingBillionaire’s Row (reviewed here by Aunt Lynn), wondering if this might be another non-romance from Dreamspinner. Indeed, like Billionaire’s Row, The Cool Part of His Pillow is ultimately a good story – though it took me a while to warm up to it – but it is NOT a romance. There are romantic elements, as Barry and Andy were together for 23 years before Andy’s death, and Barry’s memories of Andy and their relationship are woven throughout the story. But because Andy died, those romantic elements all have a bittersweet tinge.

Barry comes across as a sort of Sex-in-the-Cityish bitchy type, and although I liked Sex in the City I had trouble liking him until I was more than halfway done the first time I read it. The second read, I wondered why I had disliked him so, even as I could still sort of see it. I can easily imagine his humor working for a lot of people, and they will probably love him. I just don’t tend to find it entertaining to make fun of other people as a primary source of humor, nor do I tend to like people who do so. The story is told in first-person POV, so we’re in Barry’s head, seeing the world through his eyes. Disliking him made it difficult to get into the story, and I trudged through the first 3/4 or so of the book on the first read. By the last 1/4 I had begun to care about him, and I finally became engaged in the story and read eagerly.

Despite not liking him, I cried for Barry’s pain when Andy died. And I looked forward to how he would be changed by the grief, hopefully into someone I could like. And then there was chapter after chapter about his pain and grieving process. It was well done and believable, but not particularly enjoyable. I love angst; Keeping Promise Rock is one of my favorite books, and I flat-out bawled a few times reading it. But I love Deacon and Crick and their crazy, wonderful family of choice. Perhaps if I liked Barry I would have been sympathetic to his ongoing grief, but because I was really looking forward to his (presumed) transformation, it was just tiresome. Or, more likely given how much more I liked him the second read, if I had known to expect the detailed processing of grief going in, I might have been able to appreciate it for the true-to-life depiction that it was.

The book is also full of cultural references, which I’m sure will delight many readers. Maybe if I got all of them I’d have enjoyed it more, but as it was it left me feeling like I was missing the joke a lot of the time. Which is perhaps a good analogy for what I suspect being Barry’s friend might feel like, though with the added suspicion that the joke is on you.

When Barry jumps back into the dating pool again, his adventures are entertaining, though I felt as sorry for the dates who had to put up with him as I did for him having to put up with the dates he described. Then Barry settles briefly into a May-December relationship with a man nearly half his age. Given a few more years to mature, I could see the potential for Jarod to become appealing. However, at that stage of his life I mostly found him to be an obnoxious brat. As far as I could see the only appeal was getting laid (and a hot young body; not to be underestimated ). Then again, I’m not sure what Jarod saw in Barry, either. I still didn’t like Barry at this point, though by then I was beginning to mind him a little less.

I finally started getting into it around Chapter Nineteen, and from Chapter Twenty on I had trouble putting it down. By then I really cared about Barry, and I got very teary several times. I loved the epilogue and how it completed the circle with the prologue. Barry is still single (again, this is NOT a romance!), but he’s moved through the grief to a place in himself where that butterfly can finally begin to emerge. He hasn’t found his “one true love” at the end of the book (that is still pretty clearly Andy) but he has begun to find himself. He is finally at a place where he could potentially fall in love with someone new and live Happily Ever After, if there’s a sequel. Even if there’s not, there’s a hopefulness about ending the story at this beginning place.

Psychology studies have found that two of the most lasting effects in any experience are the first and last (Primacy and Recency Effects). Because the prologue and epilogue were so well done, and so beautifully tied together, I finished the book with a feeling of satisfaction (and not just because I no longer had to be in Barry’s head!). It was also very well written, though with the occasional odd word choice (like ‘iterated’ when I suspect he meant ‘intimated’).

I really struggled with how to rate this one. I think the writing quality merits 4 stars, at least. But considering how much effort it took to get through the first 250+ pages the first time, I’d lean toward 2 stars. So I’m compromising on 3.5, because I liked it more on a reread. This is well worth reading if you’re looking for a realistic depiction of the grief process, and want a book that ends where life begins again. I think it’s probably easily a 4+ star read if you go into it with that expectation. Do not, however, pick it up when you’re in the mood for a romance!

This review was originally posted at Reviews by Jessewave, where I received the book for free in exchange for an honest review.(less)

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Dec 04, 2012 Becky Mrs Condit Reads Books rated it 5 of 5 stars

It would be easier to tell you what Rodney Ross’s THE COOL PART OF HIS PILLOW is not, rather than what it is. It is not a romance, it is not a sexy story, and while it is about grief, it is not depressing. There is no HEA and not even an HFN, but neither is needed in telling the story of what happens after a beloved partner dies.

There are many wonderful secondary characters, but the one who claimed my attention and heart was Barry’s mom. The dialog in this book is witty, melancholy, delightful,...more

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Mar 19, 2013 John rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: gay, fiction

I thought it a lovely, amusing, beautifully written book. I have to admit that I found it somewhat difficult in places. Some truth can be difficult and there is much in this book that feels true. When that happens one brings one's own grief to help color the margins of the story. Still, there are many wickedly funny passages. This may be a book about a year in grief, but it is never gloomy.

But, really, I think the interesting way to look at The Cool Part of His Pillow, is not as the main charact...more

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Sep 19, 2012 Gaylistbookreviews rated it 5 of 5 stars

Rating: A List

This is not what I’d call an easy book to read. The sentences are rich and full and deep, and you don’t want to race through them to find out what happens. You want to savor each word, because they’re all quite tasty. Mr Ross, I am very happy to say, can write, my darlings.

This is a book to savor, like that very expensive bottle of wine you’ve been saving for a special occasion. Told in first person by Barry Grooms, it begins with happiness. He and his partner of twenty-three year...more Rating: A List

This is not what I’d call an easy book to read. The sentences are rich and full and deep, and you don’t want to race through them to find out what happens. You want to savor each word, because they’re all quite tasty. Mr Ross, I am very happy to say, can write, my darlings.

This is a book to savor, like that very expensive bottle of wine you’ve been saving for a special occasion. Told in first person by Barry Grooms, it begins with happiness. He and his partner of twenty-three years, Andy, are celebrating Barry’s 45th birthday. They are comfortable with one another, they know each other’s secrets, and they are still in love. They have wonderful friends with names like LezbyAnn and Potsy. They have a beautiful house and enviable jobs.

And then the unthinkable happens: Andy and their two pugs, Gertie and Noel, are killed in a freak accident and somehow, Barry has to figure out how to deal with the sudden gaping hole in his heart and in his life.

There is sadness, sweeties, both harsh and soft, but there is also joy and humor and unexpected fun. The author describes Key West and New York with such intimacy, I know he’s been there and is letting me in on things only residents would know; I just love that, don’t you? Chickens and iguanas in Key West and ghost bikes in NYC: who could have imagined?

Two of my favorite lines (and believe me, there were many): His stride has quiet dignity but his aura is only an essential oil.

What I see is a tranny who refers to her penis as a vagina with a neck…

Parts of this novel had me hooting aloud with laughter, and honeys, I don’t do that often! Watch for and enjoy the multitude of pop culture references. I am proud to say I got every one of them, and now you will all know just how ancient I am while I teeter about on my red spike heels.

Filled with wit and brimming with beauty, this is a novel to treasure. I heartily recommend it! It will stick with you long after you’ve read the last page.

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Aug 02, 2012 Top 2 Bottom Reviews Interviews and More rated it 5 of 5 stars

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How does someone carry on with life when the person who has been by your side for twenty three years is suddenly taken away? The Cool Part of His Pillow is a book that spans a year in Barry’s life following the death of Andy, his partner. Barry tries to resume his life after Andy’s very public death, but finds that everyday things are filled with reminders of his past life with Andy. From picking up his laundry to going to the grocer answering questions ab...more http://top2bottomreviews.wordpress.co...

How does someone carry on with life when the person who has been by your side for twenty three years is suddenly taken away? The Cool Part of His Pillow is a book that spans a year in Barry’s life following the death of Andy, his partner. Barry tries to resume his life after Andy’s very public death, but finds that everyday things are filled with reminders of his past life with Andy. From picking up his laundry to going to the grocer answering questions about Andy makes life unbearable. Barry decides, after a brief trip to Key West, that he needs a fresh start somewhere without daily reminders of Andy, and New York City fits the bill.

After settling his finances Barry packs up his belongings and makes the move to New York. Starting a new job as the manager of Theatrilicious, a down and out Broadway theatre memorabilia store, Barry slowly integrates himself back in to society and the online dating scene. We get to meet great characters like Olaf the performance artist to even more strange ones like the furry Hugo. A chance meeting at a Nudercise class brings Jarod, and some romance back in to his life.
A family crisis brings Barry back home and he realizes that while New York is a change of scenery it is not exactly everything he needs. Closure comes in strange ways to some people and can open your eyes to new things as well.

Rodney Ross, you had me at “Here’s an idea. Why don’t you change? And how’s that courtship working out for Eddie’s father?”. This book is so well written and contains so much witty banter inside and out of Barry’s head. I cried and laughed so hard at times, that tears ran down my face. I only wish we had the story before the story. I would love to read about how Andy and Barry got together in the first place as this was glossed over in just a few sentences. While this is not the typical MM book I would read, sex is not front and center, I am so thankful for being given the opportunity to find a new author to enjoy.

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Jul 05, 2012 Heidi Gonzalez rated it 4 of 5 stars

I had a rough time reading this book. Maybe it hit too close to home since I just turned 44 this year, ended a 10 year relationship around this time last year and thought I would stay single forever. Of course that didn't happen and my ex-partner didn't die although there were moments when I thought that might have been easier. But here I am now in a new relationship and the thought of something horrific happening to her makes me cringe. Maybe it was because this book was so honest, and felt so...more

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May 21, 2012 Pixie Mmgoodbookreviews rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: starting-over, looking-for-companionship

4 1/2 Hearts

Slight romance. Covers a year of Barry's life following the loss of his partner.

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Barry and Andy have been together for 23 years. It is Barry’s 45th birthday and tragedy strikes. As Barry struggles with the minefield of life, his friends and family look on helplessly, as he tries to find his path as just Barry.

This is a touching story of love, loss, anger, grief, new beginnings and trudging on with your life in the face of a terrible tragedy. It...more 4 1/2 Hearts

Slight romance. Covers a year of Barry's life following the loss of his partner.

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Barry and Andy have been together for 23 years. It is Barry’s 45th birthday and tragedy strikes. As Barry struggles with the minefield of life, his friends and family look on helplessly, as he tries to find his path as just Barry.

This is a touching story of love, loss, anger, grief, new beginnings and trudging on with your life in the face of a terrible tragedy. It isn’t so much of a romance, it has romance, but it is not the focus, and there will be no dancing off under the moonlight with a new love. In this story we come across Barry the night before his birthday as he celebrates with his husband Andy. We stay with him through the next year as we see his loss, his new beginning, further loss and where he begins to heal.

This is not a book that you can put down easily once you get into it. As a matter of fact. I couldn’t even tell you where or how I became ensnared in Barry’s life. The characters that are described in this book start to become real to you. Their characteristics come to life and you begin to feel like you get to know Andy, Barry and all their friends. When tragedy strikes you can feel their horror and pain. You understand their reactions to everything and the need for levity at the funeral. And. you also understand that life still moves on, as their lives start to pull them back to reality.

We join Barry on his journey as he tries to find his life without Andy; dealing with avoidance, both physically, emotionally and mentally, with friends and with acquaintances who don’t know of Andy’s death, on the pitfalls of far-flung friends as having to explain again and again of his loss. Of beginning anew, making new friends and taking a new lover. This is about a man who has been set adrift from his rock and is trying to find a raft to stabilize him… so please don’t expect him to be having loads of sex and finding new love. Although Barry does have a new brief relationship we don’t get to see the sex, it is inferred.

I really wasn’t sure about this book when I first cracked it open, as the prologue seemed a little spacey to me. But then, I got into the first chapter and somewhere along the way I became enthralled with all the characters and their lives, their interactions and their friendships. There are some humorous parts and some tear making parts, some regretful parts and some angry parts. And watch as he steps into the dating pool again and fights a quagmire of online profiles.

I really do have to recommend that everyone give this one a try, it might not be dripping in sex and happy ever afters into the sunset but it is a great book and a touching read.(less)

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May 24, 2012 Jeremy Pack rated it 5 of 5 stars

I tend not to like books written in first-person. For some reason, most of the time, this feels too close, and unless I can identify with the narrator, I have a hard time enjoying the story. For whatever reason, this was NOT the case for me with The Cool Part of His Pillow. Although my life is very unlike Barry's, I found myself slipping into his skin and very much enjoying my stay.

Rodney Ross has an unparalleled voice. It is unique and fresh. I don't believe I've ever read anything quite like i...more

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Nov 06, 2012 Gary rated it 5 of 5 stars · review of another edition

One of the best books I've read in the past decade… beyond a doubt, this book is dazzlingly inspirational. I cherished so many aspects of the book… the characters’ rich & in-depth personalities, the meticulous connections with various cities, and most prominently, the wonderful & extraordinary view through the eyes of Barry Grooms.

The writing is overflowing with sharp-wit & matchless humor... and although at times heart-breaking, the book is truly heart-warming as well.

Engaging, da...more

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Jun 07, 2012 Kaetrin rated it 2 of 5 stars

Shelves: contemporary, ebook, gay-fiction, netgalley

2.5 stars. When I browse NetGalley, I search by genre - specifically, romance. So I thought this book was a romance about a guy whose husband has died. But it wasn't a romance. The book tracks a year in the life of Barry Grooms, from the day before his 45th birthday, to his 45th birthday (the day on which his husband Andy dies) to his 46th birthday. This book is a book about Barry's journey in grief and him getting to a place where he feels he can move on, at least, when the book ended, I though...more 2.5 stars. When I browse NetGalley, I search by genre - specifically, romance. So I thought this book was a romance about a guy whose husband has died. But it wasn't a romance. The book tracks a year in the life of Barry Grooms, from the day before his 45th birthday, to his 45th birthday (the day on which his husband Andy dies) to his 46th birthday. This book is a book about Barry's journey in grief and him getting to a place where he feels he can move on, at least, when the book ended, I thought that's where he was supposed to be. I wasn't 100% sure he was quite there yet. He has other difficulties and tragedies in the year of the book and it brought me to tears a couple of times. But, I'm a romance reader and the reason I persisted with the book was that I thought there would be a romance. Then, after 300 pages of the 330 odd page book, I thought maybe he'd just meet someone at the end and it could be a vaguely hopeful happy ending. But alas. So, I've graded it as a romance reader. I would not have chosen to read the book had I known it wasn't a romance. That's my reading preference talking and not really a reflection of the book. There are many great non-romance books out there I choose not to read every day, for the same reason. In terms of this book, there were parts of it that were very moving and well written and parts of it that I found confusing, with references I didn't understand and which were inadequately explained - like I was not in on the joke. The first part of the book, where Barry is snippily describing all his friends and his horrible nicknames for them predisposed me to think he was a bit of a dick actually. I did believe that he and Andy had a strong connection, but truthfully, in the book itself there weren't many flashbacks which showed me this - mostly the kind of things Barry shares are neutral or negative. But, the real and pervasive grief that Barry suffers shows me that there was more to that relationship and I would have liked to have seen a couple of scenes of very happy times to balance out the other. I'm not sure what I would have graded this had I gone in with only a "gay fiction" tag. Possibly around the same. But, be warned, this is not a romance. There is no HEA, there is no relationship - this is a stroy about Barry getting over the death of his spouse and moving on. But, it did make me cry, so there is that.(less)

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Jun 11, 2012 Lisa Smith rated it 5 of 5 stars

I loved so many things about this book!! The writing is thoughtful and witty... engaging us into the lives of the characters and hoping the best for them. Many moments had me laughing deliriously, while others brought tears to my eyes. I admit that I am friends with author, Mr. Ross, and likely some of his writing may touch me in a more personal way (no pun intended!) than for other readers. I would recommend this book, not just because Mr. Ross and I have a history, but rather because as an avi...more

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Sep 15, 2012 Suze rated it 4 of 5 stars

A journey of a book that I enjoyed and would put at 3.5 but went for 4* as I enjoyed it a lot. It is a story of the despair left after a sudden, traumatic death - but a story told with dark humour about starting out again in a whole new world, so dont let subject matter put you off.
A rich array of cultural comments and interesting characters. Barry is mid forties and for all of us over a certain age, regardless of if male, female, gay, straight, left or widowed can relate to the traumas he faces...more

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Jan 10, 2013 Susan rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: 2013, mm-read

I wasn't quite sure what to expect when I started this book. I knew it wasn't going to be a romance but I didn't know what it was going to be about. The story follows Barry over the course of a year in his life. The year begins with the death of his husbanc, Andy and what follows is not easy at all. It took me a little while to warm up to Barry; he's far from perfect but he's an amazingly intricate character. I don't pretend to understand all the cultural references in the story but in the end t...more

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Mar 16, 2013 Beck marked it as partially-read-stalled · review of another edition

Shelves: mm

Unfortunately, this is a DNF for me...everything is written in terms of comparison to movies, books, TV shows or Americanisms that I don't know...because of this I have no frame of reference & I have no frickin' idea what is going on! If you're an American movie buff who reads the classics & enjoys their erotica wrapped in wordy descriptions, then this is the book for you! If you're an Australian whose parents tuned the B&W TV to ABC News & then removed the knob with pliers, you'...more

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Jan 07, 2013 The Talent Cave Review rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: glbt

Title: THE COOL PART OF HIS PILLOW
Author: RODNEY ROSS
Genre: ROMANCE/GENERAL FICTION
Publisher: DREAMSPINNER PRESS
Novel
5 Stars Highly Recommended!Don't miss out.
Reviewed by: Maven

I wasn’t real sure I wanted to read this book when I read the blurb and found out Barry’s partner of twenty years was killed, but I pushed past that, sat down, and read. Let me say, this isn’t a book filled with romance, but a book more about healing, yet it was an amazing story. The author does an excellent job of takin...more

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Oct 18, 2012 Alyosha rated it 2 of 5 stars

Shelves: contemporary, family-drama, sniffle, trauma

I started this book expecting to love it. And I did love parts of it, it had some nice insightful thoughts and it provided a few unexpected moments of pure laughter... buuuut regretfully I found the narrative almost unbearably rambling. 2.5 stars

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Jun 01, 2012 Kathy rated it 5 of 5 stars

I laughed and I cried-sometimes at the same time. An absolutely fabulous story that I hated to see end. Definitely a recommended read.

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Feb 16, 2013 Leonel rated it 5 of 5 stars

A most touching read.

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Aug 31, 2012 Melanie rated it 5 of 5 stars

One of the best books I have read this year.

Read my review at http:scatteredthoughtsandroguewords.com on 9/1/2012

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May 28, 2012 mw138 rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: m-m-romance, netgalley, angst-hurt-comfort, coming-of-age

Barry must learn to carry on after his partner is suddenly and tragically killed. The story follows his life over the course of a year as he discovers life on his own. This was a raw, emotional read that's not your typical m/m romance.

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Jul 31, 2012 TheFountainPenDiva marked it as books-that-i-have-to-read · review of another edition

Nice to see some gay romance with middle-aged men. Finally!

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May 17, 2012 Rodney Ross rated it 5 of 5 stars · (Review from the author)

Well, shucks, I wrote it, so I'm kinda inclined to have enjoyed it.

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Dec 09, 2012 Ery rated it 3 of 5 stars

Shelves: sads, owned

Jess says it best!

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Nov 16, 2012 Rosie rated it 5 of 5 stars

Shelves: m-m

4.5 stars

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Aug 02, 2012 Sylvia rated it 5 of 5 stars

This one really made me work hard to understand the cultural references. Some pages took me longer to Google then to read, I'm afraid I still missed most of them ;) LOL funny and crying out loud sad at the same time. In the end it left me with a hopeful and positive feeling.

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Jun 21, 2012 Sadonna rated it 4 of 5 stars

Shelves: mm, pdf, contemporary

Just finished this today. I need to take some time write the review. Suffice to say, I really liked it and I will give you the reasons why tomorrow.

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About Rodney Ross

Rodney Ross, author of 'The Cool Part Of His Pillow', lives in Key West, Florida.
He is a former advertising Creative Director, so he's accustomed to making stuff up.
Past achievements include multiple ADDY Awards and an optioned screenplay and play (both currently unproduced). Other screenplays earned Honorable Mentions or runners-up citations in the Monterey County Film Commission, FADE-IN, the L...more

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